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Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by Germi9: 11:34am On May 05, 2022 |
Its cool, i prefer separate rooms, why must we stay in same room, i even like distance relationships and marriages |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by shantti(m): 11:37am On May 05, 2022 |
Thryphosa: U use internet to do research ![]() Na play oh |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by martinslaura: 11:38am On May 05, 2022 |
Truvelisback: VERY TRUE. MAYBE U SHOULD ASK WHAT CAUSED IT. MAYBE SHE'S OVER FRUSTRATING HIM AND HE DECIDED TO TAKE HIS SPACE. SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME AND I DECIDED TO PARK WELL IN MY OWN ROOM FOR SAKE OF PEACE. |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by professore(m): 11:42am On May 05, 2022 |
mohziz1:tell her to work o her beauty and that she should smell nice and pray about it too (she should wait and not expect a day result) |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by shantti(m): 11:43am On May 05, 2022 |
Maybe she dey mess too much. We seem to underate certain things. If I have the money, my wife and I wont even live in the same building. She can come to my duplex when she is on heat and I can go to hers whenever I need to send her on an errand or to beat her |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by Rubbiish(m): 11:44am On May 05, 2022 |
clydecarson:This is not true! |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by peacettw: 11:44am On May 05, 2022 |
Interesting. |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by ajerimitan: 11:45am On May 05, 2022 |
She might have no bed room courtesy, inappropriate use of phone, snoring, touchy, dirtiness, rough, unkept and unarranged. Won't was bedsheed often. Sloftful, cooks easy not so nutritious food and demands for excess sex. Might have body odour and the virgina can also be smelly, mouth odour inclusive and poor personal hygiene. Does not know when and how to take bath appropriately. Infections might find it difficult to get into a man but when it finally gets in it might prove very fatal most of the time. Besides for a man to live long he has to be effectively and concoiusly nursed by his wife. But I fear for women of thisday. Hence most men try to minimize contact with those who will increase the risk due to hygine and some spiritual reasons too. |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by ambient: 11:45am On May 05, 2022 |
What is wrong there,all this newly wed ehh,my husband like the light on,his bed soft and a very cold room( he do on the ac and fan together,can you imagine),I hate cold(very allergic to cold places) prefer an orthopedic bed and like a dark room,after decades of misunderstanding na so I migrated to another room,I sleep well without dragging remote with person son and I do check on the kids alot at night which would disturb his restful sleep. Pls don't see it as something bad unless she is suspecting him of other things. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by martinslaura: 11:46am On May 05, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: WE HEREBY SUMMON HER TO THIS PLATFORM TO MAKE HER CASE OPEN FOR ADVISE/JUDGMENT. |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by 123readygo: 11:49am On May 05, 2022 |
Let her find out his reason for seeking a separate room... Mine was because of baby cry at night |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by indoorlove(m): 11:59am On May 05, 2022 |
Having separate room is nothing to sweat over. I will even encourage it for all couples. |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by alexola20(m): 12:00pm On May 05, 2022 |
This is how my house is.All en-suite and the visitors’ toilet close to the living room. slawormiir: |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by Legendoo: 12:01pm On May 05, 2022 |
When did this become a national issue? It's possible now without any sinister meaning attached.. could be stress related sef. |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by MtDave55: 12:02pm On May 05, 2022 |
I like my privacy ooh, and I don't like body contact while I am asleep. I feel there's something she is kit telling you. During the course of this one year after wedding when they're sharing same room the husband should have expressed some dislike over something with her, maybe she just sweep it under the carpet and the husband might be my type that don't talk much but find solution ad soon as I can. I can't come and be doing praying and fasting over a problem I know the solution to. Life is too short to worry over anything. WTF Man |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by holaphem(m): 12:06pm On May 05, 2022 |
toujurs:lol wahala dey sleep man go wake am ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by Teymanhenry(f): 12:07pm On May 05, 2022 |
slawormiir:Grew up with this setup and I never saw or heard my mum complain, neither did my dad did. They all go to each others room anytime. They watch their movies in any room 1 Like |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by justli: 12:15pm On May 05, 2022 |
