Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,198,937 members, 7,969,866 topics. Date: Tuesday, 08 October 2024 at 03:40 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" (65820 Views)
How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks / How My Mom Ruined My Life / My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) (12) (13) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Damoche10: 7:01am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Kaytixy: True story. This story was shared on Twitter 1 Like |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by michael1508: 7:02am On Apr 24, 2022 |
I have ever hated anything injustice all my life. There is something that gives you this kind of heartache pains when you are wrongfully accused of something you stand against and it's even more painful when no one wants to hear you out. I have always said it and I will continue saying it,anyday anyone male or female accuses me of something as magnanimous as rape,believe me,that unfortunate fellow won't stay alive to tell the rest of the story,I will definitely make your life miserable on earth, spiritually,every think within my capacity will be used in dealing with you. The after effect of false rape accusation will always be there even after the supposed victim came back to refute the claim as fake,your image, reputations and psychological effect can be draining. One thing that still baffle me is that,despite some of this false accusations stories which became obvious that they were frame-ups,justice is usually not given to the accused,they tell you to forgive and just admit its one of those things in life,that the said lady was ignorant and all sort of bla bla excuses. I'm even pissed at some of the false accused victims stories up there,like you were pleading with people around that you were innocent,who does that? Omo!!!,me I dey vex for shits ooo and I no dey hide am. 9 Likes |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Nobody: 7:23am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Leave the kids alone, don't play with them. 8 Likes |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Babsolala: 7:39am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Jaqenhghar: To the guys that I quoted below, I'm glad that you all tried to put Jaqenhghar (whom I quoted above) exactly where he/she belongs. I viewed his/her profile out of curiosity and the DP says it all. He/she already put himself/herself exactly where he/she belongs. I guess we all know who the "one !diot" is! Sometimes, all one needs to do is see a person's username or profile and their sense of reasoning won't be surprising. Maybe most of us have never been victims of such accusations, but we have got a lot to learn from all of your comments. reubenobi: Richy4: JoyousFurnitire: Slynation: uniquetechng: JoyousFurnitire: 7 Likes
|
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by cardoctor(m): 7:56am On Apr 24, 2022 |
She still ruined your life. 2 Likes |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Jaqenhghar: 8:07am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Babsolala:Im sure its comforting having a few retards who reason just like you. Just because you are many in number doesnt make paedophelia right. No amount of insults will change my stande or give you a pass. You are sick and you need help. Because sickos like you are rife in that country that is why sadly cases of rape is never going anywhere. I only feel sorry for the women and children who have to share a society with your type 1 Like |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Kaybae(f): 8:08am On Apr 24, 2022 |
That was how a student roped one of the most cool headed guy that happened to be my colleague at work, this guy is so decent that everyone fled up when it happened and the guy was sacked. It was a set up but up till now we don't know the person that did it because everyone loves him. 10 Likes |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by kanmie(m): 8:09am On Apr 24, 2022 |
I've read various stories, comments sharing their bitter ordeals and experiences. I must confess some situations are rather unfortunate while others are self inflicting injuries. If wall did not open anyhow lizard won't just entered. The moral lesson behind this shows we should all keep to SELF DISCIPLINE. Building strong character that devoid any form of bad atrocities. Yoruba proverb says... Ilésanmí dùn joyè lọ. / To have a peaceful home (or life) is better than being honoured with (possibly stressful) titles. And “Oruko rere san ju Wura ati Fadaka lo” (A good name is better than silver and gold) In the area (Abeokuta) I hail from, we emphatically trains child on self discipline in order to build on strong character than anything else. It's very difficult for any negative influence to override the training and teachings we grown up to. So, it's baffles me, when falsed allegations is faced at a MAN.. what comes to my mind is... what kind of person is the accused person?? I'm not claiming a saint or perfect guy but it's would be very hard for anyone to lay wrong or false accuse at me because over my 30 something years on earth I've been extremely careful and maintain a very disciplined lifestyle. I understand quiet well spiritual problems or deliberage attack can put someone into serious shit but if you remain steadfast with God and shown good character overtime.. you will surely overcome no matter what. It's a time of reflection on we MEN as a whole because its high time we stick to moral values. If you're playboy in your area forming 007 that can knack anything in skirt then try and stop because it's would be easy for people to accused you of rape. If you're someone who believe In "survival for the fittest," "no paddy for jungle" or generally indulge the ideal of making money at all cost. It would be very easy for people to accused you of cheat, scams, fraud or sort of bad names. Sexuall harassment is a serious case in every part of the world because female gender are vulnerable, No doubt Men tends to express the animalistic nature we possed but with strong self discipline we can overcome/curtail it. I remembered vividly sometimes last year a lady (21years) frolicking around me. This very lady usually visit my igbo girlfriend who stayed with me for 7months back then in 2017. So, when my babe left me, this