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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Heavensent01(m): 8:42pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
RSVP: my neighbor with female kids all through was stylishly abusing me that I play with other neighbor kid but not with hers, little did she understand that my eyes have seen. the other neighbor kid is a male child, I was free to play, in fact he played in our flat very well but never did I moved close to her kids who are all female all I do is to wave at them before someone go give me what's not mine 52 Likes |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Nobody: 8:42pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
okoroemeka: No bro. It's not that story. It's the story of a young girl accusing a guy because she wanted him to delete a Facebook chat and he refused till she tells him her reason. That's what shocked me. Not the other one. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by damoobaba: 8:44pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
akmath: I don read too. I been read am for Twitter. |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by maxist2020(m): 8:46pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
[quote author=Jaqenhghar post=112214471]With the comments I read here its hard to doubt that little girl. Most Niggerian men are pervs. A little girl cannot just wake up and accuse you falsley. Are you the only one who plays with children? [/quote Don't say what you don't know and that it has never happened to you doesn't mean it is not happening, pray God to always to save you from such because the way you are seeing it now that is how the world See's it but underneath it the truth is known by you alone. |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by ThatsONYI: 8:47pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
I can relate, long story. Even though, I was very young; I saw myself as an older person..... In a summary, I know I love(d) playing but never again. As for those saying, kids don't lie, I pity y'all! 6 Likes |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by datamillionaire: 8:47pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
You need deliverance bro tarantino1: 1 Like |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Nikkganc08(m): 8:47pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Mine was a sad tale but a bit different My parents had 5 kids ( four boys and a girl) The sad tale happened around when I was in primary 1. My Grandma heard a story of how a child put his fingers in her sisters genital. The first thing that came to her mind was to rush down to my mums house to break d news. She just believed that we've been doing same. Somehow, she came and convinced my mum that we all ( the four of us) have been putting our finger in our sisters anus. As at then, our eldest brother was still in either primary 4 or 5 (I'm the third child). My Grandma and mum brought us all out in d parlour and gave us all serious flogging without telling us what was wrong. After d first batch of torture, we were all crying already. That was when she announced that we have been putting our fingers in her anus. Pls before u judge me, note that at such age, I had ZERO IDEA of what putting hands in someone's anus meant. My sister was called to confess. She shouldn't be more than 2 years then. They asked her... Did xxxx put his hand in ur bum bum? She'll Nod her head in affirmation. Did yyyy put his hand in ur bum bum? She'll Nod again. Will u eat human head? She'll nod Will u drink urine? She'll Nod Anything u say, She'll nod. Mum didn't care about her foolish nodding. They just wanted her to confirm that we all put fingers there. Well..., after several hours or torture , the eldest two insisted that they've never done such before (because they were a bit matured and knowledgeable then). They were spared. I tried same but more beating was added. Mum stripped me and d last son naked and flogged us more . She said, 'tell me d truth, I'll leave u' We both said we r innocent. More slaps, flogging and hours of kneeling down where served to us. Frog jumping and 'no food' threats were added. Followed by no more school fees. And finally, that they'd come to our school and make sure we'll be called out and flogged in front of everyone during morning assembly. She kept on saying " tell me d truth and I'd leave u". Finally , we had to admit to d story so that mum would spare us. Lol....!!! That was when d real beating started. Its a long story though. She told all our relatives about how we've been putting our fingers in our little sisters anus. She won't let our sister play or stay with us. She'd just shout 'remove her from there before xxxx and yyyy (name withheld) would start fingering her. She bought more pants for her (the BIG ones) plus some stuffs that is blackish and looks like boxers (don't know d name but women wear it alot). She must were pant, that black boxers, and a hose at same time before putting on her blouse. Followed by tutorials for her to shout and report us to mum any day we touch her pant again. Lol...!!! Whenever mum is bored, she'll just call d both of us, strip us naked, kneel us down , then flog us as much as she wanted. Followed by questions like, "when was d last time u put fingers in ur sisters bum bum? ". "Is it yesterday? Last week? today? " If u don't pick anyone, She'll pick one for u. Maybe, she'd say d last time u did it was yesterday. Whenever grandma feels bored , she'd come to our house, strip us naked and start her own flogging. I'm almost 30 years now. I'm a non-virgin. I might have done stuffs with my female friends. But d truth remains this... As kids, we were tortured for what we knew nothing about. Something I had no idea of what it meant. Someday, maybe this week, I'd call my sister and mum together, she has to confess whether she was fingered or not. And mum MUST apologize for d unnecessary torture. Grandma is dead. So, let's allow her to rest in peace If my sister decides to accuse me , then we MUST get a native doctor to fish out d truth. I won't let such heavy accusation slide again without repercussions 57 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by superCleanworks(m): 8:49pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
