Ballzproblemm:
wetin una want ,if the girl start to demand now , you go still run come here come complain ,but. let's be logical wetin she dey do na format , so you go see her as wife material ,na when you Don marry her then , you go Know say no human being you marry na leech. ,. be wise no jobless girl for this country go reject Money

As simple as ABC. An u employ girl rejecting money rather she would be buying fruits for op, baba na confirm format she dey use for op. I know a brother wey fall into d gimmicks and today brother dey regret anything marriage.

Zobo

AsomArchitectNG:
Comrade check well am not sure you're in Nigeria

Me sef they reason so

emmanuelbrown26:

As simple as ABC. An u employ girl rejecting money rather she would be buying fruits for op, baba na confirm format she dey use for op. I know a brother wey fall into d gimmicks and today brother dey regret anything marriage.

better format ,my redpill knowledge saw through OP girlfriend bullshit lol ,the girl no smart , unless op dumb or can't read signs

KingOfTheDamned:
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.A grown man will sit down and right fake story just to see it trend ... Do you get paid ? No

So why waste your time making up stories? Even if it's for clicks it will only work for a short while

God bless you bro....well said

TheScientist:
I met a lady about a month ago. She's about 25years old. She lives with her parents. Everything about her seems to be perfect except one thing... SHE DOESN'T ACCEPT THINGS FROM ME. She is currently unemployed. Each time i offer her money or gifts, she politely turn down the offer. About 2 weeks ago, i gave her 8k to make her hair. She collected the money, removed #500 and dropped the remaining #7500 on my table. She made the hair. I have no idea how she did it.
Yesterday, i offered her 30k to support her upcoming birthday but she rejected the offer. I'm worried because she buys gifts for me everyday(mostly fruits) and if i reject it, she gets angry. Please, does anyone understand what is going on here? Is she up to something? Got so many questions on my mind. How is she getting the money she uses to buy fruits for me? Has anyone had similar experience before? Please, how did it end?

Hehehehe...I remember one of my ex girlfriend started like this, At first I was marvelled like "So we still have such ladies like this in Nigeria" I thought I hit jackpot until things remix...

It was later she transformed back to default settings after she lost the chairman that has been financing her lifestyle and she started chopping my money like biscuits This was the same chairman I only know as her boss and I simpingly believed...

Umunwanyi shaaaah....!! But don't get it wrong, it depends on some personality

But I met a girl like this late last year that doesn't like me to spend on her because she's independent and advises me to save my money for raining days, well brought up and also a virgin according to her narrative (will find out soon tho) if true, Be like I go use her calm down cos local man is tired of exploring for now...But Oga wait oO, hope we ain't talking about same girl here, hope you no dey "Light of the nation"??

Thanks Seun Mynd44 Lalasticlala Dominique Oamj4 Mukina

TheScientist:
I met a lady about a month ago. She's about 25years old. She lives with her parents. Everything about her seems to be perfect except one thing... SHE DOESN'T ACCEPT THINGS FROM ME. She is currently unemployed. Each time i offer her money or gifts, she politely turn down the offer. About 2 weeks ago, i gave her 8k to make her hair. She collected the money, removed #500 and dropped the remaining #7500 on my table. She made the hair. I have no idea how she did it.
Yesterday, i offered her 30k to support her upcoming birthday but she rejected the offer. I'm worried because she buys gifts for me everyday(mostly fruits) and if i reject it, she gets angry. Please, does anyone understand what is going on here? Is she up to something? Got so many questions on my mind. How is she getting the money she uses to buy fruits for me? Has anyone had similar experience before? Please, how did it end?

