Ask her if her husband had a sex video two months before their wedding and she saw it, would it warrant her to end the marriage?

If her answer is yes, then keep quiet and forward the video to her husband so he can kick her out of his house.


Let us do unto others what they would have done to us if the tables were turned

She can request for the video to be brought down.

lecowas:
Tell her so that she can get it removed before the husband will also decide to “search for another thing “

Is it possible to remove anything that has been circulated like that?

Kobojunkie:
Your post makes no sense as it is wrapped around delusions in your mind there.

Bros you're the one not using your senses here,read what he said. How is it possible to meet a girl and marry her under 2 months?
I wonder if some of you read and comprehend before pointing accusing fingers on others. Smh.

Make I see the video fez before I say something

Attention seeking fake post
A lady that could post her sex video online won’t mind you asking in real life

immortalcrown:
You were checking another thing on a porn site?

Anyways, she is a cheat. Justice for the husband. If a man is the accused here, misguided females will shout "All men are scum".

Did her courtship (engagement) with her husband last for only two months before she officially got married to him? In other words, did she date her husband for only months before they got married?

If the sex video was recorded before she began to date her husband, she should show her husband the video to prove it happened when she had not met the husband. And if this is the case, the husband will be a fool to maltreat her because of the video. I believe you will not form this your logic if the accused is a male.

even if it was years before he met her
she belongs to the streets
let him throw her out

Let me have the link I want to check something

femmoy:

Bros you're the one not using your senses here,read what he said. How is it possible to meet a girl and marry her under 2 months?
I wonder if some of you read and comprehend before pointing accusing fingers on others. Smh.

Go back and read the OP again abeg!

If you had in fact comprehended the OP, you would have understood well why the other posters retort makes no sense.

Kobojunkie:
She probably knows who made the video and can have him reported to the police for violating her right in such a way. As for taking down the video, I am not sure how it can happen down there but she csn maybe contact the company for help on how to go about that.

But left to me, so long as the video was not made while she was with her husband, I see no reason why it should be held against her.

My brother, no man can take that, including you sir. It's easier said than done. Millions of people are watching what you paid heavy bride price on, free on the internet? Anyway, if and only if the husband was aware of it before their marriage, otherwise, there's no way it wont be held against her. How do you think the husband's relatives will feel when they accidentally stumbled on the video online? It will even be too shameful for the husband, because if the later gets to know, walking freely in the street becomes difficult, this is Nigeria, not America where no one cares about your lifestyle.

Acme45:
Good day friends, I was checking for another thing online 3days ago. And I saw my very good friend's name boldly written by the sex video only for me to open it to discover that it was her.

She got married few months back. and the date the video was uploaded online was just about two months to her wedding. And I'm very sure she's not even aware of it and if the husband accidentally see this video. Definitely the woman will be sent out.

I have not been able to tell her because of how she will react to it. pls what's your opinion on this matter on ground. I just wonder how will a matured woman will allowed herself to be filmed. Stay one place them go say no, see what going from one dick to the other has landed her. Pls should I tell her or face my front?

Simple Solution :-
1) Quietly let her know about it and also tell her there is a solution
2) Help her contact the website and pay them to quietly take the video down
3) Have them sign a legal document not to distribute the video again
4) Finally report the video link and properties to google so that it cant be found on normal google site incase its on other websites you don't know.
Pls all these should be done by you and not her so that she does not revile her identity to any one who might take advantage of her.

Acme45:
the chrisland stuff now

Bad guy

Who knows if you are not the one who wants to scatter her relationship before marriage. Since you couldn't do it, now is the right time for you to scatter her marriage. God save us from wicked beings who claim to be friends.
I don't trust you, you definitely have link with how the video was made ab initio.

Raph82:
My brother, no man can take that, including you sir. It's easier said than done. Millions of people are watching what you paid heavy bride price on, free on the internet? Anyway, if and only if the husband was aware of it before their marriage, otherwise, there's no way it wont be held against her. How do you think the husband's relatives will feel when they accidentally stumbled on the video online? It will even be too shameful for the husband, because if the later gets to know, walking freely in the street becomes difficult, this is Nigeria, not America where no one cares about your lifestyle.

Well, so what you are saying is that all the women with nudes and sextapes in Nigeria remain unmarried to this day?

immortalcrown:
You were checking another thing on a porn site?

Anyways, she is a cheat. Justice for the husband. If a man is the accused here, misguided females will shout "All men are scum".

Did her courtship (engagement) with her husband last for only two months before she officially got married to him? In other words, did she date her husband for only months before they got married?

