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Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Keyyom22: 11:49am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Bobloco:Still they Can't leave stubborn son for Lion to kill if he try to sleep and cool his mind off and ready to do the needful he will see family and friends that can follow him go,and he needs to act sober in front of them cos they hv all the leverages now. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by a2d3rew(m): 11:50am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Is okay, already happen, nothing lake Marry Corp,go and marry Corp mean go and pay the bride price, From there u can say, u don't have money , but promise them u will pay if u come get change., That's all, Rip. 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Sunnyski: 11:50am On Apr 30, 2022 |
I know that tribe... |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Alexgeneration(m): 11:50am On Apr 30, 2022 |
TyroneP: You seem to forget that you're dealing with Africans in Africa. A convict is currently a Governor, Judges residence were raided, courts of coordinate jurisdiction give different judgments to different bidders, Orji Uzor is a free man today etc. I mentioned these cases to let you know that the family can DEAL with the OP and absolutely nothing will happen. You can speak all the English language you want but if he dares steps into that village without doing what they told him to do, he might not live to tell the tale. P.S Notifying them of the death doesn't rule out culpability. 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Keyyom22: 11:50am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Snowx:plenty don't do that. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Ilaje1: 11:51am On Apr 30, 2022 |
ibechris: Life do happen and you can't change that. He's the one entertaining them. If they are not responding, do everything within law to bury the girl. And move on with his life. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Soulmender: 11:53am On Apr 30, 2022 |
SocialJustice: Put yourself in the family’s shoes. You expect them to be happy that someone took their daughter for years without performing any marriage rite . Police or court won’t do anything for him because this is customary issue and customary court will rule against him . 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Seredebe: 11:53am On Apr 30, 2022 |
The child is not your son. You did not pay the mum's dowry. The child belongs to her family 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Onijude: 11:53am On Apr 30, 2022 |
My advice is that you honour tradition. I know you love your wife and you didn't plan this to happen, but it has happened anyway. If the right thing wasn't done at the right time, I don't expect things to be rossy at the end. Accept to marry her, you will get a picture frame of her, do the necessary marriage arrangement , then on that wedding day you will tell them she is unavoidably absent, don't tell them she's dead. Then after some days you will bring the news of her death to her family through a respectable man preferable the oldest in your family. Then you plan the burial rite. Actually , if you were in good term with her family, they should know what to do. You can't skip it, cus it's tradition, but they can make it less difficult for you. Pls, drop every form of stubbornness. let the right thing be done. 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Ilaje1: 11:53am On Apr 30, 2022 |
vincenteger: Nonsense, what will the family do if they put her in thr mortuary or even bury her (with reasonable notification)? This is not 16th century. 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by idanone(m): 11:53am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:you have to burry the dead and marry the corpse if not you might find life as hell oooo 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Transcriber: 11:54am On Apr 30, 2022 |
duro4chang:savage 2 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by hohafrank(m): 11:55am On Apr 30, 2022 |
This is tradition which must be obeyed.Do as instructed before inviting trouble to yourself. Ask for the requirements and do the needful.A word is enough for the wise. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by brightalo1010: 11:55am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: You're using the current government as an excuse not to pay bride price when the lady was alive yet you find it worthwhile to be banging her despite the hardship. Others are paying bride price since then so stop this your useless excuses of blame game and focus on how to settle the issue. That's igbo tradition deal with it. 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Nobody: 11:55am On Apr 30, 2022 |
My brother NEVER DO WHAT YOUR SPIRIT BODY AND SOUL IS AGAINST.. Her death though sad, has saved you from the kind of in-laws you would have had... Let no man put you in bondage with these demonic and obsolete ways of thinking.. How can someone in the 21st century be telling you to marry a corpse for Christ sake..If they take the son from you don't worry, as far you have no hand in her death, one day the boy will know the whole truth and nothing but the truth.. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by a2d3rew(m): 11:55am On Apr 30, 2022 |
