| . by Botwriter: 8:30am On May 14, 2022 |
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| Re: . by Bluezy13(m): 8:36am On May 14, 2022 |
Hmmm...
I have nothing to say.
If you can't learn from numerous stories littered all over this platform, then you don't have sense. 31 Likes |
| Re: . by favouredpikin: 8:38am On May 14, 2022 |
The only thing I can tell you is that you have been confirmed a SIMP.
You are welcomed to the group 25 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: . by KingsJohnson(m): 8:39am On May 14, 2022 |
Be a man, stand your ground, ghost her for like two months and all this nonsense will stop 5 Likes |
| Re: . by Butterflyprick: 8:40am On May 14, 2022 |
Bastard.ized SIMP!!!!
She bills you anyhow and you still Think she wants anything other than to be billing you without you seeing pussy?
Ghost the baittxhh......
Become toxic Don't reply her.. she'll be forced to look for you bang that pussy with anger . Dump her ass.... When she Wants to manipulate and Guilt Trip you saying you bleeped her and wants to leave her.. invite her over and over and over fuxk her bro fuxk her!!!!
She'll be the one to run away 3 Likes |
| Re: . by IamV: 8:45am On May 14, 2022 |
Mr nice guy,you don't respect yourself & also lacks the balls to be assertive & set boundaries when necessary.
The writings are obviously on the walls,but you don't want to come to reality with it.
She don't find you attractive to have sexual dealings with you,but find you good enough to extract monetary benefits, emotional supports etc under the guise of friendship,since you don't respect yourself enough to walk away from a one sided affair.
You can't be "just friends" with a lady you got feelings for,unless you're ready to deal with the emotional & psychological torture that comes with it.
Severe whatever friendship you have with her,and move on with your life,unless you enjoy being used or taking for granted. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: . by 2dice01: 8:47am On May 14, 2022 |
Girl just dey play you like Nintendos This is what we call the Push and Pull method to Quality  l like her already  Imagine she having upto 10 guy or more Using the same format for all of you nigggas she would be raking nothing less than 100k every month without stress Soft work at its finest  3 Likes |
| Re: . by Botwriter: 8:49am On May 14, 2022 |
2dice01:
Girl just dey play you like Nintendos
This is what we call the Push and Pull method to Quality
l like her already
Imagine she having upto 10 guy or more
Using the same format for all of you nigggas
she would be raking nothing less than 100k every month without stress
Soft work at its finest  |
| Re: . by Botwriter: 8:50am On May 14, 2022 |
IamV:
Mr nice guy,you don't respect yourself & also lacks the balls to be assertive & set boundaries when necessary.
The writings are obviously on the walls,but you don't want to come to reality with it.
She don't find you attractive to have sexual dealings with you,but find you good enough to extract monetary benefits, emotional supports etc under the guise of friendship,since you don't respect yourself enough to walk away from a one sided affair.
You can be a just friends with a lady you got feelings for,unless you're ready to deal with the emotional & psychological torture that comes with it.
Severe whatever friendship you have with her,and move on with your life,unless you enjoy being used or taking for granted. I won't reply her again. 2 Likes |
| Re: . by Fadafada231(m): 8:54am On May 14, 2022 |
Botwriter:
Good morning Nairalanders. I have an issue that has been disturbing for long.
So I met a lady two years back and we got talking. However, our communication was mostly restricted to online greetings.
December, 2021, we decided to take things to the next level by meeting physically. We study in the same school, so we met at a designated place. After our first meeting, things started moving fast and we became more connected.
Early this year, I decided to ask the girl out one faithful Saturday morning and her response was that she was in a relationship.
So I left her alone. The issue is this girl bonds with me so well and will often send me messages that she misses me anytime I decide to forget her for some days.
Last month, we all left school and were back home and our bonding became very strong again - we stay in the same city.
She invited me to her church twice and I honored her invitations. On her birthday, I asked her what her plans are and whether her bf is taking her out (jokingly) and her response was, 'which bf?'.
We went ahead to plan a meet up in a restaurant on her birthday but unfortunately something came up and I could not make it, so I sent her some cash to compensate.
*My issues with the lady.*
1. When I send her text on WhatsApp, sometimes it would take her 24 hrs to reply even when she's online. And she will find some flimsy excuses to make. She will even post on her status while my message is delivered but not read or replied.
2. She earlier told me she had a boyfriend, so I don't want to bring any relationship stuff again between us. But it seems she want me to ask her out again.
3. This girl bills me like no tomorrow. Whenever she has any minor issue she will pick phone and call me.
So honestly I'm fed up with her character and I have made up my mind not to talk to her again.
