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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Nobody: 2:41pm On Apr 23, 2022
dalass:


Respect is actually reciprocal.

The Queen of England was someone's wife and he couldn't claim superiority to her. Yet I know she respected him and he gave her due respect as Queen.... In short, women are given their due respect In the western world which makes their world amazing....

All these subjugation love in Naija, submit while the man has his way over everything as of he married a braindead person is killing the society
Being a submissive wife doesn't mean u are or should be brain dead. Western marriages aren't anything amazing if that's what ur trying to point. Submission of the wife goes with the husband showing her all the love and care she deserves. Go marry a white man or those in the western world if submission to a man ( ur husband) is impossible for u and leave Queen Elizabeth out of this. There are powerful real African women married to African men and their marriages are very good because the woman knows to separate her public office/ position of power from the home front. You sound like a kid tho(No offense).. when reality slaps u will know how to act. Go and learn true submission in marriages and stop circulating garbage.

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Vikinatty(f): 2:41pm On Apr 23, 2022
vikinatius:
Feminism is a frustration agenda that may drive gender equality seekers to doom.

As a matter of fact, i have discovered 3 reasons why feminist and supporters agitate for this.
1. Their level of depression.
2. Pride- which can lead to negligence of responsibility.
3. Being hypnotized - false teachings and advice from peers.

"A real woman will submit to her husband and a real man will love such woman."

Nice write up sweet
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 2:42pm On Apr 23, 2022
odinson1:

But when it comes to take up the Responsibilities of a Man,that is where you Hypocrites draw the line.
Take up what responsibilities of a man abeg! Look around you, there are so many female breadwinner out there. There are females raising their kids on their own. undecided

Why folks like you continue to Thump your chests about responsibilities of a man, I don't get. undecided

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by staga: 2:48pm On Apr 23, 2022
BigBashiru:


You are a bastion of stupidity. Let your money run dry and see if she won't start complaining.... as I said even if the security u offer her isn't financial it could be psychological..... they aren't loyal and "wife" is an idealistic judeo Christian construct. Foolish man.

Portiphars wife wasn't loyal and the nature of girls hasn't changed.

How about Abraham's wife? The one in Islam you call Ibrahim? Why is his sacrifice of the ram in place of Isaac celebrated in Islam as Eid-El-Kabir?

You looked at all the examples in the bible and you stupidly and idiotically decided to pick a heathen named Potiphar! You are an idiot!

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Connected1: 2:53pm On Apr 23, 2022
ednut1:
Dont be deceived alot of women are breadwinners in many Nigerian marriages
Is that a condition for equality?

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Olumyco(m): 2:54pm On Apr 23, 2022
Gender equity is what we should be talking about and not gender equality.
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Oyiboman69: 3:02pm On Apr 23, 2022
Gee64:
I laugh at you in vernacular!

I'm a man in his late 50s and a retired Public Servant.

I speak without prejudice to sex.
good luck to you...don't just make us feel bad about it. real women understood their place in a home or you can as well give that manual to your in-laws....
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Oyiboman69: 3:08pm On Apr 23, 2022
Kobojunkie:
▪︎ there is no such thing as the power and authority of a man, nor accountability of a child. undecided

▪︎. Who gave you this power you claim abeg? undecided
▪︎ Russia/Ukraine? Are you sane at all? undecided
▪︎ You are joking, right? In Afghanistan, Iraq etc., were the same rules applied? Some of you don't even realize how deep the rabbit hole you have fallen. undecided
your comments is always meaningless in this platform....

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 3:11pm On Apr 23, 2022
Oyiboman69:
your comments is always meaningless in this platform....
Look whose talking! undecided

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by datamillionaire: 3:13pm On Apr 23, 2022
Gender equality? What's the meaning of that? Does it exist in nature?
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Caleycashh: 3:30pm On Apr 23, 2022
ednut1:
Dont be deceived alot of women are breadwinners in many Nigerian marriages
Still doesn't make them equal to men... just a lazy or unlucky man
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Khaysee: 3:32pm On Apr 23, 2022
Man should be respected
He is the head
Woman should be respected she is the subordinate

Why did God created man 1st?
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by 30naira: 3:49pm On Apr 23, 2022
Kobojunkie:
▪︎ there is no such thing as the power and authority of a man, nor accountability of a child. undecided

▪︎. Who gave you this power you claim abeg? undecided
▪︎ Russia/Ukraine? Are you sane at all? undecided
▪︎ You are joking, right? In Afghanistan, Iraq etc., were the same rules applied? Some of you don't even realize how deep the rabbit hole you have fallen. undecided

The power and authority is divine and God-given. Nature has made the man the more powerful one, physically and emotionally. It has been so since the creation of man. Nothing you can do about it. It is men that created the conditions in which you can claim equality
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Nyascobar1414: 3:56pm On Apr 23, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Look whose talking! undecided
The guy ain't lying... Your comment breathe of Uselessness
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 3:58pm On Apr 23, 2022
30naira:
The power and authority is divine and God-given. Nature has made the man the more powerful one, physically and emotionally. It has been so since the creation of man. Nothing you can do about it. It is men that created the conditions in which you can claim equality
Which deity in particular gave man this power and how is it being used and where? undecided

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by SilentBurner(m): 4:05pm On Apr 23, 2022
VictorUSA:
Why should women think that they are equal to men?