Don’t looseguard
They always want sth in return

Ballzproblemm:
better format ,my redpill knowledge saw through OP girlfriend bullshit lol ,the girl no smart , unless op dumb or can't read signs

Mak op dey expect bullet, bcs d kind of girl dun dey calculate whole money wey she dey reject for op hand, time shall cum when she go demand d money indirectly and op go dey shock pass buhari

TheScientist:
I met a lady about a month ago. She's about 25years old. She lives with her parents. Everything about her seems to be perfect except one thing... SHE DOESN'T ACCEPT THINGS FROM ME. She is currently unemployed. Each time i offer her money or gifts, she politely turn down the offer. About 2 weeks ago, i gave her 8k to make her hair. She collected the money, removed #500 and dropped the remaining #7500 on my table. She made the hair. I have no idea how she did it.
Yesterday, i offered her 30k to support her upcoming birthday but she rejected the offer. I'm worried because she buys gifts for me everyday(mostly fruits) and if i reject it, she gets angry. Please, does anyone understand what is going on here? Is she up to something? Got so many questions on my mind. How is she getting the money she uses to buy fruits for me? Has anyone had similar experience before? Please, how did it end?

Mine does this too.

I literally got angry and scolded her for always refusing help even when she needed one.

Told her straight up that by going through the stress of winning her heart, it came with the pledge of making her feel as comfortable as possible.

That I'm her best friend and making her happy is my happiness too.

What's her name?

TheScientist:
I met a lady about a month ago. She's about 25years old. She lives with her parents. Everything about her seems to be perfect except one thing... SHE DOESN'T ACCEPT THINGS FROM ME. She is currently unemployed. Each time i offer her money or gifts, she politely turn down the offer. About 2 weeks ago, i gave her 8k to make her hair. She collected the money, removed #500 and dropped the remaining #7500 on my table. She made the hair. I have no idea how she did it.
Yesterday, i offered her 30k to support her upcoming birthday but she rejected the offer. I'm worried because she buys gifts for me everyday(mostly fruits) and if i reject it, she gets angry. Please, does anyone understand what is going on here? Is she up to something? Got so many questions on my mind. How is she getting the money she uses to buy fruits for me? Has anyone had similar experience before? Please, how did it end?

so what's gon happen to Deborah's killers now that we've read this

TheScientist:
I met a lady about a month ago. She's about 25years old. She lives with her parents. Everything about her seems to be perfect except one thing... SHE DOESN'T ACCEPT THINGS FROM ME. She is currently unemployed. Each time i offer her money or gifts, she politely turn down the offer. About 2 weeks ago, i gave her 8k to make her hair. She collected the money, removed #500 and dropped the remaining #7500 on my table. She made the hair. I have no idea how she did it.
Yesterday, i offered her 30k to support her upcoming birthday but she rejected the offer. I'm worried because she buys gifts for me everyday(mostly fruits) and if i reject it, she gets angry. Please, does anyone understand what is going on here? Is she up to something? Got so many questions on my mind. How is she getting the money she uses to buy fruits for me? Has anyone had similar experience before? Please, how did it end?

as you type am jeje like so...carry show her

Just a month? Don’t worry steady billing is by the corner.

blazingblender:
Abeg hold her tight ohh
They no reach 3 for Naija
But I will advice you that you should keep trying to give her maybe she will come around

So you believe that trash the OP wrote?

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TheScientist:
I met a lady about a month ago. She's about 25years old. She lives with her parents. Everything about her seems to be perfect except one thing... SHE DOESN'T ACCEPT THINGS FROM ME. She is currently unemployed. Each time i offer her money or gifts, she politely turn down the offer. About 2 weeks ago, i gave her 8k to make her hair. She collected the money, removed #500 and dropped the remaining #7500 on my table. She made the hair. I have no idea how she did it.
Yesterday, i offered her 30k to support her upcoming birthday but she rejected the offer. I'm worried because she buys gifts for me everyday(mostly fruits) and if i reject it, she gets angry. Please, does anyone understand what is going on here? Is she up to something? Got so many questions on my mind. How is she getting the money she uses to buy fruits for me? Has anyone had similar experience before? Please, how did it end?

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Believe this twitter fake story at your own peril

You think every lady will be moved by your money and material gift. I love the way this lady respects herself.
It is when some men think your livelihood depends on them, that's when they shove a lot of nonsense down your throat and expect you to accept it. These kind of men want to use the money and gifts as a means of control.
Op, you have gotten a treasure, you better learn to treat her with respect or else she give you your size.
Every guy should note that not all women are materialistic or greedy. Some will rather give than be given.

