mumplenty:


Happy birthday to my girl
It's exactly 4 years since I announced the birth of my daughter.it seems just like yesterday.
Please join me and celebrate.

Happy birthday� ❤
To her

Sassy256:

Was about to ask same question because these are the kind of things that bring out my own madness. Not nice.

I tell you.... I shaa know you can't throw the baby away... Many things running through my head, it's just that my hubby is very calm and homely when it comes to anything household including chores

MomoAdura:
Congratulations to all the latest moms in da house. Easy peasy delivery to all waddling moms.

Special shout outs to my May 2021 teamies...how una dey?
Anybody back? I know some people don collect sharp sharp.
Una Cappo still dey on sabbatical leave till further notice. So help me God!

Indian03
harbeams
Yummysuits
Busybeei5
damsel93
LOLOMMA15
Josephine4good
Mydreams25
Urcutecrush
Keeky08 25/05/21
Ananne
Rockstar07
Meyshia
Kokolet007

Cappo be calming down ooo, I follow join for the sabbatical o, lol

Omakraid:

It is well with you ma, God is a restorer of one's losses and will definitely restore yours...

Ameen

ChizziCindy:
BA/BS
Just gave birth to a bouncing baby girl via VG
EDD 21st April
DOB 18th April
My BS story is a very interesting one from beginning of conception right till Birth.
The conception came as a surprise because my last pregnancy was CS, since baby was breeched, so we wanted to wait for her to clock 3 before trying again, but God knows best. Was praying for both of them to be birthday mate because my first is April 16.
As the pregnancy progressed baby was in breeched position, but thank God she later turned head down.. Because the doctors were already giving option of CS, since I wanted to try VBAC...Went to the hospital on Sat and doctor checked and said my OS is still closed, funny enough my water broke that very night and labor started, I had already been briefed that I won't be induced because of the previous,that labor would have to be natural since I wanted to try VBAC ..Omo the pain was something else,for almost 24hours i was in labor... But thank God it finally ended in praise... Wishing rest mamas safe delivery....

Atlast!!! BS... Congratulations ma... May God bless u n princess, may she b a source of joy 2 u n ur family.

FlowerGirl040:
Lol that time when you shower with hot water,then drink hot water join,the kind sweat ehn, especially during heat.

Thanks. I am not fully over it yet though,not after another terrible miscarriage @14weeks. But we move Who are we to question God

my sister... I cant imagine wat u r goin tru ooo... How can sm1 gt over a loss of sm1 we love...? I dnt tink it is possible. U r a strong woman i swear.

Hi mamas
Please which edd is the most accurate cause I have done up to three scans and there is a little difference in dates

Btw can I still register for team April

FlowerGirl040:
What a sad experience thank God it's in the past now

very very sad

Omakraid:

Awwwww, sorry about that ,it is well with you...
But wait ooo, some weird things do run in my head, as he said you should carry baby along, if you drop baby on his lap and walk out quietly, what will he do?

U c ehn... Not only u ve said dis ooo... Many pipu said i shld alwz leave d baby wit him even thou e disagree but i cant do it... Cs e may ignore baby wen bsby cry... N my instinct r right... Just dis past sat, i ws in d shower wen i heard baby crying, i quickly ran out wit soap allover my body... Imagine, hubby was sleeping pretty just bside him n e didnt move an inch, i was furious, i jst jejely carry my baby n feed him immediately cos d poor baby hs cried his eyes out... I just 4get abt goin bk into bathroom

ladyrachy:

Thank God for my MIL,she don't believe that am d strong type,she came around yesterday asked her wat she will eat she was like can I make semo? I said I can na hmmm if I born I go fold my legs Indian style and enjoy pampering ooo.I kukuma get ajebo face and body na only me know say I be ajepako for ijesha in Lagos since small.as for my mum na cooking she go do becos me I haff share dia work for them

Hahaha Lucky you o.

Sassy256:

Do you use any form of band for your Tommy? I hear the one that looks like bandage helps postpartum, whether you press hot water or not.

yes.. I saw it online... Goin to order 4 it

Omakraid:

I tell you.... I shaa know you can't throw the baby away... Many things running through my head, it's just that my hubby is very calm and homely when it comes to anything household including chores

hmmn lucky u... My hubby is those yoruba men dt believe d women shld do every domesticated chores in d house, n folds arms while u r at it but wen it cm to moni, it must b 50/50.

ladyrachy:

Dats what my neighbor is passing thru MIL dats supposed to assist carry a 10yr old come omugwo.she cooks can't sleep nor rest all MIL does is back baby up and down till d point the baby can't sleep without being held,d mother told the MIL to always allow baby sleep on bed so wen she goes her baby won't be used to carry carry. I feel for her omo she haff reduced in size

Wetin we mothers eyes dey see ehn

miracletoday:
at d end of the day, it is only u that will be thinking of what will they eat o, (chei I hate.),if God wants to catch person let d cheif omugwo be aged woman that usually eat breakfast by 7am, lunch by 1pm, predinner 4pm, before dinner.

