Most people say don't hit your wife no matter what.

They say when she makes you angry, you should leave the house and go somewhere else to cool off.


This to me is the most impractical and probably the most dangerous advice we can give ourselves.


But then in this generation we prefer patching things up rather than fix them.

Most men will continue leaving the house if provoked but we all know everyone have a breaking point, a point where you just can't leave anymore.

More so, leaving the house doesn't mean you've fixed the issues in the marriage. A woman will easily provoke her man when she knows all he can do is to leave the house for her.

This can lead to bottled up emotions in the man. All the time the woman insults and frustrates him. He bottles up those feelings and leaves without ever expressing them.

Need I tell you that bottled up anger is more dangerous than anything else? When that man eventually reaches his breaking point, that woman's face will be very swollen.

And then, you people on social media will see it and shout 'crucify him, crucify him, he's a beast, he's not a real man, crucify him'.

Who stands for that man all through the time he has been provoked for so many years? No one.

Who understands the many times he had gone to sleep in his friends house with shame unable to even talk to them or look them in their eyes?

None of you.

All I can say is, if you are a woman in your marriage and your man is constantly walking away from each quarrel and you feel you have all the power, please be careful.

Bottled emotions is very real and potent. It may consume you and him someday.

Learn to not provoke your man. As a man no one will listen to you after beating your wife. It's the sad reality.

Just be careful. If you can't take it any longer, look for divorce.


Seriously, we men need to look out more for each other.


If you are a SIMP please don't comment here.

OP, So what re u saying in essence?

Vinnie2000:
OP, So what re u saying in essence?

sorry it wasn't meant for you.

The problem is, some women won't even let you walk away in peace... They'd instead, hold your shirt or trousers and scream "you must kill me today!" Some would practically hit the man's fist with their faces.

EmptyGarden:
The problem is, some women won't even let you walk away in peace... They'd instead, hold your shirt or trousers and scream "you must kill me today!" Some would practically hit the man's fist with their faces.

What will he gets in return?

Someone even asked this OP "so on essence what should be done" and the OP became immediately became defensive.

So much for giving advice when you couldn't even take criticism—the question wasn't even criticism but you dey pile up essay make we come learn.

Abeg gettat.

Op, l don't think you are a married man,
One of my boss then had an argument with his hot tempered wife,

In the heat of everything, he left home even the wife want to drag cloth with him but after few hours he came back.

By that time the wife was saying sorry

Now to me, the day my wife provoke me l know if l stay more enough in the house, am likely to do what l have never done in past five years of marriage

I left home and l thank God say she understand the body language

Above all walkout of heat and hot argument make your temper calm down and save you from "had l know, l would have walkout" story

T3ndrils:
Someone even asked this OP "so on essence what should be done" and the OP .

now read what you typed here and see if it has the same meaning as the below quote you are talking about

Vinnie2000:
OP, So what re u saying in essence?

Some of you are just in a hurry to talk instead of first connecting your brain to your mouth before talking.

ebenezary:
Op, l don't think you are a married man,
One of my boss then had an argument with his hot tempered wife,

In the heat of everything, he left home even the wife want to drag cloth with him but after few hours he came back.

By that time the wife was saying sorry

Now to me, the day my wife provoke me l know if l stay more enough in the house, am likely to do what l have never done in past five years of marriage

I left home and l thank God say she understand the body language

Above all walkout of heat and hot argument make your temper calm down and save you from "had l know, l would have walkout" story

I'm not married. That you are right.

I'm glad you are able to walk out and it worked well for you. You're the man.

But I'm writing this because no be everyone woman be like your woman o.

Like that ambassador that was relieved of his post. His wife na something else

One of the reason why i kick people with my rain boot


Damn... nasty... I’m out of here

People have different temperaments and limits, if you know still being there in the peak of anger can make you go physical or violent, its better you leave the house and go somewhere else to cool off. Then when the anger is down you can iron things out. So its not totally a wrong approach, different strokes for different folks.

He asked you that reason being that you gave no solution or conclusion
Yes don't. Leave the house. What should the men do...?



"In essence "

Premiumwriter:
now read what you typed here and see if it has the same meaning as the below quote you are talking about



Some of you are just in a hurry to talk instead of first connecting your brain to your mouth before talking.

SHUT UP! As the Op, you would have put down @least 3 ways men can handle a quarellsome wife. Instead, you went on a Meaningless Rigmarole,

dhiqson:
He asked you that reason being that you gave no solution or conclusion
Yes don't. Leave the house. What should the men do...?



"In essence "

Dont mind him! Putting down a volumninous/Lengthy post without proferring any solution!

Vinnie2000:
SHUT UP! As the Op, you would have put down @least 3 ways men can handle a quarellsome wife. Instead, you went on a Meaningless Rigmarole,

lolz.

