Good day friends, I was checking for another thing online 3days ago. And I saw my very good friend's name boldly written by the sex video only for me to open it to discover that it was her.

She got married few months back. and the date the video was uploaded online was just about two months to her wedding. And I'm very sure she's not even aware of it and if the husband accidentally see this video. Definitely the woman will be sent out.

I have not been able to tell her because of how she will react to it. pls what's your opinion on this matter on ground. I just wonder how will a matured woman will allowed herself to be filmed. Stay one place them go say no, see what going from one dick to the other has landed her. Pls should I tell her or face my front?

You were checking another thing on a porn site?

Anyways, she is a cheat. Justice for the husband. If a man is the accused here, misguided females will shout "All men are scum".

Kobojunkie:
The OP said the video was uploaded 2 months before her marriage, not that it was made 2 months prior. So how did we conclude the woman is a cheat abeg?,

Did her courtship (engagement) with her husband last for only two months before she officially got married to him? In other words, did she date her husband for only two months before they got married?

If the sex video was recorded before she began to date her husband, she should show her husband the video to prove it happened when she had not met the husband. And if this is the case, the husband will be a fool to maltreat her because of the video. I believe you will not form this your logic if the accused is a male.

If the woman did the act before meeting her husband and the video is online, it is safer for her to confess to her husband. And if the husband tortures her because of it, sane and honest people will defend her. As a matter of fact, if she has been a sincere wife, the husband will understand. But if she did the act while in a serious relationship with her husband and if she has been doing shady things even in her marriage, the video will put her in trouble.

ADDED:
When you make up your mind to date or marry a non-virgin, whether you are a man or a woman, do not punish the partner for his or her past except the partner lied about the past and you later discovered the truth. It also applies to virgins because fornication is not the only immoral act a human can commit. If the partner had evidently repented before you started with him or her and the partner disclosed the past to you, forgive the partner's past. This is why you should first take time to study someone before starting a relationship with the person, so you will have an idea of what the person might have done in the past. The problem is people rush into relationships expecting their partners to have lived as saints in the past. When they later discover one ugly thing about the partner's past, they will run. Of cause, most of those who rush into relationships do it just to satisfy their lust and their materialism.

Every sinner has a future and every saint has a past. This is why I will willingly and sincerely narrate my past to my future wife. And I will ask her about her own past, though I believe I will get the type of girl who will tell me her past without waiting for me to ask her about it. If you tell your spouse your past, a disturbance from an ex will not cause a serious problem in your marriage. This is because your partner already knows what happened between you and the ex. In this case, the public that expects the disturbance to drive your spouse crazy and break your marriage will be disappointed. But when you lie about or hide your past and your ex later reveals something, the trust your partner has in you will begin to wither. Those who say "Do not ask about my past" have neither repented from their bad habits nor are remorseful for the ugly things they have done. They are the type that change partners as often as humans change cloths. This makes it very risky for them to reveal their pasts to their new partners. But those who carefully and patiently select partners never have the whole world as exes, and can hardly be in danger for revealing their pasts to new partners.

immortalcrown:
You were checking another thing on a porn site?

the chrisland stuff now

When past sins hunt us down, God save us

I think it would be much better to face your front.

Send the link of the vid to her.

She Will know what to do next

Yarn the husby lowokan... That's a fvcking hoe.

Visocrate:
When past sins hunt us down, God save us

most people will think it's enjoyment, see the problem. They will think they are smart if her husband eventually stumble on the site and name I just wonder what will be her fate. Union that's not up to a year now

Tell her so that she can get it removed before the husband will also decide to “search for another thing “

Acme45:
I just wonder how will a matured woman will allowed herself to be filmed. Stay one place them go say no, see what going from one dick to the other has landed her. Pls should I tell her or face my front?

Did she record the video herself or did it look like she was aware she was being recorded? If yes, then let her know of the existence of the video.

A woman has a right to date whomever she wants to, same as a man does. Unless you can prove that she consented to having the video made in order for it for it to be distributed the way it was, I suggest you understand instead that your so-called friend's right is what has been violated here.

Visocrate:
When past sins hunt us down, God save us

What was her particular sin here?

Is the woman in question married to a virgin? Did she tell him she was a virgin before this?

immortalcrown:
You were checking another thing on a porn site?

Anyways, she is a cheat. Justice for the husband. If a man is the accused here, misguided females will shout "All men are scum".

The OP said the video was uploaded 2 months before her marriage, not that it was made 2 months prior. So how did we conclude the woman is a cheat abeg?,

Acme45:
most people will think it's enjoyment, see the problem. They will think they are smart if her husband eventually stumble on the site and name I just wonder what will be her fate. Union that's not up to a year now

Exactly what sin did your friend commit abeg?

