Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

Has your girl friend no limbs??

Wike with all the noise he's making does not pay Corpers .. he should hide his face joor

virginprincess:
What do you expect from a lady who hasn't tasted the good things of life she won't want to take chances,afterall opportunity comes but once.

Like seriously I've been reading all your replies and it shows you are a lady with entitlement mentality... I once had a friend like that, when I was struggling she did nothing to help but when I was becoming financially stable, she was now asking for her own share... I just cut her off I don't have time for rubbish. I hate LEECHES..

Karleb:


At least you should have said this in your earlier post.

You made it seem you were saying your allowance after spending on food and toiletries.

Because I can swear with Buhari's head there's no way you can save a dime from 33k if you don't have a support system.

I would've been able to save all the same. I don't eat. I'm not a fan of food. Then I didn't stay there long enough to exhaust my toiletries. I breeze in, stay for 3/4 days, do my clearance and run off till another clearance is due.

My immediate boss couldn't report me to NYSC, he was hopeful for a relationship. Same for my zonal inspector.

Kriss216:

Her share of what? Is she serving under the sun and in the rain with you

Learn to stop patronising foolishness from this wicked gender!

and this kind of lady exist o,na them u go see on social media pretending..

Qatar2022:

You're such an idiot , what kind of a human being are you? Struggling and still taking care of liability

I won't be surprise if u wey dey abuse someone is guilty of wat the op situation too.

placeofallure:


I would've been able to save all the same.
I don't eat. I'm not a fan of food. Then I didn't stay there long enough to exhaust my toiletries. I breeze in, stay for 3/4 days, do my clearance and run off till another clearance is due.

My immediate boss couldn't report me to NYSC, he was hopeful for a relationship. Same for my zonal inspector.

You wouldn't.

virginprincess:
Why would op have a girlfriend when he knows he is not financial ready for it,doesn't he knows that relationship involve resource.

see ur poor mentality,that means you are one of the ladies with no value that see relationship as source of income.
So its a crime to be in a relationship while still hustling..
Why can't the lady go n do some wrk to take care of herself and the guy too..
I pity guys dating u

GiftedTitty:



Like seriously I've been reading all your replies and it shows you are a lady with entitlement mentality... I once had a friend like that, when I was struggling she did nothing to help but when I was becoming financially stable... I just cut her off I don't. I hate LEECHES..

So women dey bill women too?

Madam no be marriage dem dey talk about.

virginprincess:
Why would op have a girlfriend when he knows he is not financial ready for it,doesn't he knows that relationship involve resource.

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

I have not even seen this before I created my new thread.

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

why are you sending her money?? relationship is not poverty alleviation, if she needs money she should get a job

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

Mugu

Karleb:


So women dey bill women too?

Some do oooo. And most of the time they are usually toxic with words and very manipulative...

GiftedTitty:



Like seriously I've been reading all your replies and it shows you are a lady with entitlement mentality... I once had a friend like that, when I was struggling she did nothing to help but when I was becoming financially stable, she was now asking for her own share... I just cut her off I don't have time for rubbish. I hate LEECHES..

Aunty, are you tryna prove to me that some girls get sense for this life...


I cant believe a female is saying this..

Arizoner:
lag

Where in Lagos?

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

I had same experience during my nysc days. I told her that she better remove her eyes from my allowee that she better go and carry blocks at site if she wants money.....be a man and treat her Bleep up, if you send her shishi for your allowee, na swegbe(SIMP) you be.

Oyiboman69:
I will ignore your last sentence... after all the things you mention that men do in arelationship,instead to get the reward, we're the one rewarding them. the truth is we're the one who go and ask them for relationship and that is the reality which most of you are trying so hard to ignore....

Funny. I was the one who told my present boyfriend I liked him and we’ve been together for years, according to your logic, I should be paying him for accepting my love right? There is no manual to who initiates a relationship. That is the plain truth. It is a lack of self worth and starving eyes for physical attributes that make men sell their pride by humiliating themselves to get a woman any which way, even to the point of paying her to just to keep her. People in developed countries don’t see relationships this way. If Nigerian men would just realize that women aren’t to be worshipped because of breast and ass, women in Nigeria will sit up and stop placing so much importance on themselves. They will actually try to bring something to the table too.

Try it pretend not to care about women in your neighborhood and they will wonder and fall over you, simple human psychology.

Oh well, it’s your opinion. Can’t do anything about it.

kushme:


I don't want to quote that effeminate man directly, cos I may end up insulting him.
He has a pvssy worship way of thinking.

What that fvck is free-toto... ? If she's a hoe, then she should say it and get paid. Nigerians have so monetized relationships and it would be reasonable for us to give it an appropriate name in order to help us differentiate relationship and "melationship" or something(the girl wants money in exchange for her pvssy, the guy wants sex or something else).

I just told him I was the one who told my present boyfriend I liked him and we’ve been together for years. According to his logic, I should be paying him for accepting my love. It is a lack of self worth and uncontrolled lust for women that make Nigerian men sell their pride by humiliating themselves to get a woman (undercover prostitutes) any which way, even to the point of paying her to just to keep her. How do you even buy love? Does that not mean a higher bidder will always win?

