ladyrachy:

I stay in Felele lokoja,am from kogi state an igala by tribe. What's the name of ur area?

lol... Felele pipu... Jeez!! Dt place dry fa!! Abeg how u dey cope?! I cudnt wen i was der

FlowerGirl040:
If na my kinda husband ehn! He will first tell you who ask you to leave the house,there is nothing wrong with his child ,take him back home. I didn't ask her to bring him here,let her take care of the bills, seems she had money,reason why she took my son out without my consent.

Na my nature,I am too soft hearted and calm. Whenever I tried to stand my ground I feel guilty in the next minute

Hmmmmmm, God will help us all

ladyrachy:
Its almost like two hours drive ,wish u were really close by, may the Lord strengthen u I hope ur hubby isn't igbira or these ancient igala men with dia backward mentality, becos some igala men even after education dem still no get sense BT igbira hmmm dia own plenty with angry bird attitude

Lol he's not igala

kokaiye:
as 4 me ooo... Me i believe in u do me i do u, man no go vex... My hubby sef is tired of me cs if e did smtin to me, i do my own back to him... U do me gud, i do u gud, u do bad, i do bad to u... U cnt com n b bullyin me cs u r my husband... Impossicant!!!! If e said smtin dt doesnt sit well wit me, i dnt do it ooo, i mk my own decision. We r lik cat n rat inside aous cs i dnt listen to him.

Hmm if I do dat to him he go just die be dat.becos am his wife I know where to hurt him the most BT men think we women have fish brain,in his small mind am a novice to things. The day I will tell him everything he will be shocked to know I kept quiet all this while will scare him. My mum always say I can kill sumone,why? Becos I just watch u and deal with u wen u av forgotten wat u did,she asked my hubby can u cope with her he said why do my pple tink am stubborn, hmm I told him I calmed down for u BT if u want to mess get ready for high bp. He thinks am a docile wife, hmmm

FlowerGirl040:
I am in okene

Aawwnn!! Okene... No1da u r gentle... Egbira pipu r nice but dont b gentle to a fault thou... Its not gud... U wil b takin advantage of.

Please November mommas should show face na let’s start counting down too �

TiffanyJ:

Congrats, dear. May we all smile at the end.


By the way, who is December cappo? I want to report for my second missionary journey o. Any October 2019 mama here?

oh wow!!! I remember u but i was team NOV.

TiffanyJ:

Abeg o. This work pass my power jor.

y una dey run frm cappoship ehn?!!!

kokaiye:
lol... Felele pipu... Jeez!! Dt place dry fa!! Abeg how u dey cope?! I cudnt wen i was der

Mtcheew no be marriage carry me from Lagos enter felele very hot and dry area. No work, nothing dey happen for the place. Na teacher I be then as I sick during first trimester I just quit. I hate lokoja per se, infact my state na story for another day

kokaiye:
oh my God!!! U c ehn... Everything ws wrong frm d moment i read dt ur husband said u shld go n meet a particular nurse even d nurse dt gave u injectn knew u were not suppose to tk dt injectn... Ah!! My sister... B weary of ur hubby... Super duper weary... Na eyes crap dey use to watch him head ooo... Pls b very very careful... Ur story ehn, e get as e b, tears just keep streaming down my eyes, innocent babies!!!! .. Alwz b strong my sister... May God b with u.... Can u pls go 4 family planning, save ursef my sister, ... Smtin doesnt sit well wit ur hubby... My gut is tellin me e is reaponsible 4 everythin happening to u.... E isnt a nice person at all. if u gt preggy again, ur hubby may do smtin shaddy again.

Osinachi's story just kept ringing in my mind while I read that sad BS..

ladyrachy:

Amen ma,i av complained and talked he has this mindset am not doing anything wrong no regards abt how I feel.no matter how he hides tins from me dey keep finding ways back to me I don't even sniff around. I just don't know anymore waiting till our anniversary dats if I can cos if I talk to him and he says trash,I will tell him d story of his life
Am sick of men trying to justify their actions if I do same to him traditionally its his funeral.BT am just looking onto God to keep me sane. Thank God for this baby I av sumtin to look forward to

u r sane my sister but lik i alwz say nva tie yr happiness to anybody children exceptn cs dey cn nva betray u

FlowerGirl040:
I no wan reveal deep things here jare,just know that I don collect slaps and beatings for this marriage. Bt it's all in the past now.

aawwwn!!! U c now smh

Starss:
Good evening mama’s. Just came here to celebrate.

