Kobojunkie:
The same way the woman explains it to her in-laws. Your kids learn from you in that that violence is unacceptable no matter your ego.

Those police will be the same ones to tackle you to the ground and arrest you if you had been the violent person so why do you care what they think...the law is the law.

Entayali:
Shameless man
If any woman abuse me and i no break her head, make i know why

OlawaleBammie:
i will put a curse on that police straight.....

See, explaining is wat i like pass, i will explain to everybody that cares to listen, and if u dont care den fvck off

If u abuse me a go dump u den sue u, wetin concern me weda u b woman of toddler, since i cant touch u den u re gone in my life, a no want stress

MadamVanessa:




You won't see much of my fellow women in this thread condemning the action of the ex wife, assuming it was one of us women that said this, hell would've let loose.

I really hate the way and manner my gender reason most times.

eddychukwu:
I Will Not Remain Silent: Muslim Man who Left His marriage says He Did so because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him Monday

A Muslim man has sparked a debate on social media as he opened up about why he left his marriage The man, Merbaan Talib, said he suffered varying degrees of domestic violence at the hand of his estranged wife including physical ones Lending his voice to the trending topic of abuse in marriages, Merbaan vowed not to remain silent for the men who have also suffered the same fate.



https://twitter.com/merbaant/status/1515022528481275911?t=tX_awbY8g1Len6zCuX6FEg&s=19

emeogbo:
If its the other way round, by now the whole world will be seeking the head of the man.

I watched the chrisland school video, all I saw was a girl on top of a guy riding a cock, there was no iota of rape in that video, but because of the image of the girl I has to be termed rape. Don't be surprised if it was the little girl that taught the boys how to have sex because she was riding like a pro, but the boys always take the blame. God help the males.

abbey621:
Easier said than done, even if the man get balls to allow her spend the night in jail, by the time it gets to court, the man no fit follow through....There's a level of hatred that you have to reach before a man let things get that far. I've seen man wey dem hit for head with pot because of argument and he had to get stitches, after all the howling, the anger, the madness, omo my guy don reconcile with him wife o . I was one of the person shouting ARREST HER, LEAVE HER, DIVORCE HER......In the end, my guy later did tun mi gbe(wedding vow renewal)....This life ehn

Abfinest007:
Example of big for nothing

Kobojunkie:
Physical assault is a criminal offense punishable by jail time. So if validation from others is what you seek, be sure they will at least visit you when you are languishing in jail.

eddychukwu:
I Will Not Remain Silent: Muslim Man who Left His marriage says He Did so because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him Monday

A Muslim man has sparked a debate on social media as he opened up about why he left his marriage The man, Merbaan Talib, said he suffered varying degrees of domestic violence at the hand of his estranged wife including physical ones Lending his voice to the trending topic of abuse in marriages, Merbaan vowed not to remain silent for the men who have also suffered the same fate.

Evidence to show she actually beat u up, i dnt Like this kind of noise.. Proof to us she actually beat up and then we take it up for u..nce

https://twitter.com/merbaant/status/1515022528481275911?t=tX_awbY8g1Len6zCuX6FEg&s=19

MadamVanessa:




You won't see much of my fellow women in this thread condemning the action of the ex wife, assuming it was one of us women that said this, hell would've let loose.

I really hate the way and manner my gender reason most times.

Kobojunkie:
There is nothing gynocentric about the law. Physical assault is Physical assault and punishable by jail time.

inoki247:
we no go see any woman for this thread now...


The Future is Gmail advocate no go show face....

LINTUNE:
madam rest, we both know those Western laws are very gynocentric..even if she were to be punished, it would be a slap on the wrist compared to the punishment the guy would get if it was the other way round...let's learn to tell the truth...

Kobojunkie:
What you described is no different from that observed of even in abusive relationships. He has to decide, hopefully before too late, to exit the toxic relationship. No one can do that for him.

As for having the mother/father of your kids spend the night in jail, separation is typically recommended to help avoid the making of such decisions..

Sureplug123:
you actually think you are free That's funny

creatorsverse:


I'm not a man of violence oo I've never hit my wife before because I love her with my life and I'd do anything for her.. but the day that evil spirit will enter her to hit me, two things are sure, one of us will be at the hospital ICU while the other will be at the police station.

abbey621:
I know he has to decide but the decision itself is the hard part. Y'all love to shout toxic this toxic that but words are often cheap, when it comes to walking the walk suddenly things become cloudy and you'll find that it ain't as straightforward as it seems on paper! Y'all shout walk away but rarely offer solutions for what happens after, for the women it is easier to recognize and say enough is enough, for the man especially our Igbo brothers, when he thinks of the bride price and the money, time and energy invested, my nigga ain't going nowhere unless he believes there's no other choice. Give men credit, we deal with a lot of sh*t that we can't say publicly, to be a man is a blessing and a curse

Martinsovih:
Let's not think what the guy said is a fallacy.i personally know someone in warri who rain away from warri leaving his two cars and his house for his wife because of this domestic violence matter some years ago.

Kobojunkie:
So, you think a woman has no investments to consider when walking away from an abusive situation?

All you listed are nothing but meaningless excuses used by both genders to remain in what is a toxic relationship. So you think those who made it out didn't have those very same excuses to consider?

Look, regardless of how much you have voluntarily spent on a union, if you think your life and health worthless, you will continue to remain in that environment until you begin to believe you have more value than all that as an individual. Worthlessness has to do with depression that can typically result from being jn such a toxic situation.

inoki247:
we no go see any woman for this thread now...


The Future is Gmail advocate no go show face....

eddychukwu:
I Will Not Remain Silent: Muslim Man who Left His marriage says He Did so because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him Monday

A Muslim man has sparked a debate on social media as he opened up about why he left his marriage The man, Merbaan Talib, said he suffered varying degrees of domestic violence at the hand of his estranged wife including physical ones Lending his voice to the trending topic of abuse in marriages, Merbaan vowed not to remain silent for the men who have also suffered the same fate.



https://twitter.com/merbaant/status/1515022528481275911?t=tX_awbY8g1Len6zCuX6FEg&s=19