slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
What is wrong here...
People be making moutain out of a gadamnnn mohill


It is normal for the man to have his own room na....and the woman should have her own room also

It doesn't mean anything....she can at times sleep in her husbands room....infact during coitus...na the husband room the sex go for play na..
Same thing happened to my elder sister....her husband got his own room and my sister have her own room...but you know the funny thing now...my sister have access and play in her her husband's room anyday anytime twice on her ovulation period...

If I finally decide to marry.....I will have my own room. My wife got her own room..the kids have their own separate room...and then there will also be a visitors or guest room....with each room having their own toilets and bathroom but with a general or shared kitchen

So, you wan have separate kitchen before?

It is strange not only wrong just 1year in marriage the man have some cockroaches in his copboard. For our fathers and mothers that are already grandma and grandpa they can have a separate rooms. How can this two young couples bound? All these men/women in marriages these days will not open up during courtship o about their weird lifestyle, the woman should try and bear it, but?? whatever comes out it the man caused it!

mohziz1:
Hi nairalands...

I received a call from my female friend whose wedding is just a year old, she was weeping on phone seriously.

I tried to percify her and asked what the problem is, she said her husband wants to sleep in a separate room and she told him she is not okay with it.

To cut the story short, the husband had succeeded in separating their room, she said she feels lonely at night and she has tried to talk to him but he wouldn't listen.

Pls what advise can I give to her, and is it okay for a newly wedded couple to sleep in a separate room

She can cry till she dies. If I can't have a separate bedroom, then no marriage at all

exactly.

Things one should have self control and discipline in is.

1) How one pollutes the air, or gas out. If you gas out like you don't care and have no self control and it keeps coming like a tornado and generator, i'm sorry.
2) Mouth smell, make sure to clean your mouth especially after eating fish and meat.
3) Room temperature and sweating, if its too hot try to stay dry and no prolonged cuddling in extreme heat.
4) learn to read your partners body language (be very smart) and at the same time try to get feed backs without being demanding. Demanding could turn off the attraction.

Other areas could be.
1) Some people do not like noise or listening to phone conversation, because its impedes on their mind thinking processes. Phone habits are very important concern. Be mindful of your phone talks while your partner is in the room. Some people dont want to hear your business unless its about the children.

2) Start from today to monitor how you snore and try to understand how to reduce it or stop it.

3)Your baggage may be too much is suffocating the space and the smell of your make up, may cause allergy or irritation to your partner.


Its seems he does not like drama, please try and respect that, so just be patient and understanding and show him love and kindness, do your best and move on. With patience, you will get to understand why he does that.

Pinkyposh:

My candid advice is she should just let him, don't ask him about it anymore. Just show him you are ok without him by yourself side. Don't try to show him your weak points, be strong.
Most expecially be neat in and out,and dress to kill while in the house

2braithe:


This one don go marry "I cherish my personal space"

By the way,why is she feeling lonely at night when she is supposed to be sleeping?

It could be:

1. Some women have lots of luggage, including those they no longer use. No space in the room.

2. Bad sleeping habits like snoring.

3. Bad phone habits.

Na who dey stay room and palour dey do all this I and my husband is a room or nothing,madam if money dey ur husband built his house with about 5 room so wetin make the room dey do

mohziz1:
Hi nairalands...

I received a call from my female friend whose wedding is just a year old, she was weeping on phone seriously.

I tried to percify her and asked what the problem is, she said her husband wants to sleep in a separate room and she told him she is not okay with it.

To cut the story short, the husband had succeeded in separating their room, she said she feels lonely at night and she has tried to talk to him but he wouldn't listen.

Pls what advise can I give to her, and is it okay for a newly wedded couple to sleep in a separate room

Tell your female friend she has entered one chance. She needs to put her isolation to good use. Instead of crying, whining and lamenting about it she should turn her room into a sanctuary where she can meet with her maker regularly. She should get a secure lock for her room and customize it for fellowship with her creator.