If she buys you fruit, that's wife material. OP hold her tight. Girls like that no pass 2 for Nigeria.

And why are you trying to use money to buy love ? You won't be able to pay for love with money o. Na u go weak.

I think she really likes you. From my experience, this is the strongest indicator of interest from women- a woman that likes you will not want to liquidate you but add to you.
I feel her source is from her family. Just keep appreciating her, she is a good blessing to you. You may consider to divert the cash you give her to taking her out to places of her interest like a library, Art threater, museum, etc

TheScientist:
I met a lady about a month ago. She's about 25years old. She lives with her parents. Everything about her seems to be perfect except one thing... SHE DOESN'T ACCEPT THINGS FROM ME. She is currently unemployed. Each time i offer her money or gifts, she politely turn down the offer. About 2 weeks ago, i gave her 8k to make her hair. She collected the money, removed #500 and dropped the remaining #7500 on my table. She made the hair. I have no idea how she did it.
Yesterday, i offered her 30k to support her upcoming birthday but she rejected the offer. I'm worried because she buys gifts for me everyday(mostly fruits) and if i reject it, she gets angry. Please, does anyone understand what is going on here? Is she up to something? Got so many questions on my mind. How is she getting the money she uses to buy fruits for me? Has anyone had similar experience before? Please, how did it end?

I just dey laff
My advice: u don't knack am?
She loves u for u not ur money.
I will not be surprised when u will be complaining of her asking for money from u left and right.
Leave woman mata ooo nobody knows their next move.

Lvgirl:
She is living with her parents so they will question her. The fear of her parents is making her do so. Wait until the rope tying her down is loosen
The olosho in her will come out like full moon.

Are you saying she will change once she leaves her parents' house? Sir, please don't give me hypertension. Has it happened to you before?

blazingblender:
Abeg hold her tight ohh
They no reach 3 for Naija
But I will advice you that you should keep trying to give her maybe she will come around

Ok. Thanks

Bgcentz:
Na lie

When you finally have similar experience, ensure you come back to apologize to me and other Nairalanders. Hopefully, we'll still ae here

NoPlaceLike:
Such a nice person

Hmmm...

AsomArchitectNG:
Comrade check well am not sure you're in Nigeria

I dey Nigeria o. Infact, i dey Lugbe in Abuja.

Ogamysamo:
there's no general formula in anything that is not mathematics...
the reason behind what is happening in your relationship can be different from the reason behind what happened in some other person's relationship thou they may be thesame thing that happened in both

the best thing to do is try to understand her, if only you understand her personality you'll not have difficulties with what she accept from you and the amount she approve.

thou i don't know why she may be doing so but if you ask me__i'll say she don't want you to think she love you because of money.
what i mean is that she's trying to let you know that before she met you she was comfortable with whatever she had and even without you she will still be comfortable.

Thanks

Medianna:
Someone up there said its because she stays with her parents. A woman can never please you even if she sheds the last drop of her blood for you.

She doesn't need the money. She is contented.
Next time try giving her other simple things apart from money.

Maybe i'll try the option of taking her out like a nairalander suggested. She rejects gifts too. That is what pisses me off the most. Thanks for your suggestion

Elmojiid:
I know the babe we are family

Lol. My future inlaw. Send your account number lets start from there

Bluezy13:
I do not wish to discourage you, but from experience, I think you should prepare for more billing in the nearest future...such that would cover up the unbilled, rejected and refunded.

I hope I am wrong.

Thanks. I also hope you are wrong too.

Karleb:
Some of you are so poor, the only thing you have is money.

That's why we are asking quertions to add knowledge to the money

Es350:
Please share her number, let's help you advice her.

Where is nairaland police? There's a suspect here.

oilmane:



Have you told her about making her your wife cause she might be acting up so you would see her as a very good wife material, some girls collect from other guys to spend on the one they see as their life partner though it might not be so in this instance.

No, i've not told her i want to marry her. Is it not too early to declare my intention? The relationship is just a month's old. Though i'll like to settle down this year if she agrees to marry me.