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Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Jaqenhghar: 7:20pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Visasolution048: Let me ask you a few questions Where you there? Do you know the parties involved? If the woman is guilty why does he still want her back? There are 3 sides to every story( i this case 4) His version, her version , the custom Officer's version and the truth. Lets hear their sides first 2 Likes |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by CSTRR: 7:21pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
pocohantas:A custom officer that left his own wife in ibadan? Lol. |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Preferito(m): 7:21pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
emmanuelbrown26:You no get sense |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Bestnoma: 7:21pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Angelfrost: You are so right.The marriage has long been over but he didn't know. |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Jefferyhi86(m): 7:21pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Yoruba see cheating in marriage as handshake 1 Like |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Jaqenhghar: 7:21pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
pocohantas:Exactly. I am very sure he was abusive towards her. We always preach that if a man 8s abusive the woman should walk. She just did. 2 Likes |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by BRATISLAVA: 7:22pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Pauladex: No. He's a loving husband. Some of you don't know the value placed on marriage. What do you think his vows for better and for worse mean? It is good that he's not a fairweather husband, but one who is ready to fight for his marriage and pass through fire to do that, a true leader of his home who will not let it fail so easily. He's a virtuous example of a true man with humble godly intentions for life. And heaven will reward his efforts at resuscitating his marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Hassanmaye(m): 7:22pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
emmanuelbrown26:Haha lol simple men will learn the hard way about that gender 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by akpumping7720(m): 7:23pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
oseahumenb:Hello bro. Believe me I can feel your pains. It's not easy raising a family and lose them to a stranger overnight. Don't mind the people calling you simps and all sort of names here. Someone who hasn't experience this will definitely say rubbish. Just pull yourself together, relocate from your current apartment so as to erase the thoughts gradually. Get a cheaper apart if need be. Focuss on your job, focus more on how to attain success. Forget you once have a family and start afresh. If you can do all this, believe me with time you will overcome and she will definitely be put to shame. Don't kill yourself or give yourself unecessarry hypertension because of a woman. Leave her and let her be. She has done her worst. Move on with your life bro. As a man if it takes you 10years from now to be successful, if you want to marry most beautiful girl in Nigeria you will. Take a good look at Ned nwoko, despite his age he is still marrying the freshest ladies an average man can only dream of. Take a good look at the late Alafin of Oyo, despite his old age he had young and wives. So bro chase success and leave the adulterous woman alone Pull yourself together bro. Men are really blessed. No matter the age we make money, we can marry any beautiful woman we so desire. For women, as soon as a woman clocks 60 even with all her wealth, her sexual appeal will start diminishing. So if you don't enjoy today there is more enjoyment tomorrow. Shalom 4 Likes |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by pocohantas(f): 7:23pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
CSTRR: Yes of course. The custom officer’s wife is not submissive. OP’s wife is obviously submissive, that is why he wants her back after she has given birth for her lover. GloriousGbola: It has to be. A whole 4 kids? Seems this lose toto after childbearing is just a myth or consolation for men with p**** like overused eye-pencil. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Alonso91(m): 7:23pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
As some rightly advice up there,,,take dis mata to d gods n see them fight for you, I don't know d problem of guys dis days,,y will I even report my wife to my pastor? Who pastor help...what happens to you been man enough.....boss ur home n watch her beg you instead of you doing d beggining.....man have submitted enough Tru money, shelter n care..... Ozo of bbn shld b ur blood brother@ OP |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by ExudeLoveToAll: 7:24pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
pocohantas: What is good compared to the sacrifice of borrowing five million not for yourself but for your wife. What is your definition of good? Is it being married and moving out without divorcing and still giving birth for another while still married to your husband? Shifting the goal post is always sweet when it's massages our personal ego. |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Executive729: 7:24pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Born2Breed: In addition fight to get your children I don't know what you are doing with Yoruba woman as a wife anyway cause very many of us Edo people wouldn't they are very wayward as wives not even us that grew up in Yoruba land will try it. There is no point reporting your wife lover to Navy authorities you don't need her you will still be fighting her lover's in the future, she will end up in the gutter trust me. 2 Likes |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Bestnoma: 7:25pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
simpleseyi: Hmmmm !! |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by BRATISLAVA: 7:25pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
