I hope my heading is comprehendible, and I'll just go straight to the point

First of all, I am a very open minded person. I do not discriminate whatsoever and I don't judge anybody for whatever choices they make in their lives as long as it doesn't interfere with my own life. I've met a couple of gay guys who seem cool and i like them just enough to make them my friends just like any other guys i make my friends. I see everyone as human first before anything. Now the problem is that these guys always would want to get down with me even after knowing that I am not gay and this sickens me because I have chosen to respect them and their sexual orientation but they have chosen to violate our friendship by not respecting my own sexual orientation.

One time I needed a favour from a friend who is gay and I couldn't believe it when he told me that I would have to f*ck him first in order for him to assist me. I was very disappointed and angry.

Honestly, this have made me to start developing resentment for them and i think I'll start avoiding them by all means. Why do most gay guys behave like this?

Gays are not like other humans. They deserve to be avoided. Don't say you respect their orientation...there are reasons wise men advise you avoid them.

They are a special kind of regret.

chatinent:
Gays are not like other humans. They deserve to be avoided. Don't say you respect their orientation...there are reasons wise men advise you avoid them.

They are a special kind of regret.

God bless you. I pity Mr Nice Guy, OP. That's why I'm homophobic af can't give those fvxkers any reason to think I'm open to that disgusting shxt!

SarutobiEky:
God bless you. I pity Mr Nice Guy, OP. That's why I'm homophobic af can't give those fvxkers any reason to think I'm open to that disgusting shxt!

The thing is that, like I stated initially, i see people as humans first before anything and I wouldn't judge any man, so far it's your life. But the way they hit on straight guys is annoying. Why can't they go after gay guys like themselves and leave straight guys alone. They always want you to convert to their lifestyle. Yet they are the ones advocating that people should respect their rights as humans but they won't respect other's rights

Gays should be jailed or better still Killed like IPOB terrorists...

cigaricon:

The thing is that, like I stated initially, i see people as humans first before anything and I wouldn't judge any man, so far it's your life. But the way they hit on straight guys is annoying. Why can't they go after gay guys like themselves and leave straight guys alone. They always want you to convert to their lifestyle. Yet they are the ones advocating that people should respect their rights as humans but they won't respect other's rights

Guy my back story is I've seen lots of straight niggas set up by this queer bastards! One nigga I know was analy raped..he was set up by his white chinese boss when they went sailing. My own personal experience was when I was a small boy.

I was around 12/13 at the time, there was this customer of my moms who befriended me and would always play with me...when he came around. One day this bastard said he wanted me to come know his house.. even went as far as giving me directions.

Thank God for the man inside me, I wondered why such a man (of about 35yrs at the time) would want me to come visit him, a small boy like me... I mean we weren't even age mates.. it sounded weird. That was what halted my movement. I just waved it off.

It was later as I grew up, it hit me that the nigga mightve wanted to drill my virgin behind. I later found out that the nigga was among the low-key gay bastxrds who sold books and stuff at the market.

And to top it up.. this nigga is ibo..d death to all gaytards!

Troll bait.

Hmmm...

cigaricon:
I hope my heading is comprehendible, and I'll just go straight to the point

First of all, I am a very open minded person. I do not discriminate whatsoever and I don't judge anybody for whatever choices they make in their lives as long as it doesn't interfere with my own life. I've met a couple of gay guys who seem cool and i like them just enough to make them my friends just like any other guys i make my friends. I see everyone as human first before anything. Now the problem is that these guys always would want to get down with me even after knowing that I am not gay and this sickens me because I have chosen to respect them and their sexual orientation but they have chosen to violate our friendship by not respecting my own sexual orientation.

One time I needed a favour from a friend who is gay and I couldn't believe it when he told me that I would have to f*ck him first in order for him to assist me. I was very disappointed and angry.

Honestly, this have made me to start developing resentment for them and i think I'll start avoiding them by all means. Why do most gay guys behave like this?

They want to convert you

SarutobiEky:
Guy my back story is I've seen lots of straight niggas set up by this queer bastards! One nigga I know was analy raped..he was set up by his white chinese boss when they went sailing. My own personal experience was when I was a small boy.

I was around 12/13 at the time, there was this customer of my moms who befriended me and would always play with me...when he came around. One day this bastard said he wanted me to come know his house.. even went as far as giving me directions.

Thank God for the man inside me, I wondered why such a man (of about 35yrs at the time) would want me to come visit him, a small boy like me... I mean we weren't even age mates.. it sounded weird. That was what halted my movement. I just waved it off.

It was later as I grew up, it hit me that the nigga mightve wanted to drill my virgin behind. I later found out that the nigga was among the low-key gay bastxrds who sold books and stuff at the market.

And to top it up.. this nigga is ibo..d death to all gaytards!

Thank God for ur life oh, u for dey wear blue waist bead today.

