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Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by gabicon: 8:33pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Sominablack: My advice to you will be to get professional help from a counselor or therapist. Family members may mean well, but most times they are not equipped with the right tools to solve problems. |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Nobody: 8:34pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Evii:Chai |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by rickleye: 8:35pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
theForth: Well if divorced she gets half of whatever he has jointly acquired . So giving some money is my kind Of a way of settling it amicably. https://www.resolutionlawng.com/sharing-of-property-after-divorce-in-nigeria/ 1 Like |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Kobojunkie: 8:35pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
King2019:Don't you know African brand of commonsense dey reach nowhere else on this planet. 1 Like |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by West2019(m): 8:39pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Go and married or look for a cheap and humble woman don't allow any woman to cut your Life short 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by lilycasera(f): 8:39pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Olosho like all the female in your female including your mother.Fool |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by SocialJustice: 8:39pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Mayeldah:I was following until you said money is the most important and should be supplied without limit. Please explain why? |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Malawian(m): 8:43pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
gasparpisciotta:Na so Biafra dey talk since o. |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by blue01(m): 8:43pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Dear op that woman is secretly cheating on you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by ImoleNaija: 8:44pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
baby124: Insightful Sominablack, kindly respond to this. |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by rockycongos: 8:44pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
My guy my wife is like dat, she is a baby and emotional giant. Ignore the punk, go to d meeting and be calm. Let dem battle it dem self. My dear she wil eventually move out of yor house. Just dont care. Be yourself. U dont try, make she go look bush. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by effort1: 8:48pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Of course. What else can a blind self deceiving feminist vomit? |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Mayeldah(m): 8:48pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
SocialJustice: Money makes most Nigerian women igonre your irritant attitudes and love you nonetheless. Try it, it works You may need to hustle more, give her a particular amount every month for her upkeep and buy her gifts always If you do this, things will soften a bit and she will begin to love you more. Have this at the back of your mind, love in Nigeria is mostly transactional, you must give something to have it always. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Kobojunkie: 8:49pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
rockycongos:Your wife is like that? |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Kobojunkie: 8:50pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Mayeldah:Interesting take! |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Clinghton: 8:54pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
One of the reasons why men go for a second wife or babymama. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by SocialJustice: 8:54pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Sominablack Greeting Nairalanders,Women are quite sensitive, what happened that made her this way? I am sure this disrespectful woman that denies you sex is not the person you married. What made her change? Her mum visited and confirmed these attitude, she did counsel and advised her to change yet she was reluctant and stated she dont want to continue being a wife that she has lost love and feelings for me because[b]I want things to be done decently and in order in my family which she is opposed to[/b]Please, can you list the decent ways she's opposed to? Now with the attitude still being displayed by her, her dad asked me to come down to the village by next week so the issue will be discussed in their larger family so that my wife would come and explain to them why she is behaving the way she is doing, but not up to three months we had a meeting and now this one billed for next week again. I dont feel like honouring the meeting because I have done my best to follow peace even though I cannot fathom where I am at fault.Choosing not to attend this meeting is a big mistake and insult to your wife's family. At this juncture what do I do?I can not give a clear answer here without answers to the questions I raised earlier. Until you answer, do not assume anything about your wife that you will be ashamed of in the end if it turns out wrong. 1 Like |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by firstratedcitiz(m): 8:56pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Sominablack:Do not divorce your wife. Borrow a leaf from Yul Edochie and live happily ever after. |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Nobody: 8:58pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Mayeldah: Money laslas still answers this one. O |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by OKOATA(m): 9:02pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
elinaxy:Send me an email DM. |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Nobody: 9:09pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Righteousness2:abeg my Baba God is busy with me. No body should call for his attention for now. 1 Like |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by SocialJustice: 9:10pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Mayeldah:Na true sha. Make her comfortable, no need to waste money. The average Nigerian girl only seeks a level of comfort, nothing extravagant. If you are dating a glutton, then she should work the extra money she needs to live her gluttonous life style. You can choose to fund a trophy babe as you please but finally they are just normal girls. Some never go Dubai self and they want you to put them on N100k to N2m salary monthly. Providing for your woman does not give you the right to start being obnoxious to her. With all the money you provide, she may detest you to the extent she starts f*cking your friends, colleagues, domestic staff and campus boys while channeling all your money to them. Pray one does not get bold and start suggesting to her to kidnap, rob or even kill you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Kobojunkie: 9:11pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
koyyess:Interesting observation! 2 Likes |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by harmony75: 9:13pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
GooodHardDick:So you think Op is as dirty minded as you're with your senseless advice? This is someone's wife you open your sinking mouth to. See your dirty name are you someone one should take advice from!? |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Ufithelp: 9:16pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
theForth: Women never and can never love. See if a woman tells you she loves you it is as a result of careful calculation. You know 90% of women's perspective of life is that life is an adventure that must be explored. A man they feel can offer them the opportunity to adventurous life is who they fall in love with. 8 Likes |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Nobody: 9:17pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Ufithelp: Correct. 1 Like |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Slynation(m): 9:17pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Bignuell:Flesh and bones did not reveal this to you, This is just the best advise so far and all sominablack needs is definitely contained in this point... 1 Like |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Justkatty(f): 9:23pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
This story get as e be o You've said hers She maybe in one group complaining of your own character too This is a faceless forum always try and open up, so you can get a sincere answer or tips on how to go on. Marriage needs 1fool and 1knowledgeable person to make it work . 2 Likes |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Coinwarrior: 9:26pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
gasparpisciotta:if she want to go...let her go and pls make yourself available for the meeting |
Re: Family Meeting Cos Of Wife Advise Needed Pls by Jaqenhghar: 9:26pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
Sominablack:There are 2 sides to every story. A woam cannot just become stubborn like that. I will prefer to hear from her first 1 Like |
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