babe won't stop visiting and I never bothered I see her as sister cos she's young even though she's extremely pretty. Fair in complexion and possessed a great body size. She will visit me often, spend great time at my place and throw herself at unnecessary but I would be like Mariam I can't date you.. you're my sister! One faithful day last year.. she visited me and expressed how much she loved my kind of person would want us to date and eventually marry, I was dumbfounded and told her point blank NO. She started crying saying.. i did not appreciate her constant visitation to my place .. haba! I pacify her and tell I will think about it.. For several weeks I avoided her but one faithful day she visited me around 7pm when I was lest expecting her. I was shocked cos I knew her mission but put myself together then allow her into my apartment. I was like Mariam it's late ...let see tomorow but she refuted confessing how much she loved me. After much persuasion to her to leave she requested we should have sex ... haaaa Sex bawo... ?? She promised to leave me for good if we can just have sexual romp... my heart japa into a deep thought! At this point I was confused cos she already pull off her clothes except panties.. which kin temptation be this. I summons courage and beg her to dress up.. she was begging me to do just once as she can't just bear knowing me for 4years without having a sexual encounter with her from there i knew she had a plan. Meanwhile.. my neighbours has started to suspect us as some can hear our voices like murmured. I eventually lamba her some skirmish stories and she give in... then she left around 11:15pm. I was sweating profusely cos at that point she scared the hell out of me.. what if she scream and shout that I want to raped nko? The following day, some of my neighbours started hailing me ... haaa! Iru owo wo niyen. I debuked it that nothing happen joor. Few months later she visited me with her huge belly ... then my neighbours challenged her.. "Mariam how come", she told everyone i Bleep up as she actually want to settle down with me but I refused her sex. Despite the fact she has been telling everyone we're dating .. mofo big time. 90% of my neighbours started seeing differently and concluded am a man of my words. Even in court of law.. when someone is wrongly or falsely accused, at the point judgement. The judge will summons for an independent investigation on the person's character. So, it's borne on us to build on strong character and self discipline May God help us all� 16 Likes |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by effort1: 8:26am On Apr 24, 2022 |
RSVP: Dumb. How do you wake your dad from sleep? With kicks and slaps? Is that the culture in your home or you are just being your basttard self? 1 Like |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by bigcee(m): 9:19am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Biggcake:I swear, this one shock me. 2 Likes
|
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by belshazzar(m): 9:51am On Apr 24, 2022 |
I have been following this thread since yesterday and reading various comments, well I think it's safe for me to say I believe 98 percentage of what people have said because I can totally relate to all this . I've had multiple experience with little girls and how they can tell life threatening lies in a honest manner . I might not be a victim directly but I remember vividly just 3 years ago my Forster sister of 9 years old told my girlfriend (she didn't know we were dating) that I have one other pretty girlfriend that comes to visit me every weekend (Omo it weakened my soul when I heard this ) the funniest part of it was that just a week prior to this stunt my lil sis pulled, I and my girlfriend were having a casual conversation about guys that cheat in a relationship and that what would she do to me if she found out that I was double dating and what if she found the other lady on my bed . it was a crazy week for me because I had to call my elder sister to talk to my girlfriend that my lil sis is a lier and would tell any lie just for people to accept/like her . I later talked to my lil sister in a very matured way and made her realize that telling lies can ruin people's life and reputation and that she needs to stop and she needs to go tell me babe the truth . now imagine if she'd said something quite different from that and what if I'd become a victim of verbal circumstances that would have made vindication virtually impossible . I think we should all make sure that we make our lil ones realize why they should not tell lies and chastise them accordingly when needed . 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by anochuko01(m): 9:57am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Richardlove:See pride all over you. Just be thankful to God for preserving you. A lot of these guys grew up to be homely, kind, welcoming and helpful, only for them to become victims of girls with witchcraft characters. Just keep asking God to continue to preserve you. That's all I'll say. 13 Likes |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by anochuko01(m): 10:03am On Apr 24, 2022 |
PhilGreen: I swear to God!! I'm very teared up reading this thread. I can't count the number of female kids I've carried and played with. At some point, my former neighbors daughter could spend the whole day in our house with me alone!! I'm thankful to God that i ever experienced any of these sad stories. I'll surely be careful from now. 12 Likes |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by anochuko01(m): 10:08am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Toneyo: No lies sir! I was still in pry 5 in the early 2000s and MOST of my female classmates were fully matured. We had18 to 19 years olds in the class, and one of the girls got married just two years after pry 6. 2 Likes |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Babsolala: 10:18am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Jaqenhghar: For starters, I have never experienced being accused of an issue like that, that's why I wrote that the rest of us have got a lot to learn from these experiences. The last part is even clearly on my post. But you are blinded either because you are abysmally too daft to comprehend basic texts or horribly a vile person. Maybe it's even both. All of your previous posts point to same and I wonder if you see me or any other person here as the root cause of whatever is eating you up. You need help! Seek one fast while you still can!! Secondly, any sensible human should not only highly condemn child molestation and rape, but should also strongly condemn false accusations and discourage such. Wait! Why am I even typing all of this to you when you obviously no even get sense to understand?! 