Watch movies for free

https://iir.ai/n4yt6HSh59

all gays and lesbians are piece of shits who deserve nothing but thunder strike on their faces

shantti:


Thank God for ur life oh, u for dey wear blue waist bead today.

Omo. God just love me anyhow

Ironically, they go for str8 niggas

One time I needed a favour from a friend who is gay and I couldn't believe it when he told me that I would have to f*ck him first in order for him to assist me. I was very disappointed and angry.

Honestly, this have made me to start developing resentment for them and i think I'll start avoiding them by all means. Why do most gay guys behave like this?

How do you think women feel when you people catcall or hit on them when they don't want it


Gay men please don't stop. Keep up the good work!

siofra:


How do you think women feel when you people catcall or hit on them when they don't want it


Gay men please don't stop. Keep up the good work!

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

This can't be explained enough.

GAY, STRAIGHT, BI OR WHATEVS...Let's all just stop hitting on people who are not interested in our advances.

OP, I hope you have not continued to hit on a girl who has told you 'NO' before, believing you can convince her to like you... well this is exactly how they felt.

Make we all dey rest for this life sef

chatinent:
Gays are not like other humans. They deserve to be avoided. Don't say you respect their orientation...there are reasons wise men advise you avoid them.

They are a special kind of regret.

I can't believe what I'm hearing.....so men like The Rock or John Cena or even Eminem who have openly queer friends are what....or better still,Lil Wayne who officiated his gay friend's wedding isn't wise? The OP mixed up with the wrong queer men who are apparently sex offenders doesn't mean his experiences validates hate....ever heard of gay straight alliances?

cigaricon:
I hope my heading is comprehendible, and I'll just go straight to the point

First of all, I am a very open minded person. I do not discriminate whatsoever and I don't judge anybody for whatever choices they make in their lives as long as it doesn't interfere with my own life. I've met a couple of gay guys who seem cool and i like them just enough to make them my friends just like any other guys i make my friends. I see everyone as human first before anything. Now the problem is that these guys always would want to get down with me even after knowing that I am not gay and this sickens me because I have chosen to respect them and their sexual orientation but they have chosen to violate our friendship by not respecting my own sexual orientation.

One time I needed a favour from a friend who is gay and I couldn't believe it when he told me that I would have to f*ck him first in order for him to assist me. I was very disappointed and angry.

Honestly, this have made me to start developing resentment for them and i think I'll start avoiding them by all means. Why do most gay guys behave like this?

I'm so sorry about your experiences with queer people. Seriously, this makes me super sad,that you think gay men and straight men can't be friends is the same trope when people say straight men can't be just friends with straight women. I'm not going to belittle and gaslight your experiences because it's valid,I've seen straight men validate their homophobia because of actions like the ones you mentioned. I would advise you to cut your relationship with those guys because irregardless of their sexuality,they are just men willing to take advantage of their friends for appraisal or ego boost,if they were straight....they would've done the same thing to women..... practically,they are sex offenders and I advise you to take action when the sexual assault persists or report them to the appropriate authorities

Moreover, where I take offence on your post as a queer man is how you made all of us a monolith,you made it seem like all gay guys are sexual predators going back to the same homophobic rhetoric,I know you did it out of pain, betrayal and anger but we are all not the same and I'm sorry you had to go through that but "gay-straight alliances" exist because I'm a living witness. I do hang out in homosocial spaces but almost all my friends are straight, apparently there are five of them and they are all straight but we would die for each other as they know I'm gay but I'm gonna talk about my bestest (if that's a word)best friend,the bond we share is more like brothers..... infact, there's this stereotype that every gay guy has that straight friend they treat like their husband...lol and it's true because I tell you,we are so tight that sometimes we think we are clingy and this is a guy that's so secure in his sexuality that he doesn't think having a gay friend will make him gay (believe me, he's a complete womanizer) because I'm not the only gay friend,I'm just the closest,we met in France when I was there for my academic fellowship and we met in a gay bar,we really hit it off because not only were we the only two men of color there,we were also Nigerians,he was there to hit on a girl who would become his future fiance because women now have taken over gay bars (kinda annoying though because I thought it was a safe space for queers but now women are even more in there than gay men because they feel more safe than in straight bars but then they attract straight men to them). Anyway,I thought he was queer as he's really handsome and he's in a gay bar and I shot my shot,he just smiled and said he's flattered but he's looking to score a goal for another team,still remember those words,we bonded over a lot of things,anime stans, culture clashes and more and since then, it's history,we've been each other's shield in dark and light times, through thick and thin, he's that friend that I know will stick up for me and clothe me even if I'm naked (don't know if I will do the same for him though... kidding), he even introduced me to someone but I blew it because I was unfaithful (yes,I cheated...don't judge me) till date he still teases me about that because the guy was a business partner to his firm and it made the firm loose on in a deal because of the breakup,yet he forgave me,I helped him propose to the love of his life who calls me her second husband,he helped me get my business up even the smallest thing such as helping me pack when I was returning back to Naija to helping me get a capital to start up my business,yet till date he refuse to take back the money he gave me and he's never used his wealth to insult me or make him look superior rather he treats me like a equal,I don't think anything will ever ruin the bond we have and when his fiance gave birth to twins in January last year,he made me their legitimate godfather even though I wasn't there as I was busy with work,even though we were separated,he's always calling me like twice a week(I'm a terrible friend because I've never called him once),I've never asked him for something once where he will tell me he's broke or can't help out,even if he can't do anything,he will connect me to someone who can because he's well connected. When he came for his introduction last year june,him and his fiance slept in my house and when she went back with the kids,he stayed behind to take care of some documents about his life here but it was mostly to keep me drug free, I lost everything due to a terrible investment and business decision I made,I refused to tell him because I knew he would do something to help but for once,I wanted to be my own man then I got into drugs,during those Crystal Meth drug induced days,he stood by me and even made his introduction early so that he could come see me and help me get clean,his fiance begged me to watch him while she's gone because he's a serial womanizer and it wasn't easy, I had to remind him 3-5 times a day he's engaged especially when he comes across a curvy girl on IG,it wasn't an easy fit....I literally had to kidnap his phone from him. 80-90% of the things he had here,he transferred them to my name,from his houses to his old cars,he even quit going to clubs to stay with me because he knew I would join him and clubs are just gateways to getting drunk and high again. To be honest,I'm still trying to keep up with everything he's done for me but I just can't because he's far to wealthy to do so and by December,I will be going back to France to be his best man for his white wedding

