Goodmorning nairalanders .
I am new here,although I always read stories that made it to the front page. I am in a serious dilemma right now and please I will need honest answers to these questions.

I am a married mother of four. I have been having constant issues with my husband concerning his cheating nature and anytime I bring it before him it always ends up with a fight(not physical though,I mean quarrel)that I end up begging him later because I can't bare to see us quarrel.

But he seems to have taken advantage of this.
I complained to him again concerning this because I have been having series of STIs,this resulted in a quarrel.
He told me the following which makes me wonder if a man truly loves a woman of he will talk like this

1) He said he is addicted to sex(mind you I allow him have his way anytime he wants even when I'm heavily pregnant and I'm usually active during sex)so he cannot stop having other girls.

2)He said i should learn to leave with it
3)

Doveispure:
Goodmorning nairalanders .
I am new here,although I always read stories that made it to the front page. I am in a serious dilemma right now and please I will need honest answers to these questions.

I am a married mother of four. I have been having constant issues with my husband concerning his cheating nature and anytime I bring it before him it always ends up with a fight(not physical though,I mean quarrel)that I end up begging him later because I can't bare to see us quarrel.

But he seems to have taken advantage of this.
I complained to him again concerning this because I have been having series of STIs,this resulted in a quarrel.
He told me the following which makes me wonder if a man truly loves a woman of he will talk like this

1) He said he is addicted to sex(mind you I allow him have his way anytime he wants even when I'm heavily pregnant and I'm usually active during sex)so he cannot stop having other girls.

2)He said i should learn to leave with it
3)

Was he like this before you got married to him?

Doveispure:
He told me the following which makes me wonder if a man truly loves a woman of he will talk like this

1) He said he is addicted to sex(mind you I allow him have his way anytime he wants even when I'm heavily pregnant and I'm usually active during sex)so he cannot stop having other girls.

2)He said i should learn to leave with it

So, what exactly seems to be the issue here?

Doveispure:
Goodmorning nairalanders .
I am new here,although I always read stories that made it to the front page. I am in a serious dilemma right now and please I will need honest answers to these questions.

1) He said he is addicted to sex(mind you I allow him have his way anytime he wants even when I'm heavily pregnant and I'm usually active during sex)so he cannot stop having other girls.

2)He said i should learn to leave with it
3)

What are the questions?

There's no justification for cheating. A cheat is a cheat. Stop thinking there's sth you are not doing well. It's not your fault! It's he who has a fault.

Doveispure:
Goodmorning nairalanders .
I am new here,although I always read stories that made it to the front page. I am in a serious dilemma right now and please I will need honest answers to these questions.

I am a married mother of four. I have been having constant issues with my husband concerning his cheating nature and anytime I bring it before him it always ends up with a fight(not physical though,I mean quarrel)that I end up begging him later because I can't bare to see us quarrel.

But he seems to have taken advantage of this.
I complained to him again concerning this because I have been having series of STIs,this resulted in a quarrel.
He told me the following which makes me wonder if a man truly loves a woman of he will talk like this

1) He said he is addicted to sex(mind you I allow him have his way anytime he wants even when I'm heavily pregnant and I'm usually active during sex)so he cannot stop having other girls.

2)He said i should learn to leave with it
3)

A IndecentStar recently died from an STI.


Did you know some STIs are incurable?



Some are difficult and expensive to treat. The money you're supposed to spend on your progress and that of your children, you will be spending it on treatments because of a man without discipline and self control.



Don't tell me you're doing it for your kids because if you peme today, your children will survive just fine. And besides, you just want to use your married status to pepper single ladies so, just don't pretend.



The ball is in your court.
Dem no dey telli person.........

wahala, divorce that silly goat.

What exactly is stopping you from divorcing him? Or is it until you get HIV before you get sense and leave?

So, are you going to learn to live with it? Go through the cycle of catching him, fighting, forgiving him, etc. Or are you going to take the bull by the horn and save you and your family?

You have had several STIs and you are not scared for your life? You are still playing the dutiful wife and obliging him whenever he wants sex, so that he can supply you with more infections. Or what exactly is your plan?

MAGG0T:


I have this to tell you, never lose a good man because someone mistakenly slept with him

ROFLMAO

Doveispure:


I am a married mother of four. I have been having constant issues with my husband concerning his cheating nature and anytime I bring it before him it always ends up with a fight(not physical though,I mean quarrel)that I end up begging him later because I can't bare to see us quarrel.

But he seems to have taken advantage of this.
I complained to him again concerning this because I have been having series of STIs,this resulted in a quarrel.
He told me the following which makes me wonder if a man truly loves a woman of he will talk like this

1) He said he is addicted to sex(mind you I allow him have his way anytime he wants even when I'm heavily pregnant and I'm usually active during sex)so he cannot stop having other girls.

2)He said i should learn to leave with it
3)

Well, i have nothing to say to you than to smh

It’s your Children i pity for though.

Doveispure:
Goodmorning nairalanders .
I am new here,although I always read stories that made it to the front page. I am in a serious dilemma right now and please I will need honest answers to these questions.

I am a married mother of four. I have been having constant issues with my husband concerning his cheating nature and anytime I bring it before him it always ends up with a fight(not physical though,I mean quarrel)that I end up begging him later because I can't bare to see us quarrel.

But he seems to have taken advantage of this.
I complained to him again concerning this because I have been having series of STIs,this resulted in a quarrel.
He told me the following which makes me wonder if a man truly loves a woman of he will talk like this

1) He said he is addicted to sex(mind you I allow him have his way anytime he wants even when I'm heavily pregnant and I'm usually active during sex)so he cannot stop having other girls.

2)He said i should learn to leave with it
3)

Madam, temporarily leave that man please. Why are you playing with your life like this hehhh? Then if you don't want to leave, kindly avoid sex with him and face your children, habaa!!!! Chaiiii, God please help us......

Continue to live with him but permanently seal up your hole until he changes.

My dear, go and buy vibrator, then move into another room put lock on the door and wait. Tell him he is free to bang anybody he desires but you are not interested in risking your life and leaving your kids motherless. Give it a year. He will come begging you for sex. No gree o! That means he has finally gotten the HIV. Then and there ask him to prove he is clean by a government test of all STD’s. I assure you he will run. Health is wealth o. Don’t risk your health for anybody.