*My problem:
As usual when I decide ghost her again, she will chat me up and sometimes video call and that's what I don't want. I honestly need solutions. It seems this girl is playing mind games with me or she wants me to talk to her about relationship again?
That no 1 & 3 supposed to tell you say the girl is not into you. See eh, I have come to understand that if a girl like you so much that person will not bill you unnecessarily. Unless you want to smash her and move don't catch feeling with this type of girl. 3 Likes |
| Re: . by Candidlady: 8:55am On May 14, 2022 |
We went ahead to plan a meet up in a restaurant on her birthday but unfortunately something came up and I could not make it, so I sent her some cash to compensate.
Lie number one
This girl bills me like no tomorrow. Whenever she has any minor issue she will pick phone and call me.
lie numero two
Guys and lies |
| Re: . by EmzyT: 8:55am On May 14, 2022 |
My brother, I blame you for the problems you're into Right now. Y'all don't make your intentions known right from the very first time you meet a lady, but go under of guise of "Being friends" first before doing the right thing which in most cases backfires She's manipulating you, and it seems she has your "Mumu Button"  Learn to ghost, delete numbers and move on or you continue being a "Mugu money spender" The choice is yours to make! 2 Likes 
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| Re: . by Botwriter: 8:58am On May 14, 2022 |
Candidlady:
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Lie number one
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lie numero two
Guys and lies
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| Re: . by 2dice01: 8:58am On May 14, 2022 |
Botwriter:
Continue sowing the seed bruh Thy reward is in Heaven |
| Re: . by 2dice01: 8:59am On May 14, 2022 |
Botwriter:
You can choose not to believe sis. But believe me I have spent more than 30k on this girl in the last two months. Maintenance fee 1 Like |
| Re: . by rickpat(m): 9:03am On May 14, 2022 |
Candidlady:
We went ahead to plan a meet up in a restaurant on her birthday but unfortunately something came up and I could not make it, so I sent her some cash to compensate.
Lie number one
This girl bills me like no tomorrow. Whenever she has any minor issue she will pick phone and call me.
lie numero two
Guys and lies
see as Candid just sieve the comment.... LoL... good morning cand |
| Re: . by Shedrack777: 9:06am On May 14, 2022 |
i'll only advice you if you tell me the real truth, "do you truly love her or you just want to smash her?" |
| Re: . by EmzyT: 9:08am On May 14, 2022 |
Botwriter:
You can choose not to believe sis. But believe me I have spent more than 30k on this girl in the last two months. Without even getting a Hug I feel your pain bro 2 Likes 
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| Re: . by chatinent: 9:13am On May 14, 2022 |
Please continue loving her. She could be my cousin. At least, if she has an ATM already, she wouldn't be billing her big bro. |
| Re: . by Botwriter: 9:17am On May 14, 2022 |
Shedrack777:
i'll only advice you if you tell me the real truth, "do you truly love her or you just want to smash her?" I love her. But her behavior is giving me doubts. This girl even lives in a ghetto area and I have to take risks to go and see her sometimes because they have plenty agberos there. If you know Kurmin mashi near NDA that's where they stay. A complete ghetto. What I like about her is that she did not allow the environment she lives in to influence. She may be pretending though. Back in my estate, I have many girls that I can even date with out spending #5, but don't know how I find her attractive. |
| Re: . by Botwriter: 9:17am On May 14, 2022 |
Botwriter:
I love her. But her behavior is giving me doubts. This girl even lives in a ghetto area and I have to take risks to go and see her sometimes because they have plenty agberos there. If you know Kurmin mashi near NDA that's where they stay. A complete ghetto.
What I like about her is that she did not allow the environment she lives in to influence. She may be pretending though.
Back in my estate, I have many girls that I can even date with out spending #5, but don't know how I find her attractive. |
| Re: . by Shedrack777: 9:25am On May 14, 2022 |
Botwriter:
I love her. But her behavior is giving me doubts. This girl even in a ghetto area and I have to take risks to go and see her sometimes because they have plenty agberos there. If you know Kurmin mashi near NDA that's where they stay. A complete ghetto.
What I like about her is that she did not allow the environment she lives in to influence. She may be pretending though. you see ehn, she's billing you now shows that she'll bill you more when you're dating. and moreover, she doesn't find you romantically attractive to love you. she'll turn you to atm. well, you can still give it try, but do update us outcome of whatever happens |
| Re: . by Savedday: 9:39am On May 14, 2022 |
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.
