Odunharry:

Maybe sensational journalism

Men the family, school, institutions need to do more honestly. The rate of moral decadence is alarming.

And that's what is really bad. I was so sad seeing the headline of how 5 boys gang-raped a 10yr old girl and I'm like whattttt What kind of sickness or psycho possessed those guys. Another headline saying the mother of the girl says her daughter was raped, reading through it, I found out the girl has been suspended. I was thinking, what Wicked school will suspend a girl (10yrs) for something traumatically done to her? How wicked can humans be?

All these, Only to find out that it was consensual by all major participants.
Now this leads me thinking. What if there was no videos to tell us that what really happened was different from what we were being fed? I wonder the kind of "bullets" the boys will receive for "raping' a 10yr old girl and how everything won't be the way it's now since rape issue is not taken lightly.
So many questions just racing through my mind. It's just so damn crazy


And yeah, family and school needs to do more. But I feel most parents are negligent of their children's welfare and consumption that it affects their way of life. There's really few school and institutions can do if the basic foundation which supposed to be gotten from the family is lacking

Jodera:
My own that's concerning is the use of rape about something that's obviously consensual. Both are minors, yet they used the strong word as rape in narrating the issue.

The way this rape word is brandied about, with time it might lose its weighty meaning if care is not taken.

The woman just dont want the shame that comes with being a failed mom. She failed woefully..just like many other parents. She don't want to be pointed at as the mother of the teenage harlots. Lol . She deemed it right to claim rape to exonerate her daughter from being labelled spoilt at early age.

I haven't seen the video..but fro. People narration, its clear the girl have mastered sex in and out. With the reverse cowgirl she was giving them boys, I suspect she might be the one spoiling and teaching those boys sef. Undoubtedly, women spoils young boys who are normally late in sex experiences. Women tend to spoil quicker cos they mature quicker.

These things have actually been happening in our times. Difference is no smart phones and social media to expose it. In my sec school days, I had a female class mate that was bleeping about 5 or 6 guys then. No they weren't running a train on her. Every dog just had his day. I have over heard them telling one another like " na you get today na...you go enjoy wella". This is real life experience. What happens is : the girl visits them one after another daily at their parents home o...and they have sex. My 5 and 6 pal was one of em. I have been with him while the girl come around. It will seem I am a party pooper at that time..until I leave the they will get down. Parents are away to work. Neighbours will just feel na classmates so nothing dey happen.

This shit will only get worse with smart phone and social media. .celebrities posting nude pics. Women claiming its my body..I can do what ever I want with it. Look at what they post on tiktoks. When these youngings have smart phones, you think they will only be making calls with it?lol. Last week Omotolas daughter posted her self in bikini with that big beast and thick laps.. .. what will the young ones learn from her? Abi you think they don't see it.

I dont expect this to stop anyway..rather it will get worse. Its the world we are in now. Its a Liberal word. And any criticism from you..they will ask you to cast a stone if you haven't sinned before. Lol

Ibime:
£500k per week for Haaland

Sheikh has done it again

Is Fraudiola buying him because of local league?

Raumdeuter ngbo?

Jodera:
Amen!!

I meant comot

Hmmm...

Jodera:
And that's what is really bad. I was so sad seeing the headline of how 5 boys gang-raped a 10yr old girl and I'm like whattttt What kind of sickness or psycho possessed those guys. Another headline saying the mother of the girl says her daughter was raped, reading through it, I found out the girl has been suspended. I was thinking, what Wicked school will suspend a girl (10yrs) for something traumatically done to her? How wicked can humans be?

All these, Only to find out that it was consensual by all major participants.
Now this leads me thinking. What if there was no videos to tell us that what really happened was different from what we were being fed? I wonder the kind of "bullets" the boys will receive for "raping' a 10yr old girl and how everything won't be the way it's now since rape issue is not taken lightly.
So many questions just racing through my mind. It's just so damn crazy


And yeah, family and school needs to do more. But I feel most parents are negligent of their children's welfare and consumption that it affects their way of life. There's really few school and institutions can do if the basic foundation which supposed to be gotten from the family is lacking

if not for video evidence, a lot of people would have been calling for the head of those guys as we speak. The mother clearly dont want to believe her daughter can do such stuff. It is also sad she came out to scream rape when she doesn't have sufficient information about what happened.

