VictorUSA:
Chai!!! I no go feel sleep today.You don kpansh my night with joy. So wetin u won make I shack for you?

hmmmm if I talk am naaaa anyways I will send u a mail so reply oooo or send me one.

VictorUSA:
Chai!!! I no go feel sleep today.You don kpansh my night with joy. So wetin u won make I shack for you?

I just sent u a mail oya check am

Prettygirl200:
hmmmm if I talk am naaaa anyways I will send u a mail so reply oooo or send me one.

Alrght dear I'll do just that.

VictorUSA:
Demigod22 I so much appreciate your wonderful contribution.It means you are a nice guys.

Have you ever been in a no sex relationship? if yes, what are the few takeawys you have for u?

I have been in a no sex relationship before and to be honest and blunt with you, most partners cheat, not all but most of them.

Although, I was very young and she was caring and all that. She calls, send photos and do all that. But at some point, I think she found the relationship boring for lack of sex and since she was the one that brought the no sex policy, she doesn't know how to undo it and I believe she attempted few times to seduce me but it wasn't working. And she ended up cheating.

Apart from my experience, I have had people shared their experience both boys and girls, and most of them complained about the infidelity of their partner. Some people can tell their partner about the no sex just to look decent and command respect from the partner and they ended up cheating with their so called bestie.

For a no sex relationship to work, the agreement must be genuinely accepted by the both parties involved. They should be morally conscious and religiously upright, when you know the effect of fornication or the circumstances that form during sexual intercourse, it will be easier to keep a no sex relationship. It takes the two partners to make it work.

There are lots of other fun things to do in a relationship apart from sex, which I mentioned earlier. If not properly handle, a no sex relationship would end up being like a distance relationship, which is abysmally fraudulent, deceitful and worthless.

Prettygirl200:
I just sent u a mail oya check am

Very sorry, couldn't access it coz it's old email.Pls you can kind send it to baracktough@gmail.com.No vex abeg.

VictorUSA:
Very sorry, couldn't access it coz it's old email.Pls you can kind send it to [b]baracktotgh@gmail.com.No vex abeg[/b]i.

Where will I see this mail from?? I mean is it in this your account??

Demigod22 I admire your intelligence.

Some people do watch porn or masturbate to satisfy their sexual urge.Do you speak for or against? And dnt be offended, do you also watch porn or masturbate?

Prettygirl200:
Where will I see this mail from?? I mean is it in this your account??

No, if you have a phone that can access email, just tap into it and send me but if not, just let me know asap pls.

VictorUSA:
No, if you have a phone that can access email, just tap into it and send me but if not, just let me know asap pls.

couldn't find it!!! Just send to mine

Prettygirl200:
couldn't find it!!! Just send to mine

Okay pls just text me.I'll call very early in the morning...pls just do that.

VictorUSA:
Demigod22 I admire your intelligence.

Some people do watch porn or masturbate to satisfy their sexual urge.Do you speak for or against? And dnt be offended, do you also watch porn or masturbate?

Personally, I don't watch porn neither do I masturbate. I am a lover of movie, I read Theatre Arts in school so I watched movies a lot. Throughout my years, I have never watched porn nor have porn in my phone before, I find it uninteresting to watch others have sex. It makes me a Viewer and I don't like it.

About the masturbating, I don't see the need to. Although, it has health implications too especially when addicted to it.

I can't impose my opinion on others since we are all adults and have right to do certain things. Practically, some sex experts will advise couple to watch porn to spice up their sex life and all that. Personally, since I am not married yet and I am not having sex, I don't see any need to watch porn, encourage porn or support watching porn. So I don't watch porn and I don't encourage singles to watch porn since it will trigger them to go and have illegal sex which is morally wrong.

Masturbating is a no for me too. When the urge comes, with time it will go too. It's disgusting for me to be touching myself for sensation. I don't encourage that either.

Thank you so much for that wonderful contribution.I hope you wouldn't feel pissed off by my question.

Some people are in a no sex relationship but do smooch, kiss, amorously cuddle each other.What have you to say about that? Do you also do thesame?

Demigod22

Prettygirl200 pls check your text message and reply me.

jawalis:
It’s not been easy but I’m not fvcking until I marry wumi2017

Sweetheart

wumi2017:


Sweetheart

Good morning baby. I’ve been dreaming about you. How’ve you been

VictorUSA:
Thank you so much for that wonderful contribution.I hope you wouldn't feel pissed off by my question.

Some people are in a no sex relationship but do smooch, kiss, amorously cuddle each other.What have you to say about that? Do you also do thesame?

Demigod22

I have kissed before and I have cuddle before but I have never smooch. Although, the relationship was not a no sex relationship. Both the girl and I was in the relationship and we never discussed about sex. I believe if it should happen it should naturally and I believe she has the same thought too.

But then she was a virgin and I was not ready to do anything funny with her. I admire sexual purity and encourage abstinence. We kissed a night before she travelled like a sort of goodbye treat.