Usually men like that just want to watch porn in peace. He Has got to that point where his physical other half cant tame his virtual unreal craving for big nyash, big breast, and novelty. The poor woman is measured against all the professional porn stars and she obviously failed all tests miserably in his mind...hence the need for space. Porn na your mate |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by rickleye: 12:17pm On May 05, 2022 |
mohziz1: You robbed us when you decided to “ cut a long story short “ like we are in a hurry. Maybe Seun could somehow allow voice notes so “we” don’t have to type so long. Back to the matter at hand - there is no harm in couples sleeping in separate rooms. The issue in this case is because it’s just a year old. People sleep in different rooms for this reason 1. Either partner snores 2. One person wakes up on one side of the bed all his life. 3. Sex - usually around 5am, some men have erection and may turn to his wife for action. The wife who is asleep is asked “ are you awake “ or “ are you sleeping “ - well I am awake now, she responds. So in order for the wife to get rest . A reasonable man will temporarily sleep in separate room. 4. Different Routines. One works night shift, the other a different shift. So In order for both to have 8 hour rest. Separate rooms might work. 5. Nagging - Some women take this time to nag about one thing or the other. Having a discussion is one thing but complaining is another. 6. Masturbation - The man may just want to flag his horse to death just before sleeping. 7. Tv habits- one likes to watch GOT, another likes to watch AGT. In any case. I know tons of people who sleep in separate rooms . Yours truly included. They can both agree on sex days/ room. Say “ Like so - honey , I am coming for some whoopie action today .” Usually, it’s discussed and not all of a sudden like the end result of an agrument. You said she was crying - the why, what ,when - we have been robbed ! Tell your friend to open google and search other reasons. Nothing new under the sun but Somethings are new under the African sun. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by SWATMan: 12:17pm On May 05, 2022 |
mohziz1: It may be that she is a dirty and a disorganized person and the husband can't stand it. There are certain things that can't be said to one's spouse so as not to hurt their feelings. She should watch out for thing(s) the man did in his own room differently to woo him back. |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by johndho(m): 12:18pm On May 05, 2022 |
Na so some men go dey form principle and another man or neighbor go dey bang there wife. |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by Namiji4319: 12:23pm On May 05, 2022 |
Solosolojohquay:only men like us fit reason like this sha, odogwu I salama for u 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by OBALOLA55(m): 12:24pm On May 05, 2022 |
slawormiir:THATS MY BOY |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by Gaddafih001(m): 12:27pm On May 05, 2022 |
Uniquetani1:This is the beginning of divorce o. My ex mum told her to live separately from me. Immediately she left our room to hers,the marriage died.we divorced 5 years later. |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by descartes400: 12:30pm On May 05, 2022 |
I so much love my personal space, i won't chase her ooh, but she would be be the one to scamper for safety..into her own space! reason? two hours before bed time i will make sure i eat a wrap of okpa and four cooked eggs..the offensive and nauseating pepperish fumes from my farts does the job! ![]() |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by sharpwriter(m): 12:32pm On May 05, 2022 |
SavageResponse:Not to mention farts bombing like Russian doomsday jet and its occurring smell like yesterday beans wey dem no warm ![]() |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by Acidbath: 12:33pm On May 05, 2022 |
mohziz1: She no dey work? Tell her to focus on her work, engage in new hobbies. If she get plenty money, make she build her own house. Any time wey craze enter the man head, she go port fast. |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by Akinh: 12:34pm On May 05, 2022 |
mohziz1:imagine married woman is having issue and you re the first person she call, am sure her husband saw something fishy between u too nau..is better to separate room than to have STD..and to top it all she told u, she is feeling lonely haaaa ebèrù olorun nau......na man the husband be joh...next na divorce if she no change her ways. |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by Akinh: 12:35pm On May 05, 2022 |
mohziz1:]imagine married woman is having issue and you re the first person she call, am sure her husband saw something fishy between u too nau..is better to separate room than to have STD..and to top it all she told u, she is feeling lonely haaaa ebèrù olorun nau......na man the husband be joh...next na divorce if she no change her ways. |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by Kingjames(m): 12:40pm On May 05, 2022 |
Exactly my carbon copy Solosolojohquay: |
Re: Her Husband Wants A Separate Room by Chochovini: 12:40pm On May 05, 2022 |
brightest5050:. God bless you. I am one of such. I take a stroll... |
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