Most parent are truly negligent. Even though some will argue the phones and tab they get for their wards are for educational purpose or even the kind of cartoons/programme they allow them watch, but a whole lot is going on in the mind of the child if not well supervised.

BlueMann:

I meant comot

After we don seal and deliver am with amen??

Ogbeni boss it cannot be reversed

Jodera:
After we don seal and deliver am with amen??

Ogbeni boss it cannot be reversed

You and who seal am?

My say in this is this, the school definitely has a share of the blame here, I mean, it happened right under their roof and purview, parents expect their children to be expertly supervised in their absence, that's why they pay money, parents sef who find some of their children too difficult to control send them into boarding schools where they hope they will be shaped accordingly, so yes, the school has a great miscarriage of administration. I saw that video and I was really shocked by a lot of things, one was the the fact they were several children present in that act and they all seemed very casual and comfortable about what they were doing, there didn't seem to be a hint of fear or tension or shock from any of them which meant they were used to this, again,I blame the school for having created such an enabling environment where such atrocity can be committed by numerous children without them having a sense of their wrongdoing.

Secondly the parents of the children have failed massively, that bit is obvious, although I'm thinking that the lack of good sex education in our own society makes it easier for these things to happen, many parents just do not know how to talk about sexual intercourse and it's implications to their children, this leads to all of us discovering it in our own way, either from peers or from the neighborhood or from the media or a conglomeration of all. You have some who start too early and potentially develop pedophilic tendencies as they grow, or some who are too late and never learn how to sexually satisfy themselves or their partners later in life. The balance is blurred.

All the same, we should all take a leaf out of this and teach our own children all they need to know about their organs and sex and the implications of their actions. That way everyone makes better informed decisions.

Know your child and know how to raise them.

The parents of this girl should really be blamed see her here and see that this didn't start today.
A goddamn 14 years old.
https://twitter.com/Giftnessss/status/1516345896769892358?t=uhvD2EoaOzdwSP0IUoX_eQ&s=19

Parenting is really tough in this digital world. Parents should really try their best in training their kids and at the same time pray they don’t choose the wrong part..

airmark:


Is Fraudiola buying him because of local league?

Raudeuter ngbo?

What did Chelsea and Tuchel spend 100m on Lukaku for

Emaprince:
The woman just dont want the shame that comes with being a failed mom. She failed woefully..just like many other parents. She don't want to be pointed at as the mother of the teenage harlots. Lol . She deemed it right to claim rape to exonerate her daughter from being labelled spoilt at early age.

I haven't seen the video..but fro. People narration, its clear the girl have mastered sex in and out. With the reverse cowgirl she was giving them boys, I suspect she might be the one spoiling and teaching those boys sef. Undoubtedly, women spoils young boys who are normally late in sex experiences. Women tend to spoil quicker cos they mature quicker.

These things have actually been happening in our times. Difference is no smart phones and social media to expose it. In my sec school days, I had a female class mate that was bleeping about 5 or 6 guys then. No they weren't running a train on her. Every dog just had his day. I have over heard them telling one another like " na you get today na...you go enjoy wella". This is real life experience. What happens is : the girl visits them one after another daily at their parents home o...and they have sex. My 5 and 6 pal was one of em. I have been with him while the girl come around. It will seem I am a party pooper at that time..until I leave the they will get down. Parents are away to work. Neighbours will just feel na classmates so nothing dey happen.

This shit will only get worse with smart phone and social media. .celebrities posting nude pics. Women claiming its my body..I can do what ever I want with it. Look at what they post on tiktoks. When these youngings have smart phones, you think they will only be making calls with it?lol. Last week Omotolas daughter posted her self in bikini with that big beast and thick laps.. .. what will the young ones learn from her? Abi you think they don't see it.