This got me

[quote author=kokaiye post=112050040] my sister... I cant imagine wat u r goin tru ooo... How can sm1 gt over a loss of sm1 we love...? I dnt tink it is possible. U r a strong woman

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So sorry for your loss dear. God will surely console you.
It's well. It's hard I know, but try not to hold any bitterness against your husband. God will surely restore what you lost. E-hugs.

FlowerGirl040:
I lost him same year I lost my beloved mother,and same day my eldest child added a year +. After his death,I will carry all the baby things,both the one he used and not yet used,sniff them and cry silently,when my other kids aren't around. After 4 months I took in again,and I was happy,at least it will help alot to ease my heart. But what happened? I fell sick,hubby refused me to go to hospital,he said he will call his nurse instead,he bought drugs,my sickness still persisted and he wasn't happy I was down,he came home one night with another set of drugs saying this one is strong and will make me better,my instinct was rejecting it,I told him these ones are too strong for me,I will call my doctor,this man started nagging that so I am calling him senseless and don't know what is good for his own wife? Last last he forced me to take it in his presence,big big drugs o. The next morning I carry phone to check Google and what I saw shocked me. I started panicking. I can't go out to see a doctor,where is the money? He made me a full house wife,wetin I go carry use?

I told him what I found out,he started nagging again and forced me to take it,what Happened next? I started bleeding when he was not at home,before I knew it,the little festus there was out,it has already form sef,tiny hands,legs but no hair or sex yet. I was so traumatized,oya let me go to the hospital to do scan,he said ok. He keeps delaying till blood flow stopped.
After a week blood started flowing again,mind you I was still spitting and vomiting all this while. I started getting weak,see heavy clots of blood,my sister you go fear,I fainted more than twice, that was when I was rushed to the hospital and it was confirm there is a little product left and placenta,my dear I went through another horrible evacuation. That was how I lost my twins baby again. I shared this here, because I know other Mamas will learn one or two things.

I don't know if I should share what also lead to my one month old babys death. Hmmm.

I remember you very well. I remember the first one you lost exactly 1month after birth around November 2020 or so. I see you here and i am like this lady is really strong to be this happy and all with all she has been through. This thread is more than just a normal nairaland thread, it is like family. I'm so sorry for all you went through, i know God will definitely put a smile on your face soonest. We will keep praying for you. Please do share what happened with the first, we can learn a thing or 2 from it

FlowerGirl040:
I lost him same year I lost my beloved mother,and same day my eldest child added a year +. After his death,I will carry all the baby things,both the one he used and not yet used,sniff them and cry silently,when my other kids aren't around. After 4 months I took in again,and I was happy,at least it will help alot to ease my heart. But what happened? I fell sick,hubby refused me to go to hospital,he said he will call his nurse instead,he bought drugs,my sickness still persisted and he wasn't happy I was down,he came home one night with another set of drugs saying this one is strong and will make me better,my instinct was rejecting it,I told him these ones are too strong for me,I will call my doctor,this man started nagging that so I am calling him senseless and don't know what is good for his own wife? Last last he forced me to take it in his presence,big big drugs o. The next morning I carry phone to check Google and what I saw shocked me. I started panicking. I can't go out to see a doctor,where is the money? He made me a full house wife,wetin I go carry use?

I told him what I found out,he started nagging again and forced me to take it,what Happened next? I started bleeding when he was not at home,before I knew it,the little festus there was out,it has already form sef,tiny hands,legs but no hair or sex yet. I was so traumatized,oya let me go to the hospital to do scan,he said ok. He keeps delaying till blood flow stopped.
After a week blood started flowing again,mind you I was still spitting and vomiting all this while. I started getting weak,see heavy clots of blood,my sister you go fear,I fainted more than twice, that was when I was rushed to the hospital and it was confirm there is a little product left and placenta,my dear I went through another horrible evacuation. That was how I lost my twins baby again. I shared this here, because I know other Mamas will learn one or two things.
I don't know if I should share what also lead to my one month old babys death. Hmmm.

