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Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Greatlee54: 12:23pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
faithfull18:our virgin sister |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by adob116: 12:23pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: Sorry for your loss. May her soul rest in Peace. I want you to listen/read with an open mind. Look at this from a different perspective. You won't be marrying a corpse if you paid the bride price. Instead you will be paying a debt you owe her people. They won't bring the corpse there. You can also get your family to do it for you. In life you must think win-win and not just my way or nothing. See things from the family perspective. They can't burry her if her bride price has not been paid. No matter state of the economy, if you make up your mind, you can negotiate a settlement for the bride price. Lastly, you will be doing this to honor your wife even I her death. Also, to keep a key relationship for you and importantly, for you son. Let the peace of God guide your heart. 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by olaolaking: 12:24pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
jokinexcel:That is a dead case bro. They can't use that against an average man. There is autopsy, you can claim to be looking for somebody for such a long time and only your family will know. Just a dead case to threatening the guy 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Tradegood: 12:24pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: These are some of the things that happen when you take the Red Demon Pill lesson too far. I feel your pain bro. You will overcome. Question Was she living in your house? If not or yes, why would you marry a corpse? They are already calling her your wife. Continue being mentally strong. You need the covering of CHRIST JESUS. My only advice is you go to the police station and make a statement of exactly what happened. That way, if they falsely accuse you in the future, you have evidence, a record of exactly what happened. GOD's way gives peace and adds no sorrow. You want a child without marriage, but you forget the bigger picture, families are involved. Red demon pill will not teach you these lessons, because they really do not care about you. All they are interested in is that you rebel against GOD's command. 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by nnaetobi(m): 12:24pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Oga op, u get luck say no be my sister, u still get mind answer ur girl friend, s brother no. That family is supposed to have taken u to court because u kidnapped their daughter and killed her, idiot. U dey Bleep but u no sabi marry |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by sammirano: 12:25pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Ilaje1: Who is this wereycious dog barking about. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by seanwilliam(m): 12:25pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
You people are wicked sha. U don’t want to listen to tje young man . Person tell una say e don Dey inside debt due to the deceased illness, una still dey tell him to keep on accumulating debts all in the name of stupid culture and simping for woman . if he had the money , he would not have done the needful from the start?? Most of you kon Dey say if it was his sister , see let me tell you , if my sister is so dumb to get married to a man who never paid her dowry then she should chop the wahala herself . Rubbish 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by zelnababa(m): 12:25pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
You better do d needful, cos you knew And they warned you before. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Nokio1: 12:25pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Your wedding invitation will read: Stillma2born cordially invites all nairalanders to his wedding with his sweet corpse... You for borrow money marry the girl jejely!!! |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by StilmaVsBorn2w: 12:27pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Wannabenz:can you read what you typed? bloody illiterate |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Ade3131: 12:28pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Keda25: He doesn't needs to be legally married to have claim to the child. You guys don't understand the Op can actually sue the girl's family for extortion and other shit if he's got those calls with the girl's elder brother recorded. But my verdict on this is that the @Op should show some respect to the dead and his first child ever. Just give to ceaser what belongs to ceaser. Let him beg them for time to raise funds and get the shit done. When next his Mom advises him, he won't think twice before obeying. 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by zelnababa(m): 12:28pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:why can't you marry her when she not corpse? |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by sylve11: 12:29pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
dobnina: Hmmm ![]() |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by sylve11: 12:30pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
thorpido: Him nor dey hear word. No need to advise him. ![]() |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by kalmebad(f): 12:30pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: Don't be delusional...curses works when u attract it. If u have figured it all out why r u then here to seek advice.....see where ur stubbornes landed u...pikin na free? What makes that boy ur son? Can u say?..marrying her corpse is just doing d cultural things that would legalise u as d father of d boy...those r d rites u would done if u had married her before her death. Ur approach to them wil count a lot in ur favour...it can be negotiated base on good understanding but if u keep running ur mouth for them as u r doing here...I sorry for u. If na family wey stubborn like u....a long walk for u |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Odidigboigbo(m): 12:31pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
T0T0fucker:By the time they use Olopa carry you go luck up, to explained what happened to her, by that time you will be the one be begging to do the needful. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Sleekfingers: 12:31pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
calmness0: To be clear , the southwest doesn't practice such an archaic bullshits. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by aspabay(m): 12:31pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
calmness0: Wrong. Not most tribes. Just say the Igbo tribe, simple. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Funkybabee(f): 12:31pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: Maybe you should change the topic to financial assistance because of your son oo |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by lordlek: 12:32pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:Bro you are saying rubbish The lady in question didn't you plan to marry her before Not like you are going to kiss or have sex with the corpse, just pay the dowry and honour your late wife You have spent years living as couples and she gave birth to a son. When your son turns 25, you should tell him you refused to pay his mother dowry because she doesn't worth abi? You people just create unnecessary future problems. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by danny34(m): 12:32pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Why call God when trouble comes, when you cannot obey him in the first place. Are you doing a burial arrangement as what? Boyfriend or husband? Just pay her bride price. Respect that woman. StilmaVsBorn2w: |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by StilmaVsBorn2w: 12:34pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Funkybabee:anything from you will be appreciated thank you 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Peace081: 12:36pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Am very sure that lady is either from Akwa ibom state or Cross river state. @op if you know what is really good for you, You better do as they said if not, be ready to dance to their tune. Continue running your mouth like a tap, remember we won't be there 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by LastProphet: 12:37pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: You are joking, you are going to marry it watch my words. So you knack somebody's dota for years and you don't want her to depart in dignity? You will understand |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by NickD(m): 12:37pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:When they say marry her corpse. It's not literally marrying. What it means is paying her Dowry which you ought to have done while she was alive and even before getting her pregnant. You have no claims on the son until you do the needful. Everything is not gragra. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by harmargedon: 12:38pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
davit:when you generalise a thing it shows you have zero Idea about the people in question, how that not tribalism. Learn to give answers with facts and figures, do not generalise it shows because your level of exposure. 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Jeon(f): 12:40pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
blairlady: well I respect them for that. poiZon: 2 Likes |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by OkuFaba(m): 12:40pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:op I am igbo and I know she's igbo. This is where our tradition didn't favour the men. She bore you a child and you're living with her without paying her bride price now you want to Bury her like an ordinary person. Traditionally in the igbo culture your situation demands you do her marriage rights before her burial rights |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by ledaman: 12:42pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
duro4chang:Brutal honesty. He is a vagabond |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by murphyrichy(m): 12:42pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
You are the hard type that refuses to learn from ur mother,am not surprised the way you drag issues with people that came to advise you here anyway. You won't still learn. But bear in mind say you don marry her finish. You don't have option here. StilmaVsBorn2w: |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by NickD(m): 12:42pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: She is dead now, you now refer to her as It. Even claiming its their daughter as if you have nothing to do with her anymore. They can accuse you of killing their daughter. Better tow the line of peace, you seem very stubborn and arrogant. Better drop that act cause it'll take you nowhere. You never had their consent and you put their daughter in the family way. Keep up with the raised shoulders you'll see what you're looking for. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by OkuFaba(m): 12:42pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
NickD:in my culture, any child born out of wedlock belongs to the girls father unless the man responsible comes to pay her dowry only then can he come out and claim the child |
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