jokinexcel:omo which side u dey?, Make we shoch am. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by poiZon: 11:56am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:Then forget about thechild. Na woman dey get pikin, na she sabi who put am belle.. What if she told the family no be u get the pikin... Go do d needful and get ur son if not they might kill him too. Lemme tell u what happened to someone i know, the guy papa bin die, person come marry the first daughter, instead of the mama to inform the husband's family and involve them in the marriage stuff, she did it alone as madam Oliver Twist.. The husband people poured libation, invoke spirit of death.. The daughter died. Though she had 2kids, the husband send them to their granny.. Just this year, we were working very close to the guy's compound, the police man securing the compound told us the woman lost her grandchild... And that she had already lost the the girl sometime last year.. So the entire of the daughter and her 2kids gone.. Bobo even Jesus advised give unto ceasar what belongs to ceasar.. Go and negotiate the marital stuffs.. Do what u can so u will keep ur child.. Even court won't favour u 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Nobody: 11:56am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Timekeeper452:U re next on line,ur own self go bad pass like this,all this small small children self..u think this one is church thing ad religion...e go clear for ur eye ... |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Nobody: 11:57am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Ilaje1: LoL. And who's the father of the kid? They are still insisting he's mine. So would he grow without a father? And what if he comes in the future claiming I'm his father? Imagine I'm in a political office then or running for one? That's mad scandal. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Ilaje1: 11:57am On Apr 30, 2022 |
sweetjohn: And some fools will just take someone's son, got pregnant for him without knowing his family. 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by ALFADOS(m): 11:57am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:Give Cissa what belong to Cissa and have peace, it doesn't cost much is negotiateable. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by edtess: 11:58am On Apr 30, 2022 |
As far as Igbo culture is concern, you only have option of the two available to you. Choose which you can for, do it and forge ahead. Stop being stubborn about the abominable thing you've committed. In a sane society, your type should be ashamed for having a child out if wedlock. Though, people are define by the society that gave birth to them. 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Chidi2022: 11:58am On Apr 30, 2022 |
TyroneP:You never see case .... Lmao..... please come to my village and try something like this, then you tell us that its our responsibility to come pick our daughter from the mortuary.... Am from ORLU LGA, IMO STATE.. Then you will know that even wife that you married legally, when she dies, whether she dies young or old, there are some requirements to be fulfilled before she is buried... If you want to help OP, tell him to go back to his MOTHER and KINSMEN and seek for wise counsel... because if the kasala burst finish, nobody on nairaland will save his ass or donate a dime to him. Nairaland gra gra will not solve anything or bury the dead.. 2 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by poiZon: 11:58am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:U informed them as son-inlaw or elder brother or extended cousin? 3 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Seredebe: 11:58am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: Your son? Did I just hear you say your son? The boy is not your son until you pay the mum's dowry. 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Qatar2022: 11:58am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:Believe it or not you will marry her corpse, you will pay her pride price and do traditional marriage before burial 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Ilaje1: 11:59am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Shoodboi: As long as the DNA says he's not yours. Move on, no one can force a child on you except you want them to. Cut all communication from them. If the child comes in future, show him the result and even carry out another test to show you are not responsible for him. It shows the girl wasn't faithful. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by BigBrother54321: 11:59am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Some of you can be very silly. He took her banging her morning afternoon night. She didn’t bang him too? Did he force her to be with him? Because he didn’t bring you oil & yam tubers that invalidates what they shared? C’mon. If the family was okay with their daughter being with him before death, why are they now acting up? If the bride price was so important to them they should have asked their daughter to come back home & not wait till she died. What nonsense all in the name of culture. calmness0: 4 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Timekeeper452: 11:59am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Obinna666:empty threats, that’s the only thing majority of Nigerians are good at. Stop living in your illusion. 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by ukahrawah: 12:00pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: This guy, your foolhardiness is about to ruin you. What exactly are you trying to prove? Church you don't attend, Jesus; you don't know and now you have demolished a young woman through fornication. Look, her family will run you down without stress. Stay there dey form hard guy. They are about to give you a letter to deliver to their daughter. Go get a bible and read (Genesis 34) about what the sons of Jacob did to the Shechemites when the king's son defiled their sister. 2 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Babisha10(m): 12:01pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:Oga at least you telling us the tribe will help us not to fall victim as well... |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Nobody: 12:01pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
All the trashy comments i de read for here..most of this people na mumu,sabi ur language,no! ,Ur culture no!..some of u dont know road to ur country home self, but e no de hard una to learn another person tradition,just so i make it clear to the fools here,even buhari,buhari cannot even run away from this one,go and ask ngige what Happened to him,no be by gra gra ..if hands touch u ma man ,op if hands touch u,u re lucky the family is decent to ask u for Normal cos e get strong head brothers wey for don knack u shot along time ago 2 Likes |
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