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Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by duro4chang(m): 12:12pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Berankis:No mind am |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Cloud007: 12:12pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:you have made a costly mistake. Ask God and your mom for forgiveness. Get close to God with prayer and stand your ground. Do not marry that corpse. Affliction shall not rise again. 3 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by EzePaschal(m): 12:13pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
T0T0fucker: This one is empty brain. Person wey never pay gbese get money travel out. If he like ler him run to the end of the earth. Children full here with empty brain. This guy do not know the trouble ahead of him. He go hear nwiiii if he doesn't do the needful. If na my village, he would have been reported to the deity. All these nonsense he is ranting now won't happen because he will be a living corpse. It is his kingsmen that will be coming to beg. Do you know what it take to bring a child to the world, nurse her to maturity and you came and took her? Put her in the family way and she died. You then call the family on the phone to inform them? As nwa ewu na? 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by sylve11: 12:14pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
duro4chang: See finishing... ![]() ![]() |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by meetme01: 12:14pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: It is not tribal war. This is culture which can never be disassociated from the case presented. 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Nobody: 12:14pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
I think it's somewhere in Benue.. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Keda25: 12:15pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
First of all I want to ask you where do you intend to bury her? She not your wife, the child remains the right of her family, because you are not recognize you as their son. You don't have the right to bury.... |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Ade3131: 12:15pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
@StilmaVsBorn2w Please take the words from @koolest4christ close to your heart. One of the best advice out here. I totally understand why you're feeling this way. I mean you just lost a soulmate after seriously battling with Mr. Death for her through your finances. Today you're in debt over a lost battle and then this whole shit from her family. I understand nobody is concerned about your emotional state at the moment you're grieving. It's not wrong to say this shouldn't have been the time to bring up all these shitty talk of getting married to her dead body. Whether you believe in superstitions or God is immaterial at this point. It's equally immaterial if you're not afraid of the girl's family bullying or not. What's most important right now is your show of respect for your son's mother. I pray God softens your heart to just give to ceaser what belongs to it. Rally around your friends for help. Let them know the shit you found yourself in. Call the girl's elder brother back and ask for their Dad's phone number. Talk to them in the most polite and sobber way. Let them see you grieving genuinely. Make him understand how indebted you are over her medical bills. Ask him for favour so they'll lower their demands from you. Tell him you're not in the best frame of mind for this kind of conversation but for the love and respect you have for them and their late daughter, you just have to do this. Remember, this is not being cowardice. It's wisdom. If not for the love and affection you have for your late wife, then Do it for your first child ever! koolest4christ: |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Qatar2022: 12:15pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Ilaje1:Bros when you want to marry please do the needful or else you can't stand it, believe me you will marry her corpse. It's bot about hard man or knowing a lawyer |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by lordmans(m): 12:16pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
dawnomike:. I'm not Ibo but it's good to respect the tradition of others, especially those we're interacting with. Unfortunately the economy might have had its toll on you but just try to raise the fund to settle them so her spirit may have a final rest. But the family too shouldn't be malicious about it so everyone could be happy and still remain as friends thereafter. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by sayso: 12:16pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:With this response,it is clear the story is a hoax. People stop disturbing yourselves on these super story. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by MunorAnne(f): 12:16pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:OP, it's quite obvious you're a very stubborn person. From flaunting your mom's advice, to finally getting yourself in the mess she was trying to help you dodge, to you bringing it up on this forum and thwarting members' advice. I assure you, you're on ''self-destruct mode''. You better go find kinsmen wey go follow you go pay that bride price, unless, of course, you wan add ''corpse kidnap'' to your already many sins. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by ijoba22(m): 12:16pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:Sorry bro Its a trade off between marrying or custody of the child, it's just paying the bride price and not big wedding, even in my locality it's still somehow enforce. On legal basics you can claim to be the father of the child when you have not fully married her officially. There's is common saying mother are the owner of the child, and in that case you have not own her. My two cents. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Henrybyk(m): 12:17pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:u sound so so selfish to me … u are supposed to be sober u lost ur swt hrt , d mother of ur son …. U don’t have conscience a woman who loved and lived with u even upon ur poverty status & mentality till her death… ur here more concerned about her son… a woman u didn’t pay a dine…. Disgraceful |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Ilaje1: 12:17pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
