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How Do I Move On? by Hope99: 3:51pm On Apr 29, 2022
How do I forget someone I was once close with?
I have known her for almost two years. We had things in common and the feelings were mutual.
Unfortunately, we couldn't start any relationship due to some circumstances beyond us.
That part of me wanting to go into a relationship with her had quietly died a natural death due to these circumstances that were beyond us. However, I still want her presence in my life regardless of whatever has happened. Also, I am not in any way preventing her from being in a relationship.
Unfortunately, she said she could not as the physical and emotional attractions are still there.
Now, she has blocked me on all platforms.
My dilemma is;
How do I get her off my mind because it seems as if I am hooked?
And my question is: "is it necessary for there to be something going on between two adults before a worthwhile connection can be made?"
P.S
I never wanted her to go regardless of the struggle with the physical and emotional attractions
Also, I see no reason why she should do any of that since we never dated
Cc
Lalasticlala
Re: How Do I Move On? by immortalcrown(m): 3:54pm On Apr 29, 2022
You never say your problem. You still dey hide am. Wetin be de physical factor wey dey beyond your control?

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Re: How Do I Move On? by Djxand(m): 4:00pm On Apr 29, 2022
love to advice u but u have said ur prob with her

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Re: How Do I Move On? by Hope99: 4:01pm On Apr 29, 2022
immortalcrown:
You never say your problem. You still dey hide am. Wetin be de physical factor wey dey beyond your control?
Genotype
Re: How Do I Move On? by immortalcrown(m): 4:11pm On Apr 29, 2022
Hope99:
Genotype
Leave her and suppress the feeling. Or, impregnate her and battle the decision to either commit abortion or own a sick baby. Body no be firewood. Staying close for long will lead to romance. Again, staying so close all the time will make both of you feel too bad about your nature (about the phenotype). Let her find her match. You should find your own match. Every pain has a gain and every gain has a loss.

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Re: How Do I Move On? by Hope99: 4:20pm On Apr 29, 2022
immortalcrown:
Leave her and suppress the feeling. Or, impregnate her and battle the decision to either commit abortion or own a sick baby. Body no be firewood. Staying close for long will lead to romance. Again, staying so close all the time will make both of you feel too bad about your nature (about the phenotype). Let her find her match. You should find your own match. Every pain has a gain and every gain has a loss.
Thanks
I've already suppressed my feelings in that regard for her. God forbid I use my own hands to bring problems for myself.
I just wanted things to go back to the status quo. We were good friends before we thought about taking a step forward
Re: How Do I Move On? by worldclass68(m): 6:38pm On Apr 29, 2022
Lol...u dont even know whether nah dog dey bang who u won kill ursef ontop... grin
Re: How Do I Move On? by Hope99: 12:04pm On Apr 30, 2022
worldclass68:
Lol...u dont even know whether nah dog dey bang who u won kill ursef ontop... grin
She is not that kind of a person

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Re: How Do I Move On? by Blunttruth: 12:14pm On Apr 30, 2022
Hope99:
How do I forget someone I was once close with?
I have known her for almost two years. We had things in common and the feelings were mutual.
Unfortunately, we couldn't start any relationship due to some circumstances beyond us.
That part of me wanting to go into a relationship with her had quietly died a natural death due to these circumstances that were beyond us. However, I still want her presence in my life regardless of whatever has happened. Also, I am not in any way preventing her from being in a relationship.
Unfortunately, she said she could not as the physical and emotional attractions are still there.
Now, she has blocked me on all platforms.
My dilemma is;
How do I get her off my mind because it seems as if I am hooked?
And my question is: "is it necessary for there to be something going on between two adults before a worthwhile connection can be made?"
P.S
I never wanted her to go regardless of the struggle with the physical and emotional attractions
Also, I see no reason why she should do any of that since we never dated
Cc
Lalasticlala

It's either you are together or not. Why do you want complications? You clearly can't date. If she doesn't want you in her life as a friend, respect that and give her space. . Give it time, time heals everything.
P.S just read your reason for separation
I respect the girl , she is thinking with her head not her heart.
Re: How Do I Move On? by Medianna(f): 12:37pm On Apr 30, 2022
This post is making me want to cry..
Story that touches the heart..

Plz which Philippines movie is that?
Cuz 9ja that I know is a cannot, would not, should not and will not.

But on a serious if you don't tell us some of the factors how are the elders soppose to advice you?
Re: How Do I Move On? by Hope99: 4:36pm On Apr 30, 2022
Blunttruth:

It's either you are together or not. Why do you want complications? You clearly can't date. If she doesn't want you in her life as a friend, respect that and give her space. . Give it time, time heals everything.
P.S just read your reason for separation
I respect the girl , she is thinking with her head not her heart.
Thank you!
But at least, she shouldn't have acted rashly. I do not even have it in mind to do anything with her anymore. That part of me is gone.
Personally,I do not subscribe to parting ways if we fail to date. After all, we were friends before things took another turn

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Re: How Do I Move On? by Blunttruth: 4:59pm On Apr 30, 2022
Hope99:

Thank you!
But at least, she shouldn't have acted rashly. I do not even have it in mind to do anything with her anymore. That part of me is gone.
Personally,I do not subscribe to parting ways if we fail to date. After all, we were friends before things took another turn
That's the only way she can move on.. people are different
Re: How Do I Move On? by Hope99: 5:02pm On Apr 30, 2022
Blunttruth:

That's the only way she can move on.. people are different
Alright
Thanks!
Re: How Do I Move On? by ceede2: 5:14pm On Apr 30, 2022
I whatever you going thru it's your fault
Re: How Do I Move On? by Hope99: 5:15pm On Apr 30, 2022
ceede2:
I whatever you going thru it's your fault
How?
Re: How Do I Move On? by Gee64: 5:17pm On Apr 30, 2022
Then, forget her...please!
Hope99:

Genotype
Re: How Do I Move On? by Hope99: 6:17pm On Apr 30, 2022
Gee64:
Then, forget her...please!
I never said I wanted to date her afterwards
Re: How Do I Move On? by Hope99: 11:25pm On Aug 24, 2022
Time heals all kind of heartaches. It's three months already and son of man feels very much alive!
Re: How Do I Move On? by 7buckz(m): 5:59am On Aug 25, 2022
Igbo and shayo... And her thoughts will be off your mind
Re: How Do I Move On? by Ruthie0224(f): 6:48am On Aug 25, 2022
Get busy or get involved with other people.

It doesn't have to be anything deep.

Making new friends can distract you from the pain.
Re: How Do I Move On? by Hope99: 8:23am On Aug 25, 2022
7buckz:
Igbo and shayo... And her thoughts will be off your mind
cheesy

Thanks man! But I don't drink neither do I smoke
Re: How Do I Move On? by Hope99: 8:24am On Aug 25, 2022
Ruthie0224:
Get busy or get involved with other people.

It doesn't have to be anything deep.

Making new friends can distract you from the pain.


Yeah, that is what I have been doing and I feel very much alive now.

Thank you!
Re: How Do I Move On? by 7buckz(m): 9:35am On Aug 25, 2022
Oya na enjoy your heart break Mr man
Re: How Do I Move On? by Hope99: 9:53am On Aug 25, 2022
7buckz:
Oya na enjoy your heart break Mr man
Hmm
Re: How Do I Move On? by Ruthie0224(f): 10:03am On Aug 25, 2022
Hope99:


Yeah, that is what I have been doing and I feel very much alive now.

Thank you!

Glad it works.

You're welcome

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