O God so sorry for what you've been through.
It's well. A lot to say but thank God for your life and sanity, some people will enter deep depression after going through this.
What about doing something from home? Even if it's sewing or baking, is there anyway you can? Because having your own little money for yourself is very important.

You can share the bolded if it will help you feel better❤️

FlowerGirl040:
I lost him same year I lost my beloved mother,and same day my eldest child added a year +. After his death,I will carry all the baby things,both the one he used and not yet used,sniff them and cry silently,when my other kids aren't around. After 4 months I took in again,and I was happy,at least it will help alot to ease my heart. But what happened? I fell sick,hubby refused me to go to hospital,he said he will call his nurse instead,he bought drugs,my sickness still persisted and he wasn't happy I was down,he came home one night with another set of drugs saying this one is strong and will make me better,my instinct was rejecting it,I told him these ones are too strong for me,I will call my doctor,this man started nagging that so I am calling him senseless and don't know what is good for his own wife? Last last he forced me to take it in his presence,big big drugs o. The next morning I carry phone to check Google and what I saw shocked me. I started panicking. I can't go out to see a doctor,where is the money? He made me a full house wife,wetin I go carry use?

I told him what I found out,he started nagging again and forced me to take it,what Happened next? I started bleeding when he was not at home,before I knew it,the little festus there was out,it has already form sef,tiny hands,legs but no hair or sex yet. I was so traumatized,oya let me go to the hospital to do scan,he said ok. He keeps delaying till blood flow stopped.
After a week blood started flowing again,mind you I was still spitting and vomiting all this while. I started getting weak,see heavy clots of blood,my sister you go fear,I fainted more than twice, that was when I was rushed to the hospital and it was confirm there is a little product left and placenta,my dear I went through another horrible evacuation. That was how I lost my twins baby again. I shared this here, because I know other Mamas will learn one or two things.

I don't know if I should share what also lead to my one month old babys death. Hmmm.

We learn everyday
But y are some men like this na
Yours is better, u don't work
I work, but the money is his not mine

I felt angry and cold while reading

Omakraid:

Whatttt , May is praying to port to April while April wants to port to May.. Mama, it's like you are not tired, come let's exchange EDD

ChizziCindy:
BA/BS
Just gave birth to a bouncing baby girl via VG
EDD 21st April
DOB 18th April
My BS story is a very interesting one from beginning of conception right till Birth.
The conception came as a surprise because my last pregnancy was CS, since baby was breeched, so we wanted to wait for her to clock 3 before trying again, but God knows best. Was praying for both of them to be birthday mate because my first is April 16.
As the pregnancy progressed baby was in breeched position, but thank God she later turned head down.. Because the doctors were already giving option of CS, since I wanted to try VBAC...Went to the hospital on Sat and doctor checked and said my OS is still closed, funny enough my water broke that very night and labor started, I had already been briefed that I won't be induced because of the previous,that labor would have to be natural since I wanted to try VBAC ..Omo the pain was something else,for almost 24hours i was in labor... But thank God it finally ended in praise... Wishing rest mamas safe delivery....

Wow. So happy for you. Congratulations!

Sassy256:

O God so sorry for what you've been through.
It's well. A lot to say but thank God for your life and sanity, some people will enter deep depression after going through this.
What about doing something from home? Even if it's sewing or baking, is there anyway you can? Because having your own little money for yourself is very important.

You can share the bolded if it will help you feel better❤️

Mummytoo:


We learn everyday
But y are some men like this na
Yours is better, u don't work
I work, but the money is his not mine

I felt angry and cold while reading

Hmmm my dear....

sugarcoatted:


I remember you very well. I remember the first one you lost exactly 1month after birth around November 2020 or so. I see you here and i am like this lady is really strong to be this happy and all with all she has been through. This thread is more than just a normal nairaland thread, it is like family. I'm so sorry for all you went through, i know God will definitely put a smile on your face soonest. We will keep praying for you. Please do share what happened with the first, we can learn a thing or 2 from it

Yes November. Will share soon, I dey come

kokaiye:
hmmn lucky u... My hubby is those yoruba men dt believe d women shld do every domesticated chores in d house, n folds arms while u r at it but wen it cm to moni, it must b 50/50.

