I have everything a girl needs in man but I'm an introvert I just love talking to myself only, I got a lot of green light but immediately I try to go for it and the girl form a little hard to get I just immediately go back to my default settings.




Help...... I need a soul mate

The right person will come, don't beg for love

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I don't toast anymore, love will truly find you when the time comes

Getting a girlfriend is not the issue but getting the right girlfriend is the issue.

God1000:
The right person will come, don't beg for love

bros I'm not hyping myself, I have the cute face, the soft lips, the fitted stature, the abs, the skin colour (I'm not dark not Fair in complexion, I'm chocolate) yet I find it so difficult to approach a lady I always go back to my default mode after just small hard to get forming from the girls

You actually don't know what God is saving you from.

Finesse1st:
bros I'm not hyping myself, I have the cute face, the soft lips, the fitted stature, the abs, the skin colour (I'm not dark not Fair in complexion, I'm chocolate) yet I find it so difficult to approach a lady I always go back to my default mode after just small hard to get forming from the girls

I understand you but continue being yourself, don't chose another lifestyle because of a girl, you will meet your woman at the right time

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It's difficult getting a nice boyfriend too

Uniquetani1:
It's difficult getting a nice boyfriend too

Gosh what’s that on ur profile ..

Finesse1st:
bros I'm not hyping myself, I have the cute face, the soft lips, the fitted stature, the abs, the skin colour (I'm not dark not Fair in complexion, I'm chocolate) yet I find it so difficult to approach a lady I always go back to my default mode after just small hard to get forming from the girls

What about money? You forgot to mention that.

Have you learned to love?

karkinase:

Gosh what’s that on ur profile ..

Yes that's me

siofra:
Have you learned to love?

how?

You dont force love nor rush it... Let it occurs naturally

Finesse1st:
I have everything a girl needs in man but I'm an introvert I just love talking to myself only, I got a lot of green light but immediately I try to go for it and the girl form a little hard to get I just immediately go back to my default settings.




Help...... I need a soul mate

On top the whole wahala way full the universe, your own problem is a mensurating, stinking, stingy, selfish, manipulative, dog - prone, ingrate of a being to come and stress your life..

Okay na. No come here much later stress us with heartbreak story. Na your type girls dey do shege

Faber:


On top the whole wahala way full the universe, your own problem is a mensurating, stinking, stingy, selfish, manipulative, dog - prone, ingrate of a being to come and stress your life..

Okay na. No come here much later stress us with heartbreak story. Na your type girls dey do shege

no girl go fit do Me shege cus me self na shege

First off, i want you to erase that shit called"soul mate" from your mind. It is non existent.

Second, you need to come out of shell more. So far you are regularly getting greenlight that means u don't look bad and well chiseled. So you need to summon the "courage" and approach such ladies. Since the greenlight is there, less effort is required. This is just pure desire from the ladies part for you to act on.

Talk to them like a normal human, they shit,they smell,they bleed,they piss. No matter how beautiful, they are still humans with blood flowing through their veins.

GO BACK TO UR EX ,SHE'S UR SOUL MATE.

Finesse1st:
I have everything a girl needs in man but I'm an introvert I just love talking to myself only, I got a lot of green light but immediately I try to go for it and the girl form a little hard to get I just immediately go back to my default settings.




Help...... I need a soul mate

Go Make Money, no be by fine boy alone.

Finesse1st:
I have everything a girl needs in man but I'm an introvert I just love talking to myself only, I got a lot of green light but immediately I try to go for it and the girl form a little hard to get I just immediately go back to my default settings.




Help...... I need a soul mate

i feel your pain man. no be only you o

Forget gf, make female friends as many as you can. Just get talking without any thought of seeing again

Kriss216:
You actually don't know what God is saving you from.

Most of those girls will add misery to his life.

siofra:
Have you learned to love?

He who learn to love must bear the risk of hatred - Madara

Faber:


On top the whole wahala way full the universe, your own problem is a mensurating, stinking, stingy, selfish, manipulative, dog - prone, ingrate of a being to come and stress your life..

Okay na. No come here much later stress us with heartbreak story. Na your type girls dey do shege

Sheer malice and hatred for female folks you have sex with when you become "konjified". Such pettiness and hypocrisy.

You should get over yourself and stop these disgusting remarks towards female gender.

It will happen at the right time

Finesse1st:
I have everything a girl needs in man but I'm an introvert I just love talking to myself only, I got a lot of green light but immediately I try to go for it and the girl form a little hard to get I just immediately go back to my default settings.




Help...... I need a soul mate

youre probably a sigma male. Check wise thinker & bloke box on YouTube and thank me later

ITbomb:
Forget gf, make female friends as many as you can. Just get talking without any thought of seeing again

Hope u read it that he is introvert.

Relate ur shy (introvert) problem to a very confident and reliable friends, they can help you to woo ladies that would date you.

NB. Don't call me wen you impregnate woman. Think about responsibility before the pleasure ok.

Meanwhile, a time is coming that you would tired about different women in relationship. I will advice you to wait and see it.

Fiscus105:



Hope u read it that he is introvert.

So am I.

You don't just go out and make friends, that's hard for us rather we make friends in the course of work

Jayrockk:
youre probably a sigma male. Check wise thinker & bloke box on YouTube and thank me later

oh! Bro bro I googled the trait of the sigma male, and I have all the traits listed there, I just feel too happy with myself in every aspect and love doing things at my own pace, I'm not scared of them girl's but I feel so difficult to Chase girls or at the mercy of anybody I can speak and talk to anybody no matter ur status, but only hold a relationship with whether a male/female if relationship is mutual but not me trying to make things happen