If the sex video was recorded before she began to date her husband, she should show her husband the video to prove it happened when she had not met the husband. And if this is the case, the husband will be a fool to maltreat her because of the video. I believe you will not form this your logic if the accused is a male.

. I am not standing brief for her but that video could have been done years ago only to be uploaded two months to her wedding for mischievous purposes, there is not evidence that the video was uploaded same day it was recorded.

Acme45:
Good day friends, I was checking for another thing online 3days ago. And I saw my very good friend's name boldly written by the sex video only for me to open it to discover that it was her.

She got married few months back. and the date the video was uploaded online was just about two months to her wedding. And I'm very sure she's not even aware of it and if the husband accidentally see this video. Definitely the woman will be sent out.

I have not been able to tell her because of how she will react to it. pls what's your opinion on this matter on ground. I just wonder how will a matured woman will allowed herself to be filmed. Stay one place them go say no, see what going from one dick to the other has landed her. Pls should I tell her or face my front?

Link of the video or I hold my advice, how are we sure that you're not the one who makes the video? Ebi like say the woman no your former sex slave

baralatie:

He was searching for a 10 year old sextape

Hahahaha

Kobojunkie:
Did she record the video herself or did it look like she was aware she was being recorded? If yes, then let her know of the existence of the video.

A woman has a right to date whomever she wants to, same as a man does. Unless you can prove that she consented to having the video made in order for it for it to be distributed the way it was, I suggest you understand instead that your so-called friend's right is what has been violated here.

Your ability to type gibberish with so much confidence need to be studied.

However it goes, the way you take see am another person wey know either the woman or her husband go take see am too and sure the news go reach both of them. How ever they handle the situation is not my concern but I'd love your friend to bear the brunts she was matured enough when she was having it.

Acme45:
the chrisland stuff now

So you were looking for child porn online?

Kobojunkie:
Read the OP again abeg! The video was uploaded, not made, about 2 months to the wedding, is what we are told.

Okay.

How do we now know it wasn't recorded while they were together?

Kobojunkie:
Did she record the video herself or did it look like she was aware she was being recorded? If yes, then let her know of the existence of the video.

A woman has a right to date whomever she wants to, same as a man does. Unless you can prove that she consented to having the video made in order for it for it to be distributed the way it was, I suggest you understand instead that your so-called friend's right is what has been violated here.

Madam there's a place i used to see you. You can perform oo. But the only problem is that your stuff don fall yakata

Acme45:
I practically understand what you just said, I think I should let her know.before the husband will search for something else only to see the video.then how can she remove the video?

What's her name and where can I see the video to confirm something

2braithe:
Okay.

How do we now know it wasn't recorded while they were together?

Op, says he is a friend of the lady , and he also watched the video. He ain't saying that it was made during the courtship between the two. So?

immortalcrown:
You were checking another thing on a porn site?

Anyways, she is a cheat. Justice for the husband. If a man is the accused here, misguided females will shout "All men are scum".

Did her courtship (engagement) with her husband last for only two months before she officially got married to him? In other words, did she date her husband for only months before they got married?

If the sex video was recorded before she began to date her husband, she should show her husband the video to prove it happened when she had not met the husband. And if this is the case, the husband will be a fool to maltreat her because of the video. I believe you will not form this your logic if the accused is a male.

What are you saying? Which man wll tolerate a woman with sex video online...its crazy...if it was a nude pix, its understandable not a video...men have ego..that marriage is as good as dissolved

Kobojunkie:
Op, says he is a friend of the lady , and he also watched the video. He ain't saying that it was made during the courtship between the two. So?

Did he say he knows when it was recorded?
He only knew when it was uploaded.

So back to my question,how are we to know that it wasn't recorded while they were together?

First thing is to chat up the woman with an anonymous contact and send the video to the lady and threaten to post it. i need money abeg

Acme45:
I practically understand what you just said, I think I should let her know.before the husband will search for something else only to see the video.then how can she remove the video?

please inform her about it

Kobojunkie:
She probably knows who made the video and can have him reported to the police for violating her right in such a way. As for taking down the video, I am not sure how it can happen down there but she csn maybe contact the company for help on how to go about that.

But left to me, so long as the video was not made while she was with her husband, I see no reason why it should be held against her.

You're so loud, aggressive & irrational.

You're living in an idealistic world,instead of coming to term with life reality.
Until you realize that people will always be judged by their past,no matter the time such action was performed,with whom it was performed & where the action was performed.
Every grown adult knows about accountability,and people should understand that whatever action they perform have consequences.

If the husband find out about the sex tape,there will certainly be strong reaction from him, irrespective of when the sex tape was recorded.
This is life reality.
Make peace with it.