We are humans and we have feelings, sometimes, our emotions can blurr our sense of reasoning. Things like kissing, cuddling and smooching, especially when done in a private setting can trigger reaction. If you can not control the urge or if you think you are vulnerable and you are determine to be sexually pure, you shouldn't engage in such act because it can easily prompt sexual activities between the two lovers.

As adults, if the two parties can handle the situation then they can do it. But like my mother would say, you don't bring the meat you doesn't want to eat close to your mouth.

Demigod22 thanks for that wonderful contribution.I strongly believe anyone who comes to this thread must learn alot from your wonderful contributions.I believe you are highly educated.

Q: do you hold the perception that virging guys must marry a virgin lady? Do you crave to marry a virgin?

VictorUSA:
Demigod22 thanks for that wonderful contribution.I strongly believe anyone who comes to this thread must learn alot from your wonderful contributions.I believe you are highly educated.

Q: do you hold the perception that virging guys must marry a virgin lady? Do you crave to marry a virgin?

Personally, I don't crave to marry a virgin and I don't believe in the virgin marrying a virgin. Marriage is beyond virginity, when I want to marry, I want a girl that is highly intelligent because I am sapiosexual. A productive lady, with sense of humor, a discipline lady, selfless and humane.

People make mistakes and I can't judge people by their past because they are the only ones that understand the circumstances that led to that mistake. We have people who are virgin through vagina, but have anal sex, MouthAction and all that. Character should be put into consideration above a piece of hymen.

I will choose someone who is not a virgin but will guarantee me my peace of mind over a virgin that will be boring and a threat to my mental health.

Demigod22 Thank you for your for that selfless and wonderful contribution.

Finally, what advice will you give people like us that are still coming up as virgins?

ObamaMessi:
LadiesForever, thank you so much for this kind gesture.

That issue that made Khiaw fought me was just a fiction.Intend to write a book and get it published in the US, I contacted one of Literary Agents in Trident Media Group, New York, he asked if people's view of the book is good.Good in the sense that the stronger the emotion of people towards the hook,the higher chances of sales.He asked me to present comps (comparables) to the book but I failed to do that.The agent advised me to work on my writing skills, increase my knowledge of figurative xpression, grammar and all that.He had a good view of the book and said the title(In Love With A Little Girl) was thrilling.So it wasn't true; I wanted to get something out of it.

And guess what, my uncle who recides in Houston, Texas in the US saw the post and the subsequent feud between me and satanist,DrMrsFunmi and was angered.He knew my username but I don't know his own.I guess my sister let him know coz she's a regular visitor in nairaland and she know me

Hmmm, your case is quite touching.

I was born in Austin, Texas. It's a small city/Town in Texas. It's nothing like Houston which is way bigger.

Forget about your Uncle and thnk more about helping yourself. That way, no one will disappoint in life.
If he likes let him help if not fine.
Don't sit and wat for him.

One more thing...
There is something you don't seem to get.

Anything that has to do with sex with a child.. a minor that doesn't understand what is going on... is a taboo in normal society.
Weather it comes as a reality, a story or just a film... it is frowned upon.
People hate it and most find it utterly disgusting.

If you write that book you will never sell it anywhere.

Just leave the thing alone bro. Forget it. Avoid it.
Anyone telling you to write such a book is MAD.

Please leave Khiaa alone. She's a nice lady. it was the way you wrote that story that made her attack you.

Forget the whole thing and move on.

But more importantly try to make yourself happy and busy too.

Remember, the idle or depressed mind is the devil's workshop.

Cheers!

jawalis:

Good morning baby. I’ve been dreaming about you. How’ve you been

Awwwwwww �...I'm good sweetie
And yours

wumi2017:

Awwwwwww �...I'm good sweetie
And yours

I missed you so much baby

VictorUSA:
Demigod22 Thank you for your for that selfless and wonderful contribution.

Finally, what advice will you give people like us that are still coming up as virgins?

Those who are coming up as virgin should prioritize sexual purity. Life is beyond sexual gratification especially when they are not married.

Sex have the ability to destroy one's life. From teenage pregnancy, unwanted pregnancy, STDs. Sex have spiritual implications, when you come in contact with some people sexually, you can be destroyed.

Just be focus on achieving your goals. If you are into relationship, do it with someone that share the same ideas, belief with you.

Demigod22 Thank you for that wonderful response.

I'd like to connect with you offline.It's important to me.I'd like to quote/mention you at any time if I have some questions.

Thanks alot.

LadiesForever you live in The Lone Star State, how's Greg Abott? Appreciate you so much.

Not puting hope on uncle.He's footing the bill for our feeding since we lost our dad.I've droped about that book.I want to graduate and hold a bachelor's degree first.I want to go for my Master's in the US, but ASUU strike wont let us be in the hall.I should have hearken to victor usa(High School met)'s advice to apply to a private university.He stood for me when DrMrsFunmi was attacking me and Datboredberri.

I never had personal problem with KiaW becos I know it's just not real.

