dontrulee:


I know how tough it is.
If you need help, reach me on 09024387119.
I'll help you whatever way I can for free. Thank you for making the decision to keep the child. God will see you through.

By the way, have you been going for Antenatal??

I haven't started ante natals yet. I'll be completely 4 months by the end of the month so I'll register by next month....

Thank you so much for your kind gestures

Kestolove:
ashawo won form right...

You took the words outta local man's mouth ... Bet next time, try and be nicer ma. .. I'm in luh with this tattoos tho.. appy Sunday h'antie.

Stayingtrueee:
I am capable of taking care of myself but knowing fully he doesn't want to have anything to do with the pregnancy I'll terminate it but we'll have to go together.

Na una specialty be dah nah.. do hook up, get accidental belle, do D&C, repeat... Why this particular one come dey give you headache nah?

Stayingtrueee:
I am capable of taking care of myself but knowing fully he doesn't want to have anything to do with the pregnancy I'll terminate it but we'll have to go together.

Na una specialty be dah nah.. do hook up, get accidental belle, flush am, repeat... Why this particular one come dey give you headache nah?

Stayingtrueee:
Thank you! I'll just go with my mind. I'll keep the child

Hope you’re mentally ready to be a single mum?? It’s not easy at all and this isn’t totally about finances.
If you’re aborting the pregnancy why should you both go together?? He clearly doesn’t want to have anything to do with you whether or not you keep the child.
.
Make sure you you have a strong support system should you decide to have this baby.

PerfectStranger:

sharrrap!
Dude was doing well but the moment you came into his life,he started having badluck and financial crises.
I blame him for treating a farm tool like a wife. If only he moved on after the first hookup session.

GBY Sir... She wan dey guilt Trip niggas for here.. ashi wey no wise.

luscioustrish:



Hope you’re mentally ready to be a single mum?? It’s not easy at all and this isn’t totally about finances.
If you’re aborting the pregnancy why should you both go together?? He clearly doesn’t want to have anything to do with you whether or not you keep the child.
.
Make sure you you have a strong support system should you decide to have this baby.

Where I come from u can't have an abortion alone. By the way the thought of abortion has been strucked out... With God on my side I'll be able to handle myself, my family is there too. Thank you

Fuckaniza:


GBY Sir... She wan dey guilt Trip niggas for here.. ashi wey no wise.

Shut ur mouth

Stayingtrueee:
A part of me really wants this child but the thought the father doesn't want to have anything to do with it is killing me

No you are wrong. A part of you want to share something with this man. And that child is that thing.
It's not about the child, it's about him.
You are not capable of taking care of that child alone, since you do runs, it's a matter of time your asset will reduce in value.
You think you love him, you don't love this guy. You only love the idea of him.
If you read this, you know what to do

soundOsonic:

No you are wrong. A part of you want to share something with this man. And that child is that thing.
It's not about the child, it's about him.
You are not capable of taking care of that child alone, since you do runs, it's a matter of time your asset will reduce in value.
You think you love him, you don't love this guy. You only love the idea of him.
If you read this, you know what to do

okay

Stayingtrueee:
Nah I'm not! But I can't cry na

Lol. Can you imagine. I come dey sorry for you. I take back my pity.

SarutobiEky:
Lol. Can you imagine. I come dey sorry for you. I take back my pity.

pity me joor Life hard

Stayingtrueee:
pity me joor Life hard

and to think say you still get mind dey cruise...Lmao. nothing do you jor Happy Sunday...hope ya weekend is going well?

Abeg, anything you do, try not to abort that little one. God would give you resources to take care of her.

You are going to look back, and You'll be glad you didn't do it.

SarutobiEky:
and to think say you still get mind dey cruise...Lmao. nothing do you jor Happy Sunday...hope ya weekend is going well?

Abeg, anything you do, try not to abort that little one. God would give you resources to take care of her.

You are going to look back, and You'll be glad you didn't do it.

my dear I can't come and kill myself oh. It has happened already, na the way forward I dey so! Anyways I'm not taking out my lil one, I already have a name for him or her sef So na God hand we dey like this. God knows I can't do it on my own

Thank you for your kind words

Stayingtrueee:
A part of me really wants this child but the thought the father doesn't want to have anything to do with it is killing me

You've made your mistakes but that child is innocent and deserve to be given a chance at life ! If you abort this child ,you may end up looking for one in the future .