Till date,I always ask him what I did to deserve a friend like him and it's always the same answer that his spirit just accepted me like a brother he never had since the day we met because he's an only child to super rich parents and he's adopted which me and his fiance are the only people apart from his parents who knows

TL;DR All I'm saying is you may have had a terrible experience with queer men who are supposed to be your friends,ditch those people because they are not friends but predators and gay people aren't a monolith,there are super chill gay people out there who will show you how great and beautiful friendships can be with a straight man. Whenever there's a rape story on the front page Siofra will always say "all men are dogs" but are all men dogs? likewise the same "all gay men are sexual predators" which is also a wrong narrative to paint all gay men into

Flamemignon1:

I can't believe what I'm hearing.....so men like The Rock or John Cena or even Eminem who have openly queer friends are what....or better still,Lil Wayne who officiated his gay friend's wedding isn't wise? The OP mixed up with the wrong queer men who are apparently sex offenders doesn't mean his experiences validates hate....ever heard of gay straight alliances?

Bleep your Mother and that alliance

JohnOkolo:



Bleep your Mother and that alliance

People like you are the ones who will ask their friends their sexuality before being friends with them. It's literally obvious you haven't left the four walls of this hell hole. If something like that is needed from you as criteria to become friends with someone,then you are literally shallow and why will you bring someone's mother into a debate? What do you expect to gain by doing that? Did I ever insult you or call out your mum? You know what,I thought you would've quoted me like a matured adult and have a civilized convo but no,you acted immature so I'm not surprised

That dude above me just dey talk big big talk.

for street Homo na Homo!!!

I notice something about this Homo dudes, they are intelligent and creative with stuffs like wedding planning and decorations.

but apart from that, it's a NO for me. I use to have a friend like that, before he gives you something he must want something in return. You need to see the way I avoid am.

most live a fake life.
not all shaa..
infact all....

Flamemignon1:

People like you are the ones who will ask their friends their sexuality before being friends with them. It's literally obvious you haven't left the four walls of this hell hole. If something like that is needed from you as criteria to become friends with someone,then you are literally shallow and why will you bring someone's mother into a debate? What do you expect to gain by doing that? Did I ever insult you or call out your mum? You know what,I thought you would've quoted me like a matured adult and have a civilized convo but no,you acted immature so I'm not surprised

I like your statement up there but some takes advantage of your situation

christianjoy:
I like your statement up there but some takes advantage of your situation

Irregardless of gender and sexuality,there are friends who wanna take advantage of you,the thing is people should know who their friends are and ditch the ones creating a toxic friendship

Flamemignon1:

Irregardless of gender and sexuality,there are friends who wanna take advantage of you,the thing is people should know who their friends are and ditch the ones creating a toxic friendship

thanks for the write up

Alot are in the red pill section but you clueless males don't know. You will learn the hard way.