I dont expect this to stop anyway..rather it will get worse. Its the world we are in now. Its a Liberal word. And any criticism from you..they will ask you to cast a stone if you haven't sinned before. Lol

All what you said is so on point and the bolded really summarised everything.

People who will ask you "what concerns you, is it your life" will later form holy when things go south. And that's the reason this world is here today. No social media just illuminate am.

Odunharry:

if not for video evidence, a lot of people would have been calling for the head of those guys as we speak. The mother clearly dont want to believe her daughter can do such stuff. It is also sad she came out to scream rape when she doesn't have sufficient information about what happened.

Most parent are truly negligent. Even though some will argue the phones and tab they get for their wards are for educational purpose or even the kind of cartoons/programme they allow them watch, but a whole lot is going on in the mind of the child if not well supervised.

True. It's just so sad really.
I mean 10yr old girl. I really blame most parents. If you look at children now, the way they talk back at their parents and how insolent most have become, you will know most parents have failed in their parental duties. Then if things goes wrong, we'll Start seeing how school and society have failed the children.

While I believe it's not easy to raise good disciplined kids nowadays, but then nothing good comes easy and even good children too. Notwithstanding God's grace too

Kovacic: Tuchel confirms it's a ligament injury; he's however hopeful that he won't miss more than two weeks.

Hudson-Odoi: His case is a day-to-day, but a return to team training isn't on the cards right now.

Chilwell: Basically out for the season; could make a step up in his recovery and join the youth team training in the coming weeks. Hopefully he'll be able to return to first team training before the season ends.

BlueMann:


You and who seal am?

On why he shouted at Jorginho:
"It's never personal, he knows that I love him, we overused him."

Adds that J5 isn't feeling too fresh after being used a lot for club and country.

On James: Says he's been played at RCB recently cause it's a less physically demanding position than the RWB, considering he's just recovering from injury (how convenient he got to face the trickiest players on the teams he's faces recently).

On Chalobah: Says he's made some hard decisions not selecting Trevor lately; "We had a talk recently, that I can't prove to him with games or minutes, but that he is on his level again."

BlueMann:
Hmmm...

Tchumeni or rice will be good. We should also see lewadoski if lukaku is leaving.

Leyqute:


I wasn’t interested because there was no hate.

In the past, matches between the top 2 teams that could be a decider were always heated with lots of emotions.

Still remember that day Chelsea defeated United to throw open the title race in 2008. Ballack scored twice.

Today it was all nice and okay. Interesting game tho, just not enough hate between the two.

Don’t just open your mouth waaa like ram every time


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZrwHo7fH5ms

Oh my!!!! this match is about to turn into a RONALDO TESTIMONIAL MATCH and this guy wouldn't like it nor watch it...

the players might be hugging and kissing each other today while united fans might not be singing the Gerrard Slip and "Feed the scousers" song...

No fight,no hatred,no bad-blood,no mocking today......English Rivalry in the poto-poto

donjazet:
The parents of this girl should really be blamed see her here and see that this didn't start today.
A goddamn 14 years old.
https://twitter.com/Giftnessss/status/1516345896769892358?t=uhvD2EoaOzdwSP0IUoX_eQ&s=19

I'm glad u've seen the parents and the society at large deserve the most blame I
in this case not majorly the school as u posited earlier.

I honestly don't know how they will live with themselves knowing their negligence and failure as parents led to this now

BlueMann:
Hmmm...

Forget this transfer story, we don get owner?

donjazet:
The parents of this girl should really be blamed see her here and see that this didn't start today.
A goddamn 14 years old.
https://twitter.com/Giftnessss/status/1516345896769892358?t=uhvD2EoaOzdwSP0IUoX_eQ&s=19

Please remove her picture
Haba

Jodera:
All what you said is so on point and the bolded really summarised everything.

