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I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by Threesha(f): 7:34am On May 05, 2022 |
I woke up to check my mailbox and saw a disturbing mail from a woman. According to her, she slept with her landlord to feed her husband and children. This is what she wrote; “Good evening ma, please my marriage is 10 years with 3 kids. My husband is 44 years, I am 32 years. I beg you all don’t blame me much. I just needed solutions on how to help myself, because I have started hating myself. What advice do you have for this woman? Do you think what she did was right or wrong? Drop your comments below and give her some advice. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by chatinent: 7:35am On May 05, 2022 |
I work up to check my mailbox and saw a disturbing mail from a woman 7 Likes
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Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by Tony4988(m): 7:35am On May 05, 2022 |
The deed is done, and to be honest, it was a critical case of choosing the lesser one between two evils which are; 1. Let your kids suffer in hunger 2. Having an extramarital affair to settle your family's needs. A concise question to be asked is, between the two Terminus points above, which is easier to escape from? Considering the marital and religious perspectives, what you did is wrong and punishable before God, and I would have expected you to have acted differently like getting a loan from all these loan apps, and consistently praying, working and hoping in God for a turnaround. It was just a case of feeding and such an act was unwarranted. Thus, it would have been easier for you to escape point 2 mentioned above. You two might decide to pack away from the environment to save yourself the shame. My advice is to seek the forgiveness of God and your husband. To be honest, you should tell him first before your landlord used that advantage to continue to humiliate him and later spill it out in an indirect way. Trust men, we will get to know one day, a day you never expected it to be spilt out, which can cause your marriage a greater loss. For the landlord, he is such a fool who takes advantage of another's predicament for his lustful gain. When there is life, there is hope, rather than blaming you, I will just correct the action and hope you do as advised. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by Tony4988(m): 7:36am On May 05, 2022 |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by Candidlady: 7:37am On May 05, 2022 |
Poor woman what you get when you marry a tree that got a fruitless future! ! The incompetent glut will be at home lazying bout.. Instead of him to go in search of what the family will eat. . He decided to bank on the poor lady.. sure the husband ain't from north/East/south. men from that region are hardworking and the got business skills. They are never lazy Now look at what he got her into My advice: tell her husband what transpired between she and the landlord.. She got nothing to lose, moreover the fruitless tree ain't bringing zilch to the table before.. Hopefully he ends the marriage! !! 5 Likes |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by WondaBeauty(f): 7:43am On May 05, 2022 |
If she the culprit knows what she did was wrong, what else do i have to say? What she did was totally unjustifiable in all aspects. As for advice, she should seek some from her Husband or Landlord. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by everythinggirly(f): 7:45am On May 05, 2022 |
Hmmm!!! What you've done is a sin, and if you tell your man anything might happen. It's better you pack out from that place or state at once. May God see your family through. 1 Like |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by Mokason288(m): 7:48am On May 05, 2022 |
Your Landlord is a Real G |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by Threesha(f): 7:52am On May 05, 2022 |
Mokason288: |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by Anaerobi(m): 8:41am On May 05, 2022 |
Too painful |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by Kajaard: 8:49am On May 05, 2022 |
Well, you did what you had to do to feed your kids even though it was a sin. Who am I to judge. I only fear that the silly landlord will keep demanding sex from you and one day tell people he has slept with you and the shame and humiliation will be unbearable. Sad. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by Nobody: 9:21am On May 05, 2022 |
This is a very very dicey situation ... I said it before now and I'll say it again, lots of women have this stupid ideology, that the solution to every problem out there is to open their legs .... Once things are not going well, they just open their legs without thinking as to what the aftermath of that decision will result in .... In as much as my heart goes out to her, let's call a spade a spade, that lady is a .......... She claims she has been the one feeding the entire house hold, well I can't argue that, but I refuse to believe that a man will sit down comfortably for 3years and allow his wife to do everything without making the effort, nahhhh!! Either ways Sha... The deed has been done... Let her go and tell her hubby everything, because truth is, it will definitely come to light with time and by the then, the repercussions will be disastrous ... I hope the hubby forgives her atleast for the sake of their kids ... 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by oluwaseyi0: 10:39am On May 05, 2022 |
