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Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by streetsoldier1(m): 10:46am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: wisdom dictates you call your woman's people and have dialogue with them. As harsh as the custom sounds, it doesnt mean so much, just a normal tradition that wont hurt you. Just do the needful and get over and done with them. Its as simple as doing the burial. Just fix the two same day and get ur son. Thatz all 4 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by McDuncan: 10:47am On Apr 30, 2022 |
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Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Bobloco: 10:47am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Felimax: He can't take the issue to his family because he was warned before hand by his mother but he blatantly refused and went ahead with the relationship 2 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Snowx: 10:47am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Oga I very necessary..go and do the needful..and stop blabbing. You hardly see a tribe that doesn't do that. May the soul o your wife rest in peace. 2 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by reason1man: 10:47am On Apr 30, 2022 |
You didn't marry, so the child is not yours. You were just a sperm donor. Give them the child contribute small in the burial and move on with your life. A word is enough for the wise 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by oluwaseyi0: 10:47am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Kriss216: Is she responsible for her death 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Kingchuksero: 10:47am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: This shows you never really loved her, most times the tradition could be to ascertain if you love their daughter. The makers of those tradition were not stupid. If you go, you can sort it out,pay money for some things and somethings will be forgone. It's just like a bargain to show them their daughter was really worth it. 3 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by ustanejnr(m): 10:48am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Yes it happen in my tried too, you have to marry the corpse, if you need to take your son. That's if she die in your house and care ooo. But if u guys where not staying together, bros just no answer them. 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by oluwaseyi0: 10:48am On Apr 30, 2022 |
reason1man:k What makes a child belong to a man or a woman? So you mean Davido baby Mama's children are bastard they didn't belong to davido 2 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by West2019(m): 10:48am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:You are too harsh . if you tell him the tribe him may tell you what to do . |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by sweerychick(f): 10:49am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Oga go and pay her bride price OK. That is the marriage they are talking about. U have no business with that boy if u haven't paid her bride price. It's more like u impregnating someone and living with her. Things u take for granted are not taken for granted here. I know your late wife to be is Igbo because it is a strong tradition in Igbo land. You see yul edochie story if he didn't pay her Bride price he won't access to that boy that is the main reason he took a second wife, his son. So go and pay her bride price, yes she is dead but it doesn't end there do as the told u 4 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Bonmoren(m): 10:49am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: Let's understand something here, are you planning to bury somebody's daughter, mother, Sister which you defiled for that long without consulting, negotiating and coming to amicable arrangement. Guy, watch this PRIDE in you before it destroys you. 11 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by alabo1: 10:49am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: Then what advice do you seek? You have made up your mind already don't disturb our weekend. Just an addition - you are not marrying her corpse.you are only paying a bride price (symbolic marriage). It is the norm in most cultures. 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Military0001: 10:49am On Apr 30, 2022 |
OP you want a free Son? Make I just laugh you, omo go and do the right thing. Pay her bride price simple else await karma. 5 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by callmetoniaa: 10:50am On Apr 30, 2022 |
My advice is carrying the child and jakpa.. change location and start a new life.. although tradition is tradition, u can't buycot it.. if out all u buycot it, the consequence awaits u in the near future.. u see me so eeh, wetin I fear pass na karma.. 2 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Alexgeneration(m): 10:50am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: ![]() No be to make noise online, just make you and your fearless family waka enter that village. 7 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by bonnyhope: 10:50am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: It varies with tribe and culture In my place since he is a male child, you take your automatically If it were a female child, you would be asked to buy the child As per marrying the copse, we don't practise that 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by lomprico(m): 10:50am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: It's not that you will marry the corpse and take pics with it, you will only do the marriage rites like settling the bride price in which if you do not her family will take the child and he will bear their name instead of yours. Some cultures do that. 5 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Emarvel(m): 10:50am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:If by any means they don't want you to take custody of the child, leave the child with them, when he grows up he will look for his father, Afterall if you were the one that died, they would have trained the child themselves. 4 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Chiraq77(m): 10:50am On Apr 30, 2022 |