She will receive solace, inspiration, fellowship and communion with God that her husband cannot supply and when her hubby sees she is not complaining, lamenting or begging anymore instead she is happy, fulfilled and joyous he will realize that his decision was for the better and not the worse!

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
What is wrong here...
People be making moutain out of a gadamnnn mohill


It is normal for the man to have his own room na....and the woman should have her own room also

It doesn't mean anything....she can at times sleep in her husbands room....infact during coitus...na the husband room the sex go for play na..
Same thing happened to my elder sister....her husband got his own room and my sister have her own room...but you know the funny thing now...my sister have access and play in her her husband's room anyday anytime twice on her ovulation period...

If I finally decide to marry.....I will have my own room. My wife got her own room..the kids have their own separate room...and then there will also be a visitors or guest room....with each room having their own toilets and bathroom but with a general or shared kitchen

Quite weird you knowing this about your sister.

mohziz1:
Hi nairalands...

I received a call from my female friend whose wedding is just a year old, she was weeping on phone seriously.

I tried to percify her and asked what the problem is, she said her husband wants to sleep in a separate room and she told him she is not okay with it.

To cut the story short, the husband had succeeded in separating their room, she said she feels lonely at night and she has tried to talk to him but he wouldn't listen.

Pls what advise can I give to her, and is it okay for a newly wedded couple to sleep in a separate room

it can only be convenient when she's had a child she can be with. why is he demanding for a separate room when they are only two in the house... There's more to it .

The man is into Bitcoin and forex trading.
Those guys hate disturbance when doing Technical analysis at night.

mohziz1:
Hi nairalands...

I received a call from my female friend whose wedding is just a year old, she was weeping on phone seriously.

I tried to percify her and asked what the problem is, she said her husband wants to sleep in a separate room and she told him she is not okay with it.

To cut the story short, the husband had succeeded in separating their room, she said she feels lonely at night and she has tried to talk to him but he wouldn't listen.

Pls what advise can I give to her, and is it okay for a newly wedded couple to sleep in a separate room

This is what is called Bed Rest. The husband doesn't want to go lounge in a hotel which means additional expenses. I think that's nice of him. The wife should just relax because it's normal for a Man to ease stress of this life. It's good for the health.

Solosolojohquay:
Powerful African men don't sleep in the same room with a woman her husband just go the African way there must be a secret reason behind it strong men don't tell tales either

Its not about being powerful,husband and wife should sleep together but each should have their separate room
I have my room and my wife has one, we sleep together in her room and sometimes I sleep in my room
Our 6 years old always disappear to her room during the night when he wakes up, so Sometimes i goes to my room because he would kick everyone so it’s quite normal to have your own room

mohziz1:
Hi nairalands...

I received a call from my female friend whose wedding is just a year old, she was weeping on phone seriously.

I tried to percify her and asked what the problem is, she said her husband wants to sleep in a separate room and she told him she is not okay with it.

To cut the story short, the husband had succeeded in separating their room, she said she feels lonely at night and she has tried to talk to him but he wouldn't listen.

Pls what advise can I give to her, and is it okay for a newly wedded couple to sleep in a separate room

The wedding is a year old? It means they've been living in the same room for a year, what prompted the guy to opt for a separate room? He won't have shared a room with her from the onset if he is the type of "I need my space kind of man" so what led to this? Ask your friend well, na her response to let person know advice to give, who know if she show violent tendency so the guy day avoid being murdered while sleeping? She day snore and he nor fit bear again?

Maybe the husband needs enough space to talk and chat with his side chick at night... Lol

mohziz1:
Hi nairalands...

I received a call from my female friend whose wedding is just a year old, she was weeping on phone seriously.

I tried to percify her and asked what the problem is, she said her husband wants to sleep in a separate room and she told him she is not okay with it.

To cut the story short, the husband had succeeded in separating their room, she said she feels lonely at night and she has tried to talk to him but he wouldn't listen.

