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My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by akpunda86: 3:07pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
Hi all .I have a helper staying with us 15years,she no dey even see me nor recognise me as the head of the house expect my wife. The thing dey piss me off. 1) I was collecting soup from the pot took meat,kai this girl reported me to my wife.I warned her . 2) This girl in serving me food just drop food on table and go sometimes put water sometimes not. 3)All my movement this girl tell my wife, The thing don do me everything got a limit,sent her going today,all this helpers believe one can't do without them,I told my wife Na she cause am cos gave the girl 2much soft hand.She have reached her village . Helper never insult me like dat bf 13 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Kobojunkie: 3:10pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
akpunda86:ROFLMAO ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Your wife probably hired siofra's distant cousin as a help. I am just messing abeg! ![]() Op, what did you do to the gal? Are you sure you don't look like an arch enemy of hers? ![]() 27 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Candidlady: 3:10pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
Mr talk Truth!!! Having a lady as a house keeper!!! Never trust all these men!!! Again talk Truth 7 Likes |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Kestolove(m): 3:12pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
U Don go make she cut kpekus give u B4 abi? Coz na d tin wey fit bring that disrespect be that 13 Likes |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by illicit(m): 3:14pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
Candidlady: ![]() |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Candidlady: 3:15pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
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Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Mooh247: 3:16pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
Candidlady: Kestolove: See them defending the upcoming 15 year old feminist Regardless of any familiarity, your boss still remains your boss, if you like your Job . 7 Likes |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by illicit(m): 3:17pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
Candidlady: U can trust me u can let me thrust u.... ![]() ![]() |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Kobojunkie: 3:18pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
Mooh247:Nah! That's bullsheet abeg! ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Mariangeles(f): 3:19pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
She was simply obeying orders to give you close marking . It's a good thing you sent her away. 2 Likes |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Mooh247: 3:21pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Even if I hire my Ex girlfriend that has seen me naked countless time to work for me... As long as am paying her and paying in full, she dare not disrespect me. Justice Atinuke Ige was an High court Judge, while Bola Ige was just a Lawyer, and many times when Bola Ige tries to step out of line in her court, she reprimands him instantly 9 Likes |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Dalil8: 3:22pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
U better ask ur wife wetin she dey tell dat girl behind ur back. Na d only thing wey fit cause dis kind disrespect. 10 Likes |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Candidlady: 3:24pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
Mooh247: He stopped being her boss when he had something intimate to do with her! Do you know what boundaries are at all ![]() ![]() And by familiarity you meant smashing the 15 year old girl ba? 8 Likes |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Kobojunkie: 3:24pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
Mooh247:This is instead in the home. The same rules don't necessarily apply as far as we humans are concerned when it comes to the home where the rules of familiarity instead rule. ![]() Also, the wife may have given the gal in question her matching orders in this, which might explain why she saw the wife, and not the husband, as boss in this. ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Mooh247: 3:32pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
Candidlady: He stopped being her boss when he signed her termination letter, or stopped paying her salary... Intimacy isn't an excuse for rudeness and disrespect. And I never implied familiarity was smashing a 15 year old ( arguably cos age of marriage and consent in Nigeria is 13, and Islamically 15 years is as ripe as an 18 year old ) Fact that anything might have happened (which we don't know) with her consent doesn't suddenly make the Man deserving of bad treatment 2 Likes |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Mooh247: 3:33pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Yeah... The wife is the principal suspect in all this, the girl must have been acting on an information she has on the man 1 Like |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by akpunda86: 3:41pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Haha I did her noting shez gone after 2 years with us |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by DaddyRochie1642: 3:46pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
This is very funny ![]() I'll curse my own son if he ever refuses to man up and be the man of his home. 2 Likes |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by eddynaira125: 3:49pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
The Matter na two ways Either your wife employ her with a strict order to monitor your entire activities Or You throw your shot to get your share of national p√ssy 3 Likes |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Candidlady: 3:50pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
Mooh247: You never answered my question bout boundaries! That girl wouldn't dare disrespect him except she got something on him! Legal age iknow is 18 idont know why you are trying justify a paedophile! Playing the Islam age consent on me just shows how petty y'all men can be just to get away with sick acts And your last paragraph is just so disheartening!!! You have a daughter of 15 who is serving as a help would you say that? HE HAD SEX WITH HER CONSENT... A married man prolly with kids ! 6 Likes |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Kobojunkie: 3:53pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
akpunda86:She did that for two years and it never occurred to you that your wife definitely knows why the gal dey act that way towards you? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by shepherd003: 3:58pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
How does your wife treat you infront of her. 3 Likes |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Mooh247: 4:06pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
Candidlady: Please ooo, don't put words in my mouth or misconstrue my statement I said this "And I never implied familiarity was smashing a 15 year old" [/qoute] Not You have a daughter of 15 who is serving as a help would you say that? HE HAD SEX WITH HER CONSENT... That being clarified with the disclaimer above To answer you regarding boundaries.... Nothing in what the O.P said implied that any boundary was crossed except having few interactions in the kitchen when he went to get some extra meat from the pot and I don't think that's bad So before things get spinned to something else, nothing brings "SEX" "Pedophile" or "Sexual Assualt" into these thread .. Na gode!! Ina fata kana lafiya ?!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by habsydiamond(m): 4:07pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
Na ur wife ooo.. Na how she tell the girl to dey act she dey do oo.. No blame the girl.. In short, ur wife no trust u.. All u mentioned can only happen if ur wife is the only one paying the bills, buying foodstuffs if not.. Your wife don teach that girl bad thing oo |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:18pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
your wife is the problem here as she should be the one teaching that demon child to behave and how to treat the oga at the top! your wife should be the one putting that girl in her place every time she does wrong. |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Candidlady: 4:30pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
Mooh247: inalafiya nagode We good!!! You one of em from that region that irespect ![]() But wait let's drift a lil bit.. ain't it against the law for a kid of 15 to be a maid? Child labour 1 Like |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Mooh247: 4:35pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
Candidlady: ![]() It is actually a crime that can get both the O.P, His wife and the girls parent in serious trouble .. NAPTIP lawyers are looking for who to use to shine.. if I were the O.P I'll simply edit the Maid and put relative or family 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by obo389(m): 5:07pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Maybe the OP no dey drop money for house sef ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by 1869ei: 5:18pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
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