This OP na MUMU Man,you definitely don't know the value of Life. 2 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Kaptainkoko: 10:50am On Apr 30, 2022 |
People advise you to go and pay her bride price. You refused. Yet you said you are here for advice. What if part of the burial arrangement is to pay her bride price and the poor woman will be laid to rest peacefully. Or you think you can runaway with your son? Even if you can, what story will you tell him about his mum when he grow up ? Oga go and do needful. 6 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by advanceDNA: 10:51am On Apr 30, 2022 |
ibechris: your uncle marry corpse?? tueh!!!! what kind of tradition is that...?? to what aim.?? 3 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by bonnyhope: 10:51am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Cpossibility: Maybe cross river or Akwa ibom |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Nonexisting: 10:51am On Apr 30, 2022 |
I don't advise stubborn fools. 10 Likes
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Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Dproperties: 10:52am On Apr 30, 2022 |
![]() There's about 5 different tribe that practice this in Nigeria. Ibaji, Igala Delta People Specific groups of Igbo's etccc If your girlfriend is from the Ibaji Igala then you have to run quickly to get her engaged and marry her immediately because if she gets buried without you doing the necessary things. You're good as gone as her spirit will never leave you behind to enjoy the Son she gave birth for you because you don't honor Her. I mean, she will kill you simple. Give caezer what belongs to Her even my Pastor said that too. I am saying first hand experience While she was staying with you, you thought that you have dodge paying bride price ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by zedegit: 10:52am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: Ranting up and down online won't save you o. The main show is offline and television will soon be on for you. Get ready to watch it. You should have considered all this before delving in to start a family without marriage. Chai bros who do you this? When the real dance begins, you will feel it. Your stubbornness is baseless. People stubborn pass you o. Where your stubbornness ends is where another's begins. ............................................................... African Proverbs The child that dances surugede does not know that surugede is the dance of the spirits. The fly that does not listen, follows the corpse to the grave. When the ear refuses to listen to instructions, if the head is cut, the same ear must follow it. 7 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Reality3080: 10:52am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:when they give u advise u won't listen,marrying from another tribe is a recipe for disaster cos u don't know much about their culture n if anything goes wrong u won't know how to handle it. Had it been u married from your tribe now n issues like this happen u won't have issues. There are many of u out there who form woke to many things they don't understand only to get burnt later. Guy u have to do as they want or else that hardship will b upgraded for u,u are saying u don't believe in curses......i pity u 4 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by donbenie(m): 10:52am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:Burial arrangements,as per say you be who to them? She died in your custody and you haven't told them how their daughter died,and what you were doing with her.. And yet you want to go and arrange for her funeral? Guy,everything no be by gragra.. Don't let those people swear for you.. 8 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by nikky28: 10:52am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Calm down and handle this with wisdom, talk to your parents, seek their counsel, get someone from her place that can guide you. Don't create unnecessary problem for yourself. 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by donttouchme: 10:52am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Bros u don't have money and u don't have manners join. Oga , u HV already committed a taboo by cohabiting with someone's daughter without their approval. Its deeper than ur shallow mind can fathom. A poor man at least will imbibe humility. By the time the repercussions will start, u will even beg to marry her 100 times. Calm down first and allow elders in ur family guide u and stop being unfortunate. If d girl be my family, u for don't reach zone 5 Ibadan and every negotiations will be done while u are behind counter. U killed someone's daughter and u are here prouding. Receive sense before its too late. 16 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Validated: 10:52am On Apr 30, 2022 |
thorpido:Forget about her mother, even if they were same tribe, no family will accept that you take their daughter, imoregnate her, kept her in your home and only come back with her corpse. It is beyond trube, ut is sacrelege. 7 Likes 1 Share |
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