1stymom:



I am sorry sis.. pls, try voicing out once in a while when there's an issue... So that he can know you've endured his character and it's now getting overboard... And keep praying for the family as well. You will have good testimony soon.

FlowerGirl040:
There is no one I know that sell stuffs.

voucher:


You actually don’t need to “know” them.. what you need to do is check online for people that have groups for dropshippers where they post pictures and join them or you chat up any vendor within your location, you post their pictures on your WhatsApp status or Instagram page then add your own gain and when you conclude with your costumers, the seller will send the goods to them.. zero stress

FlowerGirl040:
As for the lady that come to my mailbox this morning to insult me,to even think you just registered today,you must be a guess reading or a mama here who don't want to reveal herself. I will let it slide but your next message will determine if I will deal with you or not. I am not a fool.

Even when your hurtful words and insults made me shed tears,it made me stronger and determined not weak and helpless. Thank you

waistbead:
When people call you barren and finally God bless you with pregnancy,my teamies ,waistbea need to come out with 26 inches bone straight to go for ANC looking peng to tell them that God is not their age mate .



Faithful God...

breeezefe:







I was just about to say this. Let's not make her feel worse than she is feeling already. You can either encourage her or read and pass.

Meanwhile, we have overstretched this issue and I am sure @flowergirl has plans already. So let's muuuvveee

FlowerGirl040:
As for the lady that come to my mailbox this morning to insult me,to even think you just registered today,you must be a guess reading or a mama here who don't want to reveal herself. I will let it slide but your next message will determine if I will deal with you or not. I am not a fool.

Even when your hurtful words and insults made me shed tears,it made me stronger and determined not weak and helpless. Thank you

FlowerGirl040:
All my children,I don't reach EDD,that's my nature,so when I was 37 weeks, contraction started,not serious,1cm but the nurse was saying I should go and relax besides my tummy is small,seems i didn't know my LMP. Ah! I told her but you know me very well na bec that's the hospital I have been using,she insisted. I vex see doctor himself, he told me to go for exercise and let's see. To cut the story short,I was in on and off labour for over a week,this people refuse me to go for induction,not that I have ever had CS o. With this I fell sick,so serious. By this time it's already past my edd. This same nurse complaining of my tummy treated me,she ask me to come for injection later. (That's the nurse my husband instructed me to see) I went there and she wasn't around,the other nurse was surprised I was ask to take that particular injection,it was after she administer it to me she told me I am not supposed to take it according to her understanding since I am past edd. Well,The nurse kept complaining my stomach is not big for a 9month old. Hubby said this is the closest hospital and his family hospital,they do attend.(thou they have 2 family hospitals) I have to make use of the hospital. See me see labour pains on and off. The horrible thing is that ever since my labour started,my urine change colour not knowing it's my water that is coming out bit by bit till it dried up.(to me it was that injection that caused everything) After a week and some days,I was like if I die now,what about my children and this man will marry another wife sef. Na so I vex pack my bag go hospital around 11pm in the night. I met the absence of doctor (private hospital) i explained everything to nurse. She gave me a tablet to put under my tongue,I returned home,took a shower by this time,real labour don start,I went back to hospital with my husband Sha,he left me there and instructed them to take care of me as there are other kids at home alone. (Mind you after I did scan at week 20, I wanted to do another again when I was 7months,hubby refused,he said no need nah since I have no Complain. I don't know I just have this strong feelings to do scan and check how baby was doing by then. Well I have no money on my own so I can't possibly go if he did not agree or give me money.)

I gave birth before 2hrs. Mid night o,the nurses where surprised I gave birth so easy with no water at all,total dried up,they said I am so lucky. Baby was making one kind sound,but it disappeared after a day. Up till his death, right from when I gave birth to him,he didn't cry. I lay my concern to hubby he said he will cry. My baby refuse breastmilk,even water sef,if I use spoon or feeding bottle everything will be pouring out from his corner mouth,it's like he can't swallow anything I was so scared and frustrated,let us take this child to general hospital,hubby said what for? His sisters and aunty talk,he said no need. Even when I bath him,no cry at all. All he does is to sleep,he only open his eyes for seconds. My instinct was just not at rest,I just know I will lost this child. That's how I manage till some days to his one month old,I will cry secretly at night holding my baby, praying to God to make me hear my baby's voice even for once bec it's as if there is no baby at home at all. A day to his death. I heard a sharp shout,I discovered it was my baby,I was thinking he's coming to terms of been in the world and not in the womb anymore,not knowing my baby will soon depart and just wanted me to hear his voice . Something yellowish liquid started coming out from his mouth. I called my husband on phone to come home let's take him to hospital,by this time I have started crying,he came home and said he will get him drugs. Ah!! Him and self medication!! It was after he left I went to carry baby,I discovered his body is kind of cold,I put my fingers in his mouth to open his teeth,for where,it was strong. By the time I know my baby was gone but I refuse to admit it. I left him on the bed,go to the kitchen,to prepare lunch. But still checking on him. When hubby came back I told him what's happening. I never knew he knows he is dead already but don't know how to tell me. He later did tell me after an hour Sha. And that was when I broke down. So my baby left me,I started thinking how I got pregnant,the labour pains, everything and I couldn't hold back my tears. When my children heard that their baby brother is dead,they started crying with me too. Let me stop here.
I am crying here already. Ignore any errors pls.

