Raysleek:
What is love when you just chicken out at the slight opposition. Go to the police. Spend money hire lawyer set him up, fish him out. You have every right to fight over a girl that loves you. Not a girl that doesn't love you and is being threatened. Protect her

Realmi:


U want to fight a guy just because u dont want to be seen as a coward...... over a girl that is not ur family member, just a girl u met few months ago....

Infact....goodluck to u....I am using my advice, I dont have any spare one to give

Onahi95:
Good Morning Fam, I've got this pressing issue that I would very much appreciate your wise counsel to help me solve.

I met a lady about three months ago and we bounded pretty quickly, this oyibo movie kinda love story that the dating starts without anyone doing the toasting and all. I asked her about her relationship status weeks later and she said it was complicated, citing how the relationship has been toxic and she wants to leave but the guy won't let go.

I shaa told her that I won't get involved so let her handle it herself. The guy backed out for a while but has resurfaced recently hell bent on getting the girl back. From the WhatsApp conversation and call recordings the girl sent me she has made it obvious to the guy that she's moved on with another guy but the young man is having none of it. She even offered to return everything he's ever given her but no way.

Now he has resorted to threatening me and the said Lady with death. I've never met this guy and I don't have anything to do with him either. The last thing I want to do is fight over a woman that is not even my wife with another guy reason why I've never interfered in their issues. I have it at the back of my mind that I might still breakup with the girl anytime in the future.

He keeps telling the girl that its either he has her or no one will, that she and whoever is attempting to steal his joy away is playing with their lives. The whole issue is making her scared and confused. I asked her to get a recording of the guy making those death threats so I can use it as an evidence in the police station but he has stylishly been evading it despite the girls best efforts. He suddenly became calm and all apologetic now saying he will pray to God to destroy who ever wants to destroy his relationship after all his investments.

How do you guys think I should handle this issue amicably, I find it embarrassing when men bicker over a lady and never imagined myself getting involved in such. I've considered the option of leaving the lady for him but she really loves me likewise me. In as much as I don't want any issues with anybody, won't it be cowardly of me to hide in a closet while a fellow man threatens me with death.

Candidlady:
Jack died for love TITANIC
Jesus died for love HUMANITY



ain't you a man? Can't you die for love! Cowards everywhere

Onahi95:

The only time I ever fought for a lady was when a guy tried to molest my under aged sister, I don't see myself dying for any lady not even my wife... I just want to take preventive measures for my own safety, if it makes me a coward then so be it.

Realmi:


U want to fight a guy just because u dont want to be seen as a coward...... over a girl that is not ur family member, just a girl u met few months ago....

Infact....goodluck to u....I am using my advice, I dont have any spare one to give

MAGG0T:



You wanna fight dirty be because of a woman?


Sometimes I wonder the kind of weaklings this present generation have got...

Onahi95:

The only time I ever fought for a lady was when a guy tried to molest my under aged sister, I don't see myself dying for any lady not even my wife... I just want to take preventive measures for my own safety, if it makes me a coward then so be it.

Tmberwolf1:

Simple solution.
HUNT HIM AND KILL HIM.... Or permanently render him incapable of doing anything. No one threatens my life and gets to live.

Premiumwriter:
you are the weakling bro.

Sometimes to be a man you have to fight. The man threatening his life is a man like him.

MAGG0T:



I can't fight dirty because of a woman, I'd probably end everything and delete her number...

Now he's receiving death threat, what makes you think the lady won't go back to her ex...after the OP have gone six feet below

Premiumwriter:
you are the weakling bro.

Sometimes to be a man you have to fight. The man threatening his life is a man like him.

Okonandmary:


After you will claim you are redpilled

You want a man to fight over a woman with an over protective SIMP

Like who does that? Infact who fight over a woman, you are not married to

Only idiots do that

Premiumwriter:
spoken like a true coward. what makes you think the op is the one that will go six feet?

You see how fearful of a fellow man you are? Your advice comes from a place of fear.

The point is not that you can't fight dirty because of a woman.

