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Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by 1869jo: 5:20pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
[s] Mooh247:[/s] |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by rickleye: 5:21pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
akpunda86: Well such things never just change overnight. If you really claim to be incharge whats stopping you from asking her to leave at the end of the month and get someone else ? But it seems to me that you made an advance at her which she declined and now she has the upper hand. I've seen this movie before. Before you get her pregnant - let her go. |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by 1869km: 5:23pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
[s] Mooh247:[/s] |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Jeon(f): 5:27pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
she has androphobia..
I don't blame her, because men are not trusted... 2 Likes |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Samueltemi337(m): 6:02pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
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Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by akpunda86: 6:49pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
rickleye: Advance Ke for 15 years haba |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by ruggedtimi(m): 7:02pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
My little relative living with us tried same with me, anything I do for house she dey reason mother. She try am one day na for my mumcy front I gave her sound warning, since then she no Try am again. |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Chidi2022: 7:10pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
Mooh247:Kip on deceiving yourself..... respect is earned and reciprocal..... You don't force respect.... A 60year old man, who married a 18year old girl, should not expect the young girl to call him grandpa.... 2 Likes |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Realist12: 7:22pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
Everyone keeps thinking all men are randy , in reality some of this ladies are spoilt and keep expecting you to make a move , when they see you are not interested they try to create the impression of avoiding you and disrespecting you. Talking from experience. 2 Likes |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by rickleye: 7:24pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
akpunda86: Ha! You never see girl 15 years looking matured and well endowed. One thing leads to another , bros, you just don’t know. |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by akpunda86: 7:46pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
rickleye: Bros I no be paedophile ohh |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by DaInferno(m): 8:16pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
akpunda86:weldone...man wey sabi take decision! ![]() |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by JovialJune(f): 8:49pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
Realist12: So are you saying the reason why the maid is disrespectful to Op and reporting his every move to his wife is because Op didn't make a move at her ![]() How old are you ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Realist12: 9:07pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
JovialJune:not in every situation. But it happens . |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by rickleye: 9:49pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Clinghton: 9:53pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
She's a double agent, a spy sent on a mission by your wife. |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by dawnomike(m): 10:22pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
akpunda86:That was how my housemaid was misbehaving till her face her the stern warning of her life... |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by armyofone(m): 11:21pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
akpunda86: What is the need of 15 years old as house help? What are you not able to do in your house that requires you to have a live in help ? Now see - she is "helping" and monitoring you ![]() Or Show you can do without them by joining in the housework. Maybe then wifey wouldn't need them. |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Vision101(m): 1:31am On Apr 22, 2022 |
@Candidlady Mr talk Truth!!! Having a lady as a house keeper!!! Never trust all these men!!! Again talk Truth @me What are you insinuating? ![]() |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by akpunda86: 4:03am On Apr 22, 2022 |
Mooh247: Wch NAPTIP ,abeg I no commit crime. |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by akpunda86: 4:16am On Apr 22, 2022 |
As sleep no gree me reading comments here make me laugh and vex.make advance on 15yrs MBA Nu while escort sites full for home service. I don sufffer,we staying in a 2 bedroom apartment,funny funny enuff,I stay with wify and kids in one room while nxt one is for visitors or where I stay to read when kids war start.Since girl came we gave her d room while I sleep in palor atimes for night.with her presence,the inconvenience is much but enduring it makes me angry. Note my wife got some health challenges so d girl saw it and believes we cant do without her. On the positive side shez very hardworking just the Nurf Respect I need not dr. I told wify no more helpers ,is we split task among ourselves. I wish d young girl best of luck wherever she is. |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by edogu(m): 6:22am On Apr 22, 2022 |
akpunda86:Until you stop behaving like a houseboý and start acting like the owner of the house, the insult will continue. 1 Like |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by jkuvira: 7:14am On Apr 22, 2022 |
akpunda86: I've read this over and over. There's nowhere I presume the OP made advances to the 15yr old girl, talk less of implying anything of the sort. So I wonder where some of you are getting the 'he is a pedophile; he must have asked her for sex and she refused, hence his fault finding' reasoning from. Why should you have to derail a thread because you want to avoid a simple discussion. The help is plain rude, no mincing of words. If she does this and he looks the other way, what happens when her wings solidify? She'll talk back at him? He should be walking on eggshells around the maid hired to help around his house? You guys should be moderate in whatever philosophy we believe in as a rule of life. You should know when to call a spade a spade, to speak the truth that is right in front of you. |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by TheWolfen(m): 7:38am On Apr 22, 2022 |
Honestly I hate disrespect especially when I have done nothing to deserve it. Op You have patience o. If nah me. I will investigate and send the house help back to her parents right away. Even my wife self go collet her own for body. |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by TheWolfen(m): 7:44am On Apr 22, 2022 |
jkuvira: Fish brains people are the ones that always presume things that didn't happen. Op never said he made sexual advances to the underage house help. Some set of people can't just deal with the truth. They would rather throw insult. |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by jkuvira: 8:05am On Apr 22, 2022 |
TheWolfen: They should just rest. If someone talks they'll label the person -phobic. Finding a balance is key. Even if you were looking for a loophole in his story, find the one that is applicable in this scenario so you don't sound like a bandwagon and you drag others into a fight they didn't ask for and, clearly wasn't needed. 1 Like |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by emmanuelbrown26: 8:10am On Apr 22, 2022 |
Mariangeles:First time of making sense on nairaland |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Mariangeles(f): 8:42am On Apr 22, 2022 |
emmanuelbrown26: Don't you ever get tired of sounding like a broken record? This is like what? The millionth "first time of making sense on blablabla" coming from you. Zukwanu ike nwoke a! I kariala omume ndi a. |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by emmanuelbrown26: 8:57am On Apr 22, 2022 |
Mariangeles:I said d truth, why are u bittered with d truth |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by Reggaemich(m): 1:43pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
The househelp may have seen the way your wife talks to u OR The househelp may believe your wife does not have respect for u, through your ranting, communication with your wife. So she believes your wife is the hot or tough type, while you the Op are the soft type or gentle This reason may make the housemaid have little regard for u |
Re: My House Help No Dey See Me As House Owner by 123papas(m): 5:48pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Your househelp wants to straff you and getting frustrated. Oil dey your head. |
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