Let it go No need telling your husband or anyone for that matter that will be a dumb move Your husband need to get something doing no matter how little, after all he's not an handicap Stay away from that your landlord, he will come for more, and that's where the real trouble will start Don't feel over guilty with the past, your husband will have pick same option if faced with your options Ensure it doesn't happen again 6 Likes |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by frozen70(f): 1:16pm On May 05, 2022 |
Threesha: Let her handle and deal with her present predicament in any way she thinks she can If her husband is comfortable with his joblessness but not crippled, then I don't have any blame for her actions 2 Likes |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by Channah1(f): 3:36pm On May 05, 2022 |
You didn't only sin against your husband but against God and your body. What if the has an untreatable disease? What if he took your body fluid for money rituals? Look, I still believe no matter what you're passing through, its still more honorable to beg than to give away your destiny/health for money. Not worth it I know its difficult for human beings to help these days even when they have it. My experience on nairaland has taught me that and I know humanity has lost the feeling of compassion but God will surely make a way if you keep your body and hope in him. God always makes a way for the needy except you're not serving him genuinely. It is well. 1 Like |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by azammi(m): 4:06pm On May 05, 2022 |
This story don reach 3 years now watin de make una post em every time ? Threesha: 3 Likes |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by Emmanuel909090: 5:32pm On May 05, 2022 |
God will punish your landlord for taking advantage of your situation. Be strong and cut away from him. Move out of that house as soon as you can. 3 Likes |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by Nuelzi: 5:38pm On May 05, 2022 |
SMH in dismay |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by yemmit90: 7:01pm On May 05, 2022 |
The duty of borrowing and looking for money when thing are not going well with the family belong to husband, not wife. Women are vulnerable to being use when looking for help, especially from men other than their family members or parents. Dont ever allow your wife to be in this situation. So I blame the useless husband. 5 Likes |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by Rexymania(m): 8:18pm On May 05, 2022 |
Who am I to judge? |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by Bobcygan: 9:48pm On May 05, 2022 |
Candidlady: And you called what you wrote up here an advice, why do we always have to insult people on this forum?? Nothing justifies sleeping with the landlord, even if her children is dying even though I know is easier said than done. She should talk to her husband and face the consequences. |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by Threesha(f): 12:15am On May 06, 2022 |
azammi:says who? |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by Threesha(f): 12:17am On May 06, 2022 |
Anaerobi:very painful. I have one in y dm that the younger sister has been sleeping with the husband for the past 4yrs |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by Anaerobi(m): 6:35am On May 06, 2022 |
Threesha: Gosh... Why na... Too bad. 1 Like |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by azammi(m): 4:18pm On May 06, 2022 |
I don follow the story the first time it was posted no be new story Threesha: |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by Pascopele: 6:23am On May 07, 2022 |
You gotta do what you gotta to do |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by od4life(m): 5:01pm On May 09, 2022 |
Old story. I've read it before. |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by kuse2(m): 4:26am On May 10, 2022 |
Let him that is without sin be the first to cast a stone! I have read many comments here and I laugh.. It is so easy to condemn others.. May you never find ur back against wall. Do you know the horror of seeing your children wail and cry for food when there is nothing? Adults can endure hunger but children?.. What would u tell a 3 year old that is hungry? Madam, I do not condemn you.. Just ask God for Forgiveness and go and sin no more.. May the Lord come through for you! |
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Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by Threesha(f): 5:26pm On May 12, 2022 |
Shalayetv: |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by anthonyuncle(m): 6:06pm On May 12, 2022 |
she don fuuuck up 1 Like |
Re: I Slept With My Landlord Just To Feed My Husband And Kids by DaBogu: 6:16pm On May 12, 2022 |
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