You can't fight for anything. Not even for your life. You are too fearful to face any opposition

Premiumwriter:
I'm redpilled.


That is why I know my worth and also never allow a fellow man push me around.

Okonandmary:


You are not. You want a man to know your worth because of a woman, seems like you look like someone that can go to prison because of a woman

Premiumwriter:
I can go to prison if you threaten to harm me bro.

Whether it's because I won a trophy and you threaten me over it or because a woman chose to be with me.

Once you threatened me, I'm not backing down. It doesn't matter what is involved.

Some of you don't know the difference between been a simp and when people treat you like a door mat they can walk over.

Premiumwriter:
I can go to prison if you threaten to harm me bro.

Whether it's because I won a trophy and you threaten me over it or because a woman chose to be with me.

Once you threatened me, I'm not backing down. It doesn't matter what is involved.

Some of you don't know the difference between been a simp and when people treat you like a door mat they can walk over.

Onahi95:

My plan is to lay a complaint to the police first but I want to get hard evidence, unfortunately the girl recently started using an iPhone so she was finding it difficult to locate the record option while he made the threats, she got him to call on another phone but he suddenly became calm. He has a history of threatening and scaring off any guy that çomes close to the girl, one of the reasons she left him. I've been waiting for him to call me like he does to others but he haven't so far.

Okonandmary:


Seems like you don't value freedom

You are a simp

Ximenez:


You go soon pay for wetin you no buy.
Oyibo movie kinda love indeed.

Discretion is the better part of valor.
Even if you survive it, you'll become an ex sooner or later.

Onahi95:

My exact thought, I don't wanna take action just because a woman in involved, a threat to life should be taken taken seriously regardless of the motive behind it. Moreover the word simp has been bastardized on Nairaland, they come screaming simp at any given issue while they are the real SIMPs always hiding before new monikers to complain of how their girlfriends are treating them like shit.

Premiumwriter:
seriously.

Seeing cowards here advising him to run and hide is disgusting.

A fellow man is threatening your life and mumus are saying he should just run and hide

Premiumwriter:
you call living in fear freedom?

Common man. You should have common sense.

If people can walk over you at will then you are not really alive talk more of having freedom.

Onahi95:
Good Morning Fam, I've got this pressing issue that I would very much appreciate your wise counsel to help me solve.

I met a lady about three months ago and we bounded pretty quickly, this oyibo movie kinda love story that the dating starts without anyone doing the toasting and all. I asked her about her relationship status weeks later and she said it was complicated, citing how the relationship has been toxic and she wants to leave but the guy won't let go.
I shaa told her that I won't get involved so let her handle it herself. The guy backed out for a while but has resurfaced recently hell bent on getting the girl back. From the WhatsApp conversation and call recordings the girl sent me she has made it obvious to the guy that she's moved on with another guy but the young man is having none of it. She even offered to return everything he's ever given her but no way.

Now he has resorted to threatening me and the said Lady with death. I've never met this guy and I don't have anything to do with him either. The last thing I want to do is fight over a woman that is not even my wife with another guy reason why I've never interfered in their issues. I have it at the back of my mind that I might still breakup with the girl anytime in the future.

He keeps telling the girl that its either he has her or no one will, that she and whoever is attempting to steal his joy away is playing with their lives. The whole issue is making her scared and confused. I asked her to get a recording of the guy making those death threats so I can use it as an evidence in the police station but he has stylishly been evading it despite the girls best efforts. He suddenly became calm and all apologetic now saying he will pray to God to destroy who ever wants to destroy his relationship after all his investments.

How do you guys think I should handle this issue amicably, I find it embarrassing when men bicker over a lady and never imagined myself getting involved in such. I've considered the option of leaving the lady for him but she really loves me likewise me. In as much as I don't want any issues with anybody, won't it be cowardly of me to hide in a closet while a fellow man threatens me with death.

Onahi95:

If only you had average comprehension ability, you would have discerned that my post is born out of concern for my own safety not because I want to fight for a girl. As for becoming an ex, you're just stating the obvious because I already mentioned it in my post.