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Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by mabeni(m): 12:59am On Apr 26, 2022 |
This 18years old who is supposed to be seating for her waec next is pregnant. Finding shows her father has been sleeping with her for years and he's responsible fir for the pregnancy. He poposely didn't register her for waec claiming the teachers wrongly entered her name. The man his currently in rivers state while the girl in question is in Lagos. Crime was committed in Lagos. Where should I report this case and what happens to this girl and the pregnancy when her father is taken in? Lastly, I want to be anonymous in this matter too 3 Likes |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by mabeni(m): 1:00am On Apr 26, 2022 |
This is too much and heavy for me. I can't sleep 2 Likes |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by oldienavie: 1:09am On Apr 26, 2022 |
mabeni:The lady is 18 years old, and she is considered an adult and not a minor. It will be interesting to see what the law has to say on this matter since the lady is an adult. Having said that, where is the mother of the lady and what exactly is your relationship with the lady ? Are you her boyfriend ? 3 Likes |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by mabeni(m): 1:12am On Apr 26, 2022 |
oldienavie:the mother left her for her father since childhood. Her father raised her. All efforts made to make this man come to Lagos proved abortive. He sounds unconcerned. 3 Likes |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by mysticwarrior(m): 1:26am On Apr 26, 2022 |
If you ask me na who I go ask? Omawumi is a specialist in this kind of situation. |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by obiekunie01: 1:45am On Apr 26, 2022 |
mabeni: oga pls answer one important question. HOW THIS MATTER TAKE CONCERN YOU?? ARE YOU HER BROTHER, UNCLE, NIECE OR WHAT? IF YOU ARE NOT ANY OF THE ABOVE, PLS LEARN TO MIND YOUR BUSINESS SO U DONT END UP LOOKING FOR YOUR HEAD ON TOP MATTER WEY NO CONCERN YOU. The girl is 18 yrs old - an adult under the law. At that age, she is expected to take care of any situation she finds herself. Considering how our girls are so good at twisting facts, what prove do you have that the girl is telling you the whole truth? SIMPle guys everywhere looking for who to dash their life to. AT THE SPEED WEY UNA DEY TAKE HEAD INTO TROUBLE OVER GIRLS, ALL OF UNA WEY BE SIMPS GO SOON DIE FINISH! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by oldienavie: 1:48am On Apr 26, 2022 |
mabeni:What is your own relationship with the lady ? You haven't answered that question ? |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by obiekunie01: 1:52am On Apr 26, 2022 |
mabeni: WALAHI BEING A SIMP IS A TOUGH JOB! ![]() ![]() ![]() And na so the girl go dey look him and be laughing in her mind and calling him ode and still be shedding crocodile tears to attract more of his sympathy! 1 Like |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by OyeofIkoTuN(m): 1:55am On Apr 26, 2022 |
Try @BBihumanrights or Harrison gwaminishun(don't know if I spelt that right) ..You said her father did it abi and you are sure. confirmed sure..ehn try that bros,very sharp bros. I know people upstairs are asking irrelevant questions,na because na taboo na why I answer you well...I for like foolish like my bros upstairs 7 Likes |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by Threesha(f): 2:04am On Apr 26, 2022 |
What to do - DSVRT | Domestic Sexual and Violence ... www.dsvrtlagos.org › ... What To Do If You Are Sexually Asaulted Or Raped. • Immediately go to Mirabel Centre, a Sexual Assault Referral Centre for free medical and counselling mabeni:Head Office DSVRT,, Secretariat, Alausa, Ikeja, Lagos.. Phones: 08000333333. +234 8137960048. Email: info@dsvrtlagos.org. 4 Likes |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by Cashio(m): 2:47am On Apr 26, 2022 |
Don't avoid that important question. How are you related with this girl that makes you want to fight the father for getting her pregnant. 2 Likes |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by Kobojunkie: 3:23am On Apr 26, 2022 |
mabeni:Did you inquire at the police station as to where to report such cases? ![]() Over here na police you go report am and dem go come bundle the man go begin dey process from there. ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by Tokskob2008: 3:59am On Apr 26, 2022 |
Make sure you have enough evidence before taken on the case so you don't look like a fool if things don't pan out like it was reported to you dude. Make e no be like say you carry another person matter for head while you use your own do handbag.. 2 Likes |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by DoctorOlasDesk: 4:12am On Apr 26, 2022 |
Its simple. Visit the nearest high court around you, there's an office that handles these crimes and they're extremely active. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by Eketem: 6:30am On Apr 26, 2022 |
mabeni: She should call this number and complain in Lagos. They will provide her guidance and counsel her properly 0800 033 3333 2 Likes |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by Eketem: 6:31am On Apr 26, 2022 |