tarantino1: oh you just reminded me of one that happened back then in my primary school. her name was Evelyn. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Emmani360(m): 8:50pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Children are also capable of great evil. One morning while on my balcony I saw a boy that stays just opposite my house dragging his younger brother to school with him and the younger brother was crying cos he doesn't want to go to school. After walking like that for a while the elder brother now got angry and started dragging him back home, picked up a small stick and flogged the younger brother on his buttocks. On getting close to their house the younger started punching his own head. They got to their compound and this boy hit his head on a wall, fell to the ground and started shouting on top of his lungs, their aunt came out and saw the bump on his head and started shout for the older brother, another passersby came and asked the younger boy how he got the bump on his head and this boy opened his mouth and said the older brother hit him on the head. They were about to dissect that older brother before i now started shouting for them to not touch the boy cos i saw the whole thing and the older brother never hit him on the head. 49 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Akpez13: 8:51pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Me my case is different. Was younger then ,our landlords daughter just moved in and even b4 knowing me fully she had lied on my head that I did something,I have even forgotten what she said I did, whatever I didn't and I cried so much cause it pained me not knowing this girl has something up her sleeve. She later block me to tell me sorry,ok she was like 4 four years older, maybe 12 twelve year old then, well her uncle came from abroad and did snap me and my brothers picture promising he would bring the pictures for us before going back to the u UK after the festivities of Xmas ND New year. The moment he left she was all alone now she would call me, be calling me every evening to come but based on the fact that she lied on my head b4 I kept my space, she never gave up on this liking to me, do she cunning discovered that I love pictures then lured me with pictures,that her uncle sent the pictures and it's in their house.ok if I want to see myself I should come, innocent me nor know, na so I follow as I enter parlour she say make I go room,I follow as I wan enter room my mind twist, na I say make I return to base ,she don read my mood ND plans, she nor give me space oo she grab me,we tie I nor know wetin dey happen,she put her hand inside my knicker dey rub my small dick wey nor gree stand yet, na struggle,ND she get power,we struggle for like 30 minutes b4 God sent her cousin brother to come meet us for that passage or lobby wey she catch me. As he enter we dismantle na so he open door for me to go my papa house without a word. The next day they package her things move her go another location...na so I rest.. after like 6 to 7 years later she got married, visited the compound and when she saw me,she shook her head ND smiled mischievously it was like I look like a fish that never got hooked, from her expression. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Slynation(m): 8:51pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Jaqenhghar:what did I just read...!! you need to be enlightened 4 Likes |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Slynation(m): 8:52pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
MNDY:Lol...you are so on point 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by eneye1(m): 8:53pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
I wish people can stop being emotionally attached to females' statements. My closest friend's girlfriend was toasting me for about 2 years. I remembered the first time she kissed me in IJMB. I went to two universities for Post UME; she followed me to these universities and never allowed me to have a girlfriend. We finally got admitted into the second university while my friend got admitted into one private University. She had slapped my friend before so that one does not put his mouth into any issue. I will intentionally pick a fight with her so that she can not be touching me anyhow. Hmmmmm. Fast forward. This girl was begging me not to tell my friend what she has done. I fear women. This girl went to tell my friend that I took advantage of her. I was mad. I and this friend are not close again till tomorrow. She was crying like it was true. I now confronted her, You won't believe that this girl lied to my face that she can not remember she kissed me, touched me in some parts of my body. Since then, I stopped being close to my friend's girlfriends or wives. Some use to tell my friends maybe I don't like them. I also use to tell my friends the story is that they keep their friends from me. Girls can lie, that was why the devil went to meet his colleague , Even , in the garden of Eden. This girl normally blackmail me that I don't check up on her, she will even report to my friend whenever he comes around to visit. I will just laughed because I knew I loved her. 5 Likes |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Olumighty123(m): 8:53pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
This one happened to a guy I know, he was banging this woman and when he got married and decided to back off, the woman accused him of rape, guy man spent close to a year in prison, it was such a horrible thing to had happened to such innocent newly married guy, his wife gave birth while he was in prison. Fear women abeg. Everyone knew how they've been dating, but the police or whoever was in charge f that case doesn't even want to see no withness, it was all planned out, the guy told us of how she said she would use anything she has to send him to prison, so she does. 25 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by maasoap(m): 8:53pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
dominique: And who do we blame for every wayward boy out there? Let's learn to take responsibility for our actions instead of looking for the third party to blame. Lol 9 Likes |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Nobody: 8:54pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Mummytoo: Really? If it was in this day and time, I’m sure you’ll be the first to crucify him without even knowing the truth |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by evictor305: 8:55pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Honestly i feel for you OP be very careful with children. I'm currently working on my daughter for similar thing. This things starts gradually and parents need to pay attention to it. I have a twin of 3 years 1 month boy and girl. Someone the girls lies that she was beaten even when am absolutely sure nothing like that happens. If i scold her verbally she will start crying and go tell her mom i beat her when nothing like that happened. I was like where are all these coming from? trust me i can figure it out and it's not the same with her brother. Children are more than we think. may God help us 31 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by reubenobi(m): 8:56pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Jaqenhghar:where did he tell you he molested her? |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Shalayetv: 8:57pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Women are not as complicated as men think. Telling your girl what she wants and needs to hear should be at the top of your priority list, especially when it comes to making her feel worth it. There's a feeling of pleasure that comes from wanting to shower her with love without her having to ask. With that said, there are so many underused three-word expressions she is probably dying to hear her man say. In just three simple words, you can express your feelings for your crush, your girlfriend, or your wife. It's not about a lack of self-esteem or insecurity; it's simply a nice thing to do. Every one of us wants to be told how beautiful and how amazing we are by the people she love. There is an array of words that a woman wants to hear at all hours and times of the day. And because words are free, this shouldn't be too much to ask for. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TgcsecIvkVM 2 Likes |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Akwaibom1stlady(f): 8:58pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