They are nothing but useless. All of them... 1 Like |
| Re: . by Jayzx: 9:41am On May 14, 2022 |
Well, u don't need to block her, just move on your lane, if she message you message reply her messages, but be careful not to ever give her money or pay her bill again. It is not necessary we make enemy of ourselves. With time she might get into you 2 Likes |
| Re: . by Harkhin87(m): 9:46am On May 14, 2022 |
You are SIMply a fool for allowing one evening newspaper that's a liability play you. Mtchew 2 Likes |
| Re: . by dontrulee: 9:47am On May 14, 2022 |
Botwriter:
Good morning Nairalanders. I have an issue that has been disturbing for long.
So I met a lady two years back and we got talking. However, our communication was mostly restricted to online greetings.
December, 2021, we decided to take things to the next level by meeting physically. We study in the same school, so we met at a designated place. After our first meeting, things started moving fast and we became more connected.
Early this year, I decided to ask the girl out one faithful Saturday morning and her response was that she was in a relationship.
So I left her alone. The issue is this girl bonds with me so well and will often send me messages that she misses me anytime I decide to forget her for some days.
Last month, we all left school and were back home and our bonding became very strong again - we stay in the same city.
She invited me to her church twice and I honored her invitations. On her birthday, I asked her what her plans are and whether her bf is taking her out (jokingly) and her response was, 'which bf?'.
We went ahead to plan a meet up in a restaurant on her birthday but unfortunately something came up and I could not make it, so I sent her some cash to compensate.
*My issues with the lady.*
1. When I send her text on WhatsApp, sometimes it would take her 24 hrs to reply even when she's online. And she will find some flimsy excuses to make. She will even post on her status while my message is delivered but not read or replied.
2. She earlier told me she had a boyfriend, so I don't want to bring any relationship stuff again between us. But it seems she want me to ask her out again.
3. This girl bills me like no tomorrow. Whenever she has any minor issue she will pick phone and call me.
So honestly I'm fed up with her character and I have made up my mind not to talk to her again.
*My problem:
As usual when I decide ghost her again, she will chat me up and sometimes video call and that's what I don't want. I honestly need solutions. It seems this girl is playing mind games with me or she wants me to talk to her about relationship again?
Lol.... Op you don turn simp. You have become back up nigga. I am not against you giving the girl money, but that's what she uses against you. If you want to give and you're comfortable with it, give but me no dey give any girl money after wetin I don see girls do (story for another day). An average lady has many toasters, many guys will be trying to catch her attention on WhatsApp, so she wouldn't even have time to read and respond to your message if you're not her priority. 99% of my chats on Whatsapp are with ladies and they respond immediately I send a message even though I reply 30 or 1hour late. And when they complain, I tell them (I am in a meeting, and I am even sacrificing my attention for you and you're not grateful?? Goodnight. If you want to chat, go and chat with your other friends. I am not like other people that come online on Whatsapp to chat or waste time) and they compose. I have turned the table around and made it feel that chatting with me is a great privilege. This feat can only be achieved when you've many ladies at your beck and call. It's the signature of an Alpha King!!! 3 Likes |
| Re: . by AsomArchitectNG(m): 9:51am On May 14, 2022 |
She's not ur girlfriend, yet bills you at any point in time..
A simp you are. A simp you'll remain. |
| Re: . by Jayzx: 9:53am On May 14, 2022 |
dontrulee:
Lol.... Op you don turn simp.
You have become back up nigga.
I am not against you giving the girl money, but that's what she uses against you. If you want to give and you're comfortable with it, give but me no dey give any girl money after wetin I don see girls do (story for another day).
An average lady has many toasters, many guys will be trying to catch her attention on WhatsApp, so she wouldn't even have time to read and respond to your message if you're not her priority. 99% of my chats on Whatsapp are with ladies and they respond immediately I send a message even though I reply 30 or 1hour late. And when they complain, I tell them (I am in a meeting, and I am even sacrificing my attention for you and you're not grateful?? Goodnight. If you want to chat, go and chat with your other friends. I am not like other people that come online on Whatsapp to chat or waste time) and they compose. I have turned the table around and made it feel that chatting with me is a great privilege. This feat can only be achieved when you've many ladies at your beck and call. It's the signature of an Alpha King!!! Oil dey your head, blocking her isn't the best. Just don't give her money again, and give her less or zero attention, if she really want you she will find her way around |
| Re: . by elipheleh(m): 9:53am On May 14, 2022 |
Why do God give simps money?
This question has always bothered me. Why. Why
Why are men simps.?
All my life I have never been a simp. And it paid me.
If I even make a call to a girl for a total of N500 wey I recharge my own phone wey I use call her, e dey pain me if after that total of N500 nothing comes out.