People who will ask you "what concerns you, is it your life" will later form holy when things go south. And that's the reason this world is here today. No social media just illuminate am.

Still where are the boys nothing have been said about them all attention has been on the girl

50d33q:

Still where are the boys nothing have been said about them all attention has been on the girl

If u read the school's letter to the parents, u will see that the boys have since been expelled. The attention is on the girl because her family brought the matter to the court of social media hoping to get justice for the "rape" and the school's way of handling the whole situation.

I guess it's not going the way the parents had hoped cos if what I'm reading online is anything to go by , it seems most people see the girl in a different light now. I've seen about 3 to 4 different videos of the girl dancing erotically online

50d33q:

Still where are the boys nothing have been said about them all attention has been on the girl

When the girl is made as headline, the girl's mother came out to talk about it as rape case and on two separate clips na the girl dey do the activity, I think it will be normal for the girl to be talked more than the guys.

If it's a film, surely the girl will be the lead actor.

donjazet:
The parents of this girl should really be blamed see her here and see that this didn't start today.
A goddamn 14 years old.
https://twitter.com/Giftnessss/status/1516345896769892358?t=uhvD2EoaOzdwSP0IUoX_eQ&s=19

At 14 she's already hoeing with her dressing and display of the middle finger..Smh

Them dey even flog kids nawadays at all?This girl's parents especially her foolish mother that came to pull off the rape stunt should be arrested first before anyone else..

donjazet:
My say in this is this, the school definitely has a share of the blame here, I mean, it happened right under their roof and purview, parents expect their children to be expertly supervised in their absence, that's why they pay money, parents sef who find some of their children too difficult to control send them into boarding schools where they hope they will be shaped accordingly, so yes, the school has a great miscarriage of administration. I saw that video and I was really shocked by a lot of things, one was the the fact they were several children present in that act and they all seemed very casual and comfortable about what they were doing, there didn't seem to be a hint of fear or tension or shock from any of them which meant they were used to this, again,I blame the school for having created such an enabling environment where such atrocity can be committed by numerous children without them having a sense of their wrongdoing.

Secondly the parents of the children have failed massively, that bit is obvious, although I'm thinking that the lack of good sex education in our own society makes it easier for these things to happen, many parents just do not know how to talk about sexual intercourse and it's implications to their children, this leads to all of us discovering it in our own way, either from peers or from the neighborhood or from the media or a conglomeration of all. You have some who start too early and potentially develop pedophilic tendencies as they grow, or some who are too late and never learn how to sexually satisfy themselves or their partners later in life. The balance is blurred.

All the same, we should all take a leaf out of this and teach our own children all they need to know about their organs and sex and the implications of their actions. That way everyone makes better informed decisions.

Know your child and know how to raise them.

Sex Education in a bigoted and religious nation like Nigeria where sex is treated as a taboo is never going to work.

CrystalTiger:


At 14 she's already hoeing with her dressing and display of the middle finger..Smh

Them dey even flog kids nawadays at all
?This girl's parents especially her foolish mother that came to pull off the rape stunt should be arrested first before anyone else..

Why are advocating for child abuse?

Kimbeast:
Why are advocating for child abuse?

You are turning the meaning of child abuse on it's head...

CAPdan21:

You are turning the meaning of child abuse on it's head...

willingly inflecting physical pain on your child is definitely child abuse. Don't try this outside Nigeria.

BlueRayDick:


If u read the school's letter to the parents, u will see that the boys have since been expelled. The attention is on the girl because her family brought the matter to the court of social media hoping to get justice for the "rape" and the school's way of handling the whole situation.

I guess it's not going the way the parents had hoped cos if what I'm reading online is anything to go by , it seems most people see the girl in a different light now. I've seen about 3 to 4 different videos of the girl dancing erotically online

I also read the girl didn't see the video as a big deal probably because of her age

CAPdan21:

You are turning the meaning of child abuse on it's head...

Lol, I was going to quote him before I saw your response.

And then we wonder why most children of nowadays no too get sense and respect.