Pls what advise can I give to her, and is it okay for a newly wedded couple to sleep in a separate room

Feeling lonely at night is nonsense! They don’t have to sleep in the same bed always.TEll her to stop watching too much telemundo,real life doesn’t work like that

And what's wrong with separate room. Or where is it written that couples must sleep on the same room. Some ladies don't even know what they should want in life. They just want to be like monitoring spirit. ...

Solosolojohquay:
Powerful African men don't sleep in the same room with a woman her husband just go the African way there must be a secret reason behind it strong men don't tell tales either

U are indeed true son of your father and also son of d soil

Yemlizzy:
Something sounds amiss, just a year old marriage when they ought to sleep in each other’s arms. It’s quite sad they should sort out whatever May be the issue if the man is willing otherwise their love seems lost and diminished.

Sleep in which other's arms, in this heat.
Imagine u and ur hubby were sleeping in each others arms and he come mess one smelling mess? What will u do?

Immunity04:
Maybe the husband needs enough space to talk and chat with his side chick at night... Lol

When there was no phone, were couples not sleeping in separate rooms? Think well...

That's a real man
When ever he wants You in his room he would order you like hot dog.....
Only God know weda she wan use kpomo kill the young man...

toujurs:
How do you gys even keep female friends, i guess am not lucky on that. Doesn't she ask you for money or favours all the time , With no positive impact in your life

na war u wan start so ohhhh, daughters of eve go xone for your head

zyzywizzy:
I precisely, a lady don’t spend more than 2 days with me! Including my Girlfriend.. just cherish my privacy a lot

I can't be with a girl for more than 4hrs. I loose interest easily

Kobojunkie:
Your friend is not telling you the entire truth about her relationship so until you get the truth from her mouth about why the husband demands to sleep in a separate room, do more digging and less alerting. Or better yet, tell her make she bring her case make we hear from her instead.

She's the friend.
Na her husband want separately room.
No friend as claimed

mohziz1:
Hi nairalands...

I received a call from my female friend whose wedding is just a year old, she was weeping on phone seriously.

I tried to percify her and asked what the problem is, she said her husband wants to sleep in a separate room and she told him she is not okay with it.

To cut the story short, the husband had succeeded in separating their room, she said she feels lonely at night and she has tried to talk to him but he wouldn't listen.

Pls what advise can I give to her, and is it okay for a newly wedded couple to sleep in a separate room

Naso wahala dey take start oO...!! A year old marriage!! It's well in this Union

mohziz1:
Hi nairalands...

I received a call from my female friend whose wedding is just a year old, she was weeping on phone seriously.

I tried to percify her and asked what the problem is, she said her husband wants to sleep in a separate room and she told him she is not okay with it.

To cut the story short, the husband had succeeded in separating their room, she said she feels lonely at night and she has tried to talk to him but he wouldn't listen.

Pls what advise can I give to her, and is it okay for a newly wedded couple to sleep in a separate room

Advice her to be loyal and humble, let's see if that will do the magic

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
What is wrong here...
People be making moutain out of a gadamnnn mohill


It is normal for the man to have his own room na....and the woman should have her own room also

It doesn't mean anything....she can at times sleep in her husbands room....infact during coitus...na the husband room the sex go for play na..
Same thing happened to my elder sister....her husband got his own room and my sister have her own room...but you know the funny thing now...my sister have access and play in her her husband's room anyday anytime twice on her ovulation period...

If I finally decide to marry.....I will have my own room. My wife got her own room..the kids have their own separate room...and then there will also be a visitors or guest room....with each room having their own toilets and bathroom but with a general or shared kitchen

sense no go kill yuh bra.

dawnomike:
It is not Ok for couples to sleep in different rooms... But, since that is how he wants it and she is not able to convince him otherwise; I feel she should just let him be.

Please let the man be. He knows what he is doing!

when half of the room is full of shoes, make up table taking most of the space, bras hanging on the wardrobe door and various g-strings tripping you on the floor, I'd want a separate bedroom too