Abfinest007:
U won collect

I beg, forgive am, Cultist. No give am Wotowoto.

Gee64:
I observed that the woman for whatever reasons always play the underdog in marriage. She is often regarded as a 'helper' playing almost a docile role in decision-making in the home.

Most people use religious precepts to relegate the rights of a woman to the background: as being the house-keeper and 'child-bearer'. But in modern times, many women play the role of 'provider' in the home, therefore forcing the man to also assist with household chores.

In modern times, Even in civilised climes, women now seek to either being independent parents or share same authority as the man in the home. But where the man does not feel comfortably with this, the result is divorce. I want to assume that this is the major cause of domestic violence in majority of homes.

Most women feel more comfortable being single parents than to submit to the egocentric excesses of the male folk.

What is your stand on this issue. I personally speak as a male.

Same reason its not respected at a site or cement factory, each gender is better at different things.

incogni2o:


Its a pity, you choose this unfortunate path for yourself.

Sure you are still in your 20s

Maximum, early 30s.

I pray you don't regret and get matured fast

Leave her..she is still young...I know what I say...When reality of life start hitting people is from 45years..Then you can't go to anyhow parties...You can't visit night clubs anyhow..You can't just chill with friends anyhow because they are busy with thing or the other...thats where loneliness sets in..

So because westerners decided to be foolish we must be forced to join them in their foolishness? No wonder we have so much confusion in the world today. Nature made man and woman to fulfill specific functions and to change that is to bring confusion. If a woman hits you its okay but if a man retaliates they say Ahh!!! don't you know she is a woman and a weaker vessel. The hypocrisy sickens to the heavens. A male is a male and a female a female. Even in the wild the males are in charge in almost all species of animals. Gorillas, Lions etc. That is the way nature meant it to be. The confusion we have in the western world where the female folks have been given so much power while the men have been virtually emasculated is as a result of changing the natural order of how things were meant to be.

Winters23:


No matter how Africans tries to copy western degenerate culture, Africa will never be western!

Here in Africa A MAN AND A WOMAN CAN NEVER BE EQUAL!

One drunken man is more intelligent than three women with PHD!

A wife will forever be under the husband

A girlfriend will always be a bitch to her guy

Don't ever bring this nonsense gender equility cum feminism here, take it to quora and reddit where the western pigs massage their ego.

You are daft, and this I tell you for free.

What is the system adopted by your parents if I may ask?

Gee64:
I observed that the woman for whatever reasons always play the underdog in marriage. She is often regarded as a 'helper' playing almost a docile role in decision-making in the home.

Most people use religious precepts to relegate the rights of a woman to the background: as being the house-keeper and 'child-bearer'. But in modern times, many women play the role of 'provider' in the home, therefore forcing the man to also assist with household chores.

In modern times, Even in civilised climes, women now seek to either being independent parents or share same authority as the man in the home. But where the man does not feel comfortably with this, the result is divorce. I want to assume that this is the major cause of domestic violence in majority of homes.

Most women feel more comfortable being single parents than to submit to the egocentric excesses of the male folk.

What is your stand on this issue. I personally speak as a male.

BleedTears:

Oga abi madam, go and marry. Do your family anyhow you like, even children equality put am for your family

Its only a woman that would start this kind of thread, OP na woman!

Raspberries:
I'm not a fan of marriage... I'm definitely not submissive...

I wish this is not faceless forum, so that we will recognise you at Shiloh

koyyess:


Does tribal equality, societal class equality, racial equality...etc exist?

If they don't , should we consider it as normal?

That should answer your question.

Pls what is gender equality?

Does gender equality exist?

Feminism is a frustration agenda that may drive gender equality seekers to doom.

As a matter of fact, i have discovered 3 reasons why feminist and supporters agitate for this.
1. Their level of depression.
2. Pride- which can lead to negligence of responsibility.
3. Being hypnotized - false teachings and advice from peers.

"A real woman will submit to her husband and a real man will love such woman."

tunwumi:

What is the system adopted by your parents if I may ask?

He or she grew up in a brothel

Alexgeneration:

How many women are fighting in Ukraine?

How many fought for the independence of this country?

How many are risking their lives to protect this country in the North East?


Men and women are not equals and there's nothing you can do about it.

Fela's mother took your fellow men(what they couldn't do on their own) to Britain to ask for our Independence, let that enter your skull today

The Boko Haram/bandit bullshit was created by men for your selfish reasons and greed, why will women fight for something you men refuse to logically mutually agree on because of power?

Gee64:
I observed that the woman for whatever reasons always play the underdog in marriage. She is often regarded as a 'helper' playing almost a docile role in decision-making in the home.

Most people use religious precepts to relegate the rights of a woman to the background: as being the house-keeper and 'child-bearer'. But in modern times, many women play the role of 'provider' in the home, therefore forcing the man to also assist with household chores.

In modern times, Even in civilised climes, women now seek to either being independent parents or share same authority as the man in the home. But where the man does not feel comfortably with this, the result is divorce. I want to assume that this is the major cause of domestic violence in majority of homes.

Most women feel more comfortable being single parents than to submit to the egocentric excesses of the male folk.

What is your stand on this issue. I personally speak as a male.

Neo-colonialism talking

Some people want to superimpose liberal European thinking and ways on us by force

Africa will never develop with a subjugated and whitewashed people

EVERYONE KNEW THEIR PLACE IN THE ANIMAL KINGDOM UNTILL MAN DECIDED TO BE A HIGHER ANIMAL.
NOW WOMAN WANT 2 BE THE HIGHEST ANIMALS...

ednut1:
Dont be deceived a lot of women are breadwinners in many Nigerian marriages

Don't be deceived, few women are breadwinners in many Marriages in Nigeria...

