Presido22:

Ubunja, how do you build a connection with a girl that stay a distance from you. Do you support everyday calling?

ubunja:
I don't support long distance relationships.

CaveAdullam:


1. Women and babies have two things in common: calmness and beauty. The difference is that women are more matured and subtler in action and physique. And herein many men has fell. They already see women as little baby angels that are not capable of causing serious harm..."at least, they are fragile and even if they cause harm, it won't be so devastating," so said the man blinded by romance.

2. Men fight with physical weapons, hence, men fight men and are oblivious to the psychological warfare of women. Men fight men (for status, women, territories and resources). Women fight men(for resources). And women fight women(for resources and quality men). Men don't fight women, for reasons as stated earlier in paragraph 1.

3. Because of this gentility towards women, during heartbreak, men suffer same pain as in a physical battle but this time an emotional one. Their world comes crumbling because they never expected their girlfriends, wives, fiancee to be able to pull such catastrophic emotional string. They are perplexed, in fear, anxious and fall into depression. Just like a PONZI SCHEME, all their investments vanish into oblivion - the trust they were meant to bank on was fake! The hope of a promising future and a good return was a subtle leverage to siphon them.

4. Heartbreak for men differs with women because in every relationship, men invest more. Women still feels the pain of heartbreak, however, even before that, they have plan B + other men are ready to accommodate them.

See the trick here: once a woman has enunciated to a man that she doesn't want any relationship because of a former heartbreak, the new man in question will double down on his arsenal and try every possible means to prove to her that he is not like other men + it is stupid for her former man to treat such an angel like her in a bad light. Here again, man is gentler towards woman.

5. I always love to categorize the average human + women together because they are the same 99% of the time.

Humans are bound to break their promises. We always like to skip the process + seek for different many escape routes. Only few are true allies, and that's why I'm a big fan of family - genetic relationship + friends who has proven themselves overtime.

6. Strong character + integrity + competence + discipline is what we all glamour for but are very guilty of their opposites. In short, humans are the wildest hypocrites you can ever imagine. The difference between the 99% and the 1% is that the later are aware of their limitations and try their best possible to improve. While the former just follow the trend and meander their way where necessary.

7. If a man can have this awareness that humans, including their allies sometimes are bound to break their promises, he must quickly start to develop a tough skin + an armoury that will defend him when the trumpet of war sound. He must lay down plans as if previous plan will fail - this is a strategy women use in romantic relationship. They have one man, but still look out for other men.

8. The man must build options as options is the master key to confidence + won't remain depressed for long even after a serious disappointment or heartbreak.

But the problem of the modern man is that he is more "oxytocinized" as the average woman. Pathetic.

Thanks.

NoFucksToGive:


Same here master.. I think it's a fraud used to manipulate simps

RAGGA40:
Alaye exactly, it is big fat scamming pattern for ladies to live off your resources whether money, sex energy, time, sweats and efforts. And they are always the first to initiate breakup even in subtle ways

NoFucksToGive:


Paddy notice how ladies always seem.to be okay with long distance relationships, then when you tell them you are not into it suddenly their behaviour changes . All the dear they used to call you in chats disappears. All the quick responses to your messages changes.. ling distance relationships is a scam ..

I always tell them point blank sorry I am not into it... As you said it's what they use to live off our resources fooling simps.into believing they are dating someone..

I know a lady who was into about 12 long distance relationships .. 2 were base doutside Nigeria while the other 10 were based in different states around Nigeria. They were all's.endimg her money believing each was her one true love .. they babe never lacked money ,data or call credit .. I know at least 6 of those men who sent her monthly upkeep money of about 30k monthly while the others sent bigger sums but less frequently... She was earning more than most graduate workers .

I knew all this because we were sex mates at the time... But she truly liked me ... I off course was enjoying the fringe benefits of those simps foolery... I never spent a dime of her infact she was always buying me gifts. And stocking food in my fridge. I felt sorry for all those simps indeed.

Anyways I would.bever advise any Nigerian man to enter a long distance relationship with a Nigerian woman.

Cc ubunja

Mentholated:
Any guy in a long distance relationship has limited dating options irrespective of the lies he is using to cover up that insecurity.

victorphelpz:


i mixed the cement with small portion of sand and granites..made a barbel and two dumbbell from it this is actually the 3rd month, and I've been seeing changes.

Tonnyray:
Remember to share screenshots.
Popcorn for threadmates on me.

posty56:
19 yrs ,but see waiting this girl they post for Twitter eh, you go run simp go still marry o

ubunja:
It better not be true....

Someoneschild2:
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Karlifate:


When someone is using @socialslut as her handle, you want her to post as nun?

CaveAdullam:


My rule when dealing with women in terms of kindness: if I haven't received anything from you before or enjoyed your company before, you are not gonna get anything from me no matter how much you portray yourself. Personally, I target what to get from them first, sexual or non sexual needs because I know they are parasites once they create a niche near you.

Guys, not only sex, eat their foods. Make them work for you. Let them run some errands for you. Stimulate them to do something for you.

Again, women always forgive bad men. At that moment when you offend them they will be angry and want to pull down the roof, but just ignore them for sometime + tease them here and there, and they are back to their former calm state. These work with mothers, sisters, girlfriends, wives etc. Women love stubborn men. The meek will inherit God's kingdom but not true for women.

But this doesn't mean a good man must become bad for the sake of it and for pvssy, but that he must always show that he has the capacity as a savage and unwilling to bend despite being good. "Wolf in sheep clothings" connotes something good here.

Thanks.

NoFucksToGive:


Same here master.. I think it's a fraud used to manipulate simps

Trex4:
This seems to be on course with our discussion a while back. Do you think Reno visits this thread or it's just a coincidence?

CODMOK:
They always get so defensive and angry when they don't get the results they wanted

Copied from Twitter

Karlifate:


Breaking up with Will Smith is not even the issue here.

But using her divorce proceeds to hook a younger, hotter guy than WS will kill him.

I foresee that's what gonna happen.

Tranquility2345:


Omo see better yansh

Someoneschild2:
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