obiekunie01: He is a father. He used his authority over her. Consent gotten from using any sort of force is rape. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by Spherical77(m): 6:58am On Apr 26, 2022 |
obiekunie01:@mabeni you know many are mad but few are roaming. Please avoid this LUNATIC Btw, follow the guidance and advice other well meaning Nairalanders had given so far. The Bastard man on the run must collect Wotowoto. 9 Likes |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by Mindlog: 7:10am On Apr 26, 2022 |
Cashio: He doesn't have to be related to the girl, to encourage her to seek the intervention of relevant government agency in addressing the alleged defilement because from the OP's narrative, it has been going on for years before she turned 18. 7 Likes |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by Mindlog: 7:28am On Apr 26, 2022 |
obiekunie01: He doesn't have to be related to the girl to be involved. She alleged years of defilement by her father and now pregnant, the Lagos State"s DVSRT when reported to, can get the father brought back to Lagos from Rivers State to tell his own side of the story and since a paternity test can be done while pregnant....then it would be known whether he is the one responsible for the pregnancy or not and I believe professionals in DVSRT can easily find out if there has been sexual contacts between father and daughter over the years. 7 Likes |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by Cashio(m): 7:33am On Apr 26, 2022 |
Mindlog:He should just be careful. |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by Mindlog: 7:38am On Apr 26, 2022 |
Cashio: He should just direct her to where to get the needed assistance where both father and daughter can prove their case because it is no longer a family matter as it has always been regarded by many. 1 Like |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by Cashio(m): 7:43am On Apr 26, 2022 |
Mindlog:Yea..you are right bro |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by mabeni(m): 7:59am On Apr 26, 2022 |
obiekunie01:you are definitely mad. 6 Likes |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by mabeni(m): 8:01am On Apr 26, 2022 |
oldienavie:does it matter? To answer your question, I'm an Inlaw in the family. 5 Likes |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by mabeni(m): 8:06am On Apr 26, 2022 |
obiekunie01:clearly, many of you are kids and brain retarded on NL. 7 Likes |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by BusinessPlan22: 9:02am On Apr 26, 2022 |
obiekunie01: Who born you nor born pikin 3 Likes |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by emmanuelbrown26: 9:14am On Apr 26, 2022 |
[quote author=obiekunie01 post=112278157] oga pls answer one important question. HOW THIS MATTER TAKE CONCERN YOU?? ARE YOU HER BROTHER, UNCLE, NIECE OR WHAT? IF YOU ARE NOT ANY OF THE ABOVE, PLS LEARN TO MIND YOUR BUSINESS SO U DONT END UP LOOKING FOR YOUR HEAD ON TOP MATTER WEY NO CONCERN YOU. The girl is 18 yrs old - an adult under the law. At that age, she is expected to take care of any situation she finds herself. Considering how our girls are so good at twisting facts, what prove do you have that the girl is telling you the whole truth? SIMPle guys everywhere looking for who to dash their life to. AT THE SPEED WEY UNA DEY TAKE HEAD INTO TROUBLE OVER GIRLS, ALL OF UNA WEY BE SIMPS GO SOON DIE FINISH![/quote I wanted to say same thing, but d other inner me said no] D wey simps dey carry girls matter for head dey tire me, I personally doubt truthfulness of this story from d girl. There are more to this story,bbut girls will always want that self pity which I don't buy |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by Mindlog: 9:18am On Apr 26, 2022 |
[quote author=emmanuelbrown26 post=112283275][/quote] There is a pregnancy, a paternity test while pregnant can prove who fathered the child. 4 Likes |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by JovialJune(f): 9:28am On Apr 26, 2022 |
[s] obiekunie01:[/s] So many fools on the internet space truly, as Op has answered idiots that he is an in law, what other excuses do these fools have just to blame the vicim? Dolts. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by emmanuelbrown26: 9:32am On Apr 26, 2022 |
Mindlog:OK, d said girl has not told d truth, she can only get justice when she says d truth. All these small girls of nowadays wey no dey close leg |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by obiekunie01: 9:40am On Apr 26, 2022 |
JovialJune: if you are not a very dumb slowpoke you would av noticed the comment was made before he answered the question. |
Re: Where Do They Report Sexual Abuse Or Molestation? I Am Angry by Mindlog: 9:43am On Apr 26, 2022 |
emmanuelbrown26: What are you presuming to be the truth? Can't a paternity test prove who the father of the unborn baby is? Even if she has had multiple sexual partners and can still in details describe her father's genitals, will it absolve the father of incest and defilement? 7 Likes |
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