sweetjohn: Who says African woman don't toast man? She was an adult. Was the girl forced to agree to the guy advancement? Bride price is a curural thing, in some culture it is the woman that pays groom price. My point is that nothing is set in stone. Because those before us believed the norm is to pay price doesn't mean we can't change it. Any girl of 18 yrs can decide for herself. There is no law that says you must pay a dowry before you can impregnate someone or be impregnated by someone. There is no law that stipulated that you have to pay or collect dowry before having sex with someone's daughter or son. There is no law that says you must marry someone that you impregnate or marry someone that impregnated you whether alive or dead. So he will NOT be guilt in a court of law. 3 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Funkybabee(f): 12:17pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Someone should help him financially U must do it shebi u know how to be stubborn |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Nobody: 12:18pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
EzePaschal:Nna my brother ,i tire,some people have no fear for anything...all this baby boy them,they think social media de help for this kind thing.. the more he delays ,the more the money increases,the more the problem increases,its better now that no ear , much ear have heard it,its even the op mind to come post it here..i blame the girl sha,it doesn't seem like this guy has anything respect for her both in live and death |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by JONSYN7154: 12:18pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:My dear friend, the money you're going to pay for bride price won't be much. Its just a token. ItS done in my place but not my local government. No need to drag with your in-laws. Use wisdom and settle with them. You're even lucky they didn't accuse you of killing their daughter. RIP you your wife. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by sammirano: 12:18pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Op, I strongly hope you are not a Yoruba, Cos, if you are then God has catch you. Of all the angels in Yorubaland, you went ahead for a yam legged flatbed headed girl. Go marry her dead body already. Nonsense! |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by madgoat(m): 12:19pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: You are a mumu. Why are you scared of her family. They have no legal right over the boy since you are alive. Just make sure they dont have access to the boy at all. Dont let them see him. He is your son even if u have not married the mother. Dont give the boy to her people. Let your mother have the boy for now till u are through with the burial. After that relocate to another house, change the school of the boy and dont have any contact with her family. Also tell ur family not to disclose any information about you to them. It's that simple . And by the way you dont have to follow any tradition of marrying a corpse. Simple. 2 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Odidigboigbo(m): 12:19pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:Ok, let's see how you will burry someone's daughter without their consent. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by nams77: 12:19pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
ImaIma1:The guy has not done the first thing he needs to to do, which is, go meet the elders in HIS family for advice. I pity these young generation guys Dem think say life na ludo. Like someone said, it's going to be an uphill battle even if he is a general overseer of a ministry. He should allow the elders in his family mediate. But of course, this kind of person sees the old people in his family as scum 3 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by olat11: 12:19pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Actually she is not your wife because there is no evidence of marriage between you and her. So, pls just calm down, inform you people to schedule a meeting with her family for forgiveness. Otherwise, the outcome might be an everlasting regret. Thank you 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Ilaje1: 12:20pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Obinna666: If you are looking at it from the respect angle, if the girl respected her family she wouldn't move in with a man. 2 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Wannabenz: 12:21pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Poverty na bastard see matter wey uncle don go buy ![]() You must marry that girl Oo. U don go deceive her,she leave her papa house now she's dead and you wan leave the son for them because of poverty ![]() Bro the marriage no go dey expensive like other marriage. Go and marry her corpse. Wether you want the child or not. Dem tell una make una dey avoid love until una make am but una no dey hear,u no even afford better hospital for her. U don go use poverty kill her. Wait till she start tormenting you, foolish boy. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Ilaje1: 12:21pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
sammirano: Who is this odetic mumu. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by michresakidjo(m): 12:22pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
blairlady: Thank you for this insight. I should have a second thought right now. So that I don't find my self in a mess as the OP. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Nobody: 12:23pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Ilaje1:Be honest,love de do many things,women if it comes to that aspect ,no de understand that side,once a woman fall inlove with a man,her family na trash to her especially if pregnancy involve and maybe the mumu guy de decieve am that tomorrow i will come and see ur people..some men are like that ,i will come and see ur people and 10yrs go pass ,i blame the girls buts she gone but for the op to have the guts,nna this guy ,if this thing na real story ,this guy no even know wetin em enter.its cheaper to marry a girl when she is alive than when she is dead ,and if u come form stubbornness ,e de triple |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by sweetjohn(m): 12:23pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Ilaje1:Seriously, No law against stealing someone daughter. are you for real. Oga, if you are living with a woman that is not yet your wife, go and do the needful now o bc should the girl die in your hand. If the family knows their right and took it up with law, you are a gonar. A word is enough for the wise |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by StilmaVsBorn2w: 12:23pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Funkybabee:would really appreciate |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by COMPAQ(m): 12:23pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: There is nothing like marrying corpse! What kind of nonsense suggestion is that? Life happens. It's a pity she died before they got married, but so be it. If she died on expressway n ko? If it was by force to marry someone because of bearing a son, we wouldn't have single mothers and baby mamas all over the place. My brother holdbyour ground. They equally cannot take the child from you. 2 Likes |
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