Brother, me no no oooh

Pussy can't be same with a Dick
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 4:20pm On Apr 23, 2022
Theactor:
I'm not a fan of marriage... I'm definitely not submissive... ]wow.....is not too good enough sha,it will be good if u change such mentality
and most importantly,is not in line with God perspective.
In line with what God's perspective? Submission was God's curse on marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16, this after man fell. So how can you suggest a curse is God's perspective? undecided

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 4:23pm On Apr 23, 2022
phemmyfour:
The concept of a marriage does not support gender equality
There is not a modicum of truth to this claim you make this since marriage is an agreement between a man and woman. undecided

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 4:25pm On Apr 23, 2022
Slurity:
No religion or believe support gender equality because equality did not actually exist anywhere in the world, why must you want it I'm marriage?
Jesus Christ taught His disciples that actually... Men are women are equals in the Kingdom of God - Matthew 23 vs 8 - 10 undecided

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Divoc19(f): 4:29pm On Apr 23, 2022
In reality, gender equality does not exist.
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Missionaire: 4:33pm On Apr 23, 2022
odinson1:
Women Basically want 3 things
1. the Power and Authority of a man
2. The Privileges of Being a Woman
3. The Accountability of A child.

I pity those ignorant, naive men who are fighting for Equality for women. Those idiots don't realize that they are being cheated,the woman you are fighting for,is trying to overthrow your power. She will expect you to man up and fight for her,or Provide when times are hard. But when times are good,they will drag equality with you. Take the Russian/Ukraine war as a case study. The women are allowed to leave,but the men are mandated to stay. Not a single feminist came out to say women were being Relegated (because they are weak,which is true).
You know why? It is because times are hard,it is war,so they don't have the luxury to be fighting for equality now.
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Sprumbaba: 4:36pm On Apr 23, 2022
I love gender equality in as much you eliminate certain responsibilities are not for a man and we share bills equally.
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by chapwiz(m): 4:37pm On Apr 23, 2022
Raspberries:
I'm not a fan of marriage... I'm definitely not submissive... undecided
Naso una dey talk if man neva come toast
una, single and happy is a big scam my sister be honest to yourself.
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by phemmyfour: 4:37pm On Apr 23, 2022
Kobojunkie:
There is not a modicum of truth to this claim you make this since marriage is an agreement between a man and woman. undecided
And the agreement is:
Husband should love his wife
While wife should submit
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by dalass(f): 4:42pm On Apr 23, 2022
sollolucci77:


Last time I checked...ladies have rights to do anything they want in this modern age so I dont know why you're crying...if you want to contest for presidency today you can do so

I will never cry. You are the one crying undecided

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 4:42pm On Apr 23, 2022
phemmyfour:
And the agreement is:
Husband should love his wife
While wife should submit
agreement ke? undecided
God, who sanctioned marriage in Genesis 2 vs 24, turned and cursed marriage with submission as His curse in Genesis 3 vs 16 (in addition to cursing child bearing), this after man fell. undecided

So how can what is a curse be said to be an agreement?? undecided

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by dalass(f): 4:44pm On Apr 23, 2022
BigBashiru:


I agree with ur viewppint. Men also excuse their crimes under "Men are superior" mentality.

Your comment shows how truly magnanimous you are.....

Most of the others here are baby boys grin

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by leadedge: 4:46pm On Apr 23, 2022
OP Have you ever seen a divorce case where by it's a case of domestic VIOLENCE which is due to the fact of equal right?
U can never see a man divorce a woman because of equal right or violate the woman because of equal right?...
Every man wants a woman dat would have equal right with them in marriage and both would respect each other.
It is women who wants equal right and cant play equal role or have wht it takes to have equal right and want to use her mouth to get equal right dat get violated...no efficient woman gets violated...BAD MOUTHING is the major cause of Domestic violence which no one has ever mentioned or EQUALITY
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by phemmyfour: 4:47pm On Apr 23, 2022
Kobojunkie:
agreement ke? undecided
God, who sanctioned marriage in Genesis 2 vs 24, turned and cursed marriage with submission as His curse in Genesis 3 vs 16 (in addition to cursing child bearing), this after man fell. undecided

So how can what is a curse be said to be an agreement?? undecided
Eph 5:22-25

Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by dalass(f): 4:49pm On Apr 23, 2022
30naira:


The power and authority is divine and God-given. Nature has made the man the more powerful one, physically and emotionally. It has been so since the creation of man. Nothing you can do about it. It is men that created the conditions in which you can claim equality

The strongest of men have been brought down by those physically and emotionally weak women. grin

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by luluman: 4:49pm On Apr 23, 2022
killmods:
No submission No marriage
That's right.After all, No constitution says you must remain married
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by ocdeut(m): 4:50pm On Apr 23, 2022
themanderon:
So because westerners decided to be foolish we must be forced to join them in their foolishness? No wonder we have so much confusion in the world today. Nature made man and woman to fulfill specific functions and to change that is to bring confusion. If a woman hits you its okay but if a man retaliates they say Ahh!!! don't you know she is a woman and a weaker vessel. The hypocrisy sickens to the heavens. A male is a male and a female a female. Even in the wild the males are in charge in almost all species of animals. Gorillas, Lions etc. That is the way nature meant it to be. The confusion we have in the western world where the female folks have been given so much power while the men have been virtually emasculated is as a result of changing the natural order of how things were meant to be.
Exactly my thought. The female gender has succeeded in turning the table to a point of relegating the make for house core. And we are busy clapping for them. God never created nan and woman to be equal.

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