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Love Na Scam! Men, At What Point Did U Give Up On Most women/Nigerian Women? by OkwuEziokwu(m): 11:49pm On Apr 24, 2022
I'm new to this Romance section and I'm only here because I honestly don see too many things outside.
I gave up recently when it dawned on me that we have lost true values and morals.

I cannot bring myself to trust the bulk of Nigerian women anymore. The internet has exposed them.
There isn't substance to the vast majority. They can be quite superficial, slimy, deceptive and cunning.

Their love is very conditional and I've woken up to this reality. I think I may have just become completely numerical with them. If you don't add around the same value to my life as I add to yours, I don't get serious with you.
Love isn't enough and in the case of many Nigerian women, the love sef is mindblowingly fake!

Thoughts?

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Re: Love Na Scam! Men, At What Point Did U Give Up On Most women/Nigerian Women? by newwise1: 8:51am On Apr 25, 2022
Make una rest with this love matter nah, love your self more and have peace
Re: Love Na Scam! Men, At What Point Did U Give Up On Most women/Nigerian Women? by odinson1(m): 8:52am On Apr 25, 2022
Women Use relationships and "love" to Extract resources from naive men who deceive themselves that they are in love. A woman will only date you if she sees your are somebody with either a good present,or a promising future. You know why? She is always on the lookout for what to gain,she sees the relationship as a Poverty alleviation scheme where she will act as a Parasite to a Foolish host, calling himself a "real man".
She gives the host sex(which they both enjoy) and words of encouragement,and in return,the Host Spends his hard earned money on her,and will always be ready to defend her in times of danger or trouble. The host thinks he's in love,he doesn't know The Prostitute or Parasite he is dating,is only using him for what he has to offer presently.
The moment the host stops being of benefit,she dumps his Simple ass and moves on in search of another Foolish host.

The Bottom line is,your wife or girlfriend will NEVER love you as much as you love her. Stop providing and see her respect and "Affection" start to dwindle,while she withdraws the sex of course. The reality is,You wife or girlfriend will deny you sex if you stop giving her money. So what does that really make her? That is left for you to decide.

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Re: Love Na Scam! Men, At What Point Did U Give Up On Most women/Nigerian Women? by Nyascobar1414: 11:33am On Apr 25, 2022
Na mumu dey love naija girls...
As Goodharddick says... Fvvk and dump their sorry ass..
Re: Love Na Scam! Men, At What Point Did U Give Up On Most women/Nigerian Women? by KAM3KAZI: 11:36am On Apr 25, 2022
I lost interest in it when I understood the dark nature of females(ie they love it when you're toxic to them,how they take you for a fool if you good to them),I know it isn't every single one of them that are like that but 77% of them are.
Re: Love Na Scam! Men, At What Point Did U Give Up On Most women/Nigerian Women? by OkwuEziokwu(m): 12:33pm On Apr 25, 2022
KAM3KAZI:
I lost interest in it when I understood the dark nature of females(ie they love it when you're toxic to them,how they take you for a fool if you good to them),I know it isn't every single one of them that are like that but 77% of them are.

This.
Man, the only hope is to find a humble one on my level and just deal with life. All my criteria MUST be met first before I even commit. I'm taking no chances.
Re: Love Na Scam! Men, At What Point Did U Give Up On Most women/Nigerian Women? by OkwuEziokwu(m): 12:35pm On Apr 25, 2022
odinson1:
Women Use relationships and "love" to Extract resources from naive men who deceive themselves that they are in love. A woman will only date you if she sees your are somebody with either a good present,or a promising future. You know why? She is always on the lookout for what to gain,she sees the relationship as a Poverty alleviation scheme where she will act as a Parasite to a Foolish host, calling himself a "real man".
She gives the host sex(which they both enjoy) and words of encouragement,and in return,the Host Spends his hard earned money on her,and will always be ready to defend her in times of danger or trouble. The host thinks he's in love,he doesn't know The Prostitute or Parasite he is dating,is only using him for what he has to offer presently.
The moment the host stops being of benefit,she dumps his Simple ass and moves on in search of another Foolish host.

The Bottom line is,your wife or girlfriend will NEVER love you as much as you love her. Stop providing and see her respect and "Affection" start to dwindle,while she withdraws the sex of course. The reality is,You wife or girlfriend will deny you sex if you stop giving her money. So what does that really make her? That is left for you to decide.

I'm screenshotting this. This is gospel!

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Re: Love Na Scam! Men, At What Point Did U Give Up On Most women/Nigerian Women? by Newton2024: 12:35pm On Apr 25, 2022
I don't know where you people are meeting these strange ladies o. All the ladies that surround me are ladies of values and morals. I know plenty godly, educated and humble girls all around me.

You guys should give your life to Christ because you attract your type.

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Re: Love Na Scam! Men, At What Point Did U Give Up On Most women/Nigerian Women? by Truvelisback(m): 12:46pm On Apr 25, 2022
OkwuEziokwu:
I'm new to this Romance section and I'm only here because I honestly don see too many things outside.
I gave up recently when it dawned on me that we have lost true values and morals.

I cannot bring myself to trust the bulk of Nigerian women anymore. The internet has exposed them.
There isn't substance to the vast majority. They can be quite superficial, slimy, deceptive and cunning.

Their love is very conditional and I've woken up to this reality. I think I may have just become completely numerical with them. If you don't add around the same value to my life as I add to yours, I don't get serious with you.
Love isn't enough and in the case of many Nigerian women, the love sef is mindblowingly fake!

Thoughts?
Na today u Know?
Re: Love Na Scam! Men, At What Point Did U Give Up On Most women/Nigerian Women? by KAM3KAZI: 12:56pm On Apr 25, 2022
OkwuEziokwu:


This.
Man, the only hope is to find a humble one on my level and just deal with life. All my criteria MUST be met first before I even commit. I'm taking no chances.
Absolutely!
It's good you are optimistic about finding that special one,me I don tire. That special one will have to find me
Re: Love Na Scam! Men, At What Point Did U Give Up On Most women/Nigerian Women? by purehustle101(m): 1:09pm On Apr 25, 2022
Love your selfs! There's nothing like love with a Nigeria girl
Re: Love Na Scam! Men, At What Point Did U Give Up On Most women/Nigerian Women? by EmzyT: 1:13pm On Apr 25, 2022
Re: Love Na Scam! Men, At What Point Did U Give Up On Most women/Nigerian Women? by Temmylee01(m): 1:14pm On Apr 25, 2022
Well it depends on who you are with, I have been with better Nigerian girls and bad ones also...... it's just that 70% of Nigerian girls are not trust worthy.

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