My wife picked up teaching job at a school where my three children attends and of recent I noticed something between herself and a male teacher there.

I accosted and accused her while she denied anything between them. I approached the said male teacher on Whatsapp after I noticed my wive spending more than extra time most night chatting with this same guy, he even called her some few minutes to 12midnight one day whilst we were on the bed together.

I told the guy to please stay away from my wife as I do not want issues, my heart did not "approve" of their friendship. Went ahead to let him know I will inform my father in-law if such continues and the guy had the audacity to tell me to go ahead and report her.

I warned my wife and she promised not to chat with him again.

Just 5 days ago I saw their chats again where the guy was asking her what my wife is doing now and she replied "chatting with you and playing with my phone'.


People help me as I have been wanting to divorce my wife as this isn't her first time but the dad will always plead for us not to agree to a broken home.

What do I do here?

Follow your heart

Phargbemmy:
I told the guy to please stay away from my wife as I do not want issues, my heart did not "approve" of their friendship. Went ahead to let him know I will inform my father in-law if such continues and the guy had the audacity to tell me to go ahead and report her. 0I warned my wife and she promised not to chat with him again.
Just 5 days ago I saw their chats again where the guy was asking her what my wife is doing now and she replied "chatting with you and playing with my phone'.
People help me as I have been wanting to divorce my wife as this isn't her first time but the dad will always plead for us not to agree to a broken home.
What do I do here?

Are you simply staying married to your wife because of your father-in-law?

Yes.







I no get time to read the write up.

Imagine the sort of women we have these days, maybe they should reintroduce female circumcision so as to help control their raging urges and promiscuity, gush.

Divorce her in a brutal way, i mean she should not see it coming.

As for the male teacher where did he get the audacity from? Gather agberos,pay them make they go teach am lesson.

I hate nonsense

Just make her resign from that job and be a full time house wife. Let's see how it goes from there.

I don't know about you but I do not discuss my marital life with any of my relatives, or her relatives.


I am man enough to make my decisions.


If you discover she has committed adultery, hit the divorce.

Some men with their stupid romance with married women, once I discovered you are married, I stay away fro you..

All my female friends who are married now, I stay far away from them like a plague.....

Just warn your wife, you have no business with the man, nah your wife descend so low to that extent...

Definitely cheating and they might even be planning to elope sef cos why should d man have such audacity?

You and the guy no get bizness, if you do anyhow he suppose teach you lesson.

Your woman na the foolish one here, she need sense talked into her empty skull.

This matter wear wrapper tie gele oh

peepydelano:
Imagine the sort of women we have these days, maybe they should reintroduce female circumcision so as to help control their raging urges and promiscuity, gush.

Female circumcision will not be re-introduced, get used to that reality.

peepydelano:
Imagine the sort of women we have these days, maybe they should reintroduce female circumcision so as to help control their raging urges and promiscuity, gush.

And you will still cry that she doesn't give you sex; she doesn't match your libido. Oooh, you are looking for an excuse to become and justify having community manhood.

I hope you are not training another man's children.

Mindlog:


Female circumcision will not be re-introduced, get used to that reality.

We can, if we decide to.

Kobojunkie:
Are you simply staying married to your wife because of your father-in-law?

Not really, getting broken has a lot of toll especially on the children and that's my number 1 consideration till now.

chatinent:
I don't know about you but I do not discuss my marital life with any of my relatives, or her relatives.


I am man enough to make my decisions.


If you discover he has committed adultery, hit the divorce.

I don't either but in one way or the other words will spread to them

Corporate2020:
I hope you are not training another man's children.

Well the three are carbon copies. Once you see me you see them. It very glaring

Corporate2020:


We can, if we decide to.

"We".....for whose interest?

Y would she be doing that now?u have been belittled and that's why the guy obviously doesn't take you serious,and u taking issues to your father in law is maybe the cause is it everytime u would report to her dad? Is her father d one handling the bills in ur house or u?...U sound like a gentle man but there is a limit to what any individual can take...is your mum still alive?if yes tell her,by d time ur mama embarass am en she go get sense,since u have involved her dad and she refused to heed since...na only she get family?u married her,u paid dowry habi telling her fada make her look so important...because u don't know what she told d guy about you...so just tell her to continue,shock her by asking when she wants to go and be with him cos obviously you aren't feeling these whole drama...change ur face,ignore her sometimes if she doesn't even bother then sir this guy won't be the last cos ur wife no care because u no get liver and that's y u are belittled.

