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Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by Cashio(m): 12:02pm On May 03, 2022 |
yanabasee:imagine the stress you went through just to have sex with a lady. Imagine how it would have taken you from the first romance session to the first penetrative sex....that's ridiculous man. Once a girl brings up any condition to date me, I damn her instantly...like why the fvck are you making these girls feel so important when it is actually them who needs your support more than you need them. And imagine OP saying his babe blocked him on social media severally just for bringing up sex topics....rubbish and useless simping. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by Opeyemi04(m): 12:02pm On May 03, 2022 |
U don watch blue film with her before Download madt bang and see weather she no go like u make u bang her too 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by Uniquetani1(f): 12:02pm On May 03, 2022 |
OluwoR: Don't mind all the people telling you that it's red flag. Not every lady likes szx But her refusing to see a gynecologist makes it seems like she is hiding something. You have to sit her down and talk about it. A lot of things like infection could make szx painful to her. Settle every matter before introduction, if it doesn't work then you are free to walk away. 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by seunlizy(f): 12:02pm On May 03, 2022 |
youngsahito: Don't mind him, he's one dt will come and write on nl later that help my wife found out am cheating. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by HltSong: 12:02pm On May 03, 2022 |
OluwoR: Maybe she found bestiality blue film in your phone. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by hopexter(m): 12:02pm On May 03, 2022 |
youngsahito: You can imagine the simp, tomorrow now he’ll start beating her if she refuses him sex even though he’s fully aware of her not into sex. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by oyebanji(m): 12:03pm On May 03, 2022 |
I imagine that there is a very dark memory of sex lurking somewhere in her mind. |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by Elvis295(m): 12:03pm On May 03, 2022 |
Guy, the simple truth is that ur girl is suffering from a medical condition called "dyspareunia". The sad news is that there is no cure for it. Your fiancee knows the truth but she wouldn't open up to it. The reason she refused going to the gynaecologist is that he will open up her secret to u and u may eventually leave her. I once had gf like that. The major cause of dyspareunia is child rape, female circumcision. Let her tell u her own story. It's bad she is hiding it from you. Remember there is no cure. It's life time defect. It's not her intention to deny u sex. Don't marry her except u want to use IVF for childbearing. Chat me on 09065070111 for more info 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by Mooh247: 12:03pm On May 03, 2022 |
Dump her and move on... Stop wasting more time on someone not willing to solve her own problems 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by penceman(m): 12:03pm On May 03, 2022 |
This is the clear evidence of why nigerians dont have love for one another. It starts here, in truth union of man and woman is basically for exchange sex and happines but in nigeria its reverse. This man says he cant have sex with this lady and yet hes talking about marriage.... Its like kadashians who has married 5 times , am just lost for words. I will ask you this question... What is the meaning of marriage? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by Savagery101: 12:03pm On May 03, 2022 |
OluwoR:That thing is an infection, it burns as if there is pepper when have sex. If she refused to see the gynecologist that means she knew what is happening but she don't want to disclose it to you. Just try your best to let her know that marriage can't last without sex, it will tire you on the long run or else you guys what to be deceiving yourselves |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by simplesearch: 12:04pm On May 03, 2022 |
If we check the OP well, he might be an active member of his church or religion, unfortunately saying and teaching what he neither believed nor practiced. Didn't God spoke against fornication? and here you're seeking advice on something you know will end your precious and never dieing soul in the lake of fire. The girl may have had it with you, but probably withdrew her consent due some fear within. She probably want to stay till married to ever engage in such an act again, reason she didn't want to honour the doctor's appointment as there is probably no issue at all. I counsel you therefore to Repent and put your spiritual life in order, ask God for forgiveness over your past sins and seek for grace to live right henceforth. This will turn out to your blessing. |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by Nobody: 12:04pm On May 03, 2022 |