This is a negligence from the part of the hospital and hubby's behavior of I know what I am doing,I am the man of the house and I can never be wrong attitude. But then my life was at stake foolish me

FlowerGirl040:
You said WhatsApp? Instagram? Lol

Sweetnesstwins:


I hardly comment here, because am GTC but am always here liking every BFP, BA, BS.....but am sorry oh, forgive me...that man is evil and heartless...is he using this children for rituals or something?

FlowerGirl040:
Can you imagine a fellow woman telling me it's my corpse my family will take from here. Seriously? I shared what happened to me here as a BS and answered some questions, and I believe someone has learnt from it and I never regret sharing. Never!!!!

Well,i will deactivate anytime soon,so that when I eventually die,no one will know. I believe when she didn't see me here,she will rest with her curses and insults.

FlowerGirl040:
You think I don't voice out all this years? Lol common bedsheet and touchlight that I have been disturbing him to get me one since last year,till date na I hear I hear be national anthem. He buy whatever he wants when he pleases. I swear no one,I repeat no one forces him to do what he don't intend doing,I know what I am saying. Imagine a mother with children having just one bedsheet, you sef think am na. Assuming I have my money now,na just to go buy my thing ND tell him my family sent me the money,but nothing dey.

FlowerGirl040:
Can you imagine a fellow woman telling me it's my corpse my family will take from here. Seriously? I shared what happened to me here as a BS and answered some questions, and I believe someone has learnt from it and I never regret sharing. Never!!!!

Well,i will deactivate anytime soon,so that when I eventually die,no one will know. I believe when she didn't see me here,she will rest with her curses and insults.

TOHHAN:
Please who help me see my capoo oo, it's been long I hear from @Layormi or tiredness don make her run online

FlowerGirl040:
Can you imagine a fellow woman telling me it's my corpse my family will take from here. Seriously? I shared what happened to me here as a BS and answered some questions, and I believe someone has learnt from it and I never regret sharing. Never!!!!

Well,i will deactivate anytime soon,so that when I eventually die,no one will know. I believe when she didn't see me here,she will rest with her curses and insults.

Omakraid:

Layormii don turn reader, I've been wanting to call her and my cappo out but I day make I leave them as this journey Dey different for everyone. e b like say LO hold her for mouth.. I saw her post somewhere this aft, she is fine..

FlowerGirl040

FlowerGirl040:
All my children,I don't reach EDD,that's my nature,so when I was 37 weeks, contraction started,not serious,1cm but the nurse was saying I should go and relax besides my tummy is small,seems i didn't know my LMP. Ah! I told her but you know me very well na bec that's the hospital I have been using,she insisted. I vex see doctor himself, he told me to go for exercise and let's see. To cut the story short,I was in on and off labour for over a week,this people refuse me to go for induction,not that I have ever had CS o. With this I fell sick,so serious. By this time it's already past my edd. This same nurse complaining of my tummy treated me,she ask me to come for injection later. (That's the nurse my husband instructed me to see) I went there and she wasn't around,the other nurse was surprised I was ask to take that particular injection,it was after she administer it to me she told me I am not supposed to take it according to her understanding since I am past edd. Well,The nurse kept complaining my stomach is not big for a 9month old. Hubby said this is the closest hospital and his family hospital,they do attend.(thou they have 2 family hospitals) I have to make use of the hospital. See me see labour pains on and off. The horrible thing is that ever since my labour started,my urine change colour not knowing it's my water that is coming out bit by bit till it dried up.(to me it was that injection that caused everything) After a week and some days,I was like if I die now,what about my children and this man will marry another wife sef. Na so I vex pack my bag go hospital around 11pm in the night. I met the absence of doctor (private hospital) i explained everything to nurse. She gave me a tablet to put under my tongue,I returned home,took a shower by this time,real labour don start,I went back to hospital with my husband Sha,he left me there and instructed them to take care of me as there are other kids at home alone. (Mind you after I did scan at week 20, I wanted to do another again when I was 7months,hubby refused,he said no need nah since I have no Complain. I don't know I just have this strong feelings to do scan and check how baby was doing by then. Well I have no money on my own so I can't possibly go if he did not agree or give me money.)