The baby is your flesh and blood ,that the father doesn't want him shouldn't be of any concern if you truly want the baby . The man will come around in the nearest future , maybe not for you but for the child .

But my concern is ; can you really take care of the baby without any financial assistance from the man or anyone else ? Do you have a job ? If you do , go on and experience the beauty of motherhood jari ....

Stayingtrueee:
Good day nairalanders! Please I have a serious issue at hand and I just need different opinions.

I met this guy sometime in November infact the day we met we spent the night together it was more like a hook up thingy and he paid me my money and I left the next morning. Later that day I wrote him to know his whereabout and he said he was at home and I asked if I could come over cos I really enjoyed what we had that night. So he invited me over and I spent two days with him, along the line we grew fond of each other and we became really close. Infact I was always going to his house it was more like we were dating.

January this year I noticed I was pregnant but I wasn't sure so I actually waited till I'll see my period in February but my fear was confirmed. I was pregnant! I told him and he wanted the baby infact we both wanted it.

Fast forward to last month I came to visit as usual and I spent some weeks with him, he was really facing some financial challenges and he started transferring aggression on me. I tried to calm him down that it was only a phase and that it will pass. He loosened up a bit.
I traveled back to my state cos I live in Port Harcourt and he's in Abraka Delta state, we're both from Rivers though.

So he was expecting some funds on Monday which he promised to send something over for me for my upkeep, the money came in and he never sent a dime for me. I tried calling him to remind him and he started giving me attitude, putting up some flimsy quarrels. Then I asked him hope I'm not in all this alone, the answer I got from him was however I want to handle myself was solely my business, I should do what ever I want.

Right now I'm so confused, I'm thinking of traveling to Delta state to go see him at least he should say all these to my face. If he wants me to terminate the pregnancy which is still not late I have my own conditions to give him. I'll stay at his place and we'll both go together to have an abortion, I'll stay at his place till I'm perfectly fine and he has to pay me for damages.

What do you guys think? Am I doing the right thing

Pardon my typos please!!!

I am just wondering how many abortion you have done and you will still do that will affect your future chances of having children

Since you don't have any legitimate job doing

Take few of your things, go to his house

Stay with him and be calm

If he insist that he doesn't want the pregnancy and you on your own side too doesn't want the pregnancy too, then you are on your own

Even if you decide to deal with it, I read where you said he will compensate you, my question is, what ways do you think he will compensate you, is it by cash, if yes, what about the damage done to your womb

I think you should stay with him, talk with him and both of you may agree to carry on

Get yourself registered for antenatals

Be humble and loyal to him, such may help him to be ready to embrace Father hood

While you are with him, invite a family member of yours to know where you are and who you are with

Then start discussing what you can start doing to bring income no matter how small

Stayingtrueee:
my dear I can't come and kill myself oh. It has happened already, na the way forward I dey so! Anyways I'm not taking out my lil one, I already have a name for him or her sef So na God hand we dey like this. God knows I can't do it on my own

Thank you for your kind words

you just made my week.. God bless you.

You're welcome. Don't worry, it's gonna be okay. I assure you.

Classyuniquebae:


You've made your mistakes but that child is innocent and deserve to be given a chance at life ! If you abort this child ,you may end up looking for one in the future .

The baby is your flesh and blood ,that the father doesn't want him shouldn't be of any concern if you truly want the baby . The man will come around in the nearest future , maybe not for you but for the child .

But my concern is ; can you really take care of the baby without any financial assistance from the man or anyone else ? Do you have a job ? If you do , go on and experience the beauty of motherhood jari ....