OluwoR: Can you cope with it? if your answer is no, brother (since you called us brother), move on. I've been down this road before. She's hiding something. Don't be surprised if she doesn't have a womb or has even had a child before. I know I sound extreme and harsh, but I'm telling you from experience. After marriage, she may turn around to confess to having a child through "rape", and then use that to justify why she hates sex. Or she even claims to have been raped by a person she "trusted" and had to abort the child, destroying her womb in the process. These were the same signs I saw too and I ignored them only to end up spending millions in court and hospital bills for a child turned out not to be mine. Why is she refusing an appointment and supplements if her conscience is clean? Or do you think it doesn't bother her more than it bothers you? Start by asking her if she has a child? If she says no, ask if she has ever aborted? Be smart with it and make her believe someone told you something about her. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by LordVarys1: 12:04pm On May 03, 2022 |
OP please cancel the introduction now. Don't go and enter one chance. It's an abnormal condition, it's not like she doesn't want to have sex but she actually feels pain. Leave her now while you still can or you will become a serial cheat. |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by Trendingbiz042: 12:04pm On May 03, 2022 |
OluwoR: Sometimes i wonder if some guys really sucked their mother’s breast milk. What sorts of foolishness is this? She has a problem, you paid and booked for hospital examinations and she avoided it. She refused to take drugs and refused to see a doctor. That babe is a lesbian and under an oath with lesbian partner not to sex with a guy. She doesn’t have any other problem and any pains u claim she has during trying to sex her is just pretends. She knows she doesn’t have any medical problems, that’s why she won’t see a doctor or take drugs. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by SmartyPants(m): 12:04pm On May 03, 2022 |
OluwoR: So what is the marriage for now? |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by davades(m): 12:05pm On May 03, 2022 |
OluwoR: She be lesbian low key |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by Killermamba: 12:05pm On May 03, 2022 |
OluwoR: Stop the introduction. If you are to marry her she must get help asap. It's a medical condition. |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by Deejaygold(m): 12:05pm On May 03, 2022 |
OluwoR: Same problem I'm facing currently in my marriage. God will help us o! Hmmm! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by Iamvetlander(m): 12:05pm On May 03, 2022 |
OluwoR: Bro just walk out of that relationship cause you will end up cheating. She need to find a man that can balance her sex life. Chikena |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by lomprico(m): 12:06pm On May 03, 2022 |
Give her a very good head, she won't know when she drags you in. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by 3kay945(m): 12:06pm On May 03, 2022 |
I know 2 ladies that don't enjoy sex. I use to pity them. Cos, finding a man that will stay with them for so long might be difficult. My opinion though. Cos every man that discover their conditions takes off after the first or second bites. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by Iamvetlander(m): 12:06pm On May 03, 2022 |
Deejaygold: Do you guys have kids now? |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by Dshocker(m): 12:06pm On May 03, 2022 |
OluwoR: It either she is getting it from somewhere or she has infection that causes her pains during intercourse |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by treatise: 12:07pm On May 03, 2022 |
OluwoR:It's not strange, it's usually associated with prolonged untreated infection(s) ; little penetration even as little as the tiniest finger she'd cry. The solution is centred around testing and treatment ; as common as cipro can treat ailments with similar attributes. The worst of all, it adversely affects the possibility of getting pregnant. All the best though. |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by Lamasta(m): 12:07pm On May 03, 2022 |
OluwoR: And this is who you are planning introduction with and possibly marriage ![]() You are not serious seriously ![]() |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by Hussein035: 12:07pm On May 03, 2022 |
She is suffering from vaginismus. Read about vaginismus and enlighten her then ask her to read about psychotherapy to vaginismus or see a psychologist or gynecologist. Once she accepts she is suffering from such psychological problem her problem is 50% solved 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by ayibaisgud: 12:07pm On May 03, 2022 |
OluwoR: Guy your solution no dey here for Nairaland Na your hand e dey. Which kind man u be sef..? Them give u suggestions here u dey still say no no, then waiting u want..? Just carry your Matta vomit for here. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by lomprico(m): 12:08pm On May 03, 2022 |
OluwoR:She be deeper life? |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by benikad(m): 12:09pm On May 03, 2022 |
Oh, seems I sabi ur babe or na people wey get this issue plenty? |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by hopexter(m): 12:09pm On May 03, 2022 |
Uniquetani1: Good point! It’s never gonna work cos she’s into women which she’s unaware of so it’s left for the guy to introduce her to her and see if she’s comfortable with same sex. The idea is wrong but it might be only the solution for her ![]() |
Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by Testimony1988(m): 12:10pm On May 03, 2022 |
She's scared you might run away when she gets pregnant before doing the needful, she will adjust when you have settled her people. |
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