CSTRR: Nothing cowardly in not posting the lovers pictures. That would only give him more problems than he already has. |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Pastorsmile: 7:25pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Men, I mean married men, be the troublesome lion in your marriages. The day you show your wife that she is everything to you, is the day you begin the journey of shame and regret.. Look up dear friend, iam talking or writing from experience because I have been in the so called institution since 2009. Even if you love her, keep it, never say so. Always let your body language portrays a picture of one who do not want to continue in the marriage again. But be sure, you provide for her and love her INWARDLY. Never be a simple good guy. Women are wired to hate and punish good guys. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by AreaFada2: 7:25pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Born2Breed: My dear, na serious bebeye dem use our brother play o. I believe he's a good guy who is rather naïve. Humans can be really naive when in love and kids are involved. Op, how can you catch a woman cheating and you retained her, to the point that her lover is even threatening your life? Are you not scared that she might simply poison you and story will just end naturally? As things stand, since the lover knew her before she married you, the kids or some of them may belong to the lover. What will you do with a woman who already has a baby for another man? In life, as painful as it might be, you have to sometimes cut your losses, dust yourself up and move on. Water will always find its level. If any of the kids are yours, they will look for you. Focus on recovering from the shock and gradually repaying your debt. 1 Like |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Holluwhakemmy(f): 7:26pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
peepydelano:what of the man in question? Was he justified? |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by CSTRR: 7:26pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
pocohantas:A lose Toto after child birth is not a myth, I assure you. Some useless men just like sleeping with forbidden fruits. It has nothing to do with whether her Toto is Sweet or not or her character. |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by shuttox: 7:27pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
oseahumenb:Fake story |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by ayenale1(m): 7:28pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
The woman and children are not yours...if you are not sure go and do DNA lol |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by We4all: 7:28pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
emmanuelbrown26: Alaye, red piller only on Nairaland. |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by pocohantas(f): 7:29pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
CSTRR: No my dear, her toto is sweet and she is submissive. Imagine he wants to kill her husband on top her matter? It didn’t start today sha. Remind me why David ordered the killing of Uriah? Na only God know wetin e put there, men fit kill for toto. 6 Likes |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Angelfrost(m): 7:30pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
simpleseyi: Now, this got me laughing real hard! I swear this comment just made my day! As weird as it is, I just like your bluntness and realness!!! Go collect one cold one! Na man you be!!! Lol! |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by We4all: 7:31pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Pastorsmile: Huh! Are you sure you’re married? Typical local man with low self esteem displaying his chauvinistic behavior in marriage. Emotional abuser! 1 Like |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by aminusodiq(m): 7:32pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Biglittlelois:I taya ooo... he still need d wide |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Perostick(m): 7:32pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Biglittlelois:that's just the solution. |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Mrsserene: 7:33pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
We need to hear your wife's side of the story. Were you abusing her? Were you making her life miserable? A woman can never leave a good marriage just like that. |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by We4all: 7:34pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
akpumping7720: Oloti, does your life revolve around sex alone? What a shallow reasoning! 1 Like |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Visasolution048: 7:34pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Jaqenhghar: The Customer officer has no version for snatching another man's wife. Like this, he suppose to collect bitterly because na oppression be that. secondly, We've seen too many situations of women going back to their ex because they feel he is better than their hubby. And marrying their hubby was a mistake... Then come out with blackmails that paint their hubby black to justify their inhumane action. Lastly, some men are inferior. This OP happens to be one of them. Some men don't have control over their families...this OP happens to be one of them... This OP feels marrying his wife was a favor from her. He has given her that impression, that's why she mend am publicly. A real man would never say he wants a woman that gave him a national embarrassment back...The last man wey accept that kind woman for our barracks, died miserably... |
Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Blackey(m): 7:35pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
OP, if you reside in Edo, I suggest you listen to a show on KU FM by 6pm on Sunday called "Unburden: The live show" with Dr Nosa. I'm sure they'll be of help in this your situation. I hope all works out for you. |
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