I see

So what should we do now

No go lol yourself

Maybe, he knows that you will not give him any wedding gift.
Lol

Ai fe eni’ki ni I je mo ki o ki o.

You would just swallowed d insult and attend the ceremony.

You already said you were not going, why are you telling us?

Did you contribute to the Wedding? He already said the 500 he printed finished, should he go and print one more just to make you happy?

You're just on an imaginary high horse and so full of yourself. Today is a once in a life time event for your cousin but your ego can't let you see past your nose. No be like say you dey plan give am anything for the wedding.

E better as you no go, so rice to reach people that actually mean well for him. Your own blood, you would have asked him to lie down and beg you.

He invited you be say e invite you...no dey defend rubbish.

Morally he should have visited with a wine,you did well for not going you shouldn't lose your prestige cheaply

You go o.. You no go o.. He invited you,no you just no wan go

Bros u no ask for dis advice yesterday ooh,today u no go d wedding abiu use ur hand do wetin dey ur mind why u come dey disturb us naAbeg oo

rickpat:
have you been playing the role of an elder brother in his life?


have you been giving him the love, respect and support that you seek from him to him?


have you been leading my example?


THAT THING YOU WANT FROM PEOPLE WHY NOT GIVE IT FIRST?


it your answer is yes....then your bro is absolutely wrong and disrespectful


if your answer is NO....then you got issues...lead by example oga.. whether you go or not wedding must hold.... the priest won't even ask after you before joining the couple....and your bro will now completely disassociate himself from you....good luck

You are a wise man

Op, you are taking things too personal. You be old skool sha. You need to move with the trend.

As you no go, shebi the wedding still hold? No wahala nobody lose my brother .

Hmmm...

Very flimsy excuse. Just talk sey you no get money to spend for am. Mtcheeeeeeew!

Born2winnx:
The wedding is holding today and have made up my mind not to attend because the dude invited me through WhatsApp. It annoys me how children of this days has no regards or character for their elders. they are changing everything all in the name modernization.

How can someone, I know the exact date he was born be inviting me through WhatsApp, no respect at all, sending the scanned card copy there.. what happened to the hardware copy he printed? I had to tell him, he laughed it off saying bros nor vex the 500 copies he printed was not enough to share self. I didn't want to press the issue farther my mind is already made up.
He won't see me there today.

When I did mine, I knew how far distance I trekked to invite his elder brothers face to face, bought several drinks.

I just hope he invited his in-laws through WhatsApp too

Omo I think say na only me hate this shit oo. One other thing I hate is general invitation to any event, omo if you can't invite me privately even if na through text and you expect me to come because you believe I saw the general invitation you posted on a group you are on a long thing oo because I'm ain't showing up.

People were you go do consultation with physically no get two head, most of them no get money pass me, I senior you for age and most of the people you do personal invite give just because me and you done dey roll you want see me finish, omo e no dey happen oo.

And I won't even apologize for not showing up and you won't beat me. Nonsense

If you decide to judge our generation by the standards of ethical behaviour, you will harshly condemn them and probably ruin their self esteem.

Vawulence

royalmu:
Op, you are taking things too personal. You be old skool sha. You need to move with the trend.

no mind am. Wetin him for do, if the guy no even remember to invite am? Na to kill the guy. Nonsense

Have u contributed to his education b4? He explains to u that u should not be angry!!! Haba u be woman wey de keep malice?

Born2winnx:
The wedding is holding today and have made up my mind not to attend because the dude invited me through WhatsApp. It annoys me how children of this days has no regards or character for their elders. they are changing everything all in the name modernization.

How can someone, I know the exact date he was born be inviting me through WhatsApp, no respect at all, sending the scanned card copy there.. what happened to the hardware copy he printed? I had to tell him, he laughed it off saying bros nor vex the 500 copies he printed was not enough to share self. I didn't want to press the issue farther my mind is already made up.
He won't see me there today.

When I did mine, I knew how far distance I trekked to invite his elder brothers face to face, bought several drinks.

I just hope he invited his in-laws through WhatsApp too

You are the childish one here. Why bring up your family matters online.

Born2winnx:
The wedding is holding today and have made up my mind not to attend because the dude invited me through WhatsApp. It annoys me how children of this days has no regards or character for their elders. they are changing everything all in the name modernization.

How can someone, I know the exact date he was born be inviting me through WhatsApp, no respect at all, sending the scanned card copy there.. what happened to the hardware copy he printed? I had to tell him, he laughed it off saying bros nor vex the 500 copies he printed was not enough to share self. I didn't want to press the issue farther my mind is already made up.
He won't see me there today.

When I did mine, I knew how far distance I trekked to invite his elder brothers face to face, bought several drinks.

I just hope he invited his in-laws through WhatsApp too

It's your loss. You not being there won't reduce his biggest JOY today.

Swallow your pride, don't be consumed by EGO

Grow up.... okay throw your phone and wait for invite letter from post office . Stupidity dey do you. People like you plenty for Nigeria. The more reason I want to leave. I don't even believe someone would post trash like this in this era of smart phone. I bet you still use cowries for money. You need slap walahi

Born2winnx:

I'm not attending, mind already made up.

Abeg no go. Just de house. Buh make sure you de your lane for ever

You have lost a golden opportunity to be close to your cousin and by extension mold him for the future by telling him his mistakes.. You should have gone for the wedding and do your duties as a big bro and after invite him for a chitchat in a friendly manner and pour out your mind to him in a loving and respectful way, that's the way to correct not doing strong head.. Two wrongs don't make a right.. You have lost a super respect from your cousin without even knowing why he did what he did.. Maybe your cousin even value you more than others and felt that u of all people will understand..
Next time don't be haste in making decision, do a soul search 360 and see from every perspectives, your 6 is 9 to someone else and your M is W to others..

This reminds me of a "friend" who didn't bother to start talking to me on WhatsApp till a few months to his wedding....When d thing came closed werey added me to a contribution group, them even set d minimum amount person go bring, I was like ok cool, fast forward to d wedding day I had another issue dat came up, so I couldn't make, in fact I forgot, na so, I saw another WhatsApp message about bringing my contribution......I just blocked d nigga..

In all dis thing d werey has never called me on phone or texted even once, now wedding come he want cash from his "Friend"

What's our headache

Thank God without you, the jollof rice reach everybody wey come

You invite them, problem, you no invite them, still problem.

As in humans must come and bow down to your lordship bearing Gold, frankincense and myrrh before you will attend your relation's wedding.


I tire for people o...seriously. i don tell people this thing, for my wedding. Na only me and my wife with pastor.. And parents. Simple.