Like I told him. If Nigerian men would just realize that women aren’t to be worshipped because of breast and ass, women in Nigeria will sit up and stop placing so much annoying importance on themselves. They will actually try to bring something to the table too instead of believing everything should be handed to them.

Try pretending not to care about women in your neighborhood and they will wonder and fall over you, simple human psychology. People will always want what they can’t have. But most Nigerian men cannot even pretend for one second like ladies do, it’s embarrassing. Have some self worth.

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

..

Nyascobar1414:


Aunty, are you tryna prove to me that some girls get sense for this life...


I cant believe a female is saying this..

what is there to believe?... Any lady with a vision will ultimately find ways to help herself become financially independent.

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

You be simp.
You dey give lady wey no be wife money. It will end in tears

Am a serving corper of batch C stream 2,bro I do give my gal 5k every month out of my allawe,make she take manage herself,and manage myself with the reaming one,but I don't send her more than 5k oh,at least make she for still know say I still love her and care for her,the 5k is just for her to buy something for lunch,and pad etc,she has parents when day feed her and take care of normally,but still I just give like pocket make she take day buy card etc.she is a gal and her parents knows she has a boyfriend so their some things she can't ask her parents for now,like maybe wan shop something when hungry her like sweet mouth,na that money she go go collect from use buy. Bro but u day Bleep your gf why to give her money u come here day complain,u should be ashamed of yourself,you are still not matured enough to have a girlfriend

The pussy you are fucking,do you have any part of it before she gave it to you ? U are here complaining,u better man up and see her as yourself,and take care of her the little way you can,no be everything them day complain about.

Bobmarie:
I just told him I was the one who told my present boyfriend I liked him and we’ve been together for years. According to his logic, I should be paying him for accepting my love. It is a lack of self worth and uncontrolled lust for women that make Nigerian men sell their pride by humiliating themselves to get a woman (undercover prostitutes) any which way, even to the point of paying her to just to keep her. How do you even buy love? Does that not mean a higher bidder will always win?

Like I told him. If Nigerian men would just realize that women aren’t to be worshipped because of breast and ass, women in Nigeria will sit up and stop placing so much annoying importance on themselves. They will actually try to bring something to the table too instead of believing everything should be handed to them.

Try pretending not to care about women in your neighborhood and they will wonder and fall over you, simple human psychology. People will always want what they can’t have. But most Nigerian men cannot even pretend for one second like ladies do, it’s embarrassing. Have some self worth.

I wholeheartedly agree to every line you dropped. You truly sabi our Naija relationships..

Bobmarie, your points on paying to keep them are spot on, the many naija guys logic.
Just went through a guy's comments above called makanaki,.. He has the same view as the Oyiboguy.

Karleb:


So women dey bill women too?

E shock you?

E shock me too

Na dis kind guys na make wike nor gree pay us for rivers so!!!!

Makanaki127:
Am a serving corper of batch C stream 2,bro I do give my gal 5k every month out of my allawe,make she take manage herself,and manage myself with the reaming one,but I don't send her more than 5k oh,at least make she for still know say I still love her and care for her,the 5k is just for her to buy something for lunch,and pad etc,she has parents when day feed her and take care of normally,but still I just give like pocket make she take day buy card etc.she is a gal and her parents knows she has a boyfriend so their some things she can't ask her parents for now,like maybe wan shop something when hungry her like sweet mouth,na that money she go go collect from use buy. Bro but u day Bleep your gf why to give her money u come here day complain,u should be ashamed of yourself,you are still not matured enough to have a girlfriend

omo bro am more ashamed of you for typing this
Gosh
I feel like throwing up reading this,it not everything she will ask from her parents because they believe she has a boyfriend
Shame on your girlfriend for not hustling to provide some needed things for herself

You are the type of guys that worship women
Even me me that also receiving the 33k...it usually not even enough for me talkmore of sending 5k to someone every month

When last did you send that kind amount to your father or mother?
Don't you have younger ones?

You mumu, same girl that is selling her puna to some of her customers, I dey pity u

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

Oyiboman69:
after she's been spending her money and giving him free sex,and now that the money is here,he can't give a reasonable amount to the girl. Let's be honest...is she her fiancée?. what do you mean by what I just quoted cos the last time I checked...it takes finance to run romance and I know fully well you're aware of where the money will be coming from...

I used the word "Demand" for a reason

AFONAMARO:


Please, what type of responsibilities in a relationship? You mean, catering for a girlfriend financially? Is her father late or handicapped?

A man is only responsible for a wife, not girlfriend. A girlfriend is the responsibility of her father.

Not everybody understands responsibility properly.

Dybala11:

So girls are all disabled and should live on the handouts given to them by their boyfriends abi??

Pls be realistic...if u have a galfriend you should definitely be ready to cater for her needs....SHUO

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

you dey earn 33k and you dey get gf? are you normal at all?