Flamemignon1:

I'm so sorry about your experiences with queer people. Seriously, this makes me super sad,that you think gay men and straight men can't be friends is the same trope when people say straight men can't be just friends with straight women. I'm not going to belittle and gaslight your experiences because it's valid,I've seen straight men validate their homophobia because of actions like the ones you mentioned. I would advise you to cut your relationship with those guys because irregardless of their sexuality,they are just men willing to take advantage of their friends for appraisal or ego boost,if they were straight....they would've done the same thing to women..... practically,they are sex offenders and I advise you to take action when the sexual assault persists or report them to the appropriate authorities

Moreover, where I take offence on your post as a queer man is how you made all of us a monolith,you made it seem like all gay guys are sexual predators going back to the same homophobic rhetoric,I know you did it out of pain, betrayal and anger but we are all not the same and I'm sorry you had to go through that but "gay-straight alliances" exist because I'm a living witness. I do hang out in homosocial spaces but almost all my friends are straight, apparently there are five of them and they are all straight but we would die for each other as they know I'm gay but I'm gonna talk about my bestest (if that's a word)best friend,the bond we share is more like brothers..... infact, there's this stereotype that every gay guy has that straight friend they treat like their husband...lol and it's true because I tell you,we are so tight that sometimes we think we are clingy and this is a guy that's so secure in his sexuality that he doesn't think having a gay friend will make him gay (believe me, he's a complete womanizer) because I'm not the only gay friend,I'm just the closest,we met in France when I was there for my academic fellowship and we met in a gay bar,we really hit it off because not only were we the only two men of color there,we were also Nigerians,he was there to hit on a girl who would become his future fiance because women now have taken over gay bars (kinda annoying though because I thought it was a safe space for queers but now women are even more in there than gay men because they feel more safe than in straight bars but then they attract straight men to them). Anyway,I thought he was queer as he's really handsome and he's in a gay bar and I shot my shot,he just smiled and said he's flattered but he's looking to score a goal for another team,still remember those words,we bonded over a lot of things,anime stans, culture clashes and more and since then, it's history,we've been each other's shield in dark and light times, through thick and thin, he's that friend that I know will stick up for me and clothe me even if I'm naked (don't know if I will do the same for him though... kidding), he even introduced me to someone but I blew it because I was unfaithful (yes,I cheated...don't judge me) till date he still teases me about that because the guy was a business partner to his firm and it made the firm loose on in a deal because of the breakup,yet he forgave me,I helped him propose to the love of his life who calls me her second husband,he helped me get my business up even the smallest thing such as helping me pack when I was returning back to Naija to helping me get a capital to start up my business,yet till date he refuse to take back the money he gave me and he's never used his wealth to insult me or make him look superior rather he treats me like a equal,I don't think anything will ever ruin the bond we have and when his fiance gave birth to twins in January last year,he made me their legitimate godfather even though I wasn't there as I was busy with work,even though we were separated,he's always calling me like twice a week(I'm a terrible friend because I've never called him once),I've never asked him for something once where he will tell me he's broke or can't help out,even if he can't do anything,he will connect me to someone who can because he's well connected. When he came for his introduction last year june,him and his fiance slept in my house and when she went back with the kids,he stayed behind to take care of some documents about his life here but it was mostly to keep me drug free, I lost everything due to a terrible investment and business decision I made,I refused to tell him because I knew he would do something to help but for once,I wanted to be my own man then I got into drugs,during those Crystal Meth drug induced days,he stood by me and even made his introduction early so that he could come see me and help me get clean,his fiance begged me to watch him while she's gone because he's a serial womanizer and it wasn't easy, I had to remind him 3-5 times a day he's engaged especially when he comes across a curvy girl on IG,it wasn't an easy fit....I literally had to kidnap his phone from him. 80-90% of the things he had here,he transferred them to my name,from his houses to his old cars,he even quit going to clubs to stay with me because he knew I would join him and clubs are just gateways to getting drunk and high again. To be honest,I'm still trying to keep up with everything he's done for me but I just can't because he's far to wealthy to do so and by December,I will be going back to France to be his best man for his white wedding

Till date,I always ask him what I did to deserve a friend like him and it's always the same answer that his spirit just accepted me like a brother he never had since the day we met because he's an only child to super rich parents and he's adopted which me and his fiance are the only people apart from his parents who knows

TL;DR All I'm saying is you may have had a terrible experience with queer men who are supposed to be your friends,ditch those people because they are not friends but predators and gay people aren't a monolith,there are super chill gay people out there who will show you how great and beautiful friendships can be with a straight man. Whenever there's a rape story on the front page Siofra will always say "all men are dogs" but are all men dogs? likewise the same "all gay men are sexual predators" which is also a wrong narrative to paint all gay men into

Wow!! Your friend is so cool!!

Is he Nigerian?

Damn!
Gay guys should be arrested, tied and their ass be thrown to a damn dungeon.

siofra:


Wow!! Your friend is so cool!!

Is he Nigerian?

Yea he is. When I tell people,they are super shocked, I think it's because he didn't grow up in Nigeria