aidameoryou: It's easier to share on WhatsApp. |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Blastedholligan: 8:58pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
lindseykibler:so sorry about your ordeal. That's so sad. So what now happened to this girl afterwards? 1 Like |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Mystery9(m): 8:59pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
This happen last week. I went to a woman's house to teach her. But she was not at home. I took a plastic chair and went behind the house to sit and wait for her. One of her little son, who should not be up to 3years, came around and started playing with me. Before I will know, he was trying to touch my penis area. I stopped him! later he started doing like someone that is nacking around my leg area. I tell you guys, I was perplexed and immediately scorned and stopped him. Then I asked him 'who taught you this' to my shock he said, I am the one. Aah....... I was taken aback with fear. Aah, what if truly this boy go misbehave and him say na the innocent me teach am. I fear the boy that moment. And I called his sister to please come and take him away. May God help us all. 41 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Kaytixy: 8:59pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Jaqenhghar:people like you are the ones raping people's children up and down. Rapist |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by stephenponti(m): 9:00pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
My own story is that a little girl about 9 to 10 years then we were in the village we went to pick cherry in the bush and she got entangled in this grass attached below and cried home to her mum and told them that I am the one that afflicted her with a grass. Her mum dragged her to our family and I was questioned I simply told them that I am not the one that did that and that was the end but I know their family never believe my side of the story 8 Likes 1 Share
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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Halogenabdul(m): 9:01pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
I understand you sir. I have been in the same condition before. I was so scared and depressed that I couldn't eat. my hands were shaking after the interrogation and days after as i couldn't overcome the grief, the psychological trauma was too much for me that I began to admit that I did what I never even dreamt off and of course that was the greatest mistake of my life. it changed me to who I am today, I was only 11 years old and because of that I hated lies and women. i stayed for up to 15 years without looking at women and hated them from the heart. friends and family members were even that one's tried to and hook me up before i finally got a woman in my life. till tomorrow all the pains i went through is still fresh, her face still painted colored on my head and detailed scene stored in my Cerebral cells. may God heal us. 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by DrFunmisticGlow: 9:05pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
johnnywalker131:I believe this story. I know, more than anyone how manipulative children can be 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Karleb(m): 9:09pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
mccloud224: I dated a girl briefly some years ago. There was this guy who was in our clique then, he was always with this girl. Would even go to her house from time to time. Meanwhile, this girl had a roommate that's also my friend. Me and this my girl started dating and I would go to her house from time to time, sometimes I'd meet this same guy and even leave him there. I never even saw him as a threat. Then one day I visited my girl and she was narrating how someone stole money from her bag and also tied some of her foodstuffs, the follow wanted to abscond with the food but the mission was not successful. The day the incident happened, it was me, her and the guy that was at her place. All through the time we were with each other, even when she went out to buy something I still followed her with my church mind. Then her friend cut in and said she already told her that I was not the thief that it was the other guy. My brother, right there in my mind, I prayed for this her friend. I don't even know how I will start narrating how I didn't take her money. This her friend said what she said without evidence o and some days later, we discovered that this guy was the thief. In fact, some of our friends came out to share stories of how this guy stole one thing or the other from them. Before we left that area, this same guy attempted rape on a girl that almost put my friend in trouble. Even if you live in a hole, you might come out tomorrow and someone will accuse of rape, it's just best to surround yourself with people that can vouch for you no matter what. My own case wasn't rape accusation tho. I guess it still counts. Sorry for the long post. 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Nobody: 9:09pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Benki003:just share it 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by seyi4mesamuel(m): 9:15pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
One needs to be very careful especially with an opposite sex. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Nostring: 9:16pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Jaqenhghar:c'ommon most huh? Stop been foolish na 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by thoollz: 9:16pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Jaqenhghar: The way ignorant people dey always talk Ehn. Make una dey use confidence dey talk rubbish. Stop showing your ignorance to the world. So because I have a video on my phone, automatically I'll be flagged and arrested for possession of such material? Damn, you guys worship the whites alot and think everything is automatic. Do you think these same people don't share child pornography or illicit contents? How many of them get arrested just like that? Even R.Kelly that got involved with underaged kids was first of all reported before his case got to a judge. White people are not God, they're humans and will make mistakes. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
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