That's a typical yoruba man you got there... Hubby and I were gisting sometimes back and I told him plainly I wouldn't have married him if I noticed he's not domesticated at all oo, he was surprised... I remember when we just got married, we would both go to work and go to church, then getting back home I would enter the kitchen straight though very tired and he would lie down on the couch pressing his phone..... I don't have a problem with that, my own is I need the strength of your mouth to keep me going so when I talk to you, reply me only for him to tell me he can't talk as his mouth is heavy cos of hunger.... Yeee, I left the food oo so that our mouth can be heavy together in the parlour, who is not tired? By the time I washed my heavy mouth on him in that parlour (God have mercy on me ), na guy man finish the cooking,, energy to talk and energy to cook which one small pass....

Please just manage and don't do more than you can do..

TOHHAN:

Thanks, she's the one am actually trying to get

Hi mama.
I'm right here.
You can send me a whatsapp message on 080. 247. 40159

miracletoday:
April mamas,how are we doing?lets hear from u.Dont leave me hanging. We just want to know u are fairing well. His mercy will speak for us at that hour and beyond(amen)
1.Nancyij...............13th........XX
2.Miracletoday......22nd .............XY
3.Jumyte29............26th........XY
4.ChizziCindy.........21st.......XX
5.CuddleJoy.......... 29th.......XX
6.Orimipe...............24th ......XX
7.Comanche...........26th..............XY
8.Jcuttie..?
9.He2nuholuwa...?

i am doing fine, no show yet, i am 40weeks gone, no sign of labor, mummys in the house what will i take for labor to come, i am already tired, now i have completed my hospital things, my girl refuse to come out

kokaiye:
U c ehn... Not only u ve said dis ooo... Many pipu said i shld alwz leave d baby wit him even thou e disagree but i cant do it... Cs e may ignore baby wen bsby cry... N my instinct r right... Just dis past sat, i ws in d shower wen i heard baby crying, i quickly ran out wit soap allover my body... Imagine, hubby was sleeping pretty just bside him n e didnt move an inch, i was furious, i jst jejely carry my baby n feed him immediately cos d poor baby hs cried his eyes out... I just 4get abt goin bk into bathroom

Haaaaaaa, the kind of slap I will put on your back and bad eye I will give you when you wake up ehn...
Please don't try that option ooo. God is with you, continue to be strong ma... Hope your baby's big bro doesn't disturb much cos coping with both of them is not small work ooo

Holashikemi:
Hi mamas
Please which edd is the most accurate cause I have done up to three scans and there is a little difference in dates

Your very first scan should be nearest to your lmp

FlowerGirl040:
I lost him same year I lost my beloved mother,and same day my eldest child added a year +. After his death,I will carry all the baby things,both the one he used and not yet used,sniff them and cry silently,when my other kids aren't around. After 4 months I took in again,and I was happy,at least it will help alot to ease my heart. But what happened? I fell sick,hubby refused me to go to hospital,he said he will call his nurse instead,he bought drugs,my sickness still persisted and he wasn't happy I was down,he came home one night with another set of drugs saying this one is strong and will make me better,my instinct was rejecting it,I told him these ones are too strong for me,I will call my doctor,this man started nagging that so I am calling him senseless and don't know what is good for his own wife? Last last he forced me to take it in his presence,big big drugs o. The next morning I carry phone to check Google and what I saw shocked me. I started panicking. I can't go out to see a doctor,where is the money? He made me a full house wife,wetin I go carry use?

I told him what I found out,he started nagging again and forced me to take it,what Happened next? I started bleeding when he was not at home,before I knew it,the little festus there was out,it has already form sef,tiny hands,legs but no hair or sex yet. I was so traumatized,oya let me go to the hospital to do scan,he said ok. He keeps delaying till blood flow stopped.
After a week blood started flowing again,mind you I was still spitting and vomiting all this while. I started getting weak,see heavy clots of blood,my sister you go fear,I fainted more than twice, that was when I was rushed to the hospital and it was confirm there is a little product left and placenta,my dear I went through another horrible evacuation. That was how I lost my twins baby again. I shared this here, because I know other Mamas will learn one or two things.

I don't know if I should share what also lead to my one month old babys death. Hmmm.

Oh my God a one month old and twins? Hmmmmnnn.. It is well mama, if you feel relieved enough to share, It will help lift a lot of the inner burden off you... Ehugs mama...
Also Permit me to say I don't think your hubby wants another baby, I may be wrong though..

Mummytoo:


We learn everyday
But y are some men like this na
Yours is better, u don't work
[/b]I work, but the money is his not mine[b]

I felt angry and cold while reading

Haaa, may God help us with our men ooo.. Stay cool mama