Just found out today I’m pregnant after years of trying.

Congratulations❤

ladyrachy:

Mtcheew no be marriage carry me from Lagos enter felele very hot and dry area. No work, nothing dey happen for the place. Na teacher I be then as I sick during first trimester I just quit. I hate lokoja per se, infact my state na story for another day

ah God!!! U try ooo... Ano fit... Wen i was der a suitor came n was proposin marriage i tell him vapital letter NO!!! I aint gettin married in dis hot dry land abeg.

MorningStar233:


Osinachi's story just kept ringing in my mind while I read that sad BS..

oh yes... Dt poor woman

[quote author=kokaiye post=112069833] oh yes... Dt poor woman [/q

Hmmmm too bad

kokaiye:
u r sane my sister but lik i alwz say nva tie yr happiness to anybody children exceptn cs dey cn nva betray u

Its true ma,I just rest my case with him for now BT wen I remember all i went thru, I will just be looking at him,he knows when am not cool wit him. No matter the love he shows me and things he does he has broken my trust once and I don't trust his words or actions anymore. Wen he says I love u I just grunt in response,he feels bad BT he must earn my trust back and so far he's still doing the one tin I said I dont like,he hates wen told wat to do, like I can't choose his friends and how he behaves with dem. For my eyes now he's just someone taking care of my needs,baby daddy. Husband hmmm I reserve the word for when he starts acting seriously like one

Thank you

kokaiye:
ah God!!! U try ooo... Ano fit... Wen i was der a suitor came n was proposin marriage i tell him vapital letter NO!!! I aint gettin married in dis hot dry land abeg.

Hahahahaha I and hubby are both from kogi state ,schooled in Ayingba same level and department. Same tribe sef we dey like brother and sister even till now pple doubt we are married. upon say I tell God that I no want igala, wish i schooled in lagos i for marry another tribe,he just give me wetin I no want. Well in my next life I no marry and I will not be an igala lady simple,I won remain for heaven as angel jare

ladyrachy:

Hahahahaha I and hubby are both from kogi state ,schooled in Ayingba same level and department. Same tribe sef we dey like brother and sister even till now pple doubt we are married. upon say I tell God that I no want igala, wish i schooled in lagos i for marry another tribe,he just give me wetin I no want. Well in my next life I no marry and I will not be an igala lady simple,I won remain for heaven as angel jare

Hahaha abeg I no fit laugh,angelrachy. The name fit you

FlowerGirl040:
I don't think he doesn't want those babies, actually he likes children very well. All this happened Bec of pride, negligence and I don't care attitude of his. Nothing his wife said that will work o,he does what he pleases whether you like it or not. I don tell am make he go marry another wife o cos that's his national anthem,any small thing, another wife.I no go kill myself. Reason why I wan earn money on any online stuff. Imagine common recharge card to call my family I have to tell him,and he gives when he pleases. He must ask,who do you want to call? This very phone,it's my uncle that sent me money ,he has no option than to go buy me the phone but not after a warning I shouldn't make them think he is incapable. But buy me this na wahala. Make I born to ease my heavy heart of the babies I lost fess.

Where my team mates dey,come register me biko

. Na so some men be my sis,if I use my money runs something hubby think he can't provide abi. I tell am say can't I use my money for wat I want again?.if I ask u na to say I no dey the present budget wait for another one,money matter dey pain my hubby ooo and me I can spend his money very well,na dia our fight dey stem from

kokaiye:
Aawwnn!! Okene... No1da u r gentle... Egbira pipu r nice but dont b gentle to a fault thou... Its not gud... U wil b takin advantage of.

