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They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by StilmaVsBorn2w: 10:12am On Apr 29, 2022 |
Back then when my mom was warning me not to go that far when our relationship started She kept on insisting I should go for the girls in my tribe, I thought she was just been a tribalist bigot. If only I had listened She bore me a son, he's 3years now... though her people knows me well from normal visitation..but I haven't been able to pay her bride price yet due to the hardship this regime has on us. life happened, unfortunately she got sick since February, ever since then from one hospital to another..I took several loans from people for hospital bills to the point of me looking sick myself.so sad for us we lost her last night. I informed her elder brother who knows about all thats happening, he called me back this morning to tell me that his people told me to be prepared to marry her corpse. He went further and said if I don't pay her bride price, my boy will be taken from me and I should be ready to withstand the consequences. I was surprised, I called for the burial arrangements not for a marriage ceremony I blantly told him, I won't, why would I get married to her corpse. He was angry and cut the call on me. Am more concerned about my son, please lawyer's in the house do they have any right to take my son away from me? Even if they do am ready to give it to them, but spending money to Marry her corpse I will not. I only brought this here, if had chance for my son whose still in my custody. 32 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Cpossibility(m): 10:15am On Apr 29, 2022 |
Which tribe is that? 35 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by StilmaVsBorn2w: 10:17am On Apr 29, 2022 |
Cpossibility:You here for the tribe only? Or to give me reasonable advise? 155 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Kriss216: 10:19am On Apr 29, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:What advice are you seeking? Were you thinking of going to the girl's family and dump the corpse or you wanted to bury people's daughter in your house? 338 Likes 26 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Cpossibility(m): 10:20am On Apr 29, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: Let's know where it is coming from. 78 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by StilmaVsBorn2w: 10:21am On Apr 29, 2022 |
Cpossibility:Sorry it's not necessary, I won't let you lots to turn this to a tribal war. 223 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by OyeofIkoTuN(m): 10:21am On Apr 29, 2022 |
my spirit says I should type (NCAN says the story isn't complete) NCAN says the story isn't complete 37 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by OyeofIkoTuN(m): 10:22am On Apr 29, 2022 |
God bless you..If we can't trace where he's coming from, we can't know where he's possibly going to..you sabi Cpossibility: 97 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by sisisioge: 10:24am On Apr 29, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: It might be useful info for those from her tribe to advise you properly. There might be an alternative to marrying her. 460 Likes 26 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by calmness0(f): 10:24am On Apr 29, 2022 |
Op, most tribes act like that, you did not pay bride price and you have been with another persons daughter for years, banging morning afternoon night without paying bride price, you never knew death can knock early right? if it were your sister nko, op go and settle her family. 420 Likes 23 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by donbachi(m): 10:27am On Apr 29, 2022 |
Wen dem tell pikin,him no go hear. Until him see. 118 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by thorpido(m): 10:27am On Apr 29, 2022 |
You don't have a choice except you want to keep running. Your mom warned you but you wouldn't listen.You went further to knock her up. You have to do the rights else they will make life hell for you. 140 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by dawnomike(m): 10:28am On Apr 29, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:Since you refused to do the needful when she was alive; You've got to go and pay her dowry or leave the boy as their daughter's son as she was never your wife... It is the right thing to do in the igbo culture 312 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by wunmi590(m): 10:30am On Apr 29, 2022 |
![]() You don't want to divulge more information, but you want to get advice, (this is not a classified information that can't be divulged) nobody want to turn this to tribal war... Reason why you were asked, so that people from that tribe, who might have experienced such can advice you accordingly.... Peace 343 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by StilmaVsBorn2w: 10:31am On Apr 29, 2022 |
dawnomike:No I won't 10 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by ibechris(m): 10:33am On Apr 29, 2022 |
Cpossibility: U want to start with tribe so that u will start causing confusion in the midst of sane comments. If u don't have anything to say,pls calm down. 15 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by StilmaVsBorn2w: 10:33am On Apr 29, 2022 |
thorpido:Let them bring it on. I said I won't, I can't marry a corpse 16 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by duro4chang(m): 10:34am On Apr 29, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:The reasonable advice your mama give you no take am shey na our own you go take? 641 Likes 39 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Felimax(m): 10:34am On Apr 29, 2022 |
You just can't run away from it. Don't be a fool. So the beautiful late woman who bore you a son does not deserve to be honoured as your wife and you have kept her till death? Go and do the needful, respect that young woman. We always tell people to be very careful. Why should a woman stay with you when you know you have not married her? Why ![]() Can't she come spend some time and go back? Must you keep her like your sex slave? If I format your brain with punchslap, you will go and do the needful. 353 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by StilmaVsBorn2w: 10:34am On Apr 29, 2022 |
Kriss216:I informed them for the burial arrangements not for marriage ceremony 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by ibechris(m): 10:36am On Apr 29, 2022 |
If u want to help your peace,go ahead and do it and have your peace. After that,the relationship with ur in laws will still remain...but if u don't,e go hard brother. 61 Likes 1 Share |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by StilmaVsBorn2w: 10:37am On Apr 29, 2022 |
ibechris: What will hard, they kill me? 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by ibechris(m): 10:40am On Apr 29, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: They won't kill u...but curses may be laid on your head upon your refusal. Just do as they have said. After that,your conscience will surely spare u. 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by StilmaVsBorn2w: 10:42am On Apr 29, 2022 |
ibechris:I don't believe in curses, A man can not define my fate in life..I was more concerned about my son that's why I brought it here. I fear no man 48 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Felimax(m): 10:43am On Apr 29, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: If Dem born you well carry the corpse go the village. You come here come find people mouth abi? 143 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by wunmi590(m): 10:44am On Apr 29, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: This same stubbornness is what your mum adviced you about before delving into the relationship.... Bros, you will pay it, the only things is just that it might not be much like how it should have been when she was alive..... 196 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by StilmaVsBorn2w: 10:45am On Apr 29, 2022 |
Felimax:Why would I carry it to the village..? It's already in the morgue, for her people arrival, it's their daughter. Have done my most vital parts borrowing money to save her now am in debts, if you want me to marry her corpse because am scared. My brother your wrong. 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Felimax(m): 10:46am On Apr 29, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: Yes, undertaker! Na you create yourself! Mysterious stroke nor va nack you, by the time you nor fit touch your keypad again your eyes go clear. You dey here dey shine teeth, take the issue to your family and let them talk sense into your dum skull. 266 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by StilmaVsBorn2w: 10:48am On Apr 29, 2022 |
wunmi590:I can't borrow money to marry her corpse, never The debts I borrowed from her treatment up to a millionaire is still in my neck, haven't even paid dine from it. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by StilmaVsBorn2w: 10:49am On Apr 29, 2022 |
Felimax:Your just been rude and arrogant, I guess your still a teenager. No More response to you 30 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by ibechris(m): 10:49am On Apr 29, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: Then what is your reason for bringing it up when u have decided before coming here. An uncle of mine did it and today he has remarried and continued his life. 139 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Felimax(m): 10:51am On Apr 29, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: Some men just lack sense. Hear yourself. So if that is your sister that is how you will walk to the morgue to go and carry her? Nor worry, dey there dey smart. Your head go soon correct by the time we finish with you. I have one simple advise for you. Hurry now to the family with either your dad or the eldest man in your family or anybody that can stand in that regard, go with some cash and schnapps. Take this time now as a matter of urgency to go inform the family officially of the latest about their daughter most especially if this is happening around Delta State. If you like do, you like refuse. 127 Likes 6 Shares |
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