HarunaWest:
See the thrash an undergraduate composed...mtscheeew.

vibre:
I don't see anything wrong with his response, Some people add please to the end of their comments as a polite way of talking to others.

JovialJune:
Ignore the educated illiterates above dear, while at it, try and modify your posts with the appropriate paragraphs, commas and full stops where necessary,@thread, personally I don't see the "pls" as anything, he is just being polite to you and your mum.

JovialJune:
Ignore the educated illiterates above dear, while at it, try and modify your posts with the appropriate paragraphs, commas and full stops where necessary,

@thread, personally I don't see the "pls" as anything, he is just being polite to you and your mum.

GoldenJAT:
Be sincere!! What she typed!! Was it okay?

42neforivan:
You guys do realize that you could have just pass right?!
Without having to be seemingly rude

For heaven sake I'm an undergraduate and so what!!!
Does it do any Good to you in whatsoever way?
Abegggggg
I asked for an advise if you can't give it why don't you just keep your insults to yourselves .....fools!!!!

42neforivan:
Ok I'd have to start from the very beginning my parents have been long separated since I was six though they are not together but still single in their own ways whatever
My mom took care of her younger sister before she(my aunt)got married and expects her to do thesame now that she's married and at least well to do
My aunt's husband on the other hand has been advising my mom to get back with my dad but unfortunately my mom won't for reasons I can't share I'm sorry
It's been years tho
Before I got into the University my mom pleased with my aunt's husband to sponsor me in the University which he complied to again I started staying with them my mom wanted that in her words so I'll learn from my aunt who happens to be a house wife,she also didn't want me to be alone being that my siblings were in a Borden school

Sooo while I was still in School I needed money and asked my mom,butttt she referred me to my aunt's husband whom I sent a message to(I always feel weird about asking relatives for money or anything like that)
The content of the messages was ok cos I spelt out what I intended to use the money for while I was expecting to get a response about it I began to hear that I was meant to send the messages to "uncle" and it doesn't necessarily have to have his name on it I apologized for that but still didn't get to money A
round the beginning of this year my mom sent a happy new year message his reply was "thank you and wish you same pls" when my mom told me about it I laughed at her and just told myself 'when you don't want to succumb to his advice what do you expect'
I was also happy he didn't reply that way to me but just today omohhhh


It was even with abeg my mom said send happy Easter messages nau since it was as if quarrel will start I said ok and sent it o jejely
His reply was
thank you fortune and wish you same pls
Guys what do you think I did again my heart de beat laidis

42neforivan:

I'd have to start from the very beginning.
My parents have been separated since I was six! Both are still unmarried.

My mom took care of her younger sister before she (my aunt) got married. Now that she's married and well to do, my mum expects her to do the same (take care of me).

My aunt's husband on the other hand, has been advising my mum to reconcile with my dad, but my mum does not buy the idea for personal reasons I can't share here. (Pardon me)

Prior to my admission into the university, my mum pleaded with my aunt's husband to help in sponsoring me in the University, to which he complied. I started staying with them about this time too. In her own words, she (my mum) 'wanted me to learn' from my aunt, who happens to be a house wife, as she also didn't want me to be alone (my siblings were in a Bording school).

While I was still in School, I needed money and asked my mum, but she referred me to my aunt's husband, to whom I sent a message (I always feel weird asking relatives for money or favors).

The content of the message(s) was alright, because I spelt out what I intended to use the money for.

While I was expecting a response from my uncle as regards the message I sent him, I began to hear that I was meant to send the messages to "uncle" and it doesn't necessarily have to have his name on it.

I apologized for that but still didn't get the money. Around the beginning of this year, my mum sent a' happy new year' message to him and his reply was "thank you and wish you same pls."

When my mum told me about it, I laughed at her and told myself that 'when you don't want to succumb to his advice, what do you expect?'

I was also happy he didn't reply me that way, but just today sighs! My mom said, send happy Easter message. To make her feel happy (or to avert quarrel), I said ok and sent it o!

His reply was, 'thank you Fortune and wish you same please.'

Guys, please what do you think I did wrong this time?
My heart dey beat laidis


I made all the above "corrections" to aid readability. Don't come at me.

To Fortune, don't attach too much meaning to his reply... Focus rather on his actions and body language...

Las las you go dey alright.

Double0h7:
If only I understood your story then I could help you.
Can someone tell me what the problem is

<< Her mother was separated from her dad when she was young...( She doesn't want to disclose Why)
<< Her mother trained her aunt who later married a rich man ( the uncle)
<< Since the mother was separated and have no form of income, she expects the lady she trained to reciprocate the kind gesture and train her daughter in school..( the Aunt and the husband accepted to train OP since they are welloff)
<< The uncle have advised OP's mum to reconcile with her husband and she ignored the advice...
<<Now OP sent a message of Goodwill yesterday to the uncle and the Uncle replied with "Pls"
<< She's asking u what you think about the reply from the Uncle...

Richy4:

I don't know how best to say this
He sees you guys as parasites...For him, Every good morning from you guys reeks of financial help... It's about time you start asking your dad for assistance/ financial help... It's not when the bride price comes that u will see him appear from nowhere....

That man wanted your mum to go back to your dad so that you guys will not be a burden to him and his family... The handwriting is clearly written on the Marble.. it's not hard to decode..

prinx55555:

Nope, he doesn't see them as parasite, at least his response didn't say that.
The said man is probably a Yoruba man who was trying to express politeness.
''jor" which means "please" is a very common locution peculiar to the Yoruba tribe.
"Eshe jor" "Thank you please".
"Ekaabo jor" "Welcome please".
"Ewa jeun jor" "come and eat please".
It doesn't denote anger or displeasure, it's a normal thing. "Jor and jare".

Richy4:


<< Her mother was separated from her dad when she was young...( She doesn't want to disclose Why)
<< Her mother trained her aunt who later married a rich man ( the uncle)
<< Since the mother was separated and have no form of income, she expects the lady she trained to reciprocate the kind gesture and train her daughter in school..( the Aunt and the husband accepted to train OP since they are welloff)
<< The uncle have advised OP's mum to reconcile with her husband and she ignored the advice...
<<Now OP sent a message of Goodwill yesterday to the uncle and the Uncle replied with "Pls"
<< She's asking u what you think about the reply from the Uncle...