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Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Signum(f): 12:43pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: You are not serious. I think you are the stubborn type. You don't want to say where this is happening yet you want our advice. Well, the elder brother has told you all you need to hear. Goan pay her bride price to retain ur son and live in peace.. otherwise, not only they will take the boy, ur life is even in danger! Look at it this way, they are right to accuse you of killing their daughter and they'll hunt you. Look for a black goat while there's still daylight. If you like, keep wallowing in stubbornness. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by JRichards: 12:43pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: I told you what i heard in the spirit. Do not worry, your fall is already in process |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by jamjo: 12:45pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: Let me make it clear, I am not a lawyer but I know that there is no tradition in Nigeria that supersede the Nigerian constitution and there is nowhere in the Nigerian constitution also that allows any citizen to marry the dead. As for your child, the court will order a DNA test if the child is yours the court will do the needful unless you are (an irresponsible human being) otherwise no court of competent jurisdiction will deny you your child when the mother is no more So go and get a lawyer. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by ledaman: 12:45pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:You have problem, but you don't know. You are telling them what to do. Not what they want you to do. Wallahi if I was amongst the family you would have been in police cell now ![]() |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by NickD(m): 12:45pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
OkuFaba:In most tribes it works that way. No matter how little it's important traditional rites are done even if you don't have the finance for a white wedding. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by 4ckyou: 12:46pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Jeon:yes, that's why I said it's almost all tribes in Nigeria 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by COMPAQ(m): 12:48pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
NickD: Depends on the mindset of the girls people. If it's just to pay bride price to honour the girls and everybody goes their separate ways fine. Some will try to hold you after paying that you are their inlaw and be making financial demands and wanting to come stay in your house etc. If they have that mindset, no pay o. Cos na problem be that. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by odimbannamdi(m): 12:48pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
jokinexcel: So how did it finally end? |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by OkuFaba(m): 12:49pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
NickD:white wedding is the white man's culture. The African traditional wedding rights is more important than the white church wedding 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by michresakidjo(m): 12:49pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
This is not so in my tribe. Iam so scaredof what I am reading here. I once nursed this thought coz I loved this babe and I have vowed never to marry from my side but..the said girlfriend has been exhibitiing traits of an Emere. She fainted twice at my place even though she wasn't sick. My eyes has opened to reality more by this revelation of OP. She's from that water tribe. OP you should have yielded to your mother's warning at first. My mom too warned me.. I thank God I heeded. But come o... Does cultural beliefs supersedes the constitution. 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by twosquare(m): 12:51pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Don't mind the liar...it doesn't happen. Jeon: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Moyissh: 12:51pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:You are very stupid |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Moyissh: 12:52pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: You are dumb |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by duro4chang(m): 12:53pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
ledaman:No mind am. The series of advice he go collect here will lead him no where. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by michresakidjo(m): 12:53pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
4ckyou: Which Yoruba. I have not heard that before nor seen one. Not in my tribe. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by duro4chang(m): 12:54pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
sylve11:Be go collect wotowoto advice for nairaland. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by duro4chang(m): 12:55pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Berankis:Exactly |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by donbenie(m): 12:55pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
emperor863:Yeah.. Coming from a man whose daughters jump from one man to another.. You dash your daughters out to live and produce children with multiple men,without being married.. No wonder it is strange to you.. 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by peace0813(f): 12:57pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: You are very wicked person with the way you respond. Somebody's daughter died and you feel no remorse about the families state nau but running your mouth like tap water � there |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by oladipupo2234: 12:59pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Your mama advised you then but you said No. Nairalanders dey advise you now but you still remain adamant saying No. Guess what, i can predit your future but i wont tell you now cos you still wont believe nor heed my advice. Wait till the future to experience it all since you no wan learn from other. Dog whe go loss no go ever hear the hunter's whistle. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by donbenie(m): 12:59pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
michresakidjo:So your Tribe supports cohabitation with a woman and having children without being married? He didn't marry the said woman.. She was fulfilling all the duties of a wife for free? And she died in his custody.. Now he wants to return her Corpse to them? And yet you actually wants to turn around and blame the woman's people for their stance? 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by foolbuster: 1:05pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Felimax: Some of you are mad. What of the girl that agreed to stay? Was she kidnapped? Who knows maybe she even intentionally got pregnant to trap the guy. There is a difference between performing some traditional rites because of the boy and outright marrying someone that is already dead. Na you and your brothers go marry corpse, nonsense. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by okunwaye(m): 1:06pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
I know op deceased woman is a yamlegger,useless apku munching gorillas with barbaric cultures. Spit on their flatheadss.
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Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by NoToPile: 1:06pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Eya Pele OP, though I personally don't subscribe to all these payment of bride price for a dead person it's against everything I stand for and believe in but if you had done the proper thing from the start all this wouldn't have happened. Shey you too didn't know the culture of the people you were dating their daughter. Just know that some of these village people can go any length just to get at you, not a joke oo. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by unmask: 1:07pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Slynation:But he said he doesn't mind them keeping the child... So I guess he has no problems then |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by KIDfurniture(m): 1:07pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Abeg tell us ur tribe & mention her tribe so other men go learn from your mistake. You have to marry her first and then move on. I m suspecting one of this yeast states sha. But if he doesn’t mention.m the state , please all elders should ignore him. StilmaVsBorn2w: |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by emperor863(m): 1:08pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
donbenie: Thankiu. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by PerfectlyPerfect(m): 1:09pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:It's not marriage, like the way we do weddings, just some traditional rites. Forget about forming Woke and just do it, it wont cost you much. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by jamesversion: 1:10pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: You killed someone's sister and you're saying the family should go to the mortuary to collect her corpse for burial. You never jam wahala before. E get the people e go be, buy now your life would have been on the line. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by KIDfurniture(m): 1:11pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Well , I’m back again.. the only reason why they will prejor em for now is because he is not wealthy yet sha. In Nigeria only a wealthy man can bend the law at anytime. Since u do not have money to throw around just go & marry the corpse & move on. unmask: |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by michresakidjo(m): 1:11pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
donbenie: Cohabitation is not culturally allowed but in case of a scenario like this... No dowry payment. Not at all. Let alone marrying her dead body. What matter is the child the woman left behind. Payment of dowry and marrying of dead body is a pure rituals. The latter part though. This s subhuman cultural beliefs should be binned. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by thecommunist(m): 1:12pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Mentally unstable people all over the place ill-advising the man to agree to marry the corpse! Why would the living get married to the dead? Why?! What has happened has happened, but telling a man who is grieving to marry the corpse is the most wicked and insensitive thing to do. Dude, try to negotiate with them to find a solution or alternative to marrying the corpse, but if they don't see things your way, then stand your ground. Take your son and move to a place where it would be hard for them to physically harm you and your son, leave the spiritual side to God. Pray and fast and get closer to God. |
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