When I go for my Master's I must make sure I obtain a green card.I'll get my first book published in New York and you will be a special guest during the launching.

jawalis:

I missed you so much baby

Miss you too mi amor

VictorUSA:
Demigod22 Thank you for that wonderful response.

I'd like to connect with you offline.It's important to me.I'd like to quote/mention you at any time if I have some questions.

Thanks alot.

You are welcome bro, and thanks for finding my worthy to be part of the thread and thanks for giving me platform to voice out my opinion. I appreciate. I am Demigod Francis on Facebook.

ObamaMessi:
LadiesForever you live in The Lone Star State, how's Greg Abott? Appreciate you so much.

Not puting hope on uncle.He's footing the bill for our feeding since we lost our dad.I've droped about that book.I want to graduate and hold a bachelor's degree first.I want to go for my Master's in the US, but ASUU strike wont let us be in the hall.I should have hearken to victor usa(High School met)'s advice to apply to a private university.He stood for me when DrMrsFunmi was attacking me and Datboredberri.

I never had personal problem with KiaW becos I know it's just not real.

When I go for my Master's I must make sure I obtain a green card.I'll get my first book published in New York and you will be a special guest during the launching.

Ever read one of these stories on Nairaland where Nigerian parents living overseas send a stubborn kid back home to learn discipline? In my own case I got shipped straight from Texas to my village in Imo state at age 13 .
Stayed with Grandma for a year farming till my palms peeled off, doing all kinds of crazy work and getting beaten with skill before my uncle bailed me and took me to Lagos.
Today, I live in Lekki, Lagos and I'm street smart.


I want.. I want .. and I want...
This part of your comment show you are still day dreaming about life.

Listen, Life almost never happens as we want it.

Don't depend on anyone and don't waste your time accumulating scholastic excellence that may not guarantee job availability when you are done. I have friends who regent wasting years doing masters and Ph.D. They are the ones that sweep trains in Germany and London. Some even clear gutters here in Lagos. Just open a thread and see the crap highly educated people are doing now.

The world is not easy. If yu can't fight you'll be buried.

Victor's advice was ok but...do you have money for fees at a private university? They are expensive... check well.
If you are sure you or your uncle can pay then it's not too late to switch schools. The ASUU strike may run for months yet!


Khiaa is stubborn and full of high standards of all kinds but nice. She will always attack you with passion if she catches you displaying that mindset with which you wrote that story. Good to hear you've dropped it

Stop dreaming, Ok. The reality is that you will have to fight to get anything you want in life and many of them will still elude you.

And try to heal please. It's so obvious that Satanist left scars on you.

Demigod22:


You are welcome bro, and thanks for finding my worthy to be part of the thread and thanks for giving me platform to voice out my opinion. I appreciate. I am .... on Facebook.

Thanks.I'll search you asap!

LadiesForever I sincerely appreciate the fact that you understand life well deeper than I do, and believe that it's not only because you are older than me but also because you take a very critical looks at life.But I want you to understand that people's way of doing things and achieving goals aren't thesame, that's why we were born to at different times to different parent in different places.We have different perceptions about life and it works for us.

I'm on scholarship, the church pays for my tuition and promised a monthly stipend of N20k, but eversince the strike began, I saw nothing.Changing to a private uni will make us liabilty to the church.Uncle knows am on scholarship, but at the start of the strike he insisted I go to the US to learn work.If I do that, ain't seeing when to start uni again and all my dreams will be shattered.

As for your friend KhiaW, I never habor any grudge on her.Honestly, I admire the fact that she fought what was against the societal norm.

No Satanist never hurt me for once

ObamaMessi:
LadiesForever I sincerely appreciate the fact that you understand life well deeper than I do, and believe that it's not only because you are older than me but also because you take a very critical looks at life.But I want you to understand that people's way of doing things and achieving goals aren't thesame, that's why we were born to at different times to different parent in different places.We have different perceptions about life and it works for us.

I'm on scholarship, the church pays for my tuition and promised a monthly stipend of N20k, but eversince the strike began, I saw nothing.Changing to a private uni will make us liabilty to the church.Uncle knows am on scholarship, but at the start of the strike he insisted I go to the US to learn work.If I do that, ain't seeing when to start uni again and all my dreams will be shattered.

As for your friend KhiaW, I never habor any grudge on her.Honestly, I admire the fact that she fought what was against the societal norm.

No Satanist never hurt me for once

Nice to see you understand life too to a great extent.
Thing is so complicated. Even those of us who think we know end up losing out now and then.

If you have the chance to go to the USA to do any manner of work please do.
That's one place you can work and school well at the same time.

Peaceful and calm as you are you'll find that Khiaa won't bother you much. It's Satanist that will. Just leave him alone.
Leave everything alone and be yourself. Nairaland no dey pay.

MadamVanessa:



A lady who is chronic masturbator with all types of sex gadgets but has never slept with a man before , can she be considered a virgin?

No she can't she has used the sex tool to disvirgin herself. Once a girl looses her virginity if not by accident then she can no longer be considered a virgin