9 Likes |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:25am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Babsolala:..... Lol. You get time to be engaging her. 1 Like |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by frank155(m): 10:26am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Jaqenhghar: You're probably dumb. Following your reasoning, those people whose car's got spoilt because of adulterated fuel where at fault. Do you think they ever thought that will happen? Some of there car's where in perfect shape but that single point of failure destroyed everything. 3 Likes |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by anayolity: 10:31am On Apr 24, 2022 |
dominique: Silly girl Wetin Una no go blame men for. 3 Likes |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Babsolala: 10:32am On Apr 24, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE: My brother, as in ehn... I just realized same after almost hitting the submit button on that post, that's why I still added it as an afterthought. 2 Likes |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by boom99(m): 10:38am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Richardlove: You are proud 3 Likes |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:39am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Babsolala:.... I saw it earlier that's why I overlooked her emotional tantrums. Besides. What do you expect? When a thief is exposed,he or she tries to use emotional blackmail to cover up. This thread is an eye opener for those who still doesn't understand what's happening. 2 Likes |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Aaaaarghmed(m): 10:44am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Richardlove:see mumu dey talk of loopholes.body never tell you.pray make you no fall victim.dey talk of loophole.you mumu no be small,you are trying hard to sound smart,but na mumu talk 1 Like |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Jaqenhghar: 10:45am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Babsolala:You admit that any sensible person should condemn rape. By this statement most Niggerlanders and even Niggerian men are not sensible since they never condemn rape. You have just proven my point now enjoy the rest of your day 1 Like |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Jaqenhghar: 10:48am On Apr 24, 2022 |
frank155: Now apply that logic to rape victims and understand why shaming rape victims is also dumb. Why also concluding that a rape vicitm is lying is also dumb. 1 Like |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by CaptainAyub: 10:52am On Apr 24, 2022 |
boom99:He is stoopid, not proud. Him no know anything |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by anayolity: 10:56am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Jaqenhghar: My you confidently sound like a idiat 1 Like |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Abidex001: 11:02am On Apr 24, 2022 |
annisy: What happens when its the daughters who set up their fathers....do you blame the father for being close to the daughters? I recall reading some years back of a daughter who falsely accused her father of rape because he disapproved of her relationship with a particular guy. The father was convicted based on the testimony of the daughter and observation by the doctors that the girl recently had sex. No dna analysis was used because it was at its infancy. Father was released several decades later when she confessed. He chose not press charges against his daughter. He will probably die having it in mind that his own child robed him of the best part if his life. When an "innocent", weak child accuses a stronger, older man....emotions often make public opinion side with the weaker, "innocent" child.... In the case below, the daughter took sides with her mum who had issues with the dad and falsely accuse him of rape robbing him of 16 years of his adult life https://www.nbcnews.com/news/world/daughter-i-lied-sent-my-dad-prison-rape-flna6c10944213 7 Likes |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Jaqenhghar: 11:04am On Apr 24, 2022 |
anayolity:That's exaclty how your father sounded. I learnt from the best |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by ITDarrell(m): 11:05am On Apr 24, 2022 |
That's the reason I maintained reasonable distance and cordiality with my female students during my teaching years in a private secondary school. My female students do frown at me that I am only close to the boys that I don't give them adequate attention!!. But I understood better!! Before those nossy female teachers you don't give face to start gossiping your cordiality with female students and who knows what next? 9 Likes |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by anayolity: 11:18am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Nikkganc08: I swear down Bro....THIS MUST NOT SLIDE AT ALLLLLL...... Please quote me with the feedback 4 Likes |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Abidex001: 11:33am On Apr 24, 2022 |
emmabest2000: Even the 10 years old girl...the mother has already come out crying and accusing the boys of gang raping her. As the mother has accused the boys of rape, the girl will follow suite to protect her reputation and avoid issues with her mother. Luckily, there is video evidence to debunk this...else even if the escape the law, they will carry the stigma of being rapist in the public 7 Likes |
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by anu3: 11:38am On Apr 24, 2022 |
annisy: Nice... Even coming from a woman. |
(1) (2) (3) ... (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) (12) (13) (Reply)
Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? / A Man Caught A Baby Thrown Out Of A Burning House In Arizona, US / Bayelsa Man Shows His Two Wives On Facebook (Photos)
Viewing this topic: 1 guest(s)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 127 |