Gee64:
I observed that the woman for whatever reasons always play the underdog in marriage. She is often regarded as a 'helper' playing almost a docile role in decision-making in the home.

Most people use religious precepts to relegate the rights of a woman to the background: as being the house-keeper and 'child-bearer'. But in modern times, many women play the role of 'provider' in the home, therefore forcing the man to also assist with household chores.

In modern times, Even in civilised climes, women now seek to either being independent parents or share same authority as the man in the home. But where the man does not feel comfortably with this, the result is divorce. I want to assume that this is the major cause of domestic violence in majority of homes.

Most women feel more comfortable being single parents than to submit to the egocentric excesses of the male folk.

What is your stand on this issue. I personally speak as a male.

You have already answered yourself in the first paragraph"helper".

I love gender equality and so should all Men out there.

Men have been dealing with a lot of responsibilities from birth.

Thanks to the feminist movement because a lot of those loads will be shared equally.

Dumb people want equality but when you ask what they're bringing to the table, they get annoyed lol

Raspberries:
I'm not a fan of marriage... I'm definitely not submissive...

be ready to die single

If you don't submit.. you would and must be beaten to submission..

Nonsense and Woke generation Feminist wannabe OLOSHos

SmartPolician:
I always say that marriage is not for everyone. If a woman feels too big to be under a man, she is free to become a single mom.

After all, men and women have equal opportunities nowadays. There can never be two captains in one ship.

OP, you are free to make your wife the head of your home - just don't shove it down our throats. One of the best things that life gave us was freewill.

Or she's free to marry a man who doesn't believe his partner is "under" him.

Op said she is a man! Mugu girl lol! A woman can never and should never have equal rights with any man! The man will always be the head of the family. A man should love, protect, and provide for his family! A woman should support the man. That's her role ... She shouldn't be the head in any instance

Gee64:
I laugh at you in vernacular!

I'm a man in his late 50s and a retired Public Servant.

I speak without prejudice to sex.

No wonder we have a shitty public service system and administration in the country now..
You are a colossal disgrace to the establishment you worked for..

Feminized imp.

Gee64:
That a woman shares in decision-making doesn't make her the boss. Marriage is not an organisation. It is a union where both parties should be equal shareholders. Marriage is the only human institution where you have two heads giving moral instructions to their offspring and managing the affairs of the family on equal terms. That way, a harmonious relationship will be established.

You may have the privilege of a humble , virtuous understanding Wife so you may not understand.

You may never understand unless you are in other's shoes

I am suprised though that you said you are 54 Sir.

Like must have been so easy for you.

toujurs:
Mumu, what stupid equality, a woman can never be equal to a man, Ever in this life.

There are plenty of women in this world whose shoes you're not fit to tie. Better stop deceiving yourself.

Raspberries:
I'm not a fan of marriage... I'm definitely not submissive...

I'm not also a fan of marriage. I don't want submission.
What I want is respect is reciprocal. That's how me and my elder sis grew up.
I'm not going to feed any lazy ass woman.

Many ladies are broke with Ego at the same time

killmods:
No submission No marriage

Whatever happened to love ?

Hmmm

Mosespeace4r:
Gsg

Mynd44
Lalasticlacla
Oamj4
Mukina
Seun
Dominique

Rule 16

doublecross:
be ready to die single

Toxic reply...

There are guys who love independent ladies.

Gee64:
I observed that the woman for whatever reasons always play the underdog in marriage. She is often regarded as a 'helper' playing almost a docile role in decision-making in the home.

Most people use religious precepts to relegate the rights of a woman to the background: as being the house-keeper and 'child-bearer'. But in modern times, many women play the role of 'provider' in the home, therefore forcing the man to also assist with household chores.

In modern times, Even in civilised climes, women now seek to either being independent parents or share same authority as the man in the home. But where the man does not feel comfortably with this, the result is divorce. I want to assume that this is the major cause of domestic violence in majority of homes.

Most women feel more comfortable being single parents than to submit to the egocentric excesses of the male folk.

What is your stand on this issue. I personally speak as a male.

Nigeria is more civilised than your so called "civilised climes"...
Civilization started in africa

Gee64:
I observed that the woman for whatever reasons always play the underdog in marriage. She is often regarded as a 'helper' playing almost a docile role in decision-making in the home.

Most people use religious precepts to relegate the rights of a woman to the background: as being the house-keeper and 'child-bearer'. But in modern times, many women play the role of 'provider' in the home, therefore forcing the man to also assist with household chores.

In modern times, Even in civilised climes, women now seek to either being independent parents or share same authority as the man in the home. But where the man does not feel comfortably with this, the result is divorce. I want to assume that this is the major cause of domestic violence in majority of homes.

Most women feel more comfortable being single parents than to submit to the egocentric excesses of the male folk.

What is your stand on this issue. I personally speak as a male.

All this half men sef. Mitcheww.

Olowosaudi:
Hmmm, what have observed over the years is that a man will willingly marry a woman he loves that does not have a dime and invest in her to make her strong financially in future. Let the table turn, and the man loses his job and means of being the bread winner of the family, and the woman takes over and weeks after taking care of the family responsibilities, she will begin to grumble and tell the whole world that she is the bread winner and her husband does nothing but watches television. Women by nature are wired to take instruction from the men. That is how nature deems it to be. Anything contrary to this, will cause chaos as we are currently observing in Nigeria.

Not only are they wired to take instruction from men but the vast majority are lazy and don't want any kind of stress....that's why they all aim for rich men