Hi nairalands...

I received a call from my female friend whose wedding is just a year old, she was weeping on phone seriously.

I tried to percify her and asked what the problem is, she said her husband wants to sleep in a separate room and she told him she is not okay with it.

To cut the story short, the husband had succeeded in separating their room, she said she feels lonely at night and she has tried to talk to him but he wouldn't listen.

Pls what advise can I give to her, and is it okay for a newly wedded couple to sleep in a separate room

mohziz1:
Hi nairalands...
I received a call from my female friend whose wedding is just a year old, she was weeping on phone seriously.
I tried to percify her and asked what the problem is, she said her wants to sleep in a separate room and she told him she is not okay with.
To cut the story short, the husband had succeeded in separating their room, she said she feels lonely at night and she has tried to talk to him but he wouldn't listen.

Pls what advise can I give to her, and is it okay for a newly wedded couple to sleep in a separate room

It is not Ok for couples to sleep in different rooms... But, since that is how he wants it and she is not able to convince him otherwise; I feel she should just let him be.

Powerful African men don't sleep in the same room with a woman her husband just go the African way there must be a secret reason behind it strong men don't tell tales either

mohziz1:
Hi nairalands...
I received a call from my female friend whose wedding is just a year old, she was weeping on phone seriously.
I tried to percify her and asked what the problem is, she said her wants to sleep in a separate room and she told him she is not okay with.
To cut the story short, the husband had succeeded in separating their room, she said she feels lonely at night and she has tried to talk to him but he wouldn't listen.

Pls what advise can I give to her, and is it okay for a newly wedded couple to sleep in a separate room

This one don go marry "I cherish my personal space"

By the way,why is she feeling lonely at night when she is supposed to be sleeping?

Truth be told I see nothing wrong in couple having their separate rooms

mohziz1:
Hi nairalands...
I received a call from my female friend whose wedding is just a year old, she was weeping on phone seriously.
I tried to percify her and asked what the problem is, she said her wants to sleep in a separate room and she told him she is not okay with.
To cut the story short, the husband had succeeded in separating their room, she said she feels lonely at night and she has tried to talk to him but he wouldn't listen.

Pls what advise can I give to her, and is it okay for a newly wedded couple to sleep in a separate room

U didn't ask her what prompted the man's action and u are seeking for advice.

Solosolojohquay:
Powerful African men don't sleep in the same room with a woman her husband just go the African way there must be a secret reason behind it strong men don't tell tales either

its true

Damnnn niggar
What is wrong here...
People be making moutain out of a gadamnnn mohill


It is normal for the man to have his own room na....and the woman should have her own room also

It doesn't mean anything....she can at times sleep in her husbands room....infact during coitus...na the husband room the sex go for play na..
Same thing happened to my elder sister....her husband got his own room and my sister have her own room...but you know the funny thing now...my sister have access and play in her her husband's room anyday anytime twice on her ovulation period...

If I finally decide to marry.....I will have my own room. My wife got her own room..the kids have their own separate room...and then there will also be a visitors or guest room....with each room having their own toilets and bathroom but with a general or shared kitchen

She should ask him if he still loves her.
Na so divorce process dey start.



But I will like a separate room with my husband, I don't like disturb

she should know the reason behind it and also, nothing is wrong having a separate room and nothing stops them using the same room once’s a while.



Anyway, Agriculture is life.

There is something wrong , may be she is snoring or tired of her smelly punna and he can’t tolerate it anymore .

1 sided story is not good

Me either way nothing spoil.

Separate room is bae.
It doesn't mean either party can't pass night with the other in their room. And it doesn't mean you have no access to his room.

After the family meeting, please go back to your room make I flex my bed abeg.

Solosolojohquay:
Powerful African men don't sleep in the same room with a woman her husband just go the African way there must be a secret reason behind it strong men don't tell tales either

Nowadays yahoo boys love their privacy like kilode.

Maybe the woman is always cuddling her man when sleeping. Me I don't like that either mostly when there is heat

How do you gys even keep female friends, i guess am not lucky on that. Doesn't she ask you for money or favours all the time , With no positive impact in your life

Something sounds amiss, just a year old marriage when they ought to sleep in each other’s arms. It’s quite sad they should sort out whatever May be the issue if the man is willing otherwise their love seems lost and diminished.

mohziz1:
Pls what advise can I give to her, and is it okay for a newly wedded couple to sleep in a separate room

Your friend is not telling you the entire truth about her relationship so until you get the truth from her mouth about why the husband demands to sleep in a separate room, do more digging and less alerting. Or better yet, tell her make she bring her case make we hear from her instead.

brightest5050:
Truth be told I see nothing wrong in couple having their separate rooms

you might not see anything wrong with it but almost every woman don’t want that…. I don’t want that too lol… I want my husband right beside me every night… besides the marriage is just a year old… this is the time they would cuddle, the husband would sneak up on her in the night… hit her buttocks.. kisses from behind her ears and so on….

Lamanii22:
you might not see anything wrong with it but almost every woman don’t want that…. I don’t want that too lol… I want my husband right beside me every night… besides the marriage is just a year old… this is the time they would cuddle, the husband would sneak up on her in the night… hit her buttocks.. kisses from behind her ears and so on….

Then when he does that for a long time and you feel he loves doing that, that’s when you start using it as a weapon against him. One day you’ll ask him if sex is food, just so you could emasculate him.

Nothing new. Some people love their personal space.

Did they not discuss it before they got married?

Maybe the man is into some strong African jazz

ChoCho54:
Nowadays yahoo boys love their privacy like kilode.

how else den go chop that messy stuff babalawo gave Dem,wey den no wan make u see in peace

Okay

Today, most couple have their
separate rooms.

Master's bedroom with adjoining
Madam's room ...

Except of course, men who lack the
means for such extravagance share
rooms with madam.☺️☺️☺️

dawnomike:
It is not Ok for couples to sleep in different rooms... But, since that is how he wants it and she is not able to convince him otherwise; I feel she should just let him be.

To all single guys out there,
If you live comfortable make sure you have your own personal bedroom when you get married, only sleeps together when you want knack

E get why

Maybe you did something that made him suddenly decide he wants to have his own room.

It's also possible that you snore or you spend a long time gossiping with friends on the phone and he finds it distracting