See entitled mentality na.


And we say only girls feel entitled

dhiqson:
He asked you that reason being that you gave no solution or conclusion
Yes don't. Leave the house. What should the men do...?



"In essence "

bros it's not my fault you can't comprehend things.


Or do I need to spoon feed you with numbered points? Grow up.

Vinnie2000:
Dont mind him! Putting down a volumninous/Lengthy post without proferring any solution!

this one still dey cry upandan

T3ndrils post=112184367:
Someone even asked this OP "so on essence what should be done" and the OP became immediately became defensive.

So much for giving advice when you couldn't even take criticism—the question wasn't even criticism but you dey pile up essay make we come learn.

Abeg gettat.

You guys are always quick to find faults where there is none.
You just twisted what that guy said to suit your narrative.
Below is actually what that guy said ;

"OP, So what re u saying in essence? "

Now,read that,does that sound like someone who is serious to discuss something reasonable about what the OP wrote ?
The response he got from the op is apt,because it's actually a waste of time engaging someone who don't want to be serious on a serious discuss.

If you consider that response a criticism [ either constructive or destructive],then you need to educate yourself on what criticism is.

IamV:


You guys are always quick to find faults where there is none.
You just twisted what that guy said to suit your narrative.
Below is actually what that guy said ;

"OP, So what re u saying in essence? "

Now,read that,does that sound like someone who is serious to discuss something reasonable about what the OP wrote ?
The response he got from the op is apt,because it's actually a waste of time engaging someone who don't want to be serious on a serious discuss.

If you consider that response a criticism [ either constructive or destructive],then you need to educate yourself on what criticism is.

TRY COMPREHEND THINGS BETTER. What i was asking the OP is what should married Men now do. Having no answer, he quickly buried his head in the sands!

Vinnie2000:
TRY COMPREHEND THINGS BETTER. What i was asking the OP is what should married Men now do. Having no answer, he quickly buried his head in the sands!

I suggest,you should learn to rephrase your question(s) better.

You write people off as "waste of time" because you quickly judged him and failed to understand why he asked the question and you dey behind keypads dey quote me trash.

You get offended when wetin you support dey challenged—then you support the person be written off—instead of bringing more facts.

Your question dey very irrelevant just as the argument wey you wan start.

IamV:


You guys are always quick to find faults where there is none.
You just twisted what that guy said to suit your narrative.
Below is actually what that guy said ;

"OP, So what re u saying in essence? "

Now,read that,does that sound like someone who is serious to discuss something reasonable about what the OP wrote ?
The response he got from the op is apt,because it's actually a waste of time engaging someone who don't want to be serious on a serious discuss.

If you consider that response a criticism [ either constructive or destructive],then you need to educate yourself on what criticism is.

Abeg gettat again

Offer solutions.

And after that.

Gettat.

Premiumwriter:
now read what you typed here and see if it has the same meaning as the below quote you are talking about



Some of you are just in a hurry to talk instead of first connecting your brain to your mouth before talking.

T3ndrils:
You write people off as "waste of time" because you quickly judged him and failed to understand why he asked the question and you dey behind keypads dey quote me trash.

You get offended when wetin you support dey challenged—then you support the person be written off—instead of bringing more facts.

Your question dey very irrelevant just as the argument wey you wan start.

Can't deal with blabbing, tonight.
Good night.

T3ndrils:
Abeg gettat again
Offer solutions.
And after that.
Gettat.

entitlement is a disease

Nah mate

Your thinking is an epidemic.

Premiumwriter:
entitlement is a disease

T3ndrils:
Nah mate
Your thinking is an epidemic.

you even know the meaning of epidemic?

Cos na your rotten sense dey see am as blabbing that's why you had to write a long epistle of rubbish which you couldn't defend.

You dey use another account to come at me.

Weak.

IamV:


Can't deal with blabbing, tonight.
Good night.

Some men are just too weak and that's why their wives beat them up.I can't give a woman such little chance.

T3ndrils:
Cos na your rotten sense dey see am as blabbing that's why you had to write a long epistle of rubbish which you couldn't defend.

You dey use another account to come at me.

Weak.

My Brother, relax jare.

IamV is sensible.

But you see the OP, him head nor correct. He is a confused fellow. A Dingbat, according to Daddy freeze

T3ndrils:
Cos na your rotten sense dey see am as blabbing that's why you had to write a long epistle of rubbish which you couldn't defend.

You dey use another account to come at me.

Weak.

Are you done ?
When you're done,do have a wonderful night .

Orgasmgiver123:
One of the reason why i kick people with my rain boot


Damn... nasty... I’m out of here

Bet blos, how much you buy this rain boot nor?