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Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by slimjohn2k5: 7:13pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Try n exist like she does not exist. Or tell her you are traveling, go somewhere for like a week or more. I think marriage should not be a glue. Give some space 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Runx: 7:14pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
[quote author=Sominablack post=112373771]Thanks all for the advice, I appreciate. But as it is now, am no longer interested in the relationship any longer, how can I do with my daughter of 7years that's the only issue bothering me now, cos I dont want her to influence her negatively. Bros, don't be confused, marriage is between you and your wife so don't bring your daughter into this. She will later start a family of her own and live her own life. I advise you go to your wife family meeting with a truck load of her belongings. Openly devorce your wife in the presence of her own family and be gone. If you don't deal with it now, seemingly small domestic issues have momentum of their own and blossom into jail term, so be wise and reconstruct your life and be at peace. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by jaxxy(m): 7:16pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
why do some men marry or date women that when u have problems both of u can't resolve it and have to call 3rd parties to settle matters for u? it shows communication problems and these don't happen overnight. u saw them, noticed them and ignored them. Dating should not move to marriage without having enough knowledge about how u resolve issues amongst urselves. Cant be calling mother and father to settle issues everytime. i see it as a relationship weakness. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Kingcalls: 7:16pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Kick her to the streets , thats where she belongs 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by naija4life247: 7:17pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
There is no difference between one woman and another. Just choose your own headache and manage it. I have a mother, a wife, a baby mama, two daughters and two sisters, none of them is different from the other. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Bukden16(m): 7:18pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: You get sense. 5 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by naija4life247: 7:18pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Kingcalls: You are not wrong you know. But no be my mouth you go hear am. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by kals4luv990(m): 7:19pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
socialmediaman:abi space to Bleep the other dick ni ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Ifakiland(m): 7:19pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Sominablack:Oga divorce the witch....your peace of mind isn't negotiable....if you go on like this na hbp go kill you...divorce the witch and marry anoda woman. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Kobojunkie: 7:19pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
ShenTeh:1. But in all relationships, 'respect' beyond that of the basic kind, is meant to be earned, not demanded. When demanded what is given is 'fear', which isnt respect. ![]() 2. I am afraid your assumption is wrong since not all married individuals assume things like 'respect' fall under "things". ![]() Try again! ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Willie2015: 7:19pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Sominablack: When u have a scenario like this... Pls ignore Madam and her behaviour for a while.. And get on your knees to pray... Certain things will shift ... when we pray.. Is anyone among you suffering hardships? Let him pray. James 5 13 1 Like |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by TheGift: 7:20pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
You can ignore and intimate at the same time. Choose one. |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by ShenTeh(m): 7:20pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: You win. 1 Like |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Kobojunkie: 7:22pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
jaxxy:1. I personally consider that very immature on the part of those who do it. ![]() 2. I concur! If 2 adults can't even resolve issues amongst themselves, they have no business getting married in the first place. ![]() 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Nobody: 7:22pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Lots of marriages are like this lately and I don't know why yet but i am guessing this female Facebook pages where they share different stories are largely contributing to it or maybe I am just tripping. Wahala wey social media go cause ehn, internet nor go fit solve am. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Mikat: 7:23pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Do not fight your Wife. Leave the House without telling her for 2 weeks. She will change if she loves you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Kobojunkie: 7:24pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
ShenTeh:This isn't about winning but me pointing out that even where relationships are concerned, we don't all, mentally, exists within the same box for you to assume the way A thinks is most definitely the way M thinks. ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by koyyess: 7:26pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Sominablack: A. Control freek...you are lying. B. Your have a chance to voice your issue and sort things out once and for all. But nairaland seems to be better when no one has heard your wife's side of the story. C. You want to chicken out because you know your wife will expose every every. You are the cause of your problem. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by elonmuskbaby: 7:26pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
You better open the door and let her go before we hear stories that touch aka acid attack or violence.living with a woman who doesn't love you is like living with a snake.the day E bite you,it would do so unapologetically 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Nowar: 7:35pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Well I’m a redpilled man and I’ll tell you this , If she was not like this before you married her, then you don’t have any blame. But if she showed all these and you still went ahead , then you short yourself .. Normally marriage no Dey rosy , u don already put yourself for the marriage palava, check within yourself , and try to be more friendly and caring for her. This is the mother of your kid, treat her like your second half and spice things up .. before you marry a woman , I believe you understand her to certain extent, try repeat things you did that made her fall in love with you at first .. But that doesn’t mean you should simp around ,, or should have limit cos women sabi abuse things .. After you do all these and she seems not to change , then it’s high time you counted your loss and move on .. let her go and take your time before you dabble into another relationship . Love do fade tbh 2 Likes |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Nobody: 7:37pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
elonmuskbaby: Do women truly love? I dont really buy that. All that is needed for a realtionship to run is respect and everyone pulling their own weight, the man providing and the woman nuturing. 2 Likes |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by FireUpNow(m): 7:37pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Sominablack:Baba you dey waste time, hide your preeq and unclothedness from her too, no kissing and no hugging. Serve her divorce notice, clear her that you want divorce, no time to check time 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by koyyess: 7:37pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Guyman02: Is he not married? Have you heard any scandal from his end? Pity you came from a broken home. |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Solatium(m): 7:38pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Sominablack: Seperate from her to preserve your sanity and if after 3 months she didn't feel remorseful.Give her a divorce. |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Evii: 7:38pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Since she said she had lost love for you, another guy probably her ex done dey Bleep her. Simple |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by hope4nigeria(m): 7:40pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Sominablack:me I can't stand attitude woman, I will just marry second wife, if second wife too get attitude I will marry 3rd, till thier brain reset. Man with many wife they get respect and peace of mind 1 Like |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by ShenTeh(m): 7:41pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Even now, you win. 3 Likes |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Nobody: 7:43pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
ShenTeh:Lol, you did well, who argues with that woman btw? 3 Likes |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Nyascobar1414: 7:44pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
@Op, e dey like ah for carry plank wire that your head... Na woman dey make you worry like this ![]() No marry this girls una dey see, una no wan hear... Na your cross, carry am... Naija gals are meant to be fvvkd and dumped... Beyond this na you go hear am... 1 Like |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Bignuell(m): 7:47pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
You know what i think, i think marriages has lost it's flavour. What i want to say might not be in line of the OP problem, but the "lost love and feeling" part got me. I believe people want to be free in marriages and exhibit attitude they had while in their father's house. Alot of people go into marriages with plan B, not a plan B in terms of finances or other things that'll benefit both party, the plan B kicks in when there is a shift in the normal routine of exhibiting love for each other. At this stage we can now say marriage is give and take, forget what our fathers told us. People no longer want to be commited, responsible, heed to correction or advice. I always say, the confines of marriages are rigid, someone said she doesn't love her partner and they're calling family meeting, for what exactly, to reinstall an updated version of love. If a woman said that to me, forget, my love for her don die. Somepeople don't want to salvage any marriage, they want out. Instead of asking for a family meeting, ask her in front of her parents if she wants a divorce or not, make we no dey beat around the bush. Tell her to pour her mind. Somepeople don't need your hand while they're drowning, let them be, let the water carry them, if they survive, good, if they choose to be one with the tide, say your goodbyes. Masallam 7 Likes 1 Share |
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