I gave birth before 2hrs. Mid night o,the nurses where surprised I gave birth so easy with no water at all,total dried up,they said I am so lucky. Baby was making one kind sound,but it disappeared after a day. Up till his death, right from when I gave birth to him,he didn't cry. I lay my concern to hubby he said he will cry. My baby refuse breastmilk,even water sef,if I use spoon or feeding bottle everything will be pouring out from his corner mouth,it's like he can't swallow anything I was so scared and frustrated,let us take this child to general hospital,hubby said what for? His sisters and aunty talk,he said no need. Even when I bath him,no cry at all. All he does is to sleep,he only open his eyes for seconds. My instinct was just not at rest,I just know I will lost this child. That's how I manage till some days to his one month old,I will cry secretly at night holding my baby, praying to God to make me hear my baby's voice even for once bec it's as if there is no baby at home at all. A day to his death. I heard a sharp shout,I discovered it was my baby,I was thinking he's coming to terms of been in the world and not in the womb anymore,not knowing my baby will soon depart and just wanted me to hear his voice . Something yellowish liquid started coming out from his mouth. I called my husband on phone to come home let's take him to hospital,by this time I have started crying,he came home and said he will get him drugs. Ah!! Him and self medication!! It was after he left I went to carry baby,I discovered his body is kind of cold,I put my fingers in his mouth to open his teeth,for where,it was strong. By the time I know my baby was gone but I refuse to admit it. I left him on the bed,go to the kitchen,to prepare lunch. But still checking on him. When hubby came back I told him what's happening. I never knew he knows he is dead already but don't know how to tell me. He later did tell me after an hour Sha. And that was when I broke down. So my baby left me,I started thinking how I got pregnant,the labour pains, everything and I couldn't hold back my tears. When my children heard that their baby brother is dead,they started crying with me too. Let me stop here.
I am crying here already. Ignore any errors pls.

This is a negligence from the part of the hospital and hubby's behavior of I know what I am doing,I am the man of the house and I can never be wrong attitude. But then my life was at stake foolish me

I am sorry Mama.. God will comfort and console you. It is well with you..

Omakraid:

Layormii don turn reader, I've been wanting to call her and my cappo out but I day make I leave them as this journey Dey different for everyone. e b like say LO hold her for mouth.. I saw her post somewhere this aft, she is fine..

Starss:
Hi mamas please help.

I confirmed my pregnancy yesterday, blood/urine.

But this evening I’m seeing a bit reddish/brown discharge please is this normal I’m scared please.

TOHHAN:

You can go to hospital if scared, I know of someone that has brown discharge and was placed on drug in the hospital though didnt ask her much questions about it because it's the hubby am close with and na him tell me his wife get belle with brown discharge b4 I advice hospital

Heebah:
Hello mamas. Pls I'm a first time mom and I need clarifications and assurance. I'm supposed to clock 15weeks tomorrow according to my calculations but scan today says 13wks 3days. Also scan done about 2weeks ago on d 6th of April precisely was measuring a week ahead. Don't know if this is a cause of concern. Will need ur inputs Sabi mamas. Thank u

1stymom:



Abajoooooooooo..... Scorpio vs Scorpio... I understand now my sis.....It is well... Regards to our boy..

FlowerGirl040:
As for the lady that come to my mailbox this morning to insult me,to even think you just registered today,you must be a guess reading or a mama here who don't want to reveal herself. I will let it slide but your next message will determine if I will deal with you or not. I am not a fool.

Even when your hurtful words and insults made me shed tears,it made me stronger and determined not weak and helpless. Thank you

breeezefe:







I was just about to say this. Let's not make her feel worse than she is feeling already. You can either encourage her or read and pass.

Meanwhile, we have overstretched this issue and I am sure @flowergirl has plans already. So let's muuuvveee