Kriss216:
You're not her father or husband...allow her do whatever she wants. Learn to channel this energy to better your life and that of your family!

Kriss216:
You're not her father or husband...allow her do whatever she wants. Learn to channel this energy to better your life and that of your family!

youngreezy:
you dey drink alcohol?if yes wetin be your brand make I order two cold(mortuary standard) bottles.....your sense too much abeg.person family never chop em dey carry woman matter for em head,woman wey fit don do introduction with another man behind em back.....

youngreezy:
you dey drink alcohol?if yes wetin be your brand make I order two cold(mortuary standard) bottles.....your sense too much abeg.person family never chop em dey carry woman matter for em head,woman wey fit don do introduction with another man behind em back.....

victooman:
please help advice me, we both finish our Nysc service last year, luckily enough we started a pos business and and as God will have it, we are both doing well, we both make a minimum of 5k at least on daily basis, The main problem is that of recent she is talking about applying for her masters degree, l told her what is the essence of going for masters degree when the degree we obtain has not been any useful to us, why not expand this particular business, be financially stable before you start talking about masters, beside we need to build our self financially well if we have to settle down,, she told me that is her long time ambition and she is not expecting any money from me, she left my house this morning with anger, please nairalanders did l do anything wrong? what is the best way to handle this issue?

Demonicus:
6lack - Let her go comes to mind when reading this super story,

Op if she goes through with the Master degree and you're still with her, she will start feeling like she's way above your standard and that's a fact.

HopeNeverDies:
Damnnnn!!! Bro... She can’t be controlling you and plus someone up there is right; if she does and comes back, she would definitely feel some kind higher than u and that sucks Honestly.

Girls these days are almost parasites.

victooman:
; so having a master degree will make her feel she is above my standard? l no dey even think am that way abeg, no be 200 and 300lv students dey sleep with lecturers wey get phd?

Kriss216:
You're not her father or husband...allow her do whatever she wants. Learn to channel this energy to better your life and that of your family!


I know you're surprised how a girl you've been struggling with all of a sudden has money and resources to further her studies...well, she's a Nigerian girl, they always got plan B.

Their husband or boyfriend are not always in their plan B.

Godoverevery:
Like every one said you shouldn't stop her from going on to do her masters but have it in back of your mind that you will be financially committed........If a woman tells you she doesn't need your money that a lie from the deepest pit of hell.

Running a Master program ain't cheap anymore even in a federal government university........it cost millions now.

My advise to you is stating it clearly to her you aren't financially buoyant to support this ambition hence she won't be able to blackmail you in the future.

Demonicus:

Comot here op

you no just want see reason to leave that banny yet.

Go and make a research on what female hypergamy is manny,

Ladies only date and sleep with guys they feel are superior to them bro.

victooman:
Thank you very much, That is what l will emphasize on, some people are just myopic in nature, the degree she did no job came out of it, you happen to get a good location were business is booming ,you want to dump it after a year to go for a master degree, a girl that is in her late twenties already that should be thinking on settling down,,