Thank you so much

frozen70:


I am just wondering how man abortion you have done and you will still do that will affect your future chances of having children

Since you don't have any legitimate job doing

Take few of your things, go to his house

Stay with him and be calm

If he insist that he doesn't want the pregnancy and you on your own side too doesn't want the pregnancy too, then you are on your own

Even if you decide to deal with it, I read where you said he will compensate you, my question is, what ways do you think he will compensate you, is it by cash, if yes, what about the damage done to your womb

I think you should stay with him, talk with him and both of you may agree to carry on

Get yourself registered for antenatals

Be humble and loyal to him, such may help him to be ready to embrace Father hood

While you are with him, invite a family member of yours to know where you are and who you are with

Then start discussing what you can start doing to bring income no matter how small

Thank you

SarutobiEky:
you just made my week.. God bless you.

You're welcome. Don't worry, it's gonna be okay. I assure you.

Sure it will! Thank you so much

Stayingtrueee:
Where I come from u can't have an abortion alone. By the way the thought of abortion has been strucked out... With God on my side I'll be able to handle myself, my family is there too. Thank you

Amen

This is why i dont invite ladies to my house.

Stayingtrueee:
Shut ur mouth

I luh you too .

Fuckaniza:

I luh you too .

keep ya love

Stayingtrueee:
Thank you

You are welcome

Hookup into a real relationship, see it doesn't work.

Classyuniquebae:


You've made your mistakes but that child is innocent and deserve to be given a chance at life ! If you abort this child ,you may end up looking for one in the future .

The baby is your flesh and blood ,that the father doesn't want him shouldn't be of any concern if you truly want the baby . The man will come around in the nearest future , maybe not for you but for the child .

But my concern is ; can you really take care of the baby without any financial assistance from the man or anyone else ? Do you have a job ? If you do , go on and experience the beauty of motherhood jari ....

Her job is hookup.

Stayingtrueee:
I only explained the surface of what I and this guy have been through. The reason for this sudden decision is what I don't know and many of them here are bashing me cos I said I took money on our first night of meeting... I can take care of myself, infact my family too can. I'm not a kid but the thought of him not supporting me is what is killing me but no issues I leave it to God.

No offence.
But why did you go into runs/prostitution?

Ximenez:

No offence.
But why did you go into runs/prostitution?

Ask your grand father no offense

Stayingtrueee:
Ask your grand father no offense

Lol
Well, i think i now understand what's going on in the guy's head.
It would be a lifetime disaster to marry a prostitute with zero home training.

Go and join single mothers support group.

All i can say is, "Ashawoo kpom kpom" Ashawo, awu sha, ashawo awusha, asha wooo, awusha kpom kpom. Baby sa wa, lee le

Stayingtrueee:
Good day nairalanders! Please I have a serious issue at hand and I just need different opinions.

I met this guy sometime in November infact the day we met we spent the night together it was more like a hook up thingy and he paid me my money and I left the next morning. Later that day I wrote him to know his whereabout and he said he was at home and I asked if I could come over cos I really enjoyed what we had that night. So he invited me over and I spent two days with him, along the line we grew fond of each other and we became really close. Infact I was always going to his house it was more like we were dating.

January this year I noticed I was pregnant but I wasn't sure so I actually waited till I'll see my period in February but my fear was confirmed. I was pregnant! I told him and he wanted the baby infact we both wanted it.

Fast forward to last month I came to visit as usual and I spent some weeks with him, he was really facing some financial challenges and he started transferring aggression on me. I tried to calm him down that it was only a phase and that it will pass. He loosened up a bit.
I traveled back to my state cos I live in Port Harcourt and he's in Abraka Delta state, we're both from Rivers though.

So he was expecting some funds on Monday which he promised to send something over for me for my upkeep, the money came in and he never sent a dime for me. I tried calling him to remind him and he started giving me attitude, putting up some flimsy quarrels. Then I asked him hope I'm not in all this alone, the answer I got from him was however I want to handle myself was solely my business, I should do what ever I want.

Right now I'm so confused, I'm thinking of traveling to Delta state to go see him at least he should say all these to my face. If he wants me to terminate the pregnancy which is still not late I have my own conditions to give him. I'll stay at his place and we'll both go together to have an abortion, I'll stay at his place till I'm perfectly fine and he has to pay me for damages.

What do you guys think? Am I doing the right thing

Pardon my typos please!!!

Clap for yourself ma

So one unfortunate man will now come and marry you after that abi