Can someone put me through on how to go about divorce in Nigeria and the cost involved?

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Gentleman900000:
Can someone put me through on how to go about divorce in Nigeria and the cost involved?

Gentleman900000:
Can someone put me through on how to go about divorce in Nigeria and the cost involved?

So all the advice people gave you on the other thread did not sink abi?

Do as you like.

I observed that she just changed her phone password.

koyyess:


So all the advice people gave you on the other thread did not sink abi?

Do as you like.

Your question is like asking Nairaland users to tell you how you'll go about an organ transplant. The answer would be "go to a hospital and meet a specialist/ surgeon".

To divorce your wife, go to law firm , pay consultation fees and seek the counsel of a lawyer.

Yours appears to be a young marriage. No court will dissolve your Marriage if it's not up to 2 years and before they here your divorce case, you must seek leave which no right thinking judge will grant because your story makes you sound like a troll.

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ETHICALLYrlght:

Women are not as complicated as men think. Telling your girl what she wants
and needs to hear should be at the top of your priority list, especially when it comes to
making her feel worth it. There's a feeling of pleasure that comes from wanting to
shower her with love without her having to ask. With that said, there are so many
underused three-word expressions she is probably dying to hear her man say.
In just three simple words, you can express your feelings for your crush, your girlfriend,
or your wife. It's not about a lack of self-esteem or insecurity; it's simply a nice thing to
do. Every one of us wants to be told how beautiful and how amazing we are by the
people she love. There is an array of words that a woman wants to hear at all hours and
times of the day. And because words are free, this shouldn't be too much to ask for.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TgcsecIvkVM

Gentleman900000:
Can someone put me through on how to go about divorce in Nigeria and the cost involved?

Welcome on board Mr. Simps.
First and foremost, did u do traditional wedding and white wedding?
If did d former, just meet your people and tell them that u want to return d package they followed to buy.
Your people would ask you some questions but always stand on your ground that u want to send her back to her fathers house. Your people would now, send delegate's to d girls house and they will settle everything amicably.
Don't go to court only if u did traditional way bcs court would delay d process and also d cost involved. Pls go through d traditional way, it won't cost u anything apart from maybe drinks for your kinsmen

Traditional and white

emmanuelbrown26:

Welcome on board Mr. Simps.
First and foremost, did u do traditional wedding and white wedding?
If did d former, just meet your people and tell them that u want to return d package they followed to buy.
Your people would ask you some questions but always stand on your ground that u want to send her back to her fathers house. Your people would now, send delegate's to d girls house and they will settle everything amicably.
Don't go to court only if u did traditional way bcs court would delay d process and also d cost involved. Pls go through d traditional way, it won't cost u anything apart from maybe drinks for your kinsmen

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Gentleman900000:
Traditional and white

U are safer now.
U don't need court at all. Just meet your kinsmen and discuss with them, then they will lead u way to d girls house and finalise d process,. In this case, if u hv kid, u will only be paying for d upkeep of d baby but if their is no kid, that means u don't owe anybody.

Omo! Make una allow young single guys have future blissful marital hope
Who we offend?

" what you know you can't finish, don't start it".


"Divorce is a generational curse".

Gentleman900000:
Can someone put me through on how to go about divorce in Nigeria and the cost involved?

Visit a professional marriage counselor before you proceed please as it is bound to get really messy without.

musiliyukayode:
" what you know you can't finish, don't start it".
"Divorce is a generational curse".

According to whom?

Gentleman900000:
I observed that she just changed her phone password.

She changed her phone password and that is why you want to divorce her?

OK, Goodluck!

Kobojunkie:
She changed her phone password and that is why you want to divorce her?

OK, Goodluck!

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Kobojunkie:
She changed her phone password and that is why you want to divorce her?

OK, Goodluck!

Yes na.... she's unrepentant bastard that needs to send back to marriage market as tokumbo.. she's not even remorseful.

Why will my wife passwords her phone for the first place?
She the craze?

