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A Depressed And Frustrated Soul by DamiBlaise: 5:50am On Apr 28, 2022 |
Seriously, life is not fair. I hate when people judge those commiting suicide without knowing what they could have possibly been through. I don't share my problems with people cos nobody cares they'd rather mock or criticize you, this is a faceleless forum and i think it's okay to rant and talk my mind. I would have loved to type much but i currently use a small phone which makes it stressful to type an epistle.. I'm a very young, brilliant smart and handsome guy born in the family of 8. Yeah eight, including my mom and dad. My mom is the only female gender in my family, meaning my siblings are all male and i am the second child. Life isn't fair to me or should i even blame GOD for not making it fair.. |
Re: A Depressed And Frustrated Soul by DamiBlaise: 6:00am On Apr 28, 2022 |
I may end this miserable life soon because i am seriously depressed and frustrated, though my childhood was great due to my academic brilliance. Now my childhood friends are way ahead of me because i couldn't proceed after secondary school, some are married and done with tertiary institutions while i move from one factory work to another just to survive. Yeah, i know you must be thinking why i didn't learn a skill right? |
Re: A Depressed And Frustrated Soul by Kobojunkie: 6:07am On Apr 28, 2022 |
DamiBlaise:Life isn't fair to you because....? ![]() Why is God to blame and not your parents in this? ![]() And if you are depressed, why not seek professional mental health counseling so you can get necessary treatment and reach a higher quality of life than what you currently have right now? What are you waiting for? ![]() |
Re: A Depressed And Frustrated Soul by Kobojunkie: 6:10am On Apr 28, 2022 |
DamiBlaise:You couldn't proceed after secondary school why?, ![]() Why couldn't your parents sit and back 8 kids yet not able to provide for your secondary schooling? I hope you not here attempting to blame God for the seemingly selfish choices your parents made?, ![]() Have you ever considered sitting down with your parents to ask them exactly what their plan was for each one of you? ![]() |
Re: A Depressed And Frustrated Soul by oteneaaron(m): 6:15am On Apr 28, 2022 |
DamiBlaise: So sorry about what you're going thru man. You need to be STRONG for your younger siblings. You were born to be GREAT. You were born to be a STAR. You were born to be a CREATOR. You just need to learn how to control your MIND. Everyrthing that happens to you in reality is all dependent on your THOUGHTS. If you wanted to build a house today, you would have to hire an Architect. The Architect will draw the house of your dreams in exact details and when the house is built, it becomes not just a drawing anymore, but an actual building in reality. In the same vein, you have the POWER to accomplish WHATEVER you desire - you just have to use your MIND to think POSITIVE THOUGHTS only. If you are willing to learn about the wonders of your MIND, I have a few books I can recommend to you: 1. The Master Key System by Charles F. Haanel 2. The Power of Your Subconscious Mind by Dr Joseph Murphy 3. Think and Grow Rich by Napoloen Hill. If you're too lazy to read, just go to YouTube and you will find audio recordings of these books that you can listen too. Cheer up! You got this!! |
Re: A Depressed And Frustrated Soul by DamiBlaise: 6:18am On Apr 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: We are six. I'll answer most of your questions but steadily because this small phone won't let me type fast. |
Re: A Depressed And Frustrated Soul by oteneaaron(m): 6:24am On Apr 28, 2022 |
DamiBlaise: Guy, you have to stop regretting and sulking about where you are right now. No one has it easy, everybody's story is different. It doesn't matter if you did or didn't finish secondary school. It doesn't matter if your mates are all married with children. You are the captain of your ship. The question that matters is this - what are you going to do to change your current situation? |
Re: A Depressed And Frustrated Soul by DamiBlaise: 6:27am On Apr 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: God and my parents are to be blamed, they brought me to this life without my permission. It's not about professional counselling, if you hear my story you will know what's hindering me from acquiring a quality life and achieving my goals. Though, i'm still trying, pushing and struggling |
Re: A Depressed And Frustrated Soul by KleenSenator: 9:32am On Apr 28, 2022 |
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Re: A Depressed And Frustrated Soul by KleenSenator: 9:32am On Apr 28, 2022 |
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Re: A Depressed And Frustrated Soul by Kobojunkie: 1:12pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
DamiBlaise:1. How is God to blame for the choices made by your parents abeg?? ![]() 2. When you have a headache and you are asked to go see a doctor for it, it doesn't mean your head has stopped working or trying to resolve the issues it faces. Instead your head needs treatment so it can be able to continue handling the work it is meant to do. Depression is your mind telling you things are not right and counseling helps you dig through the clutter in your mind through to the real source of the problem and to possibly resolving it too. ![]() |
Re: A Depressed And Frustrated Soul by AnalQueenluci: 3:38pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
DamiBlaise: When u yorubas were supporting buhari to spite igbos u forget what reality stands for ' Politricks is a deceptive movement u shud have known . |
Re: A Depressed And Frustrated Soul by Kobojunkie: 3:47pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
DamiBlaise:Six children they has no means of providing for? ![]() God has nothing to do with why you had to work factory Jobs when your peers where in school. All that was the fault of your parents. They chose to bite off more than they could chew. They decided your life was not worth making wise plans for and so in order to snap out of that depression, you may want to confront that truth at least. ![]() |
Re: A Depressed And Frustrated Soul by luvmijeje(f): 4:31pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
There is always someone that is going to be better than you and there will always be someone you are better than. And I know it is fustrating seeing things going well for others while you are at a standstill but you have to deal the card you were given. You just have to keep moving and continue hoping for a little door of opportunity and the wisdom to cease it when it comes. By the way, I no longer judge those who commit sucide. Sucide is a means of escape and when there is no other means of escape, sucide seems like the best choice. |
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