I go just delete her number.
I preferred whatsapp call, 2go chat. And free night calls.
Guys please treasure yourself and your time. I can't invest my time (not even money) into a girl without result for 1 week without thrashing her.
Please guys learn how to have strong mind. Never see any girl as indispensible.
My life I dey querrel with anybody wey dey ready sef. I dey ready to querell my best friend and even my family at any slightest provocation or discomfort, not to talk of an ordinary stranger called woman.
Na wa oo. For people. Why do people find it difficult offending people that don't matter 2 Likes |
| Re: . by juniorstar(m): 10:14am On May 14, 2022 |
Botwriter:
Good morning Nairalanders. I have an issue that has been disturbing for long.
So I met a lady two years back and we got talking. However, our communication was mostly restricted to online greetings.
December, 2021, we decided to take things to the next level by meeting physically. We study in the same school, so we met at a designated place. After our first meeting, things started moving fast and we became more connected.
Early this year, I decided to ask the girl out one faithful Saturday morning and her response was that she was in a relationship.
So I left her alone. The issue is this girl bonds with me so well and will often send me messages that she misses me anytime I decide to forget her for some days.
Last month, we all left school and were back home and our bonding became very strong again - we stay in the same city.
She invited me to her church twice and I honored her invitations. On her birthday, I asked her what her plans are and whether her bf is taking her out (jokingly) and her response was, 'which bf?'.
We went ahead to plan a meet up in a restaurant on her birthday but unfortunately something came up and I could not make it, so I sent her some cash to compensate.
*My issues with the lady.*
1. When I send her text on WhatsApp, sometimes it would take her 24 hrs to reply even when she's online. And she will find some flimsy excuses to make. She will even post on her status while my message is delivered but not read or replied.
2. She earlier told me she had a boyfriend, so I don't want to bring any relationship stuff again between us. But it seems she want me to ask her out again.
3. This girl bills me like no tomorrow. Whenever she has any minor issue she will pick phone and call me.
So honestly I'm fed up with her character and I have made up my mind not to talk to her again.
*My problem:
As usual when I decide ghost her again, she will chat me up and sometimes video call and that's what I don't want. I honestly need solutions. It seems this girl is playing mind games with me or she wants me to talk to her about relationship again?
What do u really want from this gal...friendship or relationship..if friendship na u sabi how u want una friendship make e be..but be prepared for more billings..if relationship this gal wants to eat her cake and still have it..tell her straight up..if she no gree waka pass many girls dey wey u go still find.. no dey do anything hoping she go change mind..no grow white hair before ur time. |
| Re: . by Blunttruth: 10:53am On May 14, 2022 |
Botwriter:
Good morning Nairalanders. I have an issue that has been disturbing for long.
So I met a lady two years back and we got talking. However, our communication was mostly restricted to online greetings.
December, 2021, we decided to take things to the next level by meeting physically. We study in the same school, so we met at a designated place. After our first meeting, things started moving fast and we became more connected.
Early this year, I decided to ask the girl out one faithful Saturday morning and her response was that she was in a relationship.
So I left her alone. The issue is this girl bonds with me so well and will often send me messages that she misses me anytime I decide to forget her for some days.
Last month, we all left school and were back home and our bonding became very strong again - we stay in the same city.
She invited me to her church twice and I honored her invitations. On her birthday, I asked her what her plans are and whether her bf is taking her out (jokingly) and her response was, 'which bf?'.
We went ahead to plan a meet up in a restaurant on her birthday but unfortunately something came up and I could not make it, so I sent her some cash to compensate.
*My issues with the lady.*
1. When I send her text on WhatsApp, sometimes it would take her 24 hrs to reply even when she's online. And she will find some flimsy excuses to make. She will even post on her status while my message is delivered but not read or replied.
2. She earlier told me she had a boyfriend, so I don't want to bring any relationship stuff again between us. But it seems she want me to ask her out again.
3. This girl bills me like no tomorrow. Whenever she has any minor issue she will pick phone and call me.
So honestly I'm fed up with her character and I have made up my mind not to talk to her again.
*My problem:
As usual when I decide ghost her again, she will chat me up and sometimes video call and that's what I don't want. I honestly need solutions. It seems this girl is playing mind games with me or she wants me to talk to her about relationship again?
Always follow your gut. End the relationship before it starts. |
| Re: . by dkickz: 11:03am On May 14, 2022 |
Do you operate a charity organization that pays people's bills anytime, anyday and anywhwere? If No, ghost her by all means.
However, if yes, you can keep paying her bills whilst she keeps collecting on a steady. 1 Like |