Toktee:
Yes na.... she's unrepentant bastardized that needs to send back to marriage market as to jumbo.. she's not even remorseful.

Why will my wife passworded her phone for the first place?
She the craze?

Some of you have never experienced hell before that is why with your own hands you look for ways to design it for your own selves it seems.

Did i say that's the reason?

Kobojunkie:
She changed her phone password and that is why you want to divorce her?

OK, Goodluck!

She's not remorseful at all. Trying to act up forming around the house for me when she's the one that hurt me.

Toktee:
Yes na.... she's unrepentant bastard that needs to send back to marriage market as tokumbo.. she's not even remorseful.

Why will my wife passwords her phone for the first place?
She the craze?

Gentleman900000:
Did i say that's the reason?

But isn't this the reason you stated for the quick change of mind?

Gentleman900000:
She's not remorseful at all. Trying to act up forming around the house for me when she's the one that hurt me.

So because she hurt you, you want to hurt her back?

Gentleman900000:
She's not remorseful at all. Trying to act up forming around the house for me when she's the one that hurt me.

oga if am in ur shoe I will take her to her parents... I will tell them I need a space for a while.


Some women get mind Sha.

Why would she change password if she has no skeleton in her cupboard? Isn't that suspicious?

Kobojunkie:
But isn't this the reason you stated for the quick change of mind?

Gentleman900000:
Why would she change password if she has no skeleton in her cupboard? Isn't that suspicious?

I was contemplating changing my password last night because I wanted to add access to a new device but have forgotten what the old one was. Does this mean I have skeletons in my closet too?

Okay, even aside from that, is she suppose to be acting up around the house when she's the culprit of what happened? Please be sincere

Kobojunkie:
I was contemplating changing my password last night because I wanted to add access to a new device but have forgotten what the old one was. Does this mean I have skeletons in my closet too?

Gentleman900000:
Okay, even aside from that, is she suppose to be acting up around the house when she's the culprit of what happened? Please be sincere

Culprit of what exactly? she changed her password and some how she becomes guilty of a crime by it?

By the way, do you both have an agreement that requires you know each other's password of something? Not every couple out there has that sort of agreement is why I ask.

I thought you followed the story i posted yesterday.

Kobojunkie:
Culprit of what exactly?

Gentleman900000:
I thought you followed the story i posted yesterday.

I did but all we read was your side of the hurt. We didn't get to read her side so not sure why you have taken to convicting her of crimes already

By the way, do you both have an agreement that requires you know each other's password of something? Not every couple out there has that sort of agreement is why I ask.

Do they make agreement for that separately?By the way, which other side of her story do you want to hear again? Someone packed cloth in her bag while going to work and went out with a friend to a movie without informing her husband? Why can't she wear her uniform to the movie if it was a woman she went out with as she said?

Kobojunkie:
I did but all we read was your side of the hurt. We didn't get to read her side so not sure why you have taken to convicting her of crimes already

By the way, do you both have an agreement that requires you know each other's password of something? Not every couple out there has that sort of agreement is why I ask.

Gentleman900000:
1. Do they make agreement for that separately?

2. By the way, which other side of her story did you want to hear again? Someone packed cloth in her bag while going to work and went out with a friend to a movie without informing her husband?

3. Why can't she wear her uniform to the movie if it was a woman she went out as she said?

1. Actually, yes, there are no Default rules to these things. If you have been on nairaland long enough, you know that there are no templates as far as relationships and marriages are concerned.

So, unless you both agreed to revealing your passwords to each other, I don't see why you would condemn her for not keeping to what is then an imagined rule.

2. I already explained to you previously that that was childish behavior but I don't know why a grown woman had to resort to that in what is her marriage.

Also, I don't understand why a grown man would expect his adult wife to report to him before she can go out to see a movie.

3. Even i wouldn't wear my work uniform to go watch a movie. I dey craze!

I dey go there go represent my employer? Will I get paid for my time? Jeeezz!