Thanks

FlowerGirl040:
I don't think he doesn't want those babies, actually he likes children very well. All this happened Bec of pride, negligence and I don't care attitude of his. Nothing his wife said that will work o,he does what he pleases whether you like it or not. I don tell am make he go marry another wife o cos that's his national anthem,any small thing, another wife.I no go kill myself. Reason why I wan earn money on any online stuff. Imagine common recharge card to call my family I have to tell him,and he gives when he pleases. He must ask,who do you want to call? This very phone,it's my uncle that sent me money ,he has no option than to go buy me the phone but not after a warning I shouldn't make them think he is incapable. But buy me this na wahala. Make I born to ease my heavy heart of the babies I lost fess.

Where my team mates dey,come register me biko

Thanks to all the mamas in the house who have shared their experiences and been a source of encouragement to be you.

One thing you should not fail to take out of their advice is "fight for yourself and the future of your kids".

If all you have narrated here is the way your marriage has been, then you really need to have a rethink. Forever is a long-time to be strong.

You can't hear all that has been happening to women in different homes and you still sit back and say "you're selfless and quiet".

No one is suggesting you leave your marriage. But you need to shake the table a little.

May God's grace remain sufficient for us all

kokaiye:
oh wow!!! I remember u but i was team NOV.

I keep wandering why your Monika is very familiar. I think I know know why.

kokaiye:
y una dey run frm cappoship ehn?!!!

My sister, I don't think I'm equal to this task at all. Am I the only December mama in this whole wide house? Surely, not!

FlowerGirl040:
Thanks dear,I don't know anything about drop shipping,care to put me through pls?

@TiffanyJ.
Dropshipping is a means of advertising goods given to you at wholesale price while you add your own gain.
You don't need capital to start it. Just make sure the goods you're advertising is what you're sure of.
For example, you can get someone that sells clothes, shoes, bags or hair, get the items at a reasonable price, add your own gain and just advertise.
Whoever needs what you've advertise pays to you then you remove your gain and pay your supplier who in turn waybills the good to your customer.
You've made your gain and customer is happy.

TiffanyJ:

Abeg o. This work pass my power jor.

Haba, with the experience on your CV you are very capable.. Cappo TiffanyJ **yeeh,who knock my head**

kokaiye:
hmmn lucky u... My hubby is those yoruba men dt believe d women shld do every domesticated chores in d house, n folds arms while u r at it but wen it cm to moni, it must b 50/50.

Me I can't even do 50/50

But one thing I know that I won't do is disturb you with my personal needs. I work, earn my money and take care of myself.
You see this prov 31 woman of a thing, most men don't deserve it.

ladyrachy:

Amen ma,i av complained and talked he has this mindset am not doing anything wrong no regards abt how I feel.no matter how he hides tins from me dey keep finding ways back to me I don't even sniff around. I just don't know anymore waiting till our anniversary dats if I can cos if I talk to him and he says trash,I will tell him d story of his life
Am sick of men trying to justify their actions if I do same to him traditionally its his funeral.BT am just looking onto God to keep me sane. Thank God for this baby I av sumtin to look forward to

It is well mama, God will keep us and our babies and our children will never stop giving us joy by His grace

ladyrachy:

Hahahahaha I and hubby are both from kogi state ,schooled in Ayingba same level and department. Same tribe sef we dey like brother and sister even till now pple doubt we are married. upon say I tell God that I no want igala, wish i schooled in lagos i for marry another tribe,he just give me wetin I no want. Well in my next life I no marry and I will not be an igala lady simple,I won remain for heaven as angel jare

My Omaye Don vex o

Lemonadewifey:

@TiffanyJ.
Dropshipping is a means of advertising goods given to you at wholesale price while you add your own gain.
You don't need capital to start it. Just make sure the goods you're advertising is what you're sure of.
For example, you can get someone that sells clothes, shoes, bags or hair, get the items at a reasonable price, add your own gain and just advertise.
Whoever needs what you've advertise pays to you then you remove your gain and pay your supplier who in turn waybills the good to your customer.
You've made your gain and customer is happy.

Thanks a million

FlowerGirl040:
I
Where my team mates dey,come register me biko

Which team you Dey jare as I bin don Dey eye you tey tey.. Make I no guess