Kobojunkie:
Did she record the video herself or did it look like she was aware she was being recorded? If yes, then let her know of the existence of the video.

A woman has a right to date whomever she wants to, same as a man does. Unless you can prove that she consented to having the video made in order for it for it to be distributed the way it was, I suggest you understand instead that your so-called friend's right is what has been violated here.

I practically understand what you just said, I think I should let her know.before the husband will search for something else only to see the video.then how can she remove the video?

where are all this sex videos coming out from ?

Acme45:
I practically understand what you just said, I think I should let her know.before the husband will search for something else only to see the video.then how can she remove the video?

She probably knows who made the video and can have him reported to the police for violating her right in such a way. As for taking down the video, I am not sure how it can happen down there but she csn maybe contact the company for help on how to go about that.

But left to me, so long as the video was not made while she was with her husband, I see no reason why it should be held against her.

Acme45:
Good day friends, I was checking for another thing online 3days ago. And I saw my very good friend's name boldly written by the sex video only for me to open it to discover that it was her. She got married few months back. and the date the video was uploaded online was just about two months to her wedding. And I'm very sure she's not even aware of it and if the husband accidentally see this video. Definitely the woman will be sent out. I have not been able to tell her because of how she will react to it. pls what's your opinion on this matter on ground. I just wonder how will a matured woman will allowed herself to be filmed. Stay one place them go say no, see what going from one dick to the other has landed her. Pls should I tell her or face my front?

Post the fvcking video. HOw are we going to know who this woman is ffs

Oga face your front

Kobojunkie:
She probably knows who made the video and can have him reported to the police for violating her right in such a way. As for taking down the video, I am not sure how it can happen down there but she csn maybe contact the company for help on how to go about that.

But left to me, so long as the video was not made while she was with her husband, I see no reason why it should be held against her.

The video was posted 2 months before her wedding. Therefore, It's highly likely she was still dating or courting her husband when she cheated (assuming the time the video was uploaded was about the same time she had the sex). Because it's highly unlikely that someone would just meet you under 2 months and get married to you under that same 2 months. We've not even talked about the time for marriage counseling, marriage introduction, traditional wedding before church wedding. All these can hardly take place under 2 months nau.

OP...
What you do right now is entirely up to you, but if I were the husband, I'd definitely want to know ...

Post link to the video, or its all lies

chymeze:

The video was posted 2 months before her wedding. Therefore, It's highly likely she was still dating or courting her husband when she cheated (assuming the time the video was uploaded was about the same time she had the sex). Because it's highly unlikely that someone would just meet you under 2 months and get married to you under that same 2 months. We've not even talked about the time for marriage counseling, marriage introduction, traditional wedding before church wedding. All these can hardly take place under 2 months nau.

Your post makes no sense as it is wrapped around delusions in your mind there.

Sex video this sex video that! Who dey video them wen both of them are fvcking themselves.
Be careful so the past would not hurt the future.

Dats why I always advice every man to type ur gf's name on google (something like 'Justina leaked video') before marrying any 'abeg dash me 2k'. Its rampant dis days. Most of dem only pretend to be Saint. Don't be deceived.

If I was the husband. I would very much prefer to know, so that I'll send her away

Kobojunkie:
She probably knows who made the video and can have him reported to the police for violating her right in such a way. As for taking down the video, I am not sure how it can happen down there but she csn maybe contact the company for help on how to go about that.

But left to me, so long as the video was not made while she was with her husband, I see no reason why it should be held against her.

Your last paragraph got me thinking if u realy are from this part of the world, the reactions and comments from people alone will certainly make things ( even family and relations) go awry if eventually they find out that video. In a country, Nigeria where I come from, I have been made to understand that its a stain, abominable offense, tarnish of image to both of their family.

The best time you should have told her you saw her video was that moment, the second best time is right now.
let her know she is famous than she thinks....

Kobojunkie:
The OP said the video was uploaded 2 months before her marriage, not that it was made 2 months prior. So how did we conclude the woman is a cheat abeg?,

Did her courtship (engagement) with her husband last for only two months before she officially got married to him? In other words, did she date her husband for only months before they got married?

If the sex video was recorded before she began to date her husband, she should show her husband the video to prove it happened when she had not met the husband. And if this is the case, the husband will be a fool to maltreat her because of the video. I believe you will not form this your logic if the accused is a male.

Visocrate:
When past sins hunt us down, God save us

Na God marry the woman? God send her to go dey do porn movie? Na wah for you o. She will definitely suffer the consequences of her useless lifestyle.

I know it would wanna much wannatter to conrearing your rear

Acme45:
I practically understand what you just said, I think I should let her know.before the husband will search for something else only to see the video.then how can she remove the video?

By reaching out to the admin or site owner. Their mobile number or mail is usually at the footer/end of the website.