thorpido:
Have you tried the court?

Eketem:


He has to find her first to serve her

advanceDNA:
economy will hit them...whoever is bankrolling her will start to para..... relax...them go soon call you...

it happened to my uncle...his wife left with four kids....i was just laughing ..fulltime house wife that has not pay for pampers for one day.....

like you, we reported to the police.. arrested the mother in law.. she ddnt snitch..they had to let her go because she was hypertensive...

recently...na she waka come back asking for child support....her mother came with her calling my uncle wicked....they have arranged that the kids will be with their father from Friday and return to their mother Sunday evening for school...

thorpido:
Maybe if the parents are summoned,they will produce her.

Noah9:
Thank you sir.

But the thing is, I'm not even getting any signal that she will come back... Days and months are counting. Soon it's gonna be years and I don't wish that to happen.

My friend wanted to gather boys, go straight to my wife's family house and help me snatch my daughter away from them... then send my daughter back to me.

But I told him not to use such format, that he could be sued for kidnapping, besides she's no longer at her family's house anymore. I don't even know her whereabout.

Her parents and her brother don't want to even see me.

Felimax:
At four years what do you want to do with the poor girl? You must be a very wicked man.
You are not entitled to that child at that age whether you are working or not.

Noah9:
Hello, what are you saying? Is my child I'm talking about here.

Felimax:

You be man, you see your fellow man you nor fit fight am collect your daughter back.

Be completely remorseful and humble yourself and you will see your family back anything short of that go and get another family.

Felimax:


Oga, that child has a right please. At that age you are not entitled to that child for crying out loud. You better calm your boiling nerves so you can think straight.

Noah9:
So, you expect me to fight with a military man? Do I look like someone who makes mouth on social media?

Well, I don't blame you.... You don't even know what it takes to raise a child

Noah9:
Is this all you have to say? Even Human rights didn't utter such statements to me.

Anyway thanks for your advice.

Felimax:


They will not, why should they when they know you can take a drastic action towards yourself but I will not treat you with kids glove. We have seen lots of similar cases when the man end up maltreating the child.
You are not demanding for the child because of the love you have for her but because of your hidden agenda. I know your types.
The only thing I have to tell you is leave that child for the mother and continue to contribute your best for her up keep. If you like take if you like leave.
If your wife was to be your sister would have allowed her to be so humiliated?
Think! Think sir!

Noah9:
Me? Maltreat my child? God forbid! Infact my daughter must be feeling my absence wherever she is now.

What do you mean by I have an hidden agenda? You're not serious, you know absolutely nothing.... You read similar cases doesn't make you feel I have an hidden agenda.

How do you want me to contribute to her up keep, when I can even reach her on phone, talk more of sending her money and items. I don't know her whereabout

Good day sir.

Felimax:


Oga, that child has a right please. At that age you are not entitled to that child for crying out loud. You better calm your boiling nerves so you can think straight.

Alooone:
What exactly did u do to her?

Carcholce:
If you are been realistic here, why should the woman hand the child to you?
Also what argument would make her run away from your home? You don’t sound remorseful either.
Common sense should tell you a woman cannot let go of her child easily whether She can care for the child or not. If you two are breaking away and you also want to collect the child from her, you are being inconsiderate. First of all work towards fixing the issues the both of you had instead of looking to get your child back.
If indeed she’s your wife, you should know how to get in her feelings and back to her senses.
Una go just dey make marriage sound like say na hell.

Eketem:

He raped her he is lucky he is not in jail.

Mindlog:
You need calm down, going legal will not be to your advantage.

Daniel7543:
Rubbish talk.
why should his wife run away with his child?. Court sef won't even give either of them full custody of their daughter. If you read the op previous post you would understand that he's remorseful and he has tried every way to make peace with her and wicked wife family. Go and read his previous post, he married his wife legally. Women are evil.

Back to Noah: you need to find a senior officer in the military that would sanction that your foolish brother in-law.. I mean, why will he be hoarding your wife and kid? E dey craze?

Oga, there's nothing like rape in marriage.
There's no law that state a man will go to jail for raping his wife... Can't you Nigerians think. They are married for goodness sake. He performed the marital rights for crying out loud.

Noah9:
Good day Nigerians.

My wife and I had issues sometime around December last year till January this year when she ran to her parent's house to stay without telling me. I know I was at fault, I have gone to apologize several times but she refused to forgive me.

Okay! Hand over my child to me, let me take my responsibility and play my fatherly role in her life, but she refused.

This Sunday may 1st, will make it 5 months I've not set my eyes on my daughter. April 2 was my daughter's 4th birthday, I couldn't even reach her to wish her happy birthday not to talk of sending her money.

It's been 2 months now my wife's phone is switched off. She off her phone purposely because of the way I'm agitating to get my child back.

I've reported to human rights at igando, Lagos State, they called and wrote petition to my wife but she refused to honor it. I also reported to the police and radio FM but they couldn't help me because her phone is switched off since then. I don't know her whereabout, she's no longer in her parents house.

My wife's elder brother who is a lieutenant in the Nigeria Navy is the bread winner in my wife's family, I'm sure he knows her whereabout.

I went to Abuja with my Dad and my people to meet him. He sent us away right from his gate. I felt so embarrassed.

It's 5 months now, but soon it would be counting years Pls Help me. My wife is frustrating me, I can't sleep at night, I'm always thinking and restless, @11pm I'm still in a beer palour drinking my life away. I'm fading away.

All I need is my daughter, if my wife don't want to forgive me.. No problem, but give me my daughter. My wife will contaminate my daughter's mind to hate me if things goes on like this. Please help me.

Nigerians please help me.
Government please help me.