Phargbemmy:
Not really, getting broken has a lot of toll especially on the children and that's my number 1 consideration till now.

So, your father-in-law is not the reason why you choose to stay married, but your children, yet that's not the impression I get from your OP as it instead seemed as though you were doing the man some kind of favor by staying married to his daughter.

The audacity! See how your wife belittled you! No respect for you at all. Your home and kids your are so interested in their well-being means nothing to her. That guy has severally slept with her or maybe close to.

You have no business with your father Inlaw since it’s not a first time offender. What difference will this time make? What I will do if I were you was to forcefully take her phone, and visit the school in question and tender evidence before management, this is grounds for him to lose the stupid stipend he calls salary, it is gross misconduct. Then I will proceed to divorce her. If she did not repent previously, no guarantees that she will now. She may only go stealth. Worry less about the kids, they will be alright no matter what. Would you rather have an adulterous wife raise your children and damage them while also breaking you?

NB; some evil/wannabe woke people will try to rationalize her behavior by saying you never caught her in the act. My dear, she will never invite you to witness the show, those that get caught red handed were happenstances or gross carelessness. You already have what you need. Let her rationalize if the tables were turned. Cheating is bad, no matter the gender involved.

Kobojunkie:
So, your father-in-law is not the reason why you choose to stay married, but your children, yet that's not the impression I get from your OP as it instead seemed as though you were doing the man some kind of favor by staying married to his daughter.

Your exact point?

skoskosko:
The audacity! See how your wife belittled you! No respect for you at all. Your home and kids your are so interested in their well-being means nothing to her. That guy has severally slept with her or maybe close to.

You have no business with your father Inlaw since it’s not a first time offender. What difference will this time make? What I will do if I were you was to forcefully take her phone, and visit the school in question and tender evidence before management, this is grounds for him to lose the stupid stipend he calls salary, it is gross misconduct. Then I will proceed to divorce her. If she did not repent previously, no guarantees that she will now. She may only go stealth. Worry less about the kids, they will be alright no matter what. Would you rather have an adulterous wife raise your children and damage them while also breaking you?

Thanks, this got me

Phargbemmy:
Your exact point?

I think you also need to come to a resolve as to why you are yourself in the marriage, it seems.

Phargbemmy:
My wife picked up teaching job at a school where my three children attends and of recent I noticed something between herself and a male teacher there.

I accosted and accused her while she denied anything between them. I approached the said male teacher on Whatsapp after I noticed my wive spending more than extra time most night chatting with this same guy, he even called her some few minutes to 12midnight one day whilst we were on the bed together.

I told the guy to please stay away from my wife as I do not want issues, my heart did not "approve" of their friendship. Went ahead to let him know I will inform my father in-law if such continues and the guy had the audacity to tell me to go ahead and report her.

I warned my wife and she promised not to chat with him again.

Just 5 days ago I saw their chats again where the guy was asking her what my wife is doing now and she replied "chatting with you and playing with my phone'.


People help me as I have been wanting to divorce my wife as this isn't her first time but the dad will always plead for us not to agree to a broken home.

What do I do here?

Since you have been wanting to divorce her, this is the time to make that move

But have you considered the children involved in this marriage

Well monitor her very well and see if you can get a good prove

As for the other guy, tell your wife that you have warned her and warned him, thst if they keep on keeping on, on each other, you will go to her school to create a scene for both of them to their disgrace

But make sure that you are very sure that both of them are into what you are suspecting

Haakeem:
Divorce her in a brutal way, i mean she should not see it coming.

As for the male teacher where did he get the audacity from? Gather agberos,pay them make they go teach am lesson.

I hate nonsense

you guys are just fools... Why do stuwpid people like you on nairaland only advice to Any small issue between married couples is divorce. Wtf

Op en cum bi like say u maaried her out of pity. Well, guys like u deserves such treatment and for your information, leave the male teacher alone. Bcs if u don't leave him out of your wife mess, take whatever d guy would dish to u. After all, your wife dun already sell u finish for where d guy dey.
For your information, cheating is in her blood, even if u ask her to resign, na neighbour go dey Bleep her well, or even security guy
If u don't get pikin, pls try and do DNA test, en get why, do not trust all these daughters of eve at all