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Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by mohziz1(m): 12:48pm On May 04, 2022 |
Hi nairalands... I received a call from my female friend whose wedding is just a year old, she was weeping on phone seriously. I tried to percify her and asked what the problem is, she said her husband wants to sleep in a separate room and she told him she is not okay with it. To cut the story short, the husband had succeeded in separating their room, she said she feels lonely at night and she has tried to talk to him but he wouldn't listen. Pls what advise can I give to her, and is it okay for a newly wedded couple to sleep in a separate room 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by dawnomike(m): 12:51pm On May 04, 2022 |
mohziz1:It is not Ok for couples to sleep in different rooms... But, since that is how he wants it and she is not able to convince him otherwise; I feel she should just let him be. 117 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by Solosolojohquay: 2:15pm On May 04, 2022 |
Powerful African men don't sleep in the same room with a woman her husband just go the African way there must be a secret reason behind it strong men don't tell tales either 299 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by 2braithe: 2:30pm On May 04, 2022 |
mohziz1: This one don go marry "I cherish my personal space" ![]() By the way,why is she feeling lonely at night when she is supposed to be sleeping? ![]() 244 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by brightest5050: 2:39pm On May 04, 2022 |
Truth be told I see nothing wrong in couple having their separate rooms 252 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by Truvelisback(m): 2:50pm On May 04, 2022 |
mohziz1:U didn't ask her what prompted the man's action and u are seeking for advice. 164 Likes 8 Shares
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Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by Jamahyel(m): 3:01pm On May 04, 2022 |
Solosolojohquay:its true 22 Likes |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by slawormiir: 3:04pm On May 04, 2022 |
Damnnn niggar What is wrong here... People be making moutain out of a gadamnnn mohill It is normal for the man to have his own room na....and the woman should have her own room also It doesn't mean anything....she can at times sleep in her husbands room....infact during coitus...na the husband room the sex go for play na.. Same thing happened to my elder sister....her husband got his own room and my sister have her own room...but you know the funny thing now...my sister have access and play in her her husband's room anyday anytime twice on her ovulation period... If I finally decide to marry.....I will have my own room. My wife got her own room..the kids have their own separate room...and then there will also be a visitors or guest room....with each room having their own toilets and bathroom but with a general or shared kitchen 159 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by Uniquetani1(f): 3:05pm On May 04, 2022 |
She should ask him if he still loves her. Na so divorce process dey start. But I will like a separate room with my husband, I don't like disturb ![]() 13 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by Agricmoney(m): 3:07pm On May 04, 2022 |
she should know the reason behind it and also, nothing is wrong having a separate room and nothing stops them using the same room once’s a while. Anyway, Agriculture is life. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by Abbertee2: 3:20pm On May 04, 2022 |
There is something wrong , may be she is snoring or tired of her smelly punna and he can’t tolerate it anymore . 1 sided story is not good 38 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by Holluwhakemmy(f): 3:29pm On May 04, 2022 |
Me either way nothing spoil. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by ChoCho54(f): 3:30pm On May 04, 2022 |
Separate room is bae. It doesn't mean either party can't pass night with the other in their room. And it doesn't mean you have no access to his room. After the family meeting, please go back to your room make I flex my bed abeg. 45 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by ChoCho54(f): 3:32pm On May 04, 2022 |
Solosolojohquay:Nowadays yahoo boys love their privacy like kilode. 33 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by harizonal123(m): 5:47pm On May 04, 2022 |
Maybe the woman is always cuddling her man when sleeping. Me I don't like that either mostly when there is heat ![]() 40 Likes |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by toujurs: 6:04pm On May 04, 2022 |
How do you gys even keep female friends, i guess am not lucky on that. Doesn't she ask you for money or favours all the time ![]() 85 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by Yemlizzy(f): 9:31pm On May 04, 2022 |
Something sounds amiss, just a year old marriage when they ought to sleep in each other’s arms. It’s quite sad they should sort out whatever May be the issue if the man is willing otherwise their love seems lost and diminished. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by Kobojunkie: 9:35pm On May 04, 2022 |
mohziz1:Your friend is not telling you the entire truth about her relationship so until you get the truth from her mouth about why the husband demands to sleep in a separate room, do more digging and less alerting. Or better yet, tell her make she bring her case make we hear from her instead. ![]() 9 Likes |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by Lamanii22(f): 10:51pm On May 04, 2022 |
brightest5050:you might not see anything wrong with it but almost every woman don’t want that…. I don’t want that too lol… I want my husband right beside me every night… besides the marriage is just a year old… this is the time they would cuddle, the husband would sneak up on her in the night… hit her buttocks.. kisses from behind her ears and so on…. 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by Nobody: 3:00am On May 05, 2022 |
Lamanii22: Then when he does that for a long time and you feel he loves doing that, that’s when you start using it as a weapon against him. One day you’ll ask him if sex is food, just so you could emasculate him. 96 Likes |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by suffering: 4:29am On May 05, 2022 |
Nothing new. Some people love their personal space. 15 Likes |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by Kobicove(m): 5:43am On May 05, 2022 |
Did they not discuss it before they got married? ![]() |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by fikayormi(m): 7:17am On May 05, 2022 |
Maybe the man is into some strong African jazz 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by Nostring: 7:21am On May 05, 2022 |
ChoCho54:how else den go chop that messy stuff babalawo gave Dem,wey den no wan make u see in peace ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by bigdammyj: 10:48am On May 05, 2022 |
Okay |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by adecz: 10:48am On May 05, 2022 |
![]() Today, most couple have their separate rooms. Master's bedroom with adjoining Madam's room ... Except of course, men who lack the means for such extravagance share rooms with madam.☺️☺️☺️ 10 Likes |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by emmabest2000(m): 10:48am On May 05, 2022 |
dawnomike: To all single guys out there, If you live comfortable make sure you have your own personal bedroom when you get married, only sleeps together when you want knack E get why ![]() 21 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by SavageResponse(m): 10:48am On May 05, 2022 |
Maybe you did something that made him suddenly decide he wants to have his own room. It's also possible that you snore or you spend a long time gossiping with friends on the phone and he finds it distracting ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
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