GOFRONT:
Now, Whatever happened to the Blessings of the parents upon the marriages of nowadays??

Parents blessings upon marriages dont work anymore or what is happening??.......On the wedding day, does it mean parents now gather to curse their children marriage or Bless their union??......If the latter is the case, then how come we now experience the prevalence of broken fresh marriages everyday, everywhere??

Are Parents gods? So it takes thier blessings to make marriage last?

Gentlerespect76:
Lady calls out her newly-wedded husband for allegedly deceiving her into marrying him

Two months after their wedding, a lady has called out her husband, Emmanuel Egba, for allegedly deceiving her into marrying him.

The lady, identified as Oladimeji Oluwatosin, revealed they got married on February 19, 2022, at First East Circular road, in Benin City, Edo State.

According to her, “We dated for six months and he said he wanted to get married. He deceived me into marrying him because we are Witnesses and we believe once we get married we can't divorce, except on the ground of adultery.

He borrowed money to show off, pretended that he was rich and came for my hand in marriage. My family and I agreed because he was acting all nice.

When we were preparing for the wedding he lied that his company was owing him N11million. So my family took the responsibility of the wedding, did everything, only for me to get to his house and find out he has been lying to me all along.

He promised to open a tailoring shop for me but he couldn’t even feed me, talk more of opening the shop. I told him I was going to tell the elders in our congregation and he thre#tened to k#ll me because he knew he would be disfellowship.

He even locked me in the bathroom one day and I was screaming for help, luckily for me his neighbors came to my rescue. I left his house that day.

Ladies that want to get married now should please make thorough research before they get married.”

That's one of the disadvantages of marriage without courting

Gentlerespect76:

This lady's experience clearly shows she is naive; extremely inexperienced and ignorant in the ways of the world.

let's assume she is, what of her parents? None of them could see through the smokescreen or they were just carried away with the fact that their daughter brought home a man and all they wanted is a talk of the town wedding?.i know parents to have foresight and see through lies and deceit by virtue of their age and experience their daughters don't usually have because she's still younger so how come none of them could spot impersonation? Moreover when men are rushing a woman into marriage it means they either have something to hide and they don't want the lady to notice it on time or he's gunning after her parents wealth.

ireneidiva:

Are Parents gods? So it takes thier blessings to make marriage last?

yes.parents are MINI GODS in a child's life.after God,the next person that usually have your back or love you unconditionally even after hurting or disgracing them are your parents.every other person i.e friends, colleagues, neighbours etc can love you conditionally,it's only God and your earthly parents that can love you despite your weaknesses and failures.

As for their blessing,it goes a long way in cushioning the relationship.the rest is left to the couple

elonmuskbaby:
yes.parents are MINI GODS in a child's life.after God,the next person that usually have your back or love you unconditionally even after hurting or disgracing them are your parents.every other person i.e friends, colleagues, neighbours etc can love you conditionally,it's only God and your earthly parents that can love you despite your weaknesses and failures.

As for their blessing,it goes a long way in cushioning the relationship.the rest is left to the couple

Parents blessings do not make a marriage last.

ireneidiva:

Parents blessings do not make a marriage last.

it sustains it or better still gives it prospects of working/lasting

pretydiva:
So tosin story don enter Nairaland . Both of them were my colleagues at work. The story long no be small. It's well

Full story please

Mindlog:
They suit each other.

She was looking for a rich man and she found one but now she is crying like a newborn baby....

elonmuskbaby:
let's assume she is, what of her parents? None of them could see through the smokescreen or they were just carried away with the fact that their daughter brought home a man and all they wanted is a talk of the town wedding?.i know parents to have foresight and see through lies and deceit by virtue of their age and experience their daughters don't usually have because she's still younger so how come none of them could spot impersonation? Moreover when men are rushing a woman into marriage it means they either have something to hide and they don't want the lady to notice it on time or he's gunning after her parents wealth.

Solid point

frozen70:


That's one of the disadvantages of marriage without courting

Despite courtship, some players will still wriggle their way through.

IamANigerianMan:

She was looking for a rich man and she found one but now she is crying like newborn baby....

You can imagine

ireneidiva:

Are Parents gods? So it takes thier blessings to make marriage last?

It was so in times past. But things have changed.

After they have messed up, they will start giving advice upandan. Carry ur cross, when you were enjoying you didn't inform us

elonmuskbaby:
it sustains it or better still gives it prospects of working/lasting

Let's agree to disagree.

SWATMan:


You are a complete fool for posting this nonsense. You got married to someone you thought was rich but found out that he is poor? It's for better for worse.

You can imagine women.

AjiBussu:
After they have messed up, they will start giving advice upandan. Carry ur cross, when you were enjoying you didn't inform us

Well, could be a two way thing

She probably married him for the wrong reason

If you were deceived into believing he was rich,then it's your fault.
By the way why is the man dressed like a masquerade in the native wear?

You married for the money na

Now money don finish you dey complain

wahala

Ammishaddai:
This fool should take her own advice and stop disturbing us on Nairaland.com

I just don't understand how some people think, she got married to a man she doesn't know where he lives? Na wa o

So in essence she only married him because she thought he was rich Cunning man die cunning man bury am

A liar and a foolish golddigger.. Serves them right..

moralex:
I just don't understand how some people think, she got married to a man she doesn't know where he lives?

That's how stupid some of these girls are. Later they'll come out and say "all men are the same ". Nonsense

Imagine

Ladies that want to get married now should please make thorough research before they get married.”

As if she didn't know this before.

The guy read her like a textbook,got her past questions, and answered accordingly.

IamANigerianMan:

She was looking for a rich man and she found one but now she is crying like newborn baby....

lmao! I laughed so hard reading the bolded.

Vickyvice:
is this a joke?and what is d name of d congregation pls, if u don't mind. Am a witness too. We don't do things way in all ramifications

What do u intend to do with them when u know their congregation. ..

Is a bitter lesson for the sisters seeking soft landing in Marriage

them dey do this format wella for ph.

squat with a guy working on oil rig. bring babe whenever the guy is doing his two weeks on rig. Babe think you are the oyel big boy. everybody buys into the